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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

What should I do about this girl?

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11 January 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and I really like this girl who lives three doors down from me, I'm good friends with her two brothers and talk to her most days on msn, but nothing has progressed. I don't know what to do as I'm not the most confident of guys....

Dating violence

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - My boyfrend is very abusive. He constantly beats on me and leaves bruises everytime. Last time he busted open my face. He says he loves me and will protect me. I'm scared he might be putting me into a early grave. I tried to leave numerous times but ...

What age were you when you lost YOUR virginity? (I was 23)

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - This is kind of an idle question I suppose. I've noticed and been kind of alarmed by a large number of sex questions being asked by kids in the 13-15 year old age range. (It seems awfully young to me.) I'd like to have kids of my own some day ...

Please do not judge me. I only ask for advice or help.

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11 January 2009 (F) - I just turned 16 and whenever I masturbate, I can only climax if I think about women and having sex with women, but when I am not masturbating, all I can think about is men. I love actors, and I fantasize about actors practically all day and I get ...

Help, is there more to it or am I making something out of nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, and we both love each other a lot. However ever since I started being with him he has been very protective over me. I have a facebook account and added someone I knew from school, he got annoyed ...

Why can I not get hard enough?

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11 January 2009 (M) - I am 16 years old.. I had unfinished sex. It was very cold and we were outside.. I was hard at first but then when we took off our clothes I was getting softer. I first got inside her but I got soft and then I couldnt enter again.. after that ...

When we're apart I can get so insecure and jealous...

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11 January 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I know he loves me too. We have a great relationship, we can on well, hardly ever argue and when we do, sort it out straight away. However, I'm at uni and he works full-time back at home, so we don't get ...

15 and extremely curious...

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11 January 2009 (M) - I'm actually 15 and extremely curious about sex. Most of the questions are meant for females but males can help as well. 1)Where does a female get the most pleasure? 2)Making Love Vs. Just Sex? 3)What do you consider a large penis? 4)What ...

How do I get to know Zach better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - This guy named Zach I have known him forever since kindergarden and I always thought he was cute. We used to be really good friends but then we just stoped talking. Now we have started a little again and him and his gf just broke up. I think I like ...

Why are men so obsessed with breasts but hardly notice them during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Why are men so obsessed with breasts when during sex, they don't even spend that much time on them. lol Just curious!...

Worries about applying for a course at University.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I dropped out of university in October as I knew from day one the course was not for me. I'm going to be studying nursing in september. I can admit that i'm not so overly passionate about the course in general and I can't entirely see myself ...

If he still cares about me and plans to be with me again why is he fooling around with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 January 2009 (?) - Me and my ex broke up around mid November. We really haven't communicated since the big break up. I text him and wished him a merry christmas. That is the extent of our conversation. Our pictures together are still up on his webpage and he still has ...

Help me move on please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hey I've recently split up from my boyfriend of 3 years and am having a really hard time. I just cannot move on from the fact that he could hurt me. Basically it's like everything he had said to me, he'd been saying to someone else the entire t...

Will I be able to love anyone else as much as I loved my first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - A few years ago I went out with this guy and we were together for over a year. We honestly did love each other and we have kept close contact until very recently. The thing is he still loved me even after 2 years after we broke up. I didn't realise ...

She says she cares a lot about me and she does truly like me, but her love for her ex is getting in the way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - So basically we have history we used to go out for a year, after that they started to date for 3 years, the last year of that relationship, he neglected her and she was tired of it, but also feels she's part of the relationship failing too. So now ...

Have I fallen for him?

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11 January 2009 (F) - I met a lad and he asked me out today and I've said yes. He makes me smile all the time, I can't stop! All I want to do is hear his voice or see his smile. I love being with him and feel so safe around him. Have I fell for him? ...

He won't commit... what do I do?

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11 January 2009 (F) - There is this guy, I'll call him sam, we really really like each other. We've met up loads, and we've kissed. I've asked him out but he doesn't know what he wants, every time he sees me he wants to be in a relationship with me, but he doesn't want ...

The relationship a child has with their parents directly reflects how they are with the mutual sex. Agree or disagree?

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11 January 2009 (F) - I was just wondering how much you guys agree or disagree with this statement : The relationship a child has with their parents directly reflects how they are with the mutual sex. ex: I don't have respect for my mom and I can easily talk...

What should I do about him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving h...

Why do my parents hate my girlfriend? She's a wonderful person!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - My g/f and I have been going out for more than a year now. I love this girl so much and the same goes for her with me. We are always on the same page and we know where we want to go with each other. We have been doing long distance for the past four ...

What is this white stuff between my legs????

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11 January 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what is wrong with me. Every time I look at my "down below bits" they look fine, but when I rub my finger between my two labia's there is some white stuff that comes off... I'm not sure what it is... I'm thinking it might be dried ...

Do you find this anappropriate?

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11 January 2009 (F) - ok, so my boyfriend's sister keeps texting him things like "I wanna be your official girl" and stuff like that, and I told him I thought it was inappropriate, and that I'd appreciate her not texting those things to him. He doesn't agree with me ...

My boyfriend is jealous but he has no need to be, how can I convince him?

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11 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is jealous of one of my old mates, I love my boyfriend so much, and I never want anyone else, but this lad keeps popping up and he hates him and so do I, but he doesn't believe me. I know he should but he has no reason I've never lied ...

She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant... could it be possible she is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Ok so my gf and I are really scared. A few days ago I rubbed my penis against her vagina. I am 99% sure there wasn't any pre cum on my penis because there has never been before. She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant like feeling sick ...

Fishy smell "down there"

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11 January 2009 (F) - i need some advice on vaginal odour! i have never had a problem with it before and noone that i have had sex with has ever complained or been reluctant to 'go down there', but recently, as in the last couple of days, when i go to the toilet it ...

I'm the myserious texter! Did he figure it out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - hello for a month i have been texting my crush and he keeps asking who i am. as i feel its better and more mysterious he doesnt know who i am the other day he text me saying "i know who this is " he then straight after text back saying " i hav...

Would this be classified as incest?

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11 January 2009 (F) - Hi i have a little problem im 14 and currently single. Now you may get confused with this ok? Im in love with my uncles girfriends brother who is 17. but i think he has feelings for me too. we have lots in common and is always talking. but only...

She might be pregnant but wants to wait 9 months!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - ok me and a freind got together one day in ended up messng around and she straddled me i never ejaculated in her but something aint feel right so next day i told her take a pregnancy test she said no n im not gonna she thinks im making up excuses n ...

I'm obsessed with the girlfriend of my boyfriends brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and nine months but it’s a pretty weird relationship. We are both young I’m 18 (studying for my A levels) and he is 20 (at university) we get along great but we aren’t a proper couple, like I don’t go round his ...

I like him but while drunk I kissed his friend

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11 January 2009 (F) - Few months ago I realized that I have crush on my schoolmate. I've known him for about 3-4 years and this year is the last year before we go to the university. He has always seemed a bit attractive for me and I suspected he likes me too, but I ha...

What happens if she's pregnant and the parents go to the police?

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11 January 2009 (F) - hey thankyou for your help in advance, this is rather urgent my best friend who is 17 may have got his 15yr old girlfriend pregnant ((they were using protection and condom didnt split ...)) as she is late on her period they both want an abortion...

Want to be ready for sex-what to do?

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11 January 2009 (F) - i was in bed last night talking to my boyfriend on the phone and watch porn, so i need to really stick something down there to feel satitsfied. well its been about a year since i've put anything the size of a penis down there, but i've been fin...

In love with my best girl mate

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11 January 2009 (F) - Right, it all started a few months ago. I was at her house for a sleepover, and we started talking about our fantasies, and it finally came to "do you like girls?", and I'm like: "I was going to ask you that question." So she says, "is that a...

There's no spark with my and my boyfriend... much more spark with his friend though.

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11 January 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for around 2 months yet was friends with him before that and we were fooling around before we were official. He has strong feelings for me and I do have feelings for him and I would hate to break his heart, ...

I want to get to know him better...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - November time me and a guy started talking and in about 3 weeks he invited me over... I went over and we ended up sleeping together this really made it awkward for us both but we are still getting on ok still talking and all that he just seems not ...

Why can't I sleep?

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11 January 2009 (F) - hey everyone, again.. i know i post these like everynight, but WHY CANT I EVER SLEEP!!!!!!!!! hopefully you have read my other questions and such, but if you haven't. i am 15. i am pregnant. i am having a boy. i am engaged (but nothing more, no ...

I want to start tap dancing!

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11 January 2009 (F) - Hiya im 17 and i really wont to start tap dancing i wonted to start when i was 15 but didn't have much money but now i get ema My brother thinks tap dancing is weird and my bf just laughed 1. question.. Am i to old ??? 2. and what...

I can't have an orgasm now!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Okay this is rather weird to me. I have been helping myself, sexually, since the age of 12. I have always liked it and i still do enjoy it, although its becoming a bit of a problem to me. I was still a virgin when i was 17 i slept with my ex ...

I want to talk intimately but not sure how?

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11 January 2009 (F) - Hello..! I (15 year old) met this guy (19 year old) 2 years ago and since then we were good friends and now for roughly a year we’ve been dating with a gap of 4 months in between due to some misunderstandings from my side. Lately we’ve got involved ...

How do I console her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Honestly i have been in love with this girl for 4 yrs[I'll name her Xin..]k well.. i really love her much so i wanted to help her.. So.. Xin had break up with her bf for almost 8 months le. She still love him very much.. but her bf excuse was he is...

Do most guys answer the door 1/2 naked?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! :) I have a very quick question to ask y'all: Is it normal for guys to answer the door topless? I recently had an experience where a guy I had only met once before opened the door to me with no top on. I was a little taken aback...

My friends always copy me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

11 January 2009 (?) - I have two best friends that I like to copy me. They copy my hair, my clothes everything I do. If I buy something they buy but in a different colour .They even died they'll hair my hair colour. At first I didn't mind , I actually thought it was ...

He doesn't talk to me and says "I don't feel like it"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Starting out, my bf's name will be "George." So, George asks me out and I'm all happy because I've liked him for maybe... a year and a half. And then we go on winter break and don't see each other until New Year's Eve, when we have a really nice ...

Where do I find the place to ask her out?

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11 January 2009 (M) - I have been keen on this woman for about 2 years now but it is steadily rising every time we meet. We are both 18 atm and went to the same High School and work at the same place (got her the job myself). So basically where I stand, she went ...

I don't like the way my mom is acting with her online guy

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11 January 2009 (F) - My mom met this guy online and she really likes him but I dont agree with the way she acts. They only talk on the phone. To make herself look like a busy woman she lies constantly that she goes to all these parties and she went shopping. It angers ...

How do I tell b/f I watched porn and it made me horny?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and and i were talking today and i asked him if u saw porn(we were just getting to know each other better). he told me that he he use to watch porn, but its been awhile since he has seen any. yet when he asked me idk what to say cuz i ...

Should I put her cheating in the past?

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11 January 2009 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now (our 2 year is in about 20ish days). we go to different colleges and its our first time in a long distance relationship. she recently told me she cheated on me with another guy at school l...

Not sure how to initiate sex?

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11 January 2009 (M) - i'm going to see a female friend. She wants me to stay few nights with her. I would love us to have sex but do not know how to initiate it. Any ideas on slow signs don't want to be straight up or ask her at all. How can i lead things on? And make ...

He has a gf and I'm heartbroken! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - i have a crush on a boy for almost 3 years. my friends know and asked him to ask me out. just a few weeks ago i sent him a message telling him i didn't tell my friends to ask him to ask me out. then i sent him another message asking him if he likes ...

My Bf' is 15 and is having erection problems! Help!

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11 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 15. We have had sex once before. (Please dont post anything saying im to young,im being very responsible and i love him and know what im doing) The bad thing is that tonight, we were going to do it again but he couldnt ...

I can't stop getting this jealous feeling and thoughts whenever I see my boyfriend and friend hanging out together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 January 2009 (?) - So, my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 months,which will be in a few days. We're both 13. We hang out at school mostly all day together. My friend hangs out with my boyfriend every chance she can get at school. Like she'll see ...

Should I put myself in that situation again?

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11 January 2009 (F) - I'm 15, and not allowed to have a boyfriend, but my my parents weren't home today so I invited him to my house and told him to bring me somthing to eat cuz there wasn't anythin at my house. I was busy all morning, but had 3 hours for us, so he had t...

I need to believe and trust more in our love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Okay, so I am 17 and I live in Arkansas and I have a girlfriend who lives in Oregon that I have been with just over a year. We have only met once and it was 2 months ago. As much as I feel we are deeply in love and want to be with each other for ...

Ex Boyfriend - Does he like me?

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11 January 2009 (F) - I was meeting up with some old school friends the other week, and it was in a different city (so me and a friend were staying over the night). The city was where my ex boyfriend is as he is studying at University there. I thought I'd text him, ...

How can we get to know each other better?

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11 January 2009 (F) - I feel like my man and me don't no each other well, so I was wondering what are some games we can play that we can have fun with and get to no each other better?...

Skater guys appeal to me more

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11 January 2009 (F) - I always get the same type of guy. "Gangster wannabe" I'm sick and tired of them too. I am more attracted to skater guy types, can people tell me how to attract skater guys??...

To be his friend or so much more?

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11 January 2009 (F) - Thanks to those who answer this. But anyways, I used to be best friends with this one dude and I liked him too. But we fell apart over the years because of some disagreements. Its been a year now and I haven't spoken to him we say Hi and Bye but ...

He aint no mate!!!

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11 January 2009 (F) - Hi I used to fancy this boy for 3 years but now I have gone off him thank god. Friday he kicks me at the back of my leg for no reason at all, I thought that was out but I stayed cool.. cos I am trying to stop my moods for my bf and I'm doing ok ...

I don't know what to do about him...

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11 January 2009 (F) - Theres a guy I've liked over the internet for a few years now, I've met up with him 5 times before, but he lives 2 hours away in San Fran. I've told him before how cool he is, he makes me laugh, makes me happy, can be myself around him, that...

How can I get out of this situation when I have extremely limited resources?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I seriously feel stuck in a rut right now. My ex and I broke up a month ago after a two-year relationship and he's already going on dates with other girls, while I'm barely hanging out with even my friends! The reason we broke up is because he ...

Is it possible I love him or just holding onto feelings from when I was 11?

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11 January 2009 (F) - When I was younger, about 10 or 11, i was best friends with a boy. We grew up together and I think that in some weird way i always loved him in the way that children do. Anyway, I moved away when I was 12, and didn't talk to him until recently...

Am I too young to have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have a dilemma. I have a boyfriend for the first time and I really like him. I'm pretty crazy about him actually. I'm a junior in high school and I'm pretty new to the whole boyfriend thing. However, he has asked if I want to have sex and I don't ...

I'm replacing Mr. B for Mr. A

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11 January 2009 (F) - Last June, my high school closed down due to lack of enrollment. It upset me, and honestly, I'm still having a hard time adjusting to the new environment of the high school I am attending now. My friend and I had to go our separate ways. This friend ...

In love with 2 guys

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11 January 2009 (F) - I have a major problem. I have a boyfriend and i love him despite the major flaws he has that i can't seem to solve the few issues we have between us. but just lately i've been feeling extra close to my best friend and sometimes he makes me fe...