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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Every time I masturbate or have sex I always think of my ex girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Every time I masturbate or have sex I always think of my ex girlfriend i mean this is terrible and its destroying my life i mean i just dont know what to do i am not on speaking terms with my x so i can't even tell her to try to get it out my head...

We broke up and now I find it very difficult to trust men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - My ex boyfriend was really popular with girls and when I was with him people were always telling me that he was cheating on me. I used to get really upset about it, cry about it and was really disbelieving of them. But then when I broke up with him ...

How do I know if my ex boyfriend still likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid how do i know if my ex-boyfriends still likes me?...

My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this? Sometimes when i kiss her i think yuck, Thats only happened twice in the 2years we've been together. Just knowing that she gave an ex partner a blow job is disgustin...

He broke it off but we still have sex! It's raising my hopes, so how do I stop since we live together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 422 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My partner and I have been together for a long time. For the last 3 months tho, we have been living in different states, with plans for me to move in with him when I had found a job, the week before I was due to move down, he broke it off... This ...

He talks about this one girl he used to date...a lot. Now she's moving to our town! Should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this man for almost 9 months but we have known eachother for ten years as we used to be neighbors when we were both married, we have 6 kids between us. we get along great we laugh and have a great time together I love him very ...

My ex won't let me see our little boy! I'm afraid our son will get the wrong idea if I take her to court! Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Okay - my ex broke up with me. We've got a little boy that i love dearly. She moved about 400 k\m away from me. I pay maintenance, but she doesn't want me to see him. Now the thing is if I take her to court, my son might get the feeling that I w...

Is it acceptable to give your number out to an ex when your in a relationship? Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - I have been seeing my partner for about two years we currently live together. The other day I answered her mobile and I guy who i never heard of name appeared on the caller ID. The guy never wanted to leave a message but wanted to know who I was, i ...

We're both just out of relationships that ended badly. Do I get involved in this one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I've just recently met a really nice guy but not sure whether I should get involved. He came out of a long term relationship just 3 months ago, things turned nasty with his ex, they have a small child together and he tells me he's not completely ...

We had a developing friendship but he went back to his ex. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I am friends with this guy, we got introduced and hit it off straightaway, so much in common, have a blast together,and extremely attracted to each other. But were just friends, started to text more and more, but then he gets back together with his ...

My 'sex buddy' guy got me pregnant-then he accused of giving him chlamydia! Any advice for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have a major dilemma... please any advice would be appreciated. I started seeing a guy a few months ago, I knew he's just split up with his girlfriend and it was just sex between us... but i kinda got emotionally attached. In the end his ...

Why would a guy say one thing then leave me waiting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - They say men are from mars and women are from venus...how true!! ok so me and my ex have been in contact since we split up a few years ago hes been telling me over the weekend how much he still fancies me but when he arranged to meet me tonight in a ...

I've been in contact with my ex for the past 4 months, should I ask him out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 424 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Hi, Can anyone tell me please this guy is driving me crazy, he is my ex from years back we have been e-mailing each other for the past 4 months now only about once or twice a month as we are both busy with our jobs, I keep them brief and put in a...

Dealing with my bf and his ex at their daughter's b'day party. How should I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend’s daughter is having a 7th birthday party next weekend. It’s going to be at my boyfriend’s ex’s house. For some reason, I’m feeling uneasy about it. I’ve been to the girl’s birthday party last year and seeing the 3 of them together ...

How do I stop myself being jealous about his ex's??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - How do I get over my bf's past? I am 23 and he is 34 and has had a lot of girlfriends. We have been together for nearly 5 years we live together and have a young baby when i met him i knew he had a past- we met through a friend of mine who was...

Dilemma about telling a good buddy.. he's dating his old gf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I was with a guy on and off for three years, it was always ending because he was very jealous and controlling. It ended for good three months ago, partly because he was no longer interested in having a relationship with me because of our up and down ...

I'm 14 and pregnant but don't know if I want this baby... I'm not ready to have kids yet.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - Hey, so im 6 month pregnant and getting a ban on my ex for abusing me, i feel real bad as if IM in the wrong for him abusing me? but as many people said he was putting my baby in danger, im thinking about letting him come to the next scan with me ...

My is my ex boyfriend constantly keeping in touch with me after our breakup a year ago?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - What do you think an ex boyfriend wants when he stays in contact with you for over a year since you broke up (his choice) say once a month just saying hi. Then in the last month he has been texting nearly every day and apologising again for his ...

I feel like no guy can ever win with me and I am so confused because of it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I feel like no guy can ever win with me and I am so confused because of it. My ex said for ages that he didn't feel like having sex and although I accepted it because he had been in a long term relationship that he was struggling to deal with and ...

My ex girlfriend of one week has just asked me over to her house for "some fun"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

27 May 2007 (M) - Hey, I've posted a couple of times now, you might recognize part of the story. Basically my gf dumped me last weekend, and in favor of some guy online. Shes meeting him this friday. But the friday thats just been, she started emailing me abou...

I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father. He's so unpredictable as well as his actions. I am tired of his threats, verbal abuse, etc. He just showed up at my place of employment harassing me about our ...

We broke up! And I am thinking terrible thoughts about what she's doing now. How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

26 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I am in need of some relationship advice!! I broke up from my girlfriend approximately 1 and a half months ago. My relationship with her lasted just short of two years, which for both of us was the longest time we had committed to anyone ...

My ex is seeing someone else! Why do I feel so gutted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I split up with my lover a while back because we had issues that couldn't be resolved,we were together 3 years and it was me who decided to end it.Anyway i found out that he has been seeing someone else and for some reason i felt gutted and very ...

I am finally happy after a cheating ex bf and 2 abortions! Now I find out the ex is having regrets? I am confused..help??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I'm a 25 yr old girl in a relationship with a boy almost 4 yrs younger. While this relationship is working out well, the one before this was terrible. The guy I had known since forever (since I was 10 actually) but he kept cheating on me and we kept ...

My selfish ex bf won't talk to me now, because I didn't leave work to pick him up with my car. Should I call him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - Me and my ex broke up and became friends but he's till selfish. We broke up about 5 months ago and didnt speak. He called me after mayeb two months. We started having casual sex without the strings. We hang out from time to time. I used to let him ...

She cheated on me and left me for a player! I'm still in love with her. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - Hi, Please help me, i was seeing a girl and we had some really special times together we really made a connection, i fell in love with her. However from word go there was another guy constantly on her case, he's the local desperado, he's ...

Worried that if we stay together her many past encouters with Men will hang over us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Im 20yrs old. I have been going out with this girl for 6 months now and the number of guys she's bin with really bothers me (around 14). She went to a festival and had unprotected anal sex with some random guy in some forest last year...she has had ...

My ex is still really angry at me for taking her virginity, when we were both 24...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Hi. My ex is still really angry at me for taking her virginity, when we were both 24. We had been together for about 5 years before having sex for the first time, she had expained she wanted to wait until she was married before having sex. I had ...

I feel like it may be "too soon" to love again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Four years ago I was engaged to be married to a woman who I thought loved me. A month before our wedding, she broke off our relationship, and cleaned me out, she stole money from me, took all my furniture and appliances, pretty much everything that ...

His gf dumped him and now--he rarely talks to me! What's going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Im going crazy!! Plz any advice is soo welcome here...brutial honesty sure beats tellin me what i want to hear!! Ok...me and my ex started chattin few weeks ago and he said all the right stuff (i luv u n miss u..never luv another more then i luv u) ...

Her ex threatened to 'take care of me' but she still lets him in her house!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. We love each other, When I was over my girlfriends house,her ex husband was there becuase he had to use the phone( he is allowed there sometimes becuase he sometimes drives my girlfriends invalid ...

Is it possible to be addicted to another human being??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - can anyone help me please? I have been in love with my ex-husband since I was 15 (I am now 39). We had many break-ups due to his violence and alcoholism. I am now separated from him a year and a half but he still goes through my mind every single d...

I wonder if I was the victim of a very cruel deception at the hands of my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Can you guys give me your viewpoints on this? I wonder if I was the victim of a very cruel deception at the hands of my ex. We were very good friends for quite some time prior to becoming partners and I thought we would get married and have a ...

Why doesn't he answer my texts, even if it's to say he doesn't want to stay in touch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Hi I've wrote a couple of times before about me and my ex being friends. Anyway a couple of weeks ago we had a conversation he said that he sometimes got the feeling that I didn't think he'd stay mates and I said that I got the feeling he thought ...

I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I fell in love with someone while i was in a troubled relationship.I decided to end the troubled relationship so i could go and start a new one with this guy i fell in love with and he was thrilled and said he was in love with me too. After a month ...

As soon as I told my ex how I felt he stopped talking to me! Am I too late to get back with him!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Recently I have realised that I am in love with my ex boyfriend. He is not only my ex but he was my best friend for 7 years, we were boyfriend and girlfriend for the first four of those years. To make a long story short, he loved me for all of ...

Love my bf but...thoughts of the past married lover still haunt me! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - am i in love??? i(19) have a brilliant boyfrend(23) for the last 6months. we work together. they have been the best 6months in my life.he treats me good,hes kind,honest,genuine,tall,handsome,but a bit too quiet and shy. i love him and he loves me ...

He is texting his old gf..does he still have feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - i have been going out with my boyfriend for the last two years and we are getting on great. but i have recently discovered that he is texting his old girlfried on and off. they went out for four years and had a bad break up (she cheated on him), ...

A year on...and I cant cope without him!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - About a year ago i fell deeply in love with this boy we went out for about 6 months. He asked me to do things i didnt want to do it scared me and i made an excuse and ended it. 1 year on i still love him and cant cope without him although his sister ...

No guys feel good enough to date after him!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 431 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Well first of all, me and this boy had started dating on last thanksgiving, he seemed to be the perfect candidate to date, everything started out well, we talked everyday and shared our feelings for one another, but then about 2 weeks after we ...

We've grown apart after a month and now he's hanging out w/ his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - im 15 and i've been going out with my boyfriend now for about a month... we met on a school trip and at this point he had a gf... when we got back he sent me a letter sayin how he couldnt stop thinking about me and how he had ending it with his ...

Two days after fooling around together he got back with his ex! I feel used!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - ok...well..i met this guy awhile ago...and after getting to know each other..we realized that we had feelings for each other..but we decided ignore them because he was currently in a relationship with one of my really close friends. this guy and i ...

I'm still finding it hard to get over a boyfriend who broke up with me a year ago.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm still finding it hard to get over a boyfriend who broke up with me a year ago. Our relationship was very serious from the outset and he told me he loved me after two weeks. I felt the same way and things were going great until he t...

Is it possible that I'm not over my ex and therefore loose interest after the chase?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - ok, basically i've finally started getting close to the guy i've liked for 18 mnths or so, only to find he's perfect a true gent but i've gone off him, i really don;t want to be one of those girls who only likes the chase. I do keep thinking bout my ...

I just broke up with my Bf, How can I get over this, I feel so ill!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - hey ive just split up with my long term boyfriend and i am missing him so much. He has other pictures of girls on his msn picture and hes now blocked me. But i need ot get over him all i can think about is how much im gunna miss him. Miss his hu...

He touched me, and now he's ignoring me again. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - I'm addicted to this guy. He's nothing special to look at. He's just got something about him that makes me want to be with him all the time. It's been two years almost since we broke up and we hardly talked. But then randomly out of the blue he ...

We decided to get back together, but his girlfriend takes forever moving out of the flat. How can I stop myself from being so upset about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - My partner and I have recently got back together after a 12 month split. The problem was that he had started another relationship and although I knew of her existence he had told me that their relationship was all but over, he just needed to tell ...

I have a bf and the ex is in town! Would it be harmless to continue seeing my ex over the next few weeks or would be a betrayal of my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - I'm currently in a happy, fufilling relationship that's lasted for almost a year. I have no desire for this relationship to end. I've never, ever been unfaithful before, but last night i cheated on my boyfriend. The reason i did was because an e...

My ex and I have big problems! For all the allegations and the bad stuff, I still can't picture myself with anyone else. Any advice appreciated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (M) - After 4 years of being investigated, called a liar, told i`ve been keeping secrets,out of the blue, my now ex accidently sent the wrong number to my mobile. Instantly her face showed an expression i had never seen before. It was now time to do my ...

I am worried that my fears of my ex not being honest with me will get worse. What can I doto overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

20 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I am in need of some relationship advice!! I broke up from my girlfriend approximately 1 and a half months ago. My relationship with her lasted just short of two years, which for both of us was the longest time we had committed to anyone ...