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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Why do you think he behaves this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hello - Why do you think he behaves this way ? We dated for several months but ended last september. We never lost contact but definitely was less frequent. Anyway he always crossed the friendship line with those "I would like to be with you" com...

New boyfriend and his ex-issues, should he keep talking to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 6 months. He was on again off again with his ex and finally ended it for good in march. They were still in contact every day and she lives close. She doesn't like me at all and has been trying to get him ...

My ex girlfriend has left me for another guy but I still love her, is there any chance of winning her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hi there all. This is my first major break up, my girlfriend of 3 years recently went to university, i was seeing her every weekend, in till during the week she broke up with me and got with another guy. The way she did it was so awful, i d...

Why am I hurting so much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I was in a relationship for about a year with a guy that i believed in my heart was the one. we got together and things were good for a few months then i started to feel like he was scolding me like a child, when he would hurt my feelings by ...

How do you stop thinking about what your ex is up to, and eradicate resentful feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a few months ago, and I'm moving on and stuff. We are not in contact and I've accepted that and I'm just moving on with my life. One problem is that now and again I have thoughts which crop up and bother me: I ...

Why haven't I met her yet? I'm almost 31 and tired of waiting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Well, I havent dated for a year now since I broke up with my gf. She wasnt the one for me.She even called me mental.I just need a gf thats understanding and doesnt talk so much.I'm just wondering if I'll ever find because I dont know any friends to ...

Is it fair to request that he deletes his ex-girlfriend's phone number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My fiancee has an ex that he shares a long history with. They were off and on for years and he cheated on one of his girlfriends twice with her as well. It was about 5 years ago, and the girl he cheated on was crazy and he wasn't in love with her. ...

Why doesn't my new partner want to see my ex wife's child when I raised him as my own for 8 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - i am wondering if any one can explain why my new partner doesnt want me to see my ex wifes child even though i bought him up for 8 years since was one and he is my sons half brother ? confused...

Is he using me or her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - my ex and i are split up for about 7 month now. He go a new girlfriend that stays with him. But call me in the night, wanting me to go to his place when she is not there, we still sleep together is he using me or her? I still love him what do i do? ...

Feelings or no feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Me and my ex split up over 2 months ago due to some BS. I love this guy so much and would do anything to have him back, but i told my self to just let him go if he comes back its ment to be. Well i was doing so good not contacting him or anything. ...

The new guy seems perfect but I can't let go of my ex?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I was previously married a while ago, the marriage didn't last, and we split up when I was 25. I had a very flirtatious relationship with another guy, and we ended up getting together right after my split, but then he decided to give his ex one last ...

I don't know how to feel about him still talking to his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So this boy I have been talking to for two months now, I just found out he is still talking to one of his ex's. When we first started talking, we were, "together" but he broke up with me when he found out I cheated on him. So we actually stopped ...

Did I do something, or was it her who changed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

29 November 2010 (?) - I need some serious help! My gf of 3 years broke up about 4 months ago. The problem is that I just can't get over on how she treated me in our relationship. The first 2 years were fine, but the last year that we moved in together was com...

I had sex with my ex and I regret it so much!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I had sex with my ex bf 3 days ago and i felt extremely guilty for myself.I don't know what the hell am i doing after i left his house. Here is the story : Me and my ex went for a movie after 4 months of break up. He hug me,kiss me in the cinema...

How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year and I have broken up. We have a make up to break up kind of relationship. We fight and argue a lot which always end up with a breakup and then we get back together in a day or less. We weren't like this all the time and I ...

Should I get my ex a Christmas and a birthday gift?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - I was just wanting an opinion about getting an ex girlfriend a present for her birthday and gift for Christmas (her b-day is early in the month and then I was just thinking getting her something small for Christmas). She has a boyfriend and I ...

My ex has asked me to be his girlfriend again but I don't want to because of his family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - This is probably going to be long so sorry :) Well I was friends with my ex before we started dating. He used to skate alot, so I'd hang with his friends and see him skate and just generally hang out. We'd chat on cam on msn and he'd tell me about...

Will my ex come back to me in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Here's my situation, about three months ago, after my last visit to my girlfriend, we were having problems. She would say to me that she was "confused" and not sure if this was the direction that she wanted to take in life, which basically meant ...

Should I apologise to my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So my ex kept booty-calling me, and I finally stopped that. I told him to leave me alone but before I was able to achieve full closure, I decided to tell this girl he was seeing, that he wanted to keep me there as his second option. Now, they're ...

How do you respond to an ex's message?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year about 4 months ago. It didn't go very well. Since it was my first, I didn't take it very well and said some things I regretted. In the end I sent him an apology and left it at that. We haven't spoken ...

Good or bad idea to get ex girlfriend a present?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Getting an ex girlfriend a christmas present, is that a good thing or is it a bad thing? I was just curious about other peoples opinion. ...

She tells me I'm too good for her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - This girl that I met and have seen off and on for about the last 3 years says I'm too good for her. I'll try to give the shortest posstible version of this story. It started off when this girl and I met, hung out for about 3 months and reall...

Can anyone shed some light on why people behave like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - What would you do if you were the victim of an emotionally abuse relationship and out of the blue your exgf sent you a breakup email blaming you for the breakup based on behaviors that were exhibited by her and never you? Then nearly a year later ...

Psycho Ex Girlfriend who won't stop messing with me, even tho the breakup was her idea.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I first met my girlfriend in high school at a party and then we didn't talk until this year when she wished me a happy birthday via Facebook. We started hanging out more often after I got her a job at my work, which made work so much fun! We got to ...

If she really wants to be with me then why does she have to hide things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I were broken up over the weekend so we went 2 IHOP to talk about it. Everything was good but she kept txtn on her phone, I asked to see it and she said it was her ex-boyfriend. She said I could read the messages but she had to ...

Shouldn't I be getting over him by now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I was going out with my ex for two and a half years and for the last year it was nothing but terrible arguments that we just couldnt resolve no matter what we tried, so we decided to break up. Its been two and a half months since the break up and ...

Is he trying to show me he's not spooked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - So here I am..on a website asking kind strangers for advice :) I apologize for the length. Even if no one responds, I'll at least be able to see my thoughts in writing. We were smitten with each other right away. After about 3 weeks of constan...

Am I or we (me and my ex) still in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I never dated after my divorce until 2 years later I met this woman who was out of her divorce for a bout a year. We clicked instantaneously. The chemistry between us was unlike anything either of us had encountered in the past. The main ...

If he wants to spend holidays with them, don't expect me to tag along!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating "josh" for a year now. We get along really well, have a loving relationship, and it is very obvious that we both care about each other very much. There is one problem, he is friends with a group of people that i don't get alon...

My ex boyfriend disappeared on me, and I can't get over it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I'm still heart broken, after 4 months. I was seeing my ex boyfriend for 1 year, even though it was a long distance relationship , he lived an hour and half away by train. I was very much in love with him. He last came to visit me for a week in ...

I know we're going to break up... I can feel it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I know were going to break up i can feel it. I don't know what to do, my heart feels like it's in tiny pieces. I feel hopless once again. I love her and this thing with her ex... I dont think she understands why it hurts me so much. I don't know ...

He cheated with his ex, and now we're both pregnant by him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - ok im 18 and ive been seeing this boy named ronnie for 7 months may11th to november 11th and i thought he was the one and him and his siter and her 4 kids live with his ex and i trust him so it wasent a big deal it woulod have been way better then ...

Am I just missing my ex or could something be going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Long story short, a few months back my BF left me for no reason (his reasons I guess) after that I refused to be his friend or even have comunication. Lately Ive been completly busy, I barely have time to think but yesterday was a good day. Last ...

Unable to reject my ex but I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey Ok I have this Boyfriend that i really like, I think about him constantly, i always dream about him and talk about him to all my friends, but the problem is I still have feelings for my ex and he still likes me even though he broke up with me,...

How can I be with her when she's carrying another man's child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - My ex and I were really close, together for 2 yrsa. Lived together...even have a beautiful baby together (1yr old). About 9 months ago we got into a huge fight and I never went back home....she said sorry (as usual) but this time I didn't want to go ...

How do I get over my babies' father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I was in a relationship with this man for 2 years. I was miserable practically the entire 2 years and tried everything I could to make it work. He lied too much, he would never discuss our problems with me, and he cheated on me (which he will never ...

He says he has bigger problems to deal with than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Me and my ex where together for about 3years During those 3years we lied to each other I was a very jealous person who did not let him do anything. We had breakups and eventually got back together. During that time we ended living together I was ...

Is this just him realizing he still loves his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - okay im here jus for advice. im 27 and my ex who broke up with me like 3 weeks ago is 28, he has a ex 31 yrs old whom he has 2 kids with and lives with her mom and has no job or education. but neways we just had a baby 7 weeks ago and living ...

Should I keep fighting, even though he's with another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - After almost a year of dating my ex broke up with me. His reasons were he did not love me anymore...keep in mind i want to marry this person so of course i was crushed. 3 weeks later he jumps in a realtionship with a little immature girl who is a...

What does my boyfriend's dream mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Okay my boyfriend woke up one day and called me and told me his dream, him and his ex arent exactly friends anymore due to her eager fighting ways and well she is suicidal at times, he woke up and told me he had a dream and I asked him to text me it ...

Giving her time to think about it, but she's not utilizing this time wisely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - So I'm going through a shit time at the moment. My ex girlfriend said she needs time to think about me and her getting back together. However, in that time of her thinking we have been talking and that, and she is in two minds and doesn't really h...

Do you think I got over him too fast? Do you think he was jealous about me going ot to the movies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me last thursday right before thiis really awesome foot ball game. At the game there were a lot of cute guys there but for some reason I couldn't get my mind off of him. I got over him on saturday and ended going to this ...

Married and in love with my ex-boyfriend who is always married

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I got married over two years ago and am still in love with my ex who is also married. My ex and I were together for over 3 years, I cheated on him one night after a lot of drinks. I went home and told him instantly since I felt so guilty and ...

Does ignoring her work to get her to miss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend are going through a time where she wants time to think about getting back together however she is so indecisive and cannot decide and everytime I bring it up she always finds problems with giving it another go even though she ...

Ex keeps up with me, does this mean he still cares?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Was with my ex for five years, he keeps in regular contact via IM. He ended the relationship. I then deleted him off my contacts as I was finding it too difficult. He always answers my calls and texts back when I contact him. When we bump into each ...

She dropped me like a hot potato!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - Well I was in a one year relationship with a woman who was 17 years older than me. she was tring hard to get in a serious relationship with me but I told her we can't have something because the age gap is big. It was a friend with benefit ...

I will lose my best friend if I let my ex back into my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I dated this guy on and off for about a year, and we were friends for like 4 years prior to that. He was pretty much my everything, and we knew each other better than almost anyone. We were inseparable. It was very rare for us to not be together. ...

I need to let go of my boyfriend for good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I have dated my boyfriend for about 3 years now. He is my first for EVERYTHING (first guy to ask me out, i lost my virginity to him, everything). We have our ups and downs His idea of a relationship is I do what I do he does what he does and we meet ...

It's pretty much obvious to everyone he doesn't want anything to do with her, except her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now, and we've of course had our rough patches, but mainly caused by some girl who used to be his best friend and ex, but eventually my boyfriend saw that she was wrecking our relation...

Am I being a bad boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

26 November 2010 (M) - So I have this question people. Last night me and my "temporary" ex (temporary because she asked for a temporary break up). Now anyways, we were texting and I asked her why she broke up with me. She told me because I lied to her, and the poi...