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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

He broke up with me but I still have feelings for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - Hello, I was seeing this guy who was very much into me since a month now. He used to tell me how much he loves me and how much he would want to work on our relationship. As I had exams, he told me that he would wait for me even if it means not tal...

How do I finally get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

30 November 2016 (M) - Hi Agony Aunts I am a 26 year old man. I got married at 19 a large part of that was because we got pregnant. She was my first girlfriend. We were together 1 day short of 7 years, married a bit more than 5 of those. About 18 months ago she left...

My ex says she wants to be with me but won't leave her new boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

30 November 2016 (M) - What should I do? I dated this girl for a long time , we broke up she got a new man and now has an baby she says she loved me and wants to start a family with me but I tell her when shes going to leave him and her answer is I dont know dont ask...

Why was he being so open if all he wanted from me was sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - Hi Everyone, I meet this guy online February 2016. We meet up in March. We both have 9yr old girls, have stuff in common. We hit it off staright away. We meet up every weekend...days out with our children. By April it got very intease, we were...

I am his great big secret!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - I have been dating a guy 16 years older than me for the last 6 months. He has been divorced twice and have 3 teenage/young adult children with his first wife and a 3 yr old daughter with the second. He divorced 18 months ago. I have 2 teenagers and ...

I thought I was getting over her until I learned she was seeing someone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

27 November 2016 (M) - How long does it take to get over someone if you've been seeing each other for six + years? We were never married but we were carrying on a fun and exciting relationship with affection galore! She began pulling away the last year or so and decide...

Why is my married former lover so jealous now that I've moved on to someone available?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

25 November 2016 (F) - I'm doing my best to move on from the MM that i was dealing with. He wants to be friends and i first i found it difficult but since i was able to get some distance due to our temporary separation i decided to give a friendship a try. I also have ...

How do you know if you are doing the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

24 November 2016 (M) - Every now and again I still miss my ex, I love her which I hate to admit but I dont want her back. I feel like its having a child who just made you so angry but you still cant help loving them. I am in a new relationship and love my gf, just gone...

Does he really still care for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - So I'm trying to figure out if my ex still has feelings for me... We broke up just over 2 months ago, we were together for four month and up until the last 3 weeks our relationship was amazing, we broke up because he had decided he was too busy to ...

Am I falling for the same type of man all over again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - So I've been single for over a year, not been near anyone since and have been working on myself. My last breakup I realised was an entire lie... A lie which ended in a court case for me ex for assault... He should of got ABH if not attempted murder ...

How do I get my ex to meet up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - How do I get my ex to ask to meet up, and how do I know if there is any hope of being more than friends? My ex and I broke up 2 months ago, we were together for four months, and we havnt spoken since the breakup. . So I accidentally ema...

How can I help myself? I am so confused. Our relationship has problems, but I do love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - I think my relationship is over.... I found out that my man is registered with a site called ^^^chat. I confronted him 6 months later, he swore on his mum's life and his children from previous marriage that it was not him. few months later in ...

Do I confront her about her ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

22 November 2016 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I've been seeing this girl for about a month. We were set up through a mutual friend. I've grown to really like this girl. But when we first got together she told me she had went about with a guy who was a bit of a...

Our online relationship ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - I met this American guy online since August 2015 and we met in a famous dating site. Btw, I’m Asian and 23 years old and we are of the same age. First, it was just purely a friendly chat of random stuffs (we chat almost every day as long as we are ...

The guy who meant nothing to her in her past got to live out his fantasy while I, despite being her boyfriend, don't get the same privilege. Isn't it unfair?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - I guess the question I have is what do I do? About 3 years ago before my girlfriend met me she had sex with a girl while a guy she occasionally hooked up with watched. They were all out at the pub and the girl was interested in her and the guys ...

How do I get this girl back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - Dear All, First time writer and I'm really needing some desperate help. My story. About 6 years ago I met a girl. We went out and nothing ever come of it. I guess I wasn't really in that place at that time. But she held a candle for me...

I'm having a hard time getting over her

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - I've posted about this female in questions a few times before. Basically I'm having a really hard time getting over her and I'm questioning my sanity and what else I can do to get over how I'm feeling. To cut a long story short, a FWB that didn't ...

How can I make co parenting work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - Does anyone have experience in co-parenting? I recently split from my boyfriend, and we have 2 children. Things ended pretty badly, but I've accepted that we're through. I think he's taking it a bit harder than I am, but as a mother, you don't have ...

Ex took my past and threw it in my face. Does he have the right to do that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - I don't really like to talk about my past because I've done things that I'm not proud of. I spent a few years in counseling. I had a drinking problem and an anger problem. It all stemmed from an assault i experienced, as well as being in an abusive ...

Is this normal? Should she keep some distance between her and the ex's family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

18 November 2016 (M) - Started a new relationship with an old flame from my past. we are into our 6 month and very into each other. She now had a small child for a ex boyfriend and the ex is very unstable. lately the ex,s brother has started to show up visiting, at ...

Should I just got my losses and never think about what could have happened between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - Hey wondering if you can help. There's this girl I knew from my childhood, we recently bumped into each other after not seeing each other for at least 6 years and decided to go down the pub (as friends). We got on incredibly well and decided t...

I want to focus on the now and on the future. But how do you forgive and forget someone who lied to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - How do you forgive and forget someone who lied to you? My boyfriend lied to me during the first 1.5 years of our relationship. I knew he kept in touch with his ex and I was fine with it, thinking they were platonic friends. But I didn't realize h...

Whirlwind love ? Have we only bonded due to our circumstances? Her ex still constantly sends her texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - Ok so let me start from the beginning. About four months ago I separated from a 10 year marriage where it was not a good place and my ex was not a nice person to be around. Then about a month later I started with online dating apps and met a f...

Stuck in a cycle and unable to initiate the conversation ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

13 November 2016 (M) - I am 55, my partner is 64. We have been together 11 years. We got together immediately after I left my previous relationship, we were friends before I left my relationship, which went wrong for many reasons. She initiated the relationship, and at ...

I accidentally sent his ex a friend request and she accepted. I don't want to be friends

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

11 November 2016 (F) - Here's my issue, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs, rocky sometimes, I found out he has been having chats with his ex, the problem now is I was on face book and came across her page I was curious to find out what she looked like but apparently ...

How do I tell her I'll be there if she wants to be more than friends

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

11 November 2016 (M) - Hi all, I'll try to keep it as short as I can but, this might get quite lengthy. So, sorry about that. Let me preface this by telling you that my first serious relationship ended about a year and a half ago (it was my fault), though we still c...

I still have hope of getting him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

10 November 2016 (F) - So I was dumped by my ex 4 weeks ago now. We were in a great relationship for a year and knew each other for 3 years before that. The last 3 weeks of our relationship wasn't good (my insecurity and trust issues) which I am getting help with. There ...

My ex boyfriend hates me for no reason

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - Hi My ex boyfriend hates me for no reason. He changed into a very nasty horrible person after he admitted he was taking tablets I think for depression. Sex went out the window as well I thought he was cheating but he said it was medication. I was al...

I'm feeling guilty, I ran into my ex and feel like we sort of had a date. Do I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

5 November 2016 (M) - Greetings I know this is going to be a long post but please bare with me, something really weird happened to me very recently and i could really use your insight. Me and a couple of guy friends went out for a friday night but since i dont drink i ...

Should I accept that my ex is going off for 3 days with her ex and their daughter or say something about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

5 November 2016 (M) - have been dating and being in a serious relationship with a woman since 2010 and she has just told me that during the Christmas she will be going on holiday to a cabine for 3 daysa with her ex husband and their 15 years daughter who lives with her ...

Should I be worried he speak to his ex'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

4 November 2016 (F) - I'm 30 and my be is 48 we have been together 18 months. Everything is magical. However he still speaks to ibis ex wife. They were together over 20 years have no kids but they talk on the phone text etc. He says he doesn't have feelings and she is ...

Ex has started dating an 18 year old guy! How do I deal with this shocking news?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

4 November 2016 (F) - My ex boyfriend (3 year relationship, broke up with me 6 weeks ago due to him feeling neglected due to my depression and OCD) told me this week that he is now in a relationship with an 18 year old boy... My ex and I are both 27....... One week ...

I don't want to be her puppy! How do I deal with her ego?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

4 November 2016 (M) - My ex has an ego and wont talk to me. I said some hurtful things after she cornered me like a wounded animal. I shouldnt have said such targetted hurtful things but she was relentless at my weakest point (i am usually the rock for everyone) and i ...

Married for 15 years, wife confessed to cheating on me early on. I'm mad at her but also very sexually excited by the dirty details! What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

3 November 2016 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 15 years and we have 2 young boys. We are happily married and are of Indian origin but we were both born in the UK where we have both lived all our life. The first 2-4 years of our marriage was blighted by my wi...

Have a child with my unhelpful ex, my parents are supporting me and I'm pregnant again by the same guy! How do I tell my parents?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - When I was 17 I got pregnant and had my son, shortly after he was born my bf and I broke up. He isn't s bad guy we were both just young. My parents blamed him for me pregnancy because he was older they put more blame on him (he was 29 when I got ...

How do I stay optimistic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - It is coming up on two years since my heart was broken. In that time, I've gone on... Maybe 30 dates? I am actively using dating sites, trying to meet people in person, trying to improve myself... In short, I think I'm doing everything right...

I heard talk that my FWB beat up his ex girlfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

2 November 2016 (F) - Is past abuse a deal breaker or red flag for sex buddies? I left my boyfriend because he beat me up. I do still love him and been trying to deny the really tight tramua bond I have with him. And now I guess I have a new sex buddy.He has been hel...

How do I stop being obsessive about my boyfriend's ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

1 November 2016 (F) - I hope I don't get judged too harshly for this question because it's extremely shallow and I have been through a lot worse before. But I'm struggling with extreme jealousy that I can't stop feeling. I currently work in a weird kind of job wher...