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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Sex ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Okay, I've been dating this guy for a year now, I'm in love with him. Please do not give me the bullshit about how 'You don't know what love is' because both of us have been through hell and are mature enough to know the difference. I'm not like r...

How do entertain myself?

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23 January 2009 (M) - I'm a 14 year old guy who really want to do it with a chick, but dont have a girl friend and live 50kilometers from me school. Anyone got idea's how to entertain meself untill i get to do it?...

INSANELY attracted to hot neighbor

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I'm a 17 yr old female and have this damn fine neighbor (about to be 18) who I've been hot for the moment I first saw him almost 4 years ago. I've never tried to make a move on him because though I have pretty high self esteem, this guy is just so ...

Are there people who have the "whole package"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I'm the type that has always read love, romance stories. In all the stories there is always a man or a woman who just seems to have it ALL; Drop dead gorgeous, highly intelligent, charming/sweet, witty, down to earth, the powerful presence, money, ...

I've never said how I really feel about him in 3 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - About 2 years ago I saw this guy and I liked him a lot, but I was really shy and couldn't tell him, or anyone. So he never knew. Then last year we were in a lot of the same classes and I got talking with him, and we became friends, we flirted a bit ...

My sister's daughter had sex and I think her reaction is too harsh...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My sister is the mother of a 14 yr old girl, who she recently found out that she snuck her boyfriend in the bedroom window and had sex with him! The mother went bananas and told her daughter that she had to quit basketball and all other activities, ...

I really want to know how he feels without making it obvious that I like him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Okay, I've seen a lot of questions like this and none of the answers have really helped, and I really do need advice on this one. I'm in Year 9 and recently, I've got to know a boy in Year 12 and now I'm starting to fall for him. He really is a...

I really want to have a baby with my BF but my family will freak out.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have only had sex once. And yes, we had protection he had already came in the condom and it broke, i had to have emergency contraception aka the plan b pill but i want a baby soooo bad. im only 13 tho... i will be 14 in june, i ...

Is he playing hard to get? Does he want me to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - He liked me a lot for more than 1 year, it was extremely obvious, but when he showed his true feelings i strongly rejected him in different ways, 'cause i was kinda shy.. but he never insulted me and he's the type who would do it. now he knows for ...

Why does it ruin it over stupid little things? Or am I taking it too seriously?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Ok well me and my bf have been together about a year and 2 months or so .. but lately things have started to go wrong.. we've just been having STUPID arguments, i wont go into to details but they are petty. Latest one was he got annoyed with me ...

Are these signs that he doesn't want me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - me n ma bf have been getting along fine but this last week he has been himself. I met him on Sundaii he ifngered n i pleasured him but then on Mondaii he promised me to wotch a film with me he dint so he sed tuesdaii he dint he sed thursdaii he dint ...

Shes angry because I told a friend I love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I told my friend that i love her and she became angry with me,what should i do because i dont want to break up with her. ...

I am afraid that I will never get the chance to go out with him once I go back to school.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I have a guy who I see at the at the local health club I go to. I really, really like him and I think he likes me, too. But I start school soon so I won't get to see him any more because he goes at the health club when I am at school (and only then ...

What causes menstrual cramps?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - What does it mean when you cramp a lot during your period? but is not just a cramp that comes and goes it stays the whole day and it hurts bad. What is it?...

Xoxo--I think he likes me what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Ok well yesterday my friend slept over my house. We got bored so we decided to go on the computer. After awhile this boy started talking to us on msn. I thought he looked fimilar in his display pic. Well she asked him his named and as I thought it ...

He's confusing me so much! I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - *He stares at me all the time with a small smile on his face. *When I catch him staring, he keeps on staring till I look away. *Walks across me sometimes for no reason. *Walks by me so close that our shoulders touch. *Shows-off sometimes. *H...

Sort of caught in the middle with 2 girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I got a teansy problem, okay theres this girl i relaly am starting to like, My friend is her best friend so obviousl she knows that i like her, but isnt really interested in me, but i do have a chance, she told me well theres tis other girl i kno...

What do I do now that I've told her I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - Well i finall got the courage to tell this one girl tat i liked her. so Now what do i do? this is the very first time i ever done something like this and she told me that she didnt expect it since i never treated her like if i ever did like her. so ...

He has a g/f but gives off signals he's interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Hi! :) I hope you lot can help me with this... There is a guy in my class who I really liked, (but never spoke to for a whole year) but upon hearing he had a girlfriend, I decided to forget about him. Lately (for about the past 4 months) I'...

His friends say he likes me but he hasn't said so

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - There are a group of boys in my p.e. class and for the three days they keep on insisting that I should date one of there friends. They say he likes me, the way I voice, and that he likes my eyes. But they say it in front of him and he says that he ...

Am I crazy for this love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Well I kind of feel confused about this so called "relantionship". Im 16 and in 11th grade but it all started when i was in 8th. Theirs this boy who use to like me and would make passes at me all the time asking me to marry him and everything, he ...

Actions speak louder than words and I'm the one always making the 1st move

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - well ive been talkin 2 this guy for about a month n change. He is 21 and im 18 the problem is im not 2 sure if he likes me as much as he says he does.We talk on the phone but thats only if i call him 1st bcuz he doesnt call me.For the time we have ...

Any suggestions on what my next move should be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - Okay, it would be nice to get some advice on this shit, I like this girl, really like her not some stupid girl like the usual, I care deeply for her and I want to ask her out, I talked to her and did the normal thing, I told her I TOOK A LIKING TO ...

Am I just someone for him to talk to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (?) - Ok so I have been talking to this guy(getting to know him)for about 2 months. We have hung out a couple of times,he has told me he has a crush on me, we text and talk on the phone almost every day. He calls me sweetheart, hun, gorgeous, sweetie and ...

If I walk away now I'm afraid I'll lose her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - My ex girlfriend and i went out for about a year and a half before we broke up about 2 months ago. we broke up because she said she didnt want a relationship anymore. we were really close to getting back together until she read a text that i sent my ...

My ex best friend's brother is hot, but he's not part of my fantasy life I have planned

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My ex best friend and I became best friends the second day of sophomore year (about 3.5 years ago). And a year and a half after we established our great friendship, I met my ex (who was a sophomore at the time). We started dating and then this ...

I am so so paranoid for no reason.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I am 18 and so is my boyfriend.. I have a problem... seriously! I'm an over thinker about everything (paranoid in other words), when it comes to my relationship with my boyfriend. I have been with him for 2 years and we are very close. He is an ...

He's in the back of my head like 24/7 and it's really annoying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My friend has been going out with this girl for about a month and I really don't see it going anywhere. I sort of have an on-off crush type thing going on. I don't know what to do about it. Maybe I should ignore it? I thought the girlfriend would ...

Why can't he open up to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Why is it hard for some guys to be open and upfront about their feelings? I'm asking because the guy I have been interested in a shy guy. I'm wondering why it seems as if he likes me yet he hasn't made a move. I'm a nice girl in no way am i stuck up ...

Is this normal after masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Well, this was my first time masturbating. Not really, just the first time I spent long enough on it to get a feeling. I didn't even go deep, just the surface. It's hard to describe. This feeling, but I'm sure you know what it is. Anyway... I was ...

Would stomach growling turn you off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - This is a bit of an embarrassing question but it's something I deal with personally. Would it turn you off if the person you were interested in had a stomach that growled loudly all the time? My tummy always seem to growl and it's really ...

Is he interested in me? (All comments are appreciated)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on a classmate of mine for a while. At my lunch one of his buddies yelled out "hey (his name) likes you." For a while he was always staring at me in class and asking me to borrow my pens and always sat near me. Despite all of this ...

She doesn't care about me at all, and now I think I HATE her; but I'm still upset that I lost her as a friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I was best friends with this girl since I was in the 3rd grade, were almost done high school now and I feel like she's become a totally different person. She ignores me, expects me to work around her schedule and basically does nothing to prove to ...

What does it mean when a guy has condoms?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - He has condoms at his place.. when I go to see him he's got condoms when we are going to have sex.. basically he has condoms in his room.. does this mean he's ******* other girls as well and that girls comes over to have sex..?? Please is he ...

In love, but getting into boring habits!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - soo..seems petty but..! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, and were really good friends before that. Hes lovely, attractive, charming, outgoing and I really genuinely love him. We had sex for the first time about 8months in...

Gay sex tips appreciated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - hey there guys.. I've got a problem which is a tad sentitive. Well I'm 17 and I've been straight up until about 18 or so months ago.. where this belgian lad captured my heart. I've fallen deeply in love with him and yes I'm now fully gay in the...

A month ago I found out that I wasn't the only one that he was in love with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for two months now. Just about a month ago I found out that I wasn't the only one that he was in love with. I was shocked at first and then found out the other girl started dating another guy. Just recently I've ...

He hasn't text me in 4 weeks!!! What's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - What is going on here? HELPPPP? We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me everyday..last time i saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him.....

We are just sexually connected and not on the right level that we should be connected on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My situation is pretty complicated. I'm 16 and this boy that i like is gettin his license on the 2nd. thats less then two weeks and he plans on fucking in the car as soon as he gets it. I know that is all he wants cuz he can't even have a normal ...

PLEASE HELP - confused, teacher??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Basically I am a sophomore in a private high school in NJ. Over the past two years me and one of my teachers (female) have gotten very very close. It was her I went to when I began to question my sexual orientation. I'm sort of in love with h...

I am 16 years old and I'm scared that I'll never find someone good for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old and I'm scared that I'll never find someone good for me. It seems like everytime im with someone, i keep thinking that they can change and believe them, and always giving them chances. Thats my problem because it is like im waiting ...