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writes:I just broke up with my girlfriend. In this relationship I really didn't think I was treated well. She didn't pay much attention to me and couldn't show me ANY affection. After going out for two months she couldn't kiss me. I want to know, is it odd for me to immediately want some one else. I want to start looking for some one right now. I want affection, I know that that is part of it. I want to have a strong bond with some one. I want a girlfriend now.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 When one door is closed , another will open .
I hope that you will find a better one when you go through that door.
There will be someone waiting inside who will have the same desires and aspirations as you.
Good Luck to you .
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reader, hlskitten  + ♥, writes (27 February 2008):
 Hi
Wanting a relationship because you are craving affection, isnt a good basis to start one really.
I know where you're coming from, but until you can be happy on your own, its not a good way to start a relationship. You would tend to be in it for all the wrong reasons.
Chill a bit and be cool. It will happen eventually, and happen because you are compatible with someone, not just craving affection. whats the rush?
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reader, Lucy2118 +, writes (27 February 2008):
 I think the affection craving having at the moment, is because you didn't have anything like that in your past relationship. She may have been nervous of doing something wrong like not kissing you well enough. I think it's fine that your looking for someone new but make sure you don't take them for granted due to your lack of affection, meaning make sure you like her first.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (27 February 2008):
 It's natural for you to want to move on and in this case it's probably down to needing reassurance. When we are not treated as expected, there's always a little bit of self doubt which we hope will be cleared by someone who will love us the way we need them to.
Be aware, though, that true affection comes from knowing each other over time! Although people are often willing to get physical quite soon and can be ready to profess undying love, it's usually down to the human need of companionship. Some people do need to feel affection before even kissing and, depending on how much time you spend together, it might take them longer than two months!
Remember the value of friendship too.
God bless and good luck!
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