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I've just split with my girl but I want to meet someone new straight away. Is this right?

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Question - (27 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *oso32908 writes:

I just broke up with my girlfriend. In this relationship I really didn't think I was treated well. She didn't pay much attention to me and couldn't show me ANY affection. After going out for two months she couldn't kiss me. I want to know, is it odd for me to immediately want some one else. I want to start looking for some one right now. I want affection, I know that that is part of it. I want to have a strong bond with some one. I want a girlfriend now.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (27 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntWhen one door is closed , another will open .

I hope that you will find a better one when you go through that door.

There will be someone waiting inside who will have the same desires and aspirations as you.

Good Luck to you .

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2008):

hlskitten agony auntHi

Wanting a relationship because you are craving affection, isnt a good basis to start one really.

I know where you're coming from, but until you can be happy on your own, its not a good way to start a relationship. You would tend to be in it for all the wrong reasons.

Chill a bit and be cool. It will happen eventually, and happen because you are compatible with someone, not just craving affection. whats the rush?

C xxxxx

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A female reader, Lucy2118 United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2008):

Lucy2118 agony auntI think the affection craving having at the moment, is because you didn't have anything like that in your past relationship. She may have been nervous of doing something wrong like not kissing you well enough. I think it's fine that your looking for someone new but make sure you don't take them for granted due to your lack of affection, meaning make sure you like her first.

Hope this helps.

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