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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Why does he tell me he wants me and to marry me but doesn't do nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 268 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Please help. What is it with me. I spilt up with my ex 6 months ago. I have thought bout him everyday missing him. Wishing he was here. Wandering what hes doing.wanting him back. He has just come to me and said that he loves me so much and realises ...

Doubts about an ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 268 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - my partner and i have been together for a year. when i met her she was renting out a house to her ex girlfriend and also her ex had taken over vehicle payments on a leased car. my problem with it all is that my girlfriend wont stop helping her out ...

How can I stop this mindset and get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 268 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I lived with Tim for 8 years. We owned a home together and moved out last April. Main problem was his ex-wife and his kids. The Ex harrassed and stalked me during those years, I did have a restraining order and she broke it 21 times. The kids ...

What can I do? My boyfriend is in love with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is still in love with his ex!! I asked him to tell me truth if he still loved her and he said yes but he really doesn't want to be, they split up years ago but this is the only woman he's ever been in love with and the only woman th...

Do you think dating other girls can make her jealous or do you think my hope is lost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for about a year, pretty much all throughout our senior year of high school. we took things very slow and over the course of the rest of the school year and into summer we fell in love. We were each other's best friend and told ...

Myex made me think his feelings for me were rekindled but he likes someone else, how do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 268 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Hi, well this may be long so bear with me please. well basically me and my boyfriend split up last year around october time and it was the worst point in my life as he was my everything, and well he broke up with me over txt!, after kissing me whils...

I have feelings for my ex but also for another girl, who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 268 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - there is this girl that i like and she likes me back and now we are getting really close to each other, now the thing is i just have broken up with my girl for about a month and a half now, well now she is coming back to me and even said that she ...

My ex does not allow me to get involved as much as I would like as her pregnancy is developing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hi, my ex gf is now 21weeks along and we have been on and off for the past month, most of the time we get along but other times we argue like crazy just over baby things, she knows i want to be apart of this babys life full heartedly and would do ...

Can it really work being friends with an ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - can being friends with ex's really work? or are they wanting you to stay in their lives so one day they can come back? i am so inexperienced, my bf broke up with me about 2months ago. we have been together for well over 4 years. we were best friends ...

He treats me like his girlfriend but on myspace he says he is single

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I am best friends with my ex. We have twin sons together. He has started wanting me over all the time. He is kissing on me in public and cuddles me all the time. If i am in pain he tries to help me get rid of it. He is treating me like his ...

What do I do when my ex boyfriend is texting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a year broke of with me in november by text message. I know right? bad news.... We didnt talk for about a month until he texted me in january wanting to see our dog that we had together. Trying not to be a bitch i went and took the ...

I'm getting mixed messages from my ex - what is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 268 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - About 5 months ago the love of my life broke up with me, said he didn't love me anymore.. after I had just went up to El Paso, Texas to visit with him. I fell in love with him all over again and then I started nagging him and I think thats what ...

Knowing how serious they were...I'm not sure I can be with him anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 269 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My partner cheated on me in 2007 but we got back together after 6 months, 4 of those months he was with the woman he cheated on me with. When we got back together he said that she'd meant nothing to him, that she just showed him some attentio...

She doesn't care about me but I still do her...how can I move on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I love her so much, It hurts alot when i'm trying to forget her. She said to me she likes me and i told her i love her too, we are together about 3 mouthes for a serious relation, and one day she told me that her x-boyfriend want to return to her a...

Why do girls do this to good guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - So I just had to break up with my gf of 7 months today because I found out that a month earlier while we took a one week break she asked an ex of hers out and only took me back because he rejected her. I know its not like she cheated on me but thats ...

Is he just confused, angry and taking it out on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 269 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Hiya, me and my ex split in early october last yr, anyway weve stayed friends untill this week, but now im really confused he says im stalking him, and wont talk 2 me now, but only 2 weeks ago, he said 2 me that he wanted to suck my tits,and a we...

He swears he won't hit me again, should I get back with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Should I get back together with my ex? I dated this guy almost a year ago we were together for 4 years before that. While dating, he did a lot of things to me. First everytime I wanted to hang out with my friends he would try to guilt trip me an...

My ex is causing problems between me and my guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I was sleeping with a friend/coworker. My ex came by my house drunk over the weekend. I was drunk too, worried about him driving. Let him into my apartment. ended up going through my phone. Found some questionable texts between me and this other ...

How can I win her trust back? I love her so very much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - At the start of our relationship, I made the horrible decision to talk with some ex's in a way that I shouldn't. It was completely online, and I did not cheat physically in any way. To be frank, I was scared of the relationship I am in. It was ...

What can a person do to get their ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - What can a person really do to get his ex back? None of this rubbish that you find posted online, these terrible quack advice givers. Has anyone been successful? Have any of you felt all hope was lost yet managed to win back the heart of your lo...

I think I can get over him... but I can't get over what happend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - So... I'll try to make this the abridged version. When I was 15, I met a boy. We had an instant connection and fell in love. He was the love of my life. I was convinced, as most young people are, that this love was eternal. We were so happy fo...

Is my ex trying to get a certain reaction from me by being so mean to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Dear everyone My ex bf is being really horrible 2 me, we stayed friends after we split in november last yr,he now has a gf, but he says im hounding him,and ot getting over him,and on sunday he had a huge go at me over the phone,saying he ...

Am I protecting myself by not getting too emotional with my ex or is this how it is when two people split and get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - My girlfreind split with me last year out of the blue. We were so in love with each other that when she left, both of us were heartbroke. We carried on texting each other for comfort. Then after a few months we started going out at nights just a...

Do I see the ex on my b-day or isit just a bad idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - hey guys i need your help, i broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, 3 months ago. recently we started talking, he will phone and update me on what is going on in his life and my birthday is on monday and he is planning to come and see me. this is ...

How can I get my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My "ex" boyfriend and I have twin 3 yr old daughters together. He broke up with me about 7mths to a yr ago, saying he just didnt want to be my boyfriend any longer and had lost the love he had for me. When I asked him the reasons, he said it ...

Should I keep trying to rekindle an old flame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Hi all, So there's been something on my mind for a while now. I recently contacted an old flame, that I hadn't seen in nearly a year. I must say it was a pretty bold thing for me to do, I can be fairly shy. So I contacted him via email, and to my...

Sad..confused..not used to these feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Hello All... I feel like I'm falling apart here and have no control over it. I was married for 3 Years.. split in April.. 3 months later I was officially divorce legally. Now almost a year later and I still have feelings for my ex. A person who the ...

My ex boyfriend is driving me nuts with so much confusion!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 270 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up 3 1/2 months ago about. We have been friends throughout the breakup because he wanted to be. We do have sex but that has stoped, unless a rare occasion that I ask him- because he doesn't ever bring it up so I know that ...

I was working 4 jobs and she was at home watching tv & cheating on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I did perhaps the greatest mistake of my life. I met a girl who was coming out of an abusive relationship and I decided to give it a GO. I worked 4 jobs at some point but still had time to attend her emotional and physical needs. I workship and a...

Photo of exwife

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, Here is my situation. I am currently dating a man who has been divorced for 2 years. He on occasion talks to his ex wife, I'm fine with that because I do the same with one of my exes strictly platonic. Well my issue is that I ...

Wearing previous engagement ring

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend insists on wearing previous engagement rings -- yes, she has a few of them -- when we go out together. When I introduced her to my family, my sister took me aside and asked if I had something to tell her ... of course she drew the ...

I can't figure out my ex's purpose

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - My ex broke up with me in a text message and wouldn't call me to discuss it until I called her. Then she promised another call that never came. Finally I emailed her asking for closure and she gave it to me, saying she'd want nothing more than for ...

My fiance has a problem with her own past and I'm starting to feel like I'm held hostage in this relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I've been in a LD relationship and have been engaged for just over nine months. I really love my fiance very much but we have recently been experiencing problems. We disagree on many issues and cannot seem to compromise as we both are stubborn. ...

She dumped me and then gets a job at my work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - What do I do? My girlfriend dumped me less than a week ago. It was a complete shock, she said she loved me and gave no sign of leaving right until the moment she admitted to cheating on me during the last 3-days. It is very painful, I thought I ...

Ex-girlfriend problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years recently broke up with me. To give some background on the situation...We both are from and went to school in NYC (and both plan on staying there). She is still a senior and I graduated from college last year. For this year, ...

How can I get my friends to stop talking about my ex in front of H?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 271 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - Hi, well I'm having girl problems again like always. My girlfriend (ex now) and I broke up because she said she liked someone else and I appreciated that she told me instead of keeping it a secret and I accepted the fact that she left but I really ...

Is her life better without me in it? Is she just unsure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 270 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - I'm following up a previous question of mine (posted 2/23 asking for objective advice/serenity)... I am unable to make a decision; I've been spinning my proverbial wheels for about five months with regard to what I can/should do about my ex-girl...

My abusive ex boyfriend wont leave me alone!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - hi everyone, I broke up with my ex over a year ago (31/12/07) because he hit me. things were not going well before that because he was a bully and used to called me names like ''fat'' and ''ugly'' to hurt me. I made a police statement at t...

My ex asked if I am dating and I said I wasn't but I am

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I broke up wit my bf the other week and we're still in touch (cuz we work together). Now I've started seeing one of our mutual friends. My x asked me the other day if I was seeing someone new, and I said no. I don't know what to do? Should I tell ...

Should I break it off, because I can't accept his child in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Here is my story and wonder what should I do? I am back with my ex boyfriend that I was with when I was 16 (now 21) we dated until I was 18.. I had to move to the mainland after high school. I cheated on him before but he took me back and our ...

What's he doing? Broke up with me, now dating his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for about 4 months and everything was great, he treated me good and he was the perfect boyfriend. He told me he cared about me and how much he liked me. He lost his virginity to me and as did i. Before me was his ex of 3 years. ...

I think he's immature and scared, but what's really going on with him?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Where to start.... Ok, started dating this guy over 15 years ago, my first everything. Dating for years then reconnected this summer after about 4 years. He was breaking up w/ this girl and we got pregnant. Spend an amazing weekend together ...

Should I act like I don't care and keep holding my head high even though he seems not to care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I recently met a young guy who I liked a lot but as I said he has moved on, last night he was in the shop with her... as I walked in I felt so stupid but managed to smile even though I hate seeing them together. Should I act like I don't care and ...

I've been dreaming of my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hi i broke up with my boyfriend 8 months ago and i have found this new guy whom i love so much and he loves me dearly but lately i have been dreaming about my ex b/f, in my dreams we are not together but he is using the pet name he gave to me when ...

How can I leave my past behind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Recently i started dating an ex of 8+ years although i was in a long term relationship with another man of 7+ years. I allowed myself to get in this situation as i always had a weakness for my ex and he said all he things i wanted to hear(he was ...

His ex was the reason we broke up, but can we work this out without her in the picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Ok. Here's my story. My boyfriend left me about a week ago and I'm devastated. We broke up because of his ex. While we were dating, he'd constantly talk to her and she'd always convince him to leave me. She hates me, for reasons I have no idea why. ...

Bob & Tom!! Which one??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I've been in a relatinship for 6 years with a guy (tom)I work with. He loves me very much. We have been living together for about 5 years. 12 years ago, I lived in a different city and was dating a different guy but it wasn't a sane relation...

Why has my ex started calling me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - My ex has been calling me lately. What does he want? We dated for 4 years and broke up a year ago. I caught him with another woman in his bedroom on New Years day 2008. What a way to bring in the New Years right? (Hahaha I can at least laugh about ...

I feel close to him but sometimes he is smothering me, I don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 273 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for almost a year now and he is the most kind, considerate, thoughtful man i have ever met. We knew one another at school but when i left home i didnt see him again for 20 years. When i got divorced 2 years ago i returned...

Am I being foolish by letting this upset me? Why the secrecy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - About 2 years ago my live in boyfriend told me a girl he had gone to school with (20 years ago) had contacted him. When I asked a few months later how she was, he said he hadn't talked with her for some time. I recently found out he has a secret ...