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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I cried deleting my ex-girlfriend pictures

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend left me 8 months ago.Today, I deleted her all pictures from my computer. But while I pressing deleting button, I was feeling like killing her forever. Afterwards and even now I can't help crying. Anyone here has experienced the same ...

How come she has a new guy in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 4.5 years split up abaout 2 months ago. We have a 1 yr old son and we started working it out. Things were going good untell she started being mean. Then we didn't talk much for about a week and then I found out she was ...

My ex came back into my life, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - torn between two lovers, whom do i chose? dear cupid, i have been in a relationship for 4yrs, and last year our love was on the rocks, and in the mist of our arguments and misunderstanding i met a guy and i realy liked him and he fel the same too...

My ex has been contacting me but I don't know her intentions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - I won't get into great detail about how me and my ex broke up after a 5 year relationship. I got an earlier post if anyone wishes to read on that. Just that she began liking someone else around March during the time she was still in a relationship ...

She broke up with me yet still texts me, how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4643 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - my girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me to be independent and because of my different religion. yet she still texts me like a couple times a week telling me that she misses me and if i could change something we would still be together. my ...

Should I move in with her once her husband leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4643 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - I met that married woman and had a sex with her the same day. Last June we went to vacation together, she came back pregnant had an abortion while still living with her husband. She has told me, once her husband is out I'll be in. The woman never ...

All of my exes have cheated on me so I'm sure my boyfriend is going to do the same thing....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. I have a problem trusting my boyfriend. Not because he's done things but because each and every one of the guys i've been with have hurt me bad! So pretty much im just waiting for him ...

How do I move on from my first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - How do move on from my first love? I feel it is so stupid to still be asking this question after breaking up with my first love about 10 years ago. I'm now 25 years old and married with 2 kids but still dream of my first love. Our relationship l...

I can't get these cruel words out of my head

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months and everything was going great however I did always feel a bit smothered, if I wanted to go out with my friends he ALWAYS wanted to come along. My ex boyfriend is an event ticket salesman and there we...

Is he finally realising what he lost or is the jealous dog coming out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Its been three months since we broke up, maybe more, which is a good sign since i stopped counting the days. I feel im at that point where, yes im thinking about them still, but they aren't my only thought. So i began to move on, i have been gettin...

Feeling guilty for lying so much to my ex, help me get rid of this guilt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend dumped me one year ago. We remained together for two years. It was long distance relationship with occasional meeting here and there. When I looked back into that relationship, I felt guilty and ashamed for lying with her about my job ...

Left my ex and got with a new guy, but now I miss my ex and have ended it with the new guy! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - So basically about 5 months ago I came out of a 2 and a 1/2 year relationship with someone called Adam, our relationship was one of those where then it is good, it is really good and when it is bad it is really bad. We had, had our ups and downs to ...

It breaks my heart that he may not be over her and that he lied to me....What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Ive just found this page and I have a question that I need to find an answer to. I have been seeing this man for about five months. I do like him very much indeed and we have a great time together but the point is that our relationship is rather ...

Should I keep waiting for my ex girlfriend to come around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - im just a guy, pretty confuzed about this situation. i knew this girl for 4 years, as soon as we met we became best friends for a year, then decided to date which lasted 2 years. we broke up because another girl who was jealous of our relationship ...

I don't know what to do or feel anymore.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi again! So the last time I was on here my question was about an ex and now I'm sad to say that I have a new ex. We had been dating for a year and 3 months and now we've broken up. The past 3 months have been on and off bickering about silly ...

I am faithful to my current Girl friend who means a lot to me. My ex just causes me grief and will not let me see our child. How can I stop my ex hurting us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - hi there im 25 years old. I broke up with my x. After she told me she was pregnant. I am with a new gf now who is 20 and we have been going out less then a year but were living together. i don't see the child because the times that my x gives me...

I was too controlling with my ex and now I really regret it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I'll try to keep this as short as possible. I dated this girl who I was very controlling over. I sincerely regret it, but I think I've ruined any chance I have with her. I can't stop thinking about her. (This may sound weird or creepy, but I ...

Boyfriend has aftershave that ex gave him and I don't like it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I know this sounds ridiculous, but my boyfriend has this aftershave that his ex-gf bought him and when he wears it it makes me really angry inside. He obviously doesn't know this because I would look like a joke. He's wearing it more and more and it ...

Do you think my ex boyfriend is gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - So I think my ex boyfriend is gay, and just hasnt came out the closet yet. I also think thats why he comes coming back to me. Not because I look like a man. lol But because I do the things he wants me to do. So here are the things he has done or ...

Fiance made a rather unexpected confession...he slept with an ex in the early stage of our relationship.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - My fiance has made a rather unexpected confession: one of his ex-girlfriends was actually a one night stand AND he slept with her during our early relationship stage (after our 2nd, or 3rd date). I normally wouldn't be upset over this. I do ...

I need your opinion on wedding invitation protocol.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I need your opinion on wedding invitation protocol. My wife has this male friend, who for a short time was her boyfriend, and they still stayed friends, even now. When my wife and I got married 3 years ago, we invited him (big of me I know), but ...

We're working on fixing things but his ex is still a big concern for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy going on two years, living together the last year. We have been described as being "each others opposites." He's very serious, already has his next five years of his life and finances planned out, introverted, and it's such ...

I am finding it so difficult to move on....do I stand a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I'm extremely depressed right now. To introduce myself, i'm a 17-year old gay man who has been in love with my ex-best friend till now. I have liked a number of guys in my life before, and none had worked out (They either found out and started ...

He feels like the love of my life...and I just don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I have lost the man I have loved the most and whom I still think is "the one". We are both 29. We had an instant connection and our relationship was fantastic. We shared so many things in common and really supported one another in each other's ...

Has she really moved on this time? Is there a way I can get this back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4644 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - Hi everyone; I was in a 5 years relationship with my exgf i reckon she had either borderline personality disorder or some sort of disorder because its not normal to brake up and get back together so many times. I cant resist her because im hooke...

Why do I still feel like this 18 months on and how can I get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - How do I get over an old ex? My ex left me nearly 18 months a go and I don't think I have got over him yet. He has a new girlfriend and I have seen a few men and slept with way too many since the split. But no amount of new men will get him out of ...

I cant stop thinking she is going to cheat or something is going to happen with her ex! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I just got with a girl (been together for 4 months) and lately i've been feeling really insecure with her. lately i've been going crazy thinking she is going to cheat on me or if she gets back into contact with her ex. She has a child with her ex ...

Is my bf spending too much time with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Is my boyfriend spending too much time with his Ex? They have been divorced for 11 years and they have a 19 year old daughter. She is a wonderful girl, they did a great job of raising her. I am also divorced, with grown sons living away from home ...

How do I get it across to him that I want him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - ive made such a mess of things and Im so depressed about it. I finished with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago because of something so trivial. A couple of days later I realised Id made a mistake and told him I wanted him back. He said he needed time to ...

The ex that wont go away.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My relationship with my husband has been one I have never experienced. We met online and 7yrs later we'd never thought wed be this happy as parents. There's one issue that has haunted our relationship since day 1-his ex girlfriend. She ...

Ex girlfriend said I did nothing for her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My ex gf popped up and we got into a huge blowout. She yelled at me, insulted me and said stuff but when I said the same thing to her it was a blowout. She started talking about how she did all this stuff while we dated, I'm not good with ...

Should I take my ex-girlfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend, after having spent two years together, dumped me April last year saying I was doing smalltime job , so I was too poor to afford her. Now two nights back, she resurfaced , telling me that she wanted to come back. She knows I am still ...

What is going on with my ex? Do I have another chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - So my Ex girlfriend I dated over a year ago just broke up with her boyfriend a cple weeks ago, and lately shes been askin me to hang out quite a bit, but the last few times have been different than just a couple of friends hangin out. The other ...

Trying to get back with my ex but he has just told me there could be a woman pregnant with his child....what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Me and my ex have been trying to get back together for 3 months but today he told me there might be another female out there that maybe 3 months pregnant with his child, but he doesn't know for sure. my question is should I stay and wait to see if ...

I want to get back with my ex, but he continues to test me by dating other people...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating since April 2010. it has always been a little rough because we are quite different and we would fight quite a lot. About two months ago a friend of mine just moved back into the area and her and decided to hang...

I really can't stand her ex being in her life...am I being difficult?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is still hanging around her ex and it really hurts, but I don't want to resort to leaving her, because I do love her and believe that she loves me too. What should I do about this? You see, me and my girl are in a long distance...

Do I tell my guy friend that his girlfriend is a complete tramp and people are laughing at him behind his back because he is dating her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I have a male friend who has been dating this woman for about the last 6 months seriously. He and I had a past, but now we really are just friends and it is cool. He has always been hesitant about relationships since he was burned by who he thought ...

What is going on in his mind? Will he contact me again? Should I contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - After 1 year my ex returned to me. He dumped me for another girl. I was very hurt at that time. But when he came back to me I forgave him.He loved me a lot after reunion. But dont know what happened to me I always blamed him for his past. He tried ...

No sex and he is in touch with his ex's.....what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My husband keeps in contact with past wife and girlfriends then tries to hide it. Our sex life is batting zero and has been for the past 2 years. It seems as though he wants to live in his past. What does this mean...

Should I be on the lookout? Or let these memories fade?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's ex wife recently put a picture of her and my boyfriend looking very cosy together as her facebook profile picture. They've not been together for almost two years and so I was nonplussed why she would do this. My boyfriend says the ...

Telling my lover he can't come to my home..will make him angry! How do I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I know I will be judged for what I am about to write, but I am just looking for open minded opinions. I am a 37 year old female, have been seeing a 39 year old married man. I was in a relationship myself (not married, but dated and lived together...

Not sure what to make of my ex's messages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - What is going on with my ex ?. We broke up in May. He broke up with me. He dumped me for a girl he spoke to online, who he has never even met !. We live in England, and she lives in America. They spoke to each other through webcam and microphones. ...

I hate not being able to sort this out right now! How should I play this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - How can I say sorry more than I already have? Ok lets cut a long story short: - -Been seeing this guys since March he lives about 2hrs from me and I am so in love with him its untrue -I still live with my ex as neither of us have anywhere else to...

I want the money I gave him back now I found out his debts are due to an ex! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - My parter is 40 and I am 27, we live together and everything is great relationship wise. However, my parter is broke. He is in debt to up to 30,000 and he is paying it back slowly. To make matters worse his income is very low so this will probably ...

I took the coat to her, so surely she should be the one to travel to return it to me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - I am hoping you could give me some objectivity here. You see my gf and I broke up a few months ago. It was an ugly break up. A lot of wounds. Still, there is anger and resentment on both sides. Now, while we were dating I lent her an expensive coa...

Are thee any feelings there or was it all an act? Where did I go wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - now i want you to know... my ex is bipolar. so confused someone help. my ex gf came over the other night and hung out with me when she got out of work. was a little past midnight and we ended up talking and hanging out till about 3:30 or 4....

Should I take a chance with my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - My ex that i lost my virginity to has contacted me through Facebook, it's been 8 years we were each others first we had a deep love and we had a horrible breakup. he hated me for a while but then last year over Facebook we would write statuses sbout ...

My ex cheated on me with my best friend and now everything has turned upside down!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - dear users , this is actually a story can be made like a movie !!! ... i won't say much details but i will tell you the outlines and i want you to help me choosing the right way , 4 years ago i was committed to someone " a guy" we lived a great ...

Did he just use me for sex? How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - i broke up with my bf a couple months ago. we were together for about 4 years and things were starting to go sour... we tried to mend the relationship but it was too broken to go on. after the break, we kept it friendly, but i never stoped loving h...

Dating a new guy but my ex is back on the scene....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - so there was this guy i dated for almost 4 yrs, we were crazy in love and he meant the world to me,after 1 yr of being together i feel pregnant we were so happy life was perfect for us, when our daughter was born things were great, but she fell ...