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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Should I break up because of a sparkless kiss?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I haven't kissed my boyfriend because I'm nervous. I won't feel the sparks like eveyone says, I really like him honestly I don't want to wreck it with a kiss and I don't want him to end it because I'm a bad kisser. I never kissed anyone so how do I ...

How to bag him for myself???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - If I really like someone and that guy, I'm really close to but he doesn't want to be in a relationship now... what shall I do to get his heart because it is really hard for me to forget about him. He is exactly my type of guy and I really adore him ...

Why is he so tough and unreasonable all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I took the situation the wrong way and was hurt and angry. When understanding what really happened I realized I was wrong and apologized. He told me I was being disrespectful to him to not even say goodbye. Now he is angry and said he needs time. ...

Comingout question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - hello. i am a male, 18, and have recently decided that the time has come to tell my family that i am gay, but i have no idea how i should tell them and am worried that i will just run off when i am about to. also, should the truth have come out earl...

Why is he such a playboy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I know this guy (22), you could call us friends I guess. We we drunk and ended up kissing one night. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. I found out the very next night he tried to do something with a random girl! And we went to a party ...

He's having sex with someone else, but he finds no problem telling me about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I been going through some shit lately. He's having sex with someone else, but he finds no problem telling me about it. He tells me it's only because of the kids he loves me, so it's best if we keep just a friendly relationship. ...

Sickness Phobia

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old and I have a fear of other people being sick, I've had it as long as I can remember. When I was younger I was scared of being sick too but I've kind of grown out of that, I don't like being sick but I am not terrified of it half as ...

He's so hot he could get any girl he wants. Is he interested in me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - How would I know if he likes me! I'm in matrick, almost 18, he is 25 and my youth leader. He is so nice, but he is nice to everybody, he is supposed to be. I like talking to him, he makes me smile and laugh. At church he he always says hello and ...

How can I start talking to her without looking like an idiot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hey anyone and everyone :P Basically my situation here is that there is a girl on my bus to college in the mornings who I really can't stop thinking about but we have never said a word to each other and I'm not the most confident of people, rathe...

Is this really a size zero diet?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (?) - If I do a 2-4-6 diet, for example, one day fast, the next day eat 200 cals, the next day 400 cals, the next 600 cals, and then the next fast again, and go round in this cycle would it be possible to get to size zero? With only doing small exersise, ...

Do you think dating other girls can make her jealous or do you think my hope is lost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for about a year, pretty much all throughout our senior year of high school. we took things very slow and over the course of the rest of the school year and into summer we fell in love. We were each other's best friend and told ...

I have probably took my virginity away by masturbating and I'm scared!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - my mom thinks i'm a virgin.but i really don't know either.Because i have been masterbating and probaly unvirgined myself.what should i do?tell my mom or get checked but my mom has to come with me?if she finds out that i'm not she is going to kill ...

I like him but I get the sense he can't be bothered. Do I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I've started talking to a guy lately, we have known each other for three years through friends but we have never really talked properly. He texted me a lot for a few days but then started to lose interest, I texted him but I could tell he couldn't...

How can I last longer? It's driving me insane!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - There is a huge problem. For the past couple of weeks, every time my girlfriend and I have sex, I don't last... at all. I last maybe a couple minutes, and then bam. This never used to happen up until pretty recently, and I feel like there's nothing ...

I text this guy when I am drunk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - help me! i cant help but text this guy when im drunk (not saying anything bad tho) sometimes he texts me back..and we talk.. i texted him last night..saying something unnecessary ..something i didnt need to say hasnt texted back going to se...

When is the time to know if I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Hi!!! I have been very thoughtful these days, llike 2 weeks ago my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and he came inside me, so I have been thinking, when is it time to know if I'm pregnant, and what to do if I am?...

Myex made me think his feelings for me were rekindled but he likes someone else, how do I get over him?

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28 February 2009 (F) - Hi, well this may be long so bear with me please. well basically me and my boyfriend split up last year around october time and it was the worst point in my life as he was my everything, and well he broke up with me over txt!, after kissing me whils...

I have feelings for my ex but also for another girl, who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - there is this girl that i like and she likes me back and now we are getting really close to each other, now the thing is i just have broken up with my girl for about a month and a half now, well now she is coming back to me and even said that she ...

My ex does not allow me to get involved as much as I would like as her pregnancy is developing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hi, my ex gf is now 21weeks along and we have been on and off for the past month, most of the time we get along but other times we argue like crazy just over baby things, she knows i want to be apart of this babys life full heartedly and would do ...

I'm ready for sex but I don't like my body!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - hello (Im 14 and im still at school ) i have liked this boy for about 2 years now i told him last wednesday and he was like oh ok me and him had a fight on thursday he said sorry on friday and he gave me a long hug at break then he gave me a...

I'm unsure about whether I should give the relationship another try if we live closer to each other in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who lives many miles away from me for 8 months. We recently broke up after I found out that the entire relationship was almost all lies. He has cheated on me twice, lied about his sexual past, and ...

I need to get over him but something keeps pulling me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - okay this is kinda long but I'm just desperate for answers. okay there's this guy that I liked since last May and before I started liking him, he would always stare at me, whenever I would pass by him, he wouldn't look at me until I turn around to ...

More romantic & less painful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Im still 14 and my boyfriend is still 16. He has been hinting that he wants to finger me. As we are making out, he slides his hands dow my body to my waist and on my thighs. Recently, he has made his way down to my vagina, but with my clothes on. He ...

I fight alot with my b/f and now I've been out with another guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - okay so,im 16,my boyfriend is 18 we have been together for almost a year now. he broke up with me after a month of beging together,and we got back together a week after. a few months after that, i broke up with him for another guy..(huge mistake!) ...

Why do I have a problem with the fact she's not a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hi. My girlfriend's 17, and we get along really well. We've only been dating for about a month, and everything's happy fields of candy dandilions, etc. A small sticking point for me though, is the fact that she's not a virgin. I don't know why this ...

What does she mean by "She doesn't deserve me?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - okay girl this question is mostly for you but guys feel free to answer too. okay well my gf(ex now) broke up for many reasons but one i didnt quite understand is she said she doesnt deserve me. or she thinks she doesnt deserve me i forgot which one ...

Questions about masturbation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hi. I've heard that women can tell if you mastrabate. Is that true? Also, (women) what do you think about guys who do it? I know it's natural and stuff, but really... Thanks...

I lied to my BF and told him I'm not a virgin - should I tell him the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend. I really truly love him but I lied to him about not being a virgin and he believes me. Should I tell him that I am or should it remain a secret ?...

Does this mean you never loved me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - rite!this is a question for the guys neh! if i dump u and u didnt seem t0 care,u dont b0ther calling,when u see me u juts pas me by,u dont beg 4 forgiveness in fact u seem prity okay bwt the brake up of a two year relationship but u know that i ...

I know I should wait to have a baby, but it's soo hard!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I'm gonna be 18 soon and like a lot of other girls my age I really want a baby....I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I know it doesn't sound like a long time but I know he's the one..we live together were together everyday and I ...

All we've done is kiss, but I want to go further... any advice would be great!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Ok well i am 14 years old and my bf is 16. we have been dating for 8 months. All we have done is kissing and making out. We want to go further. What is the best way to get in the mood. If he fingers me will it hurt? When we have sex will it hurt a ...

Is there any way to kinda like "help" make a girl like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I have a quick question. I am a freshman in high school and I've been kinda lonely since all of my friends have girlfriends and I wish I had someone to talk to and stuff like they do. The only problem is that it seems like no girls like me. I'll ...

I'm told "you're pretty"..but I've never been kissed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - well latley iv been thinking is it weird that i am a middle schooler 8th grade who still has not kissed a guy my 2 best friends have not, one has a boy friend id love one but im really awkward around boys when it comes to crushes and all that. i ...

I say I love you when I don't think I even mean it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I really dont understand myself ya know, ok this is complicated, sorry if its a bit scatty and a bit of a jumble but yeah, lol, ok basically whenever I get into a relationship, (i'm on my 3rd in 6 months) I don't know why but I really get this ...

Feeling terrible after having sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - i just had sex i feel terrible is this how this is soppose to feel and another thing thing is i didt use a codom should i tell my parents...

He picks on me alot...does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I'm in 8th grade and this guy always picks on me a lot. and he is the type of guy who plays sports and has lots of friends,and is always playing around with girls but hasn't kissed them. and i have 4 classes with him.(including lunch). And after ...

I like her but shes the best friend of one of my mates

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - There is this girl in my class who is really good looking, not quite the smartest but i still really like her and when we do hang out we get along. There are two problems with me liking her 1. i can't talk to her properly as i get embaressed and 2. ...

14 year old boyfriend fears

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - So im a 14 year old girl who is having major problems. I have never had a boyfriend or someone who likes me. I have a spinal problem, meaning im a lot shorter than everyone else my age and i have a problem with my speech. (I talk out of my nose. ...

Should I ask him or just leave it...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for around a year, he randomly added me one night on msn soo we got chatting and it turned out that he lived pretty close to me, in the same city/town. i never trusted people online, with all the stories you hear and stuff, but ...

Will it hurt or is it a right pain in the ass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months now. I'm 16 he's 17. And we've had sex before but now he wants to give it to me in my ass. Will it hurt? That's all I'm asking....

Why is it that I have to suffer like this? It hurts not feeling good enough for her. What's wrong with me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I never realized how much power a single girl can hold over me. I fell very hard for a girl back in 2004, and to date, I cannot get her out of my mind. She's everything a guy would want: absolute natural beauty, intellect, shy personality. What's ...

Should I ask him what was said?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Okay, So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two years. Somebody told him some things and won't tell me what they said.. I don't know what it could be, so I'm not that worried about it but he hasn't talked to me in three days, what should ...

Do girls feel anal is humiliating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Do girls feel anal sex is in some way humiliating??? My gf and i had anal for the first time last weekend, and in the middle of it she started to cry. Of course we stopped, but at that moment she couldn't explain why she cried. After thinking...

Why are my ex and his friends accusing me of these weird things?

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27 February 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years at the beginning of this year, as our relationship has not been good since I started university in October, and we had serious trust issues. Unfortunately things did not end that well between us and we ...

How can I erase him from my head when she keeps talking about him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I cant get this out of my head and i know i should. I used to go out with this guy dave. when we started talkin, i found out he just got out of a on and off 3 month relationship. I didnt really care since he was single, because whats the harm in ...

Should I snitch on my pot smoking friend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Okay, so I'm on the bus and my friend Dylan and my enemy Joe were talkin. So, my friend David something and he's like wow dude why'd you take that to school and I'm like you guys have weed or something sarcasticly and they just looked guilty I...

Why does a guy ignore the girl he likes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - when a teenage boy ignores the girl he likes(everyone is almost completely sure he likes her very much)and it's not the first he does it,could it mean he doesn't like her anymore?or it means he is confused or wants to move on?what reasosns could a ...

I'm confused because he hugs other girls as well, help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Theres a guy at school, who i knows likes me but i don't think i like him in that way, but there is a guy that i kinda like and i was talking to my friends about the guy that likes me and the guy that i like was there too and he's friends with the ...

My b/f of 3 years is losing his sex drive and I'm not getting my needs met! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - ok so i have a horrible problem. my bf of almost 3 years is loosing his sex drive and im not getting my needs met . when he is in the mood i take care of him and i dont get anything. im going crazy i know hes not cheating. his sex drive is just ...

I have a b/f but I miss the thrill of the chase that I could have with this new guy, any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Im happily in love with my boyfriend, and though we have our ups and downs, its great, only thing is, theres this guy.. and i dont like him, but he speaks to me on msn and lately hes been telling me he likes me .. he gave me his mobile number and im ...