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Archived questions from: January, 2016 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I've been dreaming of my ex. Should I send him a valentine message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - Please help me make a decision. I meet up with my first love in the Summer last year. It was great seeing him after not seeing him for over 10 years. We dated a few times, the chemistry between us was amazing. After date 2 he really came on t...

I am feeling sorry for myself, and sorry for the wife of my married lover since we broke up. How do I get over this break-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - I broke up with a married man two weeks ago. While I am dealing with that and trying to let go, I am also crying over the fact that I will no longer be friends with his wife either. Please don't judge and tell me she is better off without frie...

I can't make sense of this sexual stuff!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

30 January 2016 (M) - Hello everyone... first post here, wanting to discuss something thats been happening for a while now and have never had any input from anyone else on the subject due to it being a pretty embarrassing to say the least. Anyway i have been with m...

I've found love but is it too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Hello everyone. I am going through a pretty complicated situation right now and I am in desperate need of advice. In April of last year, I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years. I knew about a year before the break up that I was done,...

I lied to my boyfriend about my past to get his sympathy. Should I come clean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - 3 years ago I was in a relationship with a guy it was a really difficult for me as the guy took me very casually and I took the relationship very seriously. initially I thought that I could change his habits and mend his ways but things got worse ...

Why was the sex so different between my ex and this man and which one is normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - A little while ago, I had sex with someone. I'd only ever has sex with one other person before this. My first "lover" was my ex. During the act, we did not really kiss or look at each other. Or talk much. Even when I lost my virginity to him...

Boyfriend left me for my best friend. Just found out they're getting married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - Sounds straight out of a movie I know. I was with my ex from 2010-2013. We were both 23 and met at a party. We hit it off right away and started dating. I personally thought we had the 'perfect relationship' we never fought, we always knew exac...

Does my independence turn him off? I'm not chasing him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - Cutting long story very short, I met up with my first love last summer. We had a few dates. Its like no time had past although it has been about 14 years since I last saw him. We got on so well. Eventually we became intimate. Happened twice. ...

Its been almost 3 years since we broke up. Why can't we move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

24 January 2016 (F) - After 2yrs 10months of trying to get over him, I finally decide to. The next day he calls. I'm really in a state of confusion. Well I'm with someone else, for a year and three months nos. I love my boyfriend. Maybe not as much as I love my ex. But I ...

Should I even bother with a man who still has his ex's photo on the wall 10 years after she has passed away?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

24 January 2016 (F) - I went met this guy online. We talked for 9 months before making plans to meet in person. He was a very nice guy, but has an annoying side to him. He liked to win when we had our little spats. Anyway, we went on a couple of dates finally, and they...

Fighting for something that will never happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

22 January 2016 (M) - Okay, so I've been trying to go along this by myself lately but I have asked around but my damn heart keeps pointing me to wrong direction it seems. I'll cut this huge timeline/story but I've gone out with my ex for 1 year and 8 months but I bro...

Do I let my ex know I'm angry about how he ghosted on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

21 January 2016 (F) - my ex and i were on and off for years about 3 weeks ago he ghosted on me, after months of closeness, sleeping together, weekend visits, basically acting like a couple without the title. it felt like we were really close again. until he went silent r...

Why was my ex nice after the break up and now he's ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

20 January 2016 (F) - When my ex and I broke up, we decided to remain friends. In the beginning, things were great. We were talking everyday, laughing, having fun. Then one day be became passive aggressive. When I made a joke, he called me bitchy and then later said tha...

Why did he never before mention this ex that lives close to us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

19 January 2016 (F) - Hi I'm in a relationship for 3 yrs now we have a 1 yr old son the problem is we've had a few problems about him staring at other women and not making enough time for us due to his mates we were talking the other night and he mentioned one of his ...

Fiancé keeps nude and masturbation photos of previous ex's

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

19 January 2016 (F) - I feel silly and embarrassed for bringing this up, but it's been bothering me all day. My fiancé and I have been together for over 3 years and we are getting married in 6 months. For the most part, we have a good relationship, but an insecurity that ...

A day hasn't gone by that I am not obsessed with his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

18 January 2016 (F) - This is a very strange problem. I've been with my boyfriend (now fiancé) for 2.5 years and life is perfect.... Except I'm obsessed with his ex which I have been since day 1. To start with I recognised it was due to their 4 year relationship ending 3 ...

Why is my ex blowing cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

17 January 2016 (F) - I am in a non-committed relationship. We have a child but that's about it. I may as well be on my own. He is a good dad to the child but does not consider my needs or talk about a future. I met with an old flame about 7 months ago, had a few d...

She refused me but tried fellatio with her fling. Do I have a right to be upset ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

16 January 2016 (M) - Hello! I'm 38.Me and my wife (42) have been married for 9 years now. We were in an on/off relationship for quite awhile before we settled down-we were at odds all the time which led us to break up and then get back together.The longest we'...

I admitted to my ex that I would be involved in a 3some but my past experience wasn't too great with them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

15 January 2016 (F) - I met up with an old boyfriend recently. He's single and a real rock and roller. He is highly sexed and its as if that's all he thinks about. We have great chemistry. He has admitted about all the girls he has slept with while on tour etc. Th...

His ex was 9", I'm only 6"..should I worry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

15 January 2016 (M) - I've been speaking to this guy I fancy on and off since last year and I've really got it bad for him, his now split up with his ex and now has kept our chats to the minimum we have quite a bit in common aswell. I really like him but now I've been ...

My boyfriend keeps bringing up my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

14 January 2016 (F) - My current boyfriend keeps bringing up my ex and it disturbs him immensely because initially when we got together when my boyfriend asked about my ex i said he was nice and I have good memories with him and don't want to say anything bad!this ...

Confused after discovering her sexting: is she going to rekindle an old flame? Do I leave her or make it work for the kids?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

14 January 2016 (M) - I caught my wife of 13 years sexting an old "friend" from her old neighborhood. I accidently received a pm from a social site (she used the site to sign into a music app on my phone and didn't sign off) and it contained explicit details of her ...

Am I with the wrong guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

13 January 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts, hope you can help. Years ago i had this boyfriend. He was romantic, passionate, funny we were so in sync andthe sex was fantastic he was so in tune to my needs, however i was very young at the time and a very difficult teenag...

I feel disrespected when he spends so much time with his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

11 January 2016 (F) - my supposed boyfriend and I got into a small argument the other day and like always, it turned into a huge mess. We've been off and on for almost a year now. He was at the end of a marriage with the mother of his kids when we got together, which I ...

Was it the right decision? To not have child by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

11 January 2016 (F) - Over 30 years ago I met a man who became my first love. Cutting a very long story short, we met through music. In the 80's he got a break and was signed to a major label. Our relationship suffered due to other women and the fact that my life was at ...

Why couldn't he have come back in my life before I got married

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

10 January 2016 (F) - I feel my life is a movie right now and I need help please. Years ago when I was 22 (I'm now 34) I met and fell in love with this guy, my age and we were together almost 2 years. I was convinced he was "the one." He then got an opportunity to s...

But why the sudden blanking...what does it mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

10 January 2016 (F) - I split up with my ex a year and a half ago. It was pretty messy he ended up going to prison for being an idiot, all alcohol related. He has a problem with alcohol. It was over because I couldn't deal with the stress of it anymore. We didn...

If my ex tries to talk to me, should I listen, or stay with the new partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

10 January 2016 (M) - Met someone new, three dates, going great, showing me more then my ex did, but am still in love with my ex. In my past, this has happened, more then once, when things were really starting to be great with the new one, my ex would pop back in the p...

Any advice to stop this vicious cycle? Am I right to believe he did lie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

9 January 2016 (F) - Hey guys.. It's a long one so bear with me please. I am in a long distance and for reasons things can't change for sometime. We need to be in different cities. We end up meeting 4-6 times a year and talk everyday. In the end of 2014 I did a mi...

I am not sure if I am being insecure or disrespected, I expected more from a relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

8 January 2016 (F) - I have dated my boyfriend for about 8 months and am 28. Things on the most part are amazing. I have been cheated on before and I can be insecure. I never accused my boyfriend of cheating or stop him from doing anything. I have questioned him a...

I need to move on from my ex but I've never had the same feeling with anyone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - I have not moved on from my ex boyfriend and it's been 2 years. Him and I were together for 4 years, from the time I was 20-24 years old. I'm not exaggerating when I say he was perfect for me. Him and I just had an amazing connection that ...

Does my ex boyfriend want me back or is he just playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - So my ex boyfriend of four years broke up with me because he believed I deserved better and he needed to get his life together. However, according to his friends I was clingy and had trust issues, which weren't fully true. He wasn't being fully ...

I am feeling like a failure at sex with big butt women!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

6 January 2016 (M) - My ex and I have been on and off for quite sometime. In the beginning of our relationship she was petite, and when we would have sex she would complain that she couldn't handle me because of my size (I'm not saying that I'm the biggest in the ...

Should I leave my depressed first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just under 2 years and I love him to the moon and back. He has severe depression and I feel it's rubbed off on me. I don't go out, I feel so bad about myself, I can't be bothered to get out of bed and I feel ...

I know I should forget him but we are in te same friendship groups.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

5 January 2016 (F) - things have been a rollercoaster between my ex and I. We've been messaging flirty for a week then an argument for a week then the cycle repeats itself. I find myself to be caring more than he does. We then decided to stop flirting and be friends, ...

I'm dating a man that tells me things I don't want to hear

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

5 January 2016 (F) - This is going to sound.. different. Ok so I started dating a guy who was really quiet at first. Somehow, despite the silence, we fell hard in love with each other. And now that things are becoming a little more serious, and he's talking more and...

How can I slowly heal from this and let him go and move on. What should I do when he reels me in ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

4 January 2016 (F) - I been seeing this guy while going thru separation . He and I worked together for 3 months or so. He used to be in to me until we started sleeping together then he slowedly distancing and emailing and texting me every 3 or 4 days. Then he always ...

Is it wrong to meet up with my ex's mom and tell her why we broke up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

4 January 2016 (F) - So I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years 2 days ago.. I'm not coping very well, I miss him dearly and never meant for us break up! We lived together with his mum and were planning a child this year and on moving out.. Him and his mum are really ...

LDR boyfriend has been seeing his ex the 3 years we have been dating. Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

3 January 2016 (F) - Have been in a relationship/known a man for 3 years. It's different to other relationships I've had and hasn't always been straightforward. Despite all that has happened, I do genuinely love him and feel a connection with him. My main issue is th...

I became bored with him and we broke up. What should I do about the fact that I now miss my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

3 January 2016 (F) - I am not perfect by any means, but when I care someone I give that my all. I fell for my ex, believing he was my type of guy. He turned out not to be. I have goals/ambitions/interests and he had none of those. The guy I'm w/doesn't need t...

My boyfriend told me he loved me and the next day he moved in with another woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

2 January 2016 (F) - Need help dealing with what happened. I was dating a man for four years with the relationship never progressing or no talk of a future. Finally after 3 1/2 years he proposed but still wouldn't talk about marriage. We dated another six months s...

How can we resolve this? Our obsessions with each other's pasts is ruining our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

1 January 2016 (F) - I have the most amazing fiance who is a lovely man and is very good to my son from a previous relationship. We arent usually jealous people but for some reason we have both developed unhealthy obsessions with who else each other has slept with. ...