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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My sister likes my ex, but I still have feelings for him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - What should I do if my sister likes my ex boyfriend and he likes her but I still have feelings for him?...

Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate and they leave you...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Just so I can gain some strength and hope.... Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate, best friend and the love of their life... only for them to leave you to go back to their ex wife or husband?... Yet you have ...

There is a picture of my boyfriend and his ex hugging, on a wall in his parent's home, where he llives. It bugs me, how do I bring it up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend lives with his friends. In their house the is a wall that has all their pictures and stuff. One of the pictures has my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend in it, hugging each other. It is a group picture, my boyfriend didnt put that on ...

Am I getting upset for no reason or should I confront him and ask him about it???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I was just wondering if I am overreacting. My husband left his email program up and so I was reading one of the emails and it was from an old girlfriend. She was telling him about her marriage and how things weren't so good for her right now and ...

What are your suggestions on completely letting go of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - so, at the end of june my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about 3 weeks before leaving for the navy. he couldn't make up his mind what to say to me or about me, although none of it was entirely bad, he was stuck between saying he loved me and ...

Why has he left me to go back to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - It is late at night and I am sitting here not knowing what to think or how to get through this. My partner of 4 years has left me tonight to go back to his wife. He never divorced her but left years ago to have a fulfilling and loving relation...

Why does my ex keeping popping into my head all the time when I don't want to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Please help, I am in turmoil. I was with my ex-boyfriend on and off for 7 years. We got together when I was 17 and split up when I was 24. I ended our relationship because I had slept with someone else. I then immediately started a relationship with ...

Get out of his life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hey guys, just wanted some advice... I've been together with my bf for 5 months now but we got together pretty soon after he finished with his ex of 5 years... to be honest we were kinda going on while he was still with his ex but i wasnt aware of ...

My ex slept with me and his new girlfriend is sleeping with her ex!

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30 October 2008 (F) - hi, last nite i had sex with my ex bf of about 2 weeks he left me to go bk to his ex but there having problams, they are not together but there trying to work it out the thing is she doesnt trust him, Anyway, shes been having her ex round to stay ...

Have you ever loved someone you couldnt have?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Has anyone else ever fell in love with someone who you cant have? Either cos they are already with someone or they just dont love you back? I feel so alone. Im head over heels in love with this guy and have been for 5 years. Weve never had a proper ...

I miss my ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Last summer, I met a guy that completely stole my heart. Although at first I didn't notice him, when we started hanging out my attraction to him was undeniable. The more time I spent with him, the more I fell for him. Eventually I told him how I ...

My ex insists on coming to me for advice and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hey. My ex insists on coming to me for advice. He is basically obsessed with my best mate (talk about rubbing salt in the wound),and he never shuts up. so i told him that id find out if she would ever go back with him to shut him up. i know fin...

Is he just with her to make me jealous???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I think he wants me back but playing mind games! I split with ex of 2 an half year 3 month ago because he drank to the extent he became a horrible person, I asked him to quit and he said he couldn't. Since then he got a new lass who he's been with ...

I'm really beginning to HATE his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - The girl that my ex dumped me for has put pics of him and her on her facebook page and I found them this morning. I feel so bitter I keep going to write her a nasty message but then stop half way through cos I know it will make me look bad. But It ...

Dating a friend's ex equals insecurity

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 70 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I'm dating a fantastic girl right now. We've been good friends for years, we absolutely head over heels for each other, sex life is great, etc. etc. There's just one thing that's causing me a bit of a hangup: she's the ex of a really good friend of ...

Do I continue to tell him how much I love him or do I just let him go and figure this out by himself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and this guy have been dating for about 5 months and in this 5 months we have only spent about 2 weeks apart! He is different from anyother guy I have ever dated. Well his wife in which they have been split for 2 years has started causing us ...

I want to dump my boyfriend for my ex who is in the same family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - am 18, he is 18 as well we have been dating for five and half months now but i do not love him as much as i did before. i want to dump him, but i do not know how. besides i want to leave him for the guy who is his flesh and blood family member that ...

He's married now, but I am still in love with him! How do I stop these feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I was in my very first serious relationship with a guy for 5 months before he left for basic training for the millitary, I didnt hear from him but slowly started finding out that there was another girl in his life, his ex girlfriend before me. we ...

I would like a girls view on the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Me and my ex split up about 5 months ago. We were each others first loves. We met up quite abit in the first month or so, then i found out she kissed her lad mate, so i disappeared and didnt speak for about 2 months, in that time i slept wit...

My friend hates my ex, now I'm back with him... do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 50 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and my ex were together for a while then I broke it off then we were just on off like most teenagers do. Well my best friend hates him, and he and I talked and took a few weeks and worked out all of our problems... i really love him... I'm scared ...

She's saying that my boyfriend and her had sex when they didn't!!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Basicly my boyfriends ex is telling everyone that they had sex and they didnt even!. (its really out of the blue since they broke up a year ago and plus she has a boyfriend) Ive talked to my boyfriend about his past "relations" with her and it was ...

His ex is coming over from Australia and is staying at HIS house! Should I be worried?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and I usually spend all weekend at his house. I occasionally see him during the week but we both work so it is sometimes difficult, if we dont see each other we will be in touch in some way every ...

I might be pregnant with my ex's child but he has moved on...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 4 and half months. We spilt up in the space 3 days, he had a new girlfriend and he rings me up saying he would still like to see me but now he's been moody and moaning at me just because I still have feelings for him, he ...

Does he still love her...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Please help me, I dont know if my boyfriend is still in love with his ex girlfriend? We have been together for 5 weeks now, he is never sentimental with me. When i confronted him about this he got angry with me and told me i was being stupid, ...

I'm not on birth control and we didn't use a condom... dumb I know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Umm.. heres my situation. My ex and I had sex last week... WE were really dumb and didn't use a condom. So I think he came in me... he even told me he might have.. plus I saw some on my underwear when I got home. I'm not on Birth control either. ...

He said I can have sex with other guys because he is not sexually attracted to me, but it hurt him when I did!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I need some input here. I have been seing this guy. He is not ready to commit to boyfriend/gfriend. We had a good talk last week and he said that he cares a lot about me but he is not in love with me. Said he loves me but he does not feel that ...

My step brother's ex and I like each other, is this OK?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Well where to start, I have fell in love with my stepbrother's Ex-girlfriend that he does have a kid with. At first we was just friends and as time had gone on we both became each sounding board. One day we started talking about our feeling abou...

My ex says we could get back together if I change, but chances are slim. What to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend of 2.5 years and i broke up. I thought we were doing alright she apparently thought we weren't compatible. When i asked for a second chance she said i had many chances to fix us then and didn't pay attention or listen. She says ...

After a year, am I over my ex or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Okay so this is kind of a long question. Well 2 years ago I met my current GF. I didn't like her at the time but she was like my best friend. I knew her for like 3 months and then she eventually introduced me to my ex GF, also my first. Ok so I ...

Does he still like me or just like as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 68 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My the ex and I have had a huge fight 2 weeks Ago, he said that he don't want to be my friend anymore which really hurt me! Last night, we met and I asked him why he kept asking about me whenever met my friend or cousins and why he still wants to ...

Breaking up with her didn't go as planned!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (?) - I wanted to break up with my girlfriend for a while. I went to my ex (who is was first my gf) for advice tips for breaking up (nicely) and she told to call my gf. I called my girlfriend to ask her for a ride home. When she got to the house my ex ...

My boyfriend is persistently texting his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - My boyfriend is persistently texting his ex all day and probably all night for all I know. We have had our problems in the past and I cheated on him several times but now we have talked through things and he understands that I'm not going to be ...

I called my girlfriend my ex's name while making love... BIG MISTAKE!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

29 October 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (for a year) and me were making love and I call her by my ex's name (they're names sound similar)by mistake. She flips out saying I'm still thinking of her sexually (I do think of her but only as a friend and nothing else.) She started ...

Does Jordan like me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend (the one I just got done with) well, his best friend is one of my good friends. we'll call him jordan. Jordan has a girlfriend, but he always walks with me and comes up behind me and wraps his arms around me, grabs my ass, holds my...

My ex-boyfriend won't move out, what do I do!

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29 October 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. I have broken up with my now ex-boyfriend of 8 months because of him trying to get back with a ex. So as a result of that, I do not want him living with me anymore. He is not on my lease, he does pay half rent and utilities. I told ...

Can anyone help me out, so I can at least get this part of my stress off my chest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - here's the deal.. i have a boyfriend. its going good i like him alot. we hang out a lot. but i have this feeling with my ex. he's always liked me a lot and now he has a girl (they're not together, but pretty much) and he hasn't talked to me as much. ...

If he was serious I would - but is he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi ive been speaking to my ex bf for most of the day today trying to help sort out his problms with things anyway one of the last conversations we had i asked him if he felt any better he replyed yes as ive talked to you, i asked him again and he ...

Just out of an abusive relationship, but still love my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hey, my partner and I have been together for 3 years and living together for 2. We have a 10 month old baby son and things have been tough over the past few months due to money problems etc. He has recently come home after training in London for 12 ...

Issues with being with my best friend's ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - For the last few months, me and this girl have started getting really close and we've just come out and said that we like eachother and we've started getting yet even more closer. I'm so willing to take the next step but the only problem is.. She...

I'm turning ino a stalker over this guy.....I need help fast!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I need advice Im goin out of my mind. Ok, theres this guy who I was seeing who at the time I didnt really like. I mean I fancied him loads and even wondered if I was falling in love with him. But in the back of my mind, I knew we werent right. He ...

Is it possible for someone to fall out of love, basically overnight after 3 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Ok, well, about 3 months ago, My bf and I broke up. So, that makes him My ex. He just decided 1 day that he didn't want to date anymore, and we have been together 3 years and never had this problem. I'm not too crazy about the friends he hangs with, ...

I think she doesn't love him but is after his money!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - hiya today ive had my ex bf on the phone crying his eyes out basically the woman he left me for is treating him like crap,she says she doesnt trust him and that she loves him but not sure if its in a friendship way or a gf/bf way, i really feel for ...

I'm pregnant and have noticed my husband still keeps in contact with ex girlfriends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I noticed on the computer and on the phone that my husband is still keeping in contact with some of his ex-friends this topic always starts bad emotions between us plus I'm pregnant, should I just let it go and start talking to some of my ...

Is he emotionally abusing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Is he emotionally abusing me? I just started dating again my ex fiance. I broke up with him a year ago. Anyway, I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive. He would pressure me to do things i didn't want to, and got mad if i didn't. I ...

Is he playing with my emotions or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I had this boyfriend a few months ago who i was crazy about. He seemed perfect. He was so sweet and nice and everyone said we were the perfect couple. Then one day out of the blue he broke up with me. I found out later that he had broken up with me ...

My gf needs time to think as she still misses her ex bf! Do I give her the space?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - So my girlfriend says she needs time to think about things because she still misses her ex. She says she loves me more than she has loved anyone but she still thinks we can't be together. I just found out that she has been calling him and meeting ...

I hate to think that he stopped loving me altogether..so how do I interpret his text messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 73 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My ex and I have started talking again after some very steep ups and downs. It has all been through text messaging so it's hard to interpret. I try to keep things short, sweet and to the point. When I say something that doesn't require an answer ...

Why do some girls go out with losers?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I found out yesterday that this girl I'm in love with likes this total loser, no one really likes him. This happened before too when my ex had history with a loser and got back together with him. I'm a cool guy, I have lots of friends, and I h...

Help with my Ex-Relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. I was really hurt and very upset. I've been emotional about this whole thing. We were 2gther for 10 months, but we've been knowing each other for 6 yrs. He wanted 2 break up bcuz he cudnt handle our ...

How can I get him to stop spreading lies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - A few years ago I got out of a long term relationship and one of my friends, let's call him Mark (who is 10 years older than me) was right there to be my shoulder to cry on. The problem is that he got me really drunk and kissed me. It turned out ...