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Teenage: Help and advice

I think my mum is just trying to scare me to put me off having sex too soon.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - hey, I'm 16 and thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. I'm on the pill and we're going to use a condom. The thing is my mum has made me really paranoid about having sex. We had a talk the other day about Sex and she said knowing my family's ...

How do you know if your cherry has popped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I am a virgin and I had to wear tampons for swimming. I also have been fingered a couple of times. I don't know if my cherry popped or not. How do I know?...

I think he loves his video games more than he does me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now, we get along wonderfully with one exception, I think he loves his video games more than me. He always wants to stay in and play. Sometimes I get to play with him but I'm not very good. He takes me ...

I just want him back soo much and just need some help on how to do this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend has just slpit up with me of 3 years for someone else. We were engaged as well, now he has a new girlfirend, he said he just wants to stay friends and he does not have feelings for me no more. I just want him back soo much and just ...

He's moving too fast for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I've been dating this lad for a few week but we haven't met yet. I know it probably seems stupid but I've seen him in person before but didn't really talk to him properly and now he keeps asking to meet me and I just want him to lay off for a bit. I...

How do you make guys like/approach you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I've tried it all. They ask for my number but never call. They look but never approach. Am I not attractive or is it just because I'm not from around here? help..... I dont know what to do....

Strange headaches

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Since I was young I've been having these terrible headaches which sometimes lead on to migranes, I've tried glassess twice, been to the doctors etc, even been in hospital at one stage they were so bad. They stopped for a while but the headache...

I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I ...

Help! valentines day... long distance girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I've got a girlfriend [please I don't need any lecturing about how having a gf is wrong because I'm a female too], that's not the problem. Well she lives in new york, while I live about 400 miles away from her. Since it's going to be valentines ...

People keep telling me that he likes me... what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My friend's cousin is kind of my best friend now. People keep telling me that he likes me and I'm sure he does but I definitely don't want to tell him because I'm afraid he'll deny it or say no. Then I would give him the hint that I like him. I ...

Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Random question: Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?...

We are different religions... can it ever work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is amazing, sweet, perfect and almost everyting a girl can ask for but I know that my parents won't approve as he does not follow the same religion as me. He's told his parents and we're really close but I know my parent's will be angry ...

Do you think he could truly be my soultmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love and I mean in love, I'm only 15 but I am honestly head over heels in love with I boy I have never met before I know it sounds so sad and pathetic but he means everything to me he is 19 and like I said I am only 15, we were waiting until ...

Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum? I have a few guy friends that say they like it around but not in. I have another male friend that says to help my boyfriend out with the whole anal thing but I feel ...

How can I stop worrying so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years old and have a lot of worries at the moment, to list a few: *my dad was made redundant just before xmas, he's trying so hard to get a job but can't, our family arent very wealthy anyway and although my parents always try and stay hap...

Should I tell my boyfriend I'm in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I think I am in love with my boyfriend. I love everything about him, he has his flaws as any person does but he wouldn't be the same without them. I know it's not lust because it isn't just physical attraction... what drew me to him was his ...

Why don't I want to have sex any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year. At first I wanted to have sex all the time and loved it. Now I don't feel like doing it that much and she thinks that I don't lover her. I do. What's with my decreased sex drive. ...

Is there hope for this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I've been sick for the past two days, and thus, have had a lot of time to think about my relationship with my boyfriend. We're been living together for half a year now, and he's starting to get to me: - he's childish. IE: he's 21 and still ...

Sensual massage oils...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I want to surprise my boyfriend on valentine's day with some sensual massage oil and was wondering if anyone had any recommendations? We have used some standard Body Shop and Boots stuff before but I want to splash out a little but am not sure which ...

Help me with my low self esteem.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - When I look at myself in a mirror I always think of myself as ugly and my boyfriend tells me that I'm cute. I want to know what other peoples opinions are to clear things up so please help....

I was wondering is there a chance there could have been sperm on his penis from the first round?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were having sex today, we used contraception and I'm going on the pill when my next period is due but anyway we were having sex and he came and everything that was round one. Round two we were having sex and the condom ripped ...

Please help my ex-teacher situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm not used to this, but I shall try my hardest There was this teacher that I had two years ago but things got a bit sticky as he got investigated because of his behaviour towards me and things. I haven't had him as a teacher since january 2...

How can I propose to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - It's a little bit big qstion, I dont know how you'll react but I need some real guiadance, I am 19, and the girl I love is 15, she is my first cousin, please don't choke. I am in love with her for 3 years, but never told her. She is my first love, ...

So what does love and lust feel like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - I'm 14 and I don't know what love feels like. I've felt very attracted to other guys but when I've asked questions like this people tell me it's just lust and need. So what does love and lust feel like and don't go telling me I'm too young to know ...

Dating advice please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I've recently started talking to a guy and of course feelings developed for both of us. He has had me if I'd like to go for a meal with him next friday and then stay round his for the night. So of course, I was over the moon. My problem is, I've...

What are the laws on student-teacher relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - hey :) I just popped on here to ask a simple and maybe somewhat controversial question but I shall discuss it whatever :) If you are 18 and want to pursue things with a teacher what EXACTLY are the laws on this? I understand people will tell me...

My mum is so overprotective of me because of all these feelings I'm having...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old, and am really protected by my parents. As I am 14 I feel as I am growing up as a person and feel that I could handle teenage stuff like getting a boyfriend. I currently have got feelings for this boy but as hard as I try to ignore ...

Is there a mind trick to figure out whether girls like you or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Hi everyone i just found this site. Well im 14 and i have not had a proper relationship yet. Everyone seems to be with each other (Ironicly my mates arnt either lol) but i have known this girl since we started school and we have become really good ...

Aphrodisiacs for hot sex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Hey does anyone have and recipes that my lover and I can try to make us hot in the bed... like aphrodisiacs or something? We would love to know!...

He's coming back here again to visit and I'm all confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 January 2009 (?) - Well, there is this family friend of mine who stays in some other country. We met like after a really long time and we liked each other, a lot. He spent a lot of time here but was busy with relatives so we hardly got to meet but we talked a lot on ...

Is boarding school going to be a form of bladder torture for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - I'm writing to inform you of a severe medical health issue which is currently provoking/upsetting my bladder. In the past, I've always been regarded as the owner of a strong bladder - and been able to hold my urine (often in large quantities due to ...

My GF's parents think I'm too old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - I'm 20 and my girlfriend has just turned 16, when she was 15 she told me that her parents were strict and wouldn't approve of the relationship, she's now 16 and they found out about us even though we didn't want them to know yet. They've made her...

Sex games?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - First I'm gay and I don't want any annoying advice on it, I get enough of it already. I'm meeting and going camping with him soon and he wants to play some sex games and I want to look like I know what I'm doing (even though I don't 0_0) any advice ...

Affiliations...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Please I'd like to know if a girl says to her lover "whenever I think of you my affiliations is ending" please help me explain the meaning of this to me thanks....

How on earth am I going to make it to April? How do I keep this going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Needing a bit of advice. Sorry for the length but it's a long story. Just before Christmas, I ended up back in touch with my high school boyfriend after 3 years of not really keeping in touch. We lost contact when a mutual best friend killed ...

The ex that doesn't want to go away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about six months now, we get on amazingly and are very happy together. however, his ex girlfriend is clearly still not over him, they broke up over a year ago but i can see she still loves him. when she first...

He's more like a little kid than my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm really confused. My boyfriend never seems to say the right thing with me. Whenever were doing sexual things etc. He always says the wrong thing and ends up putting me off. Then he never really seems interested in me. Like, I want to have sex...

Is it realistic to think we could stay in love and get married eventually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Is it possible to love someone since a teenager until marriage? Well that's how I feel, I really love her and she really loves me but I'm afraid there will be something bad happen on our way in the future and the thing is how do I go through if ...

3 questions about sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hey, My boyfriend and I lost our virginity about 3 months ago and have sex every day. Before I lost my virginity my boyfriend would finger me. Since I've been having sex my vagina has become somewhat looser (to the point where my bf can fit 4 fin...

He says he's a virgin, but I don't think I believe him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend now for almost six months, and he claims to still be a virgin. I don't know whether I can fully believe him or not because he has told me in the past that he has had sex before, but then one day he tells me that was...

He went out with my b/f and it still hurts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend went out with my best friend after we had broken up for like a week and i only found out two months later. I always thought there was something between them because during our relationship we had so many trust issues and problems ...

Anyone know what these pains might be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - hey, i know this probably isnt the right place to be asking this question but im just curious. im on the injection, have been on it for like a year now. but just recetly ive been getting pains which feel like period pains. im not due to go and get ...

I found something unusual inside me, anyone know what it is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - i know this isnt the right sight to be asking this question but i didnt no were to go. this morning i was masturbating and i felt a small sqishy ball in my vagina, rilled it out and it was just like a small lump of jelly but was a very very dark ...

Tips on dirty sex games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I will be going to be meeting my online girlfriend, that i have been talking to online and on the phone, for the first this summer. We were going to camp in a cave by a creek of mine.She says that we will have lez sex for the whole week we will be ...

Am I a bad girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - hey, this is gunna be long but i really need the help. see back in 8th grade i dated this guy for a year it was a on-off relationship and then in 9th we had a dance and he didnt go to our school so he couldnt come and 2 of my friends got jealous i ...

Whirlwind of confusion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - hello. i've recently been caught up in this 'whirlwind of confusion' with a guy i once used to talk to. well, when we were talking, it was for a couple of months. things were going pretty well - i was happy, he was happy, and we began to like each ...

Best friend troubles...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Ok, I am like 14 years old right, I have a new boyfriend we have been together for a few days now. The day after he asked me out I told my friend (which is a guy) that I had a new bf and he started crying and doesn't want to talk to me any more. I ...

Sometimes he says he wants something serious, then the next day it's completely different.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Ok, I recently met this great guy a few weeks ago, we hung out a few days together and talked almost each day. Now, he recently changed schools for a semester but is coming back once the term is over. Even though he's away, we still keep in touch ...

Does this mean that he actually likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a crush on a boy who has a girlfriend. I also just found out that he has a half-sister that I have for all my classes. She told me today and she also knows that I like him. Since she told me this she calls me suegra. He also knows by a ...

How will I know if I'm having real labor pains?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - how will i know if i am having true labour pains instead of braxton hicks contractions??...

Will being sick with a fever and strep throat hurt my baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Will being sick with a fever and strep throat harm my baby? i am about 7 months pregnant.?? what can i take to feel better faster?...

Am I freaking myself out, or is pregnancy a possibility?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Alright, so i was on birth control pills for a year, and towards the end totally lost track and screwed up, i stopped taking them for about a month and a half. my period lasted extremely long, [almost 2 weeks!] and 3 days later my boyfriend and i ...

Help me to not have sex with this guy who just wants to get in my pants!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - So i really need advice because i dont kno if i should lose my virginity right now to this guy..he gets his license in 4 days. only 4 DAYS! and thats how much time i have left to decide because that is when he gets his license. and when he does, he ...

Is having a blue eye and a green eye weird?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - what physical characteristics do girls find very attractive? is having a blue eye and a green eye weird?...

B/f thinks we're too young to french kiss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Okay.... So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a while. Four months. And we are both very much in love! But I've never French kissed and I think I'm ready to. But when I brought up the topic he said it had something to do with a promis...

I want to have a good conversation but don't know how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - today at school i kinda played around and talked to the boy i like.Realy, i want to have a good conversation with him but i dont know how. i want to ask him who he realy feels about me.How do I talk to him?...

Should I trust him after being a jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - okay, so this guy used to be so mean to me and acted like a jerk, now my friend says that he can't stop thinking about me! i used to have a crush on him. he talked to me on the phone and said "dude i seriously can't stop thinking about you!" and it ...

Why do teenage girls always go after hot guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - why do teenage girls never even give not so hot guys a chance? why do they feel awkward around ugly guys?...

Daughter's friend raped by her grandfather

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - My daughter aged 17 has just told me how her close friendship with another girl gradually ended. The two former friends are in separate 6th forms, my daughter in a college, her former friend in the local sixth form attached to the local high school, ...

Why do girls have to give soo much mixed signals?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Why do girls have to give soo much mixed signals? There's this girl I really like, and we're really close friends... so I've never asked her out because I didn't want the friendship to be ruined and she has a boyfriend.. but lately she's been ...

The best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - ... okay so there is this senior.. that i'm really good friends, we can talk about everything and anything.. i never felt more comfortable with a guy... but he takes me like his little sister and he has a girlfriend... i just realized that i think ...

Is my boyfriend bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so last night by boyfriend was not sober and I went to his house this morning. I went into his bathroom and I saw a dildo on his shower, I didn't want to say anything about it cause I didn't want to embarrass him. I walked out of the bathroom ...

Is it normal to get attracted towards really old people? (30's-50s) I'm only 13!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hey I don't know if it's a normal teenage thing just like my friends say that our hormones are going mad? is this true? I dunnno why but I find old people more attractive.... Like somewhere in their mid 30's-50s I know it sounds wrong and gross (I ...

Do you think he might actually like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm usually into the more popular guys, and they all turn out to be huge jerks that only care about themselves,but now i like this one boy, hes a smart guy, , he is so cute and i really like him. He is friends with one of my best friends, and ive ...

How can I stop suffering from nerves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, this might sound stupid, but basically this is a question about nerves. I've always had this problem where if I have to do something, for example speak out in front of people, or have an interview, I become physically nervous. My body ...