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Archived questions from: September, 2017 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I feel excluded by boyfriend's decision to visit alone...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2359 days ago

30 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six years--on and off--but consistently now for the past three years. I suspect that he’s a bit emotionally unavailable because of his compartmentalization tendencies and the fact that he’s told me he’s ...

I feel so guilty about leaving my abusive ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2395 days ago

30 September 2017 (F) - Hi, I previously asked for advice regarding a relationship I was in for 3 years with a guy I lived with who was controlling and violent. It went on for a number of years and last December I cheated on him with a guy who had been keen on me for a wh...

How to forget about your ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

29 September 2017 (F) - Hi me and my ex boyfriend resently break up two months ago we were together from last year January we were on and off .. we broke up four times because people told him things I never said about him and he was believing them he block me on everything ...

How else do I show my long distance cheating girlfriend that I love her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2395 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - I am in a complicated relationship with my girlfriend. We both have a distance between us which has affected our relationship . I found out a few weeks ago that she had been sleeping with her ex gf which made me very upset. She opplpgised to me and ...

My past won’t go away, should I talk to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

27 September 2017 (F) - Hey aunts! Quick advice please! I post a few years ago asking well venting about my situation. When I was 22 I got pregnant by this guy I was dating and I thought the best decision for me was to have an abortion. At the time the guy ag...

Love triangle, help! Who do you think I love and who should I be with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

24 September 2017 (F) - I am in a love triangle. I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, who happened to be my sitting mate in high school. And had some feelings for each other but didn't confess our love. Until I traveled to Holland(where I am currently living), and he ...

My ex had a baby and am sad, but I don't know why

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

23 September 2017 (F) - My Ex had a kid and now I'm depressed and I don't know why. We dated from 2012-2013 and I would have to say he was my first love. We ended our relationship horribly, he cheated twice and picked the other girl over me and we haven't spoken since. ...

Difficult LDR, I feel I'm becoming close to my ex. Should I isolate myself from all girls so I don't find myself slipping?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

22 September 2017 (M) - Greetings Agony Aunts and Uncles, To give you a bit of background Im in a LDR with mg GF for about a month now and the separation is killing us. We met in college and our both living near our families in different states. Unless one of us is willi...

Can we get what we once had back, or are we destined to be 'just friends?'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - Hi. I was in a short relationship with a guy for around eight months. During this time we developed very strong feelings and connection. Subsequently we split up around six months back, due to differences in the area of affection. His love language ...

I desperately want to reconcile with my ex husband. He had sex with me after he had broken up with his girlfriend but hasn't contacted me since

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - This is a long story and I apologize but I really need some advice from some neutral parties here. I am wanting to reconcile with my ex-husband. We were married for 4 years. He was and still is the love of my life but he left me for another ...

I am unhappy at home, and flirting with my ex boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I am married for nearly 4 years and lived together for 5 years . Since having my son last year , everything has changed . We both very good with looking after our son but My partner seems to be on the phone so much , which has been locked fo...

His teapot has his and his ex's names and wedding date on it! Is it appropriate to ask if I can replace it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - My partner of 18 months is divorced. At the time of his wedding to his ex-wife he received a personalised tea pot with their first names and wedding date printed on the side. It's a nice big pot and he uses it, but I quietly feel uncomfortable and ...

She has bruises and I think she's cheating with the Baby Daddy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

18 September 2017 (M) - My lady gets mad couse I pointed out two bruises on her back she didn't have before last time we had sex was 5 days ago she takes of one morning to school with baby Dady for conference metting regarding son school I find her on find I phone she ...

My girlfriend wont cut ties with her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - This might be a bit long. After a few relationships, i decided to try and get together with a girl recommended to me by my friend's girlfriend. I'll call her Agnes. This happened great, especially the first 3/4 months - we had our issues to ir...

Why can't I remember him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2410 days ago

17 September 2017 (F) - The year after I graduated from high school, I had a sexual encounter with a boy I had graduated with and known well. 40 years later we have reconnected...problem is I do not remember the encounter and he remembers every detail right down to what I ...

My ex came back into my life only to leave again!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

17 September 2017 (F) - He reached out to me after about 6 months of not speaking, during that time he was dating someone else. We ended up meeting up to talk, and we had great conversation. He apologized for things that wet wrong with us and opened up to me that "he just ...

Uh Oh .... this guy I really like is brother to my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - I met this guy and happen to fall deeply in love with him though am not sure he knows about it but just when I was about summoning the courage to tell him how I feel....it all turned out he is a brother to my ex. I really don't know what to do and ...

Ex-boyfriend (considerably older) left me for someone else while being on holiday. I don't understand it and am now thinking of asking for closure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - Hi, will try to keep this as short as I can. A little background: A few months ago I met a charming older man (49 years old) and what began as a short romance started developing into something more serious and longer, with him (he lived in a diffe...

My destructive behaviour regarding my boyfriend's past is ruining my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

13 September 2017 (?) - I have been seeing a lovely man for over four months. He is kind, caring and treats me very well. I have been on my own with my daughter for 17 years, her father left me when she was a baby and i was left devastated. He got on with his life and it ...

Am I moving on too fast? And how and when do I tell the new guy about my past and the fact that my ex still lives in the same house as me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

13 September 2017 (F) - I have recently split with my partner of 8 years , we have fallen out of love and we both thought it was the best decision to cut it off. He still lives in the same house as me though in seperate rooms and he still helps with shopping/lifts etc - ...

He doesn't understand why I find this kinda rude. Am I being irrational?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

12 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and his baby's mom have a seven year old son together. They've been broke up for years. About a year ago she got locked up for running with the wrong crowd and he was unable to get custody at the time due to loosing his place so her ...

I moved to be nearer to her, now she has broken up with me.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

11 September 2017 (M) - I'm fifty years old and moved over a year ago to be near my girlfriend she is 48 and I thought she was the love of my life. Suddenly she started saying she was busy all of the time and tired So I havnt seen her in two weeks. Tonight she broke up ...

Heartbroken even though I dumped him and now I want him to chase me and get me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - I need your help folks. I was seeing a guy who was coming out of a marriage. He was single for about 8 months and we started seeing each other. Both of us knew each other locally and we were both surprised when we got to know each other and ...

I often think fondly of my ex but don't want to get back with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. So I'll start with my ex. He was a lovely guy but there was no sex or passion. we were together a number of years but broke up a while ago now. i was okay. we are 'friends' but don't ever talk. I'm now with a new partner and thin...

If he's not doing anything with his ex then why did he get so mad and ignore me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

7 September 2017 (F) - Hello I would like to get your opinions on this: I've noticed how ironic it has been in the past 6 months how every time my BF's ex is online (Her Facebook shows she is online), he is also showing online but is unavailable to take my calls. I've bee...

I'm having trouble putting an affair partner behind me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2418 days ago

6 September 2017 (F) - Hello everyone reading. About nine months ago me and a married man whom I had a two year emotional affair with ended completely with a mutual understanding that we could never have a relationship due to the mess we created in his life. When it ...

My girlfriend broke up with me but now wants back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

4 September 2017 (F) - My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks back but couldn't give me a reason for wanting out. We have been in a gay relationship together for 5 years with many ups and downs and this was just another time of her saying she didn't want the relation...

Boy likes girl but girl does drugs and isn't over her ex

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

2 September 2017 (M) - To quote "arrested development" ..."I've made a huge mistake" Sooo I'm going to give you the cliff notes version of the last couple months. Boy meets girl. They start sleeping with each other. Boy likes girl way more than he should and falls head ...

I like a guy who just broke up with his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

2 September 2017 (F) - I'm secretly like my brother friend alot for one year.I did not tell about this to both of them as I thought it may affect their friendship.Now I came to know reasonly he had a girlfriend and he had broken up with her.he was with her for 2 ...

At what point am I allowed to ask to be friends with an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2423 days ago

1 September 2017 (F) - I broke up with a long distance boyfriend I had for 1 1/2 years about one month ago. The distance wasn't going to change and I was going through a difficult emotional time where I needed him to if not physically be there for me, emotionally be there ...