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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

He wants to be Friends with Benefits!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 540 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend wants to just date or just not be boyfriend girlfriend title but still wants sex. That went on for about a week and then he sent me an article from this site "Is my girlfriend needy or is it just me?" and says he wants space. Can ...

All his ex-GF's are gorgeous. How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I feel so dumb and childish asking for help about this... My boyfriend's exes are all beautiful. Really beautiful. One of them was chosen the most beautiful/hottest of the class when he was in high school, the other one has tons of admirers, and...

I think he is waiting for the right opportunity to leave me, as we own a property together. What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 540 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I have been married 7 years, my husband is 11 years younger than me, he suddenly is rejecting me and talks secretly to his ex wife, the mother of his 2 kids. His sister is best friends with his ex and always wanted them back together, and she hates ...

I was forced to lie because my boyfriend thinks even a simple hello to a former crush is something major!! How can I regain his trust?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 539 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I've got a problem. I know, though, that it's mostly my fault, really. See, my boyfriend and I have a troubled relationship. I broke the trust, and now it seems impossible to get it back. Ok here it goes... From the beginning of the relationshi...

I'm afraid that if I got into a relationship with him again he will dump me for somone else again, as it happened in the past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - 3 years ago my ex dumped me for someone else. At the time I was heartbroken and it took me months to get over it. Now, 3 years later, he's dumped her and we have started meeting up occasionally and I have had sex with him a couple of times....

Do I let them be happy together or what can I do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I would like to tell you the whole story and maybe you could understand better but it's way too long and you'll propably get bored but heres the basics : -Meet boy -Start dating boy -Loose virginity to boy -Two weeks later we brake up -I try e...

How do I deal with the fact that everyone I know loves my abusive ex bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - How do i deal with the fact that everyone i know loves my abusive ex bf? They all think he is this great guy, caring, chamring, respectful and a good catholic guy. But hes not...it just really frustrats me. People would always say when we were ...

I just cant understand why he would suddenly hate me..is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - hello everyone I have a big problem in my life right now. My ex, we both promised to stay friends if we ever lost our relationship well its been ended for a month now and he hates me. Noone including myself knows why. I was a very good gf to him.....

My ex is making me feel like I'm crazy! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I feel like i'm going round the twist. And i'm a jumped up opinionated, arrogant idiot! I spent 2 yrs with someone that lied and did me out of money, yet he has me now thinking it was me that is crazy. I daren't tell him where he's gone wrong ...

Please some one help me I'm desperate to get over this guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I am 27 I was in a relationship with my daughters father for 4years...we had a roller coaster type of relationship. he is very jealous and treated me like I was wrong for having had sex before him... basically all of our arguments consisted of ...

He said he still had feelings for me, but I think it was the drink talking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi I went out with a guy for 2 and half years and we were in love but I ended it as he wasn't around for any more, I changed my mind but he didn't want to get back together a wk or two later we spoke about it and he said he didn't love me any ...

How do you get over an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I was with my ex for over 2 years and fell deeply in love with him it was fantastic! I lost my virginity to him and doted on him. We split up last september due to their being an age difference and i was really depressed for 4 months. In April I met ...

Should I send him a "congratulations on your divorce" card to his parents to let him know that he has no power and control to stop the divorce, and to let him know that I am no longer his stupid little wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - my ex was a horrible nasty piece of work and loves to control and is a power freak but since december (just gone) i have stood up to him and given him abit of his own medicine!! see how he likes to be abused although i only gave him about 1% of the ...

How do you lose resentment and stop being angry with someone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - How do you stop feeling angry towards someone? I lent my ex some money when we were together, before anyone says how stupid, it was suppose to be for 2 weeks until some money came through, i believed him when he said it was definitely on its way,...

She's been dating someone for 6 months already, but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - I've had a crush with this girl for 3 years in high school since my sophomore year. We both have several classes together during the 1st year and our chemistry developed pretty fast. We often glanced at each other but we both turned away abruptly as ...

I don't think I am being unreasonable I just want to enjoy quality time with my man undisturbed by any one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met my boyfriend last year on holiday and fell in love with him. He is a caring and loving person we have a lot in common and most importantly he makes me laugh. We live in different countries and I recently flew to his country t...

My ex has restraining order but is ignoring it and still comes round to threaten me!

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30 May 2008 (F) - i recently had a child, who is a really wonderful baby and very good, and i love her dearly. the only problem is the babys father, who i recently split up with due to your advicein a previous question. first of all let me say i am very happy that i ...

After realising my foolish and impulsive behaviour towards my ex, I changed and repented completely, but he does not want to retie the string... what more can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i want to get my ex back...i know he doesn't love me...but takes me only as a friend..we still talk....but the reason he left me was due to my constant questioning about girls messaging him and girls roaming about with him..he didn't have had any ...

How long should I wait before I throw in the towel and just realize he's just jerking me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me, and I feel torn apart. I can't seem to grasp my mind around the fact that we are not together. I need help moving on, finding my footing again, and regaining the desire to leave my house. Perhaps provid...

Don't know what else to do, looking for solution to get her back for good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - my gf is 45 and i am 37 e have been together like 15 months and broke up many times she always doing the breakig and me falling to pieces and not giving the space she wants alway convincing her to give it another try this time she says she has run ...

Emotions or reason? Which one to follow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Emotions or reason? Which one to follow? I met her twelve years ago while traveling (became barely friends). I liked her and visited her once more few months later. I had decided not to come back. She was young (19 and I was 28), little careless,...

22 years later: is it the love or the pain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - i am haunted by a ex i had 22 years ago. i still feel hurt when i think about her and how it went down. she was the 2nd girl i ever slept with (i was 18 at the time, she was 16) and the first real regular sexual relationship i ever had. i was in a ...

Anyone successful at getting their ex back? What's the best way to go about it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 530 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I am thinking of asking my ex back as she's single again, and I still love her so much, despite what she did. I'd like to know which readers of this site have been successful in getting their ex back, and what the best way to go about it is, with...

HOW can I finally get over my EX??????????????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 542 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - 9 yrs after divorce and I have been remarried for most of it. However,I still battle with being in love with my ex. I left him and he was devistated but I was young and went through something pyschologically where I just didn't like to be around ...

Why do we find it so hard to move on from exes even after we have ended it ourselves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Why is it we find it so hard to move on after ending a relationship, even though we know they aren't the right person for you so you call a halt to it. I'm curious, as i ended a rollercoaster relationship of a yr and a half back in january. I dont r...

I'm so confused over my ex boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 542 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I'm confused about my ex bf and have a few questions. A week before breaking up with me, he started ignoring some of my messages which he would always reply too. he stoped calling and messaging me non stop and asking where i was and who i was wi...

Who do I choose? My ex or my new lover. The problem is the new lover, he is 15 years younger

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 542 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - 3 months ago I ended a 19 year relationship. For most of the 19 years I felt as if I should be grateful that my partner stuck around. He told me in various ways that I was not the type of woman he would have chosen (I was the hunter). I gave ...

Is there hope for a future relationship with her, even though we're not in contact now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - hi i was wondering wot anyone makes of this. i was sort of seeing a girl for the last month and for some reason i totally fell for her straight away. its so weird because im really picky and i told myself id never let myself get in2 someone ...

Why do we have to reach the 'break up' part for them to realize their true feelings? And is this just me or does this happen to other people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - I have had this situation happen with me with most of my serious ex-girlfriends.... One of us will break up with the other, but we will still remain in contact for the one of the usual reasons (still like/love one another, aren't finding anyone else ...

I've never really gotten over my ex! I'm engaged but still flirting with the ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I've been with my bf for 3 years and we are engaged but i have never really gotten over my Ex. And whats worse he i like my best mate, and hes friends with my bf. I love my bf to death, but i keep thinking of my ex, and everytime i see him i just ...

Is it that she doesn't want me but doesn't want anyone else to have me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - I split up with my girlfriend almost a year ago after I found out she was cheating on me. The break up was quite hard as we lived together but although she tried to keep in touch I managed to avoid her. Recently I started replying to her emails and ...

I ended my affair with the family friend but he still pursues me! I'm afraid our infidelity will come out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) - I cheated on my husband with a family friend. Husband does not know.I broke it off, but he won't let me be. He is persuing the family friendship in an effort to stay close to me. He doesn't care whether our spouses find out. We each have three kids. ...

What does this mean -I'm lost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - This is updated from earlier my boyfriend left for 3 days saying he needed to sort things out and stayed at a friends. Well he came home tonight saying he was coming to get some things I asked if we were over and if I could move on he got defensive ...

How do I get my Ex Boyfriend back when he never really left but is dating someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 544 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I need help fast. I have been in a relationship with a man for a little over a year, and we had a break up about 3 months ago, and things have been lets be friends sort of status, however, he calls me every day several times a day asks for my advice ...

Her ex is possesive and live-in... What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 544 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - I'm in a bit of a pickle, here, and I am looking for maybe some advice. I met this wonderful girl, she's extremely attractive, and we both like the aspects of eachother we believe are our most prominent. We make eachother laugh, and she is very ...

Can exes be best friends? I'm a bit bothered by this...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Hey all, quick question for anyone listening, Do you think that its ok for ex's to be best friends? my new gf is bestfriends with her ex and it just makes me uneasy, she assures me that its all over between then but i still cant help but be bothered ...

He is trying to wipe out every trace of me ever being in his life, and I am finding it so hard. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - This might end up sounding slightly long winded but i would just like people to get a clear picture of what is going on! I loved my boyfriend so much, he meant so much to me, we had been together since we were 17 and i am 20 now, we were completely ...

Whats the time span for having sex with someone else, after a break up with a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Whats the time span for having sex with someone else, after a break up with a boyfriend. im curious? thanks! ...

Married and confused, I'm falling out of love with my husband and in love with my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Please Help... I am 29 years old and have been married for 6 years. I have recently had 2 children and my marriage is totally boring. My husband and I do not see eye to eye on almost every issue. We were raised and grew up completely opposite of one ...

Is it so bad to cheat on my boyfriend with my ex? My bf has not been able to satisfy me sexually...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

27 May 2008 (?) - i cheated on my boyfriend.. w my ex................. i dnt want to be back with him but i have been dating my current bf for 5 months. He was a vifgin and has not been able to satisfy me sexually. He tries and has gotten somewhat better ... he cant ...

His ex came back into his life, and now I'm wondering if I should be there for the DNA test on my husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 545 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - ive been married for 3 yrs and now got a 2 yr old son be4 me and my husband got married he already know that i have a child of my own so its not a problem to him. me and my husband is always far from each other coz of his job he is in the military. ...

How can I make sure it's better this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I'm sorry this is long, but it's quite complicated. Please hear me out lol! I got back with my ex 3 days ago. We had been split up for 3 and a half weeks and had been going out for 1 year before we split. I really loved this man, I still do and I...

My ex's cheating has left me insecure and worried about the size of my chest, can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend now for almost a month and we really like eachother, i have never had a good relationship before. the last boyfriend i had, he was my first serious relationship, the first boy i felt i honestly loved.i lost my virginity ...

Please help, the long distance is causing lots of problems for us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 545 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I just finished my freshman year of college. My boyfriend in high school and I dated for 4 years and I went to college in Florida and he went to New York. To say the least, we didn't make it past a few months away from each other. I have been with ...

My ex treat me badly and I'm compelled to tolerate his presence as he is in my group of friends. What can you advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 545 days ago

26 May 2008 (?) - I can not believe it. I am still hung up on this guy that treat me badly. All I have been thinking about is that night. Now this is affecting my socialising. As my friends are all mates with him. And whenever we are out , we are out with him. Am i ...

He's too attached to his ex, should I break up with him over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Hi, Just need some advice on what to do. I've had been in a long distance relationship for about four years. The problem is that my bf had never stopped talking with his ex nor had he talk her that he is in a relationship with me. They are not ...

He called me by his ex girlfriend's name, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - ok...my boyfriend was with a girl for five years, aparently it was a rocky relationship and she broke up with him. He persued a couple of relationships since, then went two years without anything. he's been with me now for about eight months, and ...

Is it too late for me to try and get his trust back? What should I say the next time I see him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. I pushed him away from me. I've learned a lot in these last 3 months that I didn't know before. I've been going to church and attending bible study, not for my relationship, but for myself to change my attitude ...

He said we were back together but is now saying he doesn't know, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 546 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - ok so im fifteen and i am in love. no lie. trust ive loved this boy for a year now we used to be together and it was the happiest time of my life. recently in the last 4 months or so ive met him every weekend and weve always been really close in the ...

I cant stand this insecurity of not knowing what she wants!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 546 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - I had this relationship with a girl for almost a year. We broke up last december, a very painful brake up. 2 months ago she txt's me she misses me and want to start hanging out again. As i still loved her very much, I agreed on meeting up. We s...