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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

A 26-year old man is beginning to fall for me after his fight with an ex; how can I solve this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hey, I know this may sound weird, but i'll give it a shot: My best friend's boyfriend's brother is almost 26 years old. He recently found out that his girlfriend had an affair with his brother, and was freaking out. Since my bff, her bf and i always ...

He's so great that I'm coming across as over-enthusiastic

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - i was introduced to a this really nice guy who's a lot like me. he's like me as well in the way that he doesn't quite like overly peppy people or people who smile the whole time. unfortunately when we meet i can't help but smile because he seems far ...

How do I tell him I don't like how he's changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hey all, i have a huge problem: I've had a boyfriend for almost a year now. When we began to go out, he was really smart, funny, kind and fun to be around. That has since changed. He's starting to hang out with the wrong people, and i'm paying f...

Clothes make the woman!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I heard this one guy say something when i was walking down the street. he said ¨clothes make the woman.¨ What does that term mean?...

I know the guy is supposed to make the 1st move but I have no confidence!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - im 15-19 years old ive always had a confidence problem when it comes to girls and i dont really know why.. i have loads of good friends that are girls and its fine in terms of that but when i start to like a girl it all completely cahnges..and i d...

Best friend wrecked my relationship and I need help moving on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I dont know what to do. I was with this boy november 2009, i was in love with him. I couldn't stop myself, i kept falling more and more in love with him everyday. It took about a week to fall in love with him. Sounds fake, but its true! I'd tell my ...

I haven't had a boyfriend in such a long time and feel really depressed about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - i know i am only young and i shouldnt really be thinking about realionships at this point in my life but i havent had a bf in such a long time i feel like im ugly, fat and just no gd to anyone i know thats stupid to think about myself but i really ...

Shaving, losing my virginity and pain! Need advice on all!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hia, I'm 16, and i think that in august i will loose my virginity to this lad i am in love with. We're not going out because he lives about 2 hours away and we think it would be too hard to have a relationship cus of the distance, but we both want...

I don't know what to think! Please help me out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Now I have no idea whats going on! I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me. I think this because, 1: He still eats at our lunch table but then he goes outside, that wouldn't bother me at all, but he asked another girl to go outsi...

Talking my mom into leting me having a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - im 15 and home schooled , im a larger girl (as a little chubby) i keep thinking to my self i want someone in my life to love and hold me , but being out of school i cant really find a boyfriend , my mom dosent even want me to get a boyfriend till...

Should I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has recently finished with me, but today he told me that he has made a big mistake, he said that he still loves me with all of his heart and that he would do anything to go back to how it used to be. he asked me if i still loved him and ...

A question from my friend: Is he worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I'm very concerned for my friend right now. She had called me earlier today in tears. When I asked her what was wrong she only replied that she's so confused. Her boyfriend had broken up with her today, but he gave her the option of getting back ...

Is there a way to make my hair grow faster?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - I'm 13 and have no penis hair or under arm hair is there a way to grow my hair faster?? Plz help....

Does losing his number mean we are not together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend just started going out(he is my 1st boyfriendand im 14 years old and he is 17 years old).. my cousin hooked us up we spent time together (2 time only because he live in queens and i live in the bronxs) i havent talked 2 him eve...

In love with my teacher and not wanting these thoughts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - At the begining of my freshman year I saw the man of my dreams. He's my Spanish teacher, and he's 36. I'm only 16. I can't say this is love because I'm so young, but I've never felt anything like this before. I want to look at him all the time. I ...

I push him away yet he keeps coming back for more.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - hi. so there's this boy that i think likes me. i am of course one of the more 'agressive' girls at my school and wont take anything from anyone! so whenever he messes with my friends or me i will go up and punch him. :) and he doesnt really care, ...

How can I get rid of this alcohol-addicted boy before he hurts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Mod note: Op's own title I know one guy that i liked for a complete year. I attempted to talk to him by writing a note (i was younger and i realize that it was wrong.) he hated me because of some unfortunate blemishes, like short hair, braces, and ...

I like the wrong guy?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Okay, there are two potential boyfriends in my life: Guy A and Guy B. Guy A is totally perverted, kind of mean, but pretty good-looking. Guy B is really, really nice, smart, religious, outgoing, fun, and, on paper, my soul mate. The thing is, I like ...

I'm not sure if I am being played or he is just shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Okay, so there is a guy, and we have been friends for over half a year now, we talk online A LOT and in school. I catch him staring at me sometimes, trying to catch my attention and he often jumps into conversations I am having with other people. ...

Lusting is wrong... or is it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Yeah, im a 16 year old kid and having some issues with myself, mostly to do with lust. I know that lust is wrong. When i used to lust it made me want to masturbate. When i did, it felt normal. When i fell in love for the first time i stopped because ...

Is it okay to date my ex's friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and he has moved on with another girl already. The thing is i now have developed feelings for one of his Bestfriends. I have known him all my life and we have some history. I'm not trying to get back...

My comfort eating...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Well the thing is I'm 12 stone and in my early teens and I have really big issues with my weight! I have fake friends (basically 2 faced but to the extreme and one of them is my cousin) and they used to like me but I went depressed and they were ...

Weird fantasy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

29 April 2010 (?) - Hello, thanks for your time! I'm 18 and in a long distance (Leeds to London) relationship with a man who is 45, he travels down every other weekend, it's been over a year we've been together now... To spice things up some more we decided we'd admit ...

I'm leaving college in 2 weeks, how can I keep in touch with my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - So I'm leaving college in two weeks for study leave and exams, and hopefully, if I don't have to resit a year, I'll be leaving for good. I've liked one of my teachers for almost the entire two years I've been in college, and have reason to believe ...

What have peoples' experiences been with the implant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hello everyone. I've had the implant done a month ago and I know the doctor has told me the advantages and disadvantages, but i'd like t know from someone else's point of view what it acctually does t you. Thanks...

I really hope this doesn't mean I'm asexual

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - There's something strange going on in my brain O_o. I posted a question here about a month ago asking about sexuality and I said that even though I had always liked boys, I had lost interest in them and now liked girls, I wanted to know if my ...

Her actions suggest one thing, her words another?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - There is a girl in my college..and we are best friends she lets me hold hands and is really comfortable with it.. she just broke up 6 months ago.She says that I am better than her ex.. but when i ask her out she says dat she doesn't love me.. s...

I like this girl and need some tips for asking her out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I am 13 yearls old and well i like this girl and well im a litle over weight slightly not good looking... and one of her friends hate me. i tried asking her out today but i kind of got well really nervous and decided to kind of walk away, any tips i ...

Should I have my friend tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Ok so I like this guy alot! One of my best friends is friends with him so do I tell my friend I like him or not?...

My friend told me I have a "flatty batty" and now I feel totally insecure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I have some really close friends, but i always feel insecure about myself. I have small boobs compared to most of my friends, there all like b's-e's, and i feel really left out cos im an a. Also one of my close close friends, who is ALWAYS there for ...

Does he like me or is he craving sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, i have a dilemma that isn't putting my life on hold, but i'm still a little nervous. Lately i've noticed this cute-ish guy watching me; it's getting a little bizarre. He usually stares at me deviously, or attempts to touch me "uninte...

My teacher kissed me like I've never been kissed before

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

28 April 2010 (?) - HELPHELPHELPHELP!!! That is like the 3 time i write here about the sama teacher,, ! last time wrote that he kissed me and i think i kissed back (i had a black out for a moment, don't remember anyrhing for like 15 seconds!),and yeserday he came to ...

I sweat buckets, I can't make eye contact when I talk to older people!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I find it really hard to talk to people that I know are older than me. It's not like just not knowing what to say, its more than that. I get red, hot and sweat buckets. I can never make eye contact. It only ever really happnes with people I kn...

I get so attached to guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I get so attached to guys. If I have a drunken kiss, or even just a nice conversation or flirt with a guy, I immediatyly start liking them. I really hate it. For example, I met a really nice on Friday night, he was obviously interested in me, ...

How likely is it that the sperm live? And when do I test for pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Right so, I need some advice. First of all I want you to know that I'm actually 17 and still have a year left in school. Recently I had sex with one of my best guy friends who I have been in love with for about a year. He has told me not to tell a...

How do I let him know he can go for it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Ok, well, I'm 19 and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 weeks now. We have been friends for a couple years now and are both virgins. Everytime I see him I can't help but smile and I find him to be a complete turn on pretty much all the ...

Are his actions justified by my cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hi, so ive been seeing this guy for a few months now and about a month ago i cheated on him with my ex. i felt so bad afterwards and expected it to be over but he didnt leave me. hes 19 and im 16 btw. then.... last weekend i did it again. i ...

Should I tell anyone that I am starting to have feelings for other guys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Hey I'm going through puberty and I'm only starting though I'm starting to have feelings for...guys! I am seriously starting to freak out I started having feelings for girls but not anymore I don't feel turned on looking at boobs 0% ! I started to ...

He told me that I'm his world.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - This threw me off a bit last night. We were saying our goodbyes and after our goodnight kiss he told me that im his world. i know this should make me all giddy inside but honestly idk how to feel about it. what do guys means when they say this?...

My boyfriend wants to have sex, but I don't. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - well im 16 my boyfriend want to have sex whith me and i keep telling him am not ready and he keeps asking...

Me and my girlfriend are both 15 years old and we BOTH want to have sex. But how do we know if we're both ready?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I need help on a desicion. Me and my girlfriend are both 15 years old and we have been together for about 3 months. But we've known each other for a little less then a year. I asked her just recently if she wanted to have sex with me over the...

He's upset and snapping at me -- why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - i dont know whats going on with my boyfriend, he got rejected by the raf becos he has a shellfish allergy, and his so annoyed by that, i understand. since then though he has been in a funny mood with me, and i try an easure him but his telling ...

Why did she do this? Is there a chance of getting her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - ok, my girlfriend and i have been dating for 6 months but weve been 'TOGETHER" for a year, and she broke up with me...because she says she doesnt ever think she will ever love me.. but yet she is miserable..now that were broke up.. even tho we had a ...

I want to make this relationship work, but he admitted to molesting his sister

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend just recently told me he had a dark secret. It took me hours to convince him to tell me. After I broke through to him he told me he molested his sister when he was about 11 or 12 and she was 8. He paid her money to give him blowjobs and ...

I love her but she doesn't want me to join the military

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I'm sooo confused about this this girl I know doesn't want me to join the marine corps and basicly I love her a lot idk what she thinks of me but everytime I ask her what would she think if I join the military she always said nooooo don't joi...

I want to be on the pill to regulate my periods, but I know my mom will flip!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I'm 14, soon to be 15, and my mom loves to act like I'm still five. I want to be put on birth control, not because I'm having sex but to regulate aunt flow. But I know If I ask my mom will automaticly skip to conclusions, and start yelling at me for ...

He tells me the sweetest stuff, but I'm being told he's playing me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - To start off, I really like this guy. We have been talking now for over a month, almost 2. He hasn't dated anyone in almost a year. Every day and night we text, constantly and he tells me the sweetest stuff. He says he likes me, but he is not sure ...

Should I tell him I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I am 13 years old 14 on thursday I think i love this man who has turned 17 so theres 3 years apart should I tell him i love him or is it too much age gap. We have the same intrests i am just too scared to ask. What should i do?...

Thoughts of sex taking over my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - im absolutly desperate! i feel like if i don't f*ck a girl im going to explode. ive tried watching porn and masturbating( im doing it right now!)and its starting to stop working. im not a pervert or anything but in school i have sex senarios with ...

My current boyfriend makes me happy but I still long for my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Right I'm confused. I'm in love with my ex (let's call him X), I miss him so much. But I didn't realise this until recently. He broke up with me about a year ago. This upset me a lot. Since him I've dated 3 guys. Two of those relationships...