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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Is this a trap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/now-he-wont-call-whats-wrong-with-me.html Thank you guys for the answers! it kinda cheered me up. Okay After I posted this two days went by and he suddenly texts me at 12 midnight. I didn't know what to ...

Friends afraid I'll put boyfriend before them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - ok i am 15 and i've been dating my boyfriend 4 3 months now and he took my virginity about 4 days ago now that is not my problem my problem is now my friends think i am going to change and they say im not going 2 b around them as much they think ...

Is it love actually?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - First i would like to say i have been looking at this site and i only chose it because the answers people give are always polite, not like some other sites where people are rude anyway. MY question is, i went on a date with my boyfriend yester...

Always horny but then feel guilty

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - hi., ok well im always horny. i masterbate but its never enuf. touching myself anywhere else dusnt help, and it really bugs me. also, it helps when i look at porn but i always feel guilty after doing that. plz help me, thanks....

How do I keep masturbation a secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - how can i keep my masterbation a secert??? ive almost been caught quiet a view times....

I love my g/f but I'm having phone sex! Do I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - hi, i'm 17 years old and so is my girlfriend. i love her but i kept talking to other girls and saying they're my wife and girlfriend and another i was having phone sex with and my door wasn't closed and i was over the covers. and my mom walked in on ...

I'm being patient but he's still hesitant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Ok, so here is my problem. I hung out with this guy who we both connected on an unbelievable level. I know for absolute fact he is in to me so this is not a question of that. We where so in to each other that even though it was our first time out ...

How do I get over this guy I've been in love with 5 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - HEy you guys!!!its lotmoney13 Well i have this thought that it would be nice to start off the new year NOT being in a heart-ache! so yeah i'm still in love with HIM, but i'd really like to move on now! So i'm asking for advice on how to get...

Will he regret his decision and come back? Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

31 December 2008 (F) - hi well recently mmy boyfriend broke up with me after 7 months.. we are so perfect together and we barely argued.. he was like my other half. we saw eachother everyday and we are always doing something we did a lot of things together ..i was really ...

What sort of physique do girls like in a boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Hi, happy new year. I want to know this from girls. Girls, what sort of physique u like in ur bf? Tall, short, fat, skinny, muscular, anything. Feel free to give me ideas on wot u actually look for. Thanks. Pls. ...

Will anything happen between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hey im looking for some help. ok so i have this best boy-friend wev been best friends since we were 4 or 5 and have always been close. last new years we both got a bit drunk with our friends and we all ended up playing truth or dare me and *Jak...

Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out? Like there are certain bras and tops I can wear that make my boobs look much bigger than they actually are. My bf knows my size of course but I'm just ...

My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...

Is there such thing as masturbating affecting your health?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Is there such thing as masturbating affecting your health? will masterbating do anything to me? i am worried that i might be masterbating to often and i think it might be affecting my health and my focus on things. Does masturbating affect anything ...

Help! I'm stuck between 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My problem is very long, I apologise in advance. Basicaly I'm stuck between 2 guys. Guy A I met about a year and a half ago, when I was 14 (and so was he). After a while, about the end of august, we decided to go out. As most couples are at 14, thin...

Where is the best place to masturbate?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Where could I masturbate where no one would figure it out? I mean I want to masturbate but there's no place to do it in private, what should I do... or where should I go?...

Is she in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Is she in love with me? All she does is flirt with me but we have been friends for 2 years. I don't know what to do but I kinda like her, should I ask her out?...

Where would be the best place to take a girl out on a date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Where would be the best place to take a girl out on a date? (13) please help thank you...

I said I was having nothing more to do with men and now this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Got a bit of a problem and I really don't know what to do so really need advice. I'm originally from Scotland moved down to London about 2 years ago to go to university. I recently started dating a new guy I met at university and we've been going ...

Do best friends really have that cheesy happy ending?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm nineteen and I've had my fair-share of boyfriends. Mostly bad, as I've only had one boyfriend that lasted more than a year. The other night, my most recent ex and I broke up and as usual, I went straight to my best friend of seven years ...

Teacher gives me longing glances...does it mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi! Guys. I just want to say thanks to all of those who answered my previous questions. Some of your answers were harsh and even a little bitchy, but i get why you were trying to show me the real life of my situation. I havent done anything crazy or ...

Love my boyfriend but texting other guy! Should I tell my b/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I need help. yu all probably seen my last post about havinqg sex with my boyfriend ( and I decided to wait by the way) but now I have a different problem. I love my boyfriend so much and we've been together for three months. yesterday while ...

How can someone else love me when I don't love myself?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hey, This is a really long question, but is really important to me. To anyone who reads all of this and replys; thank you so much. My problem is with self-image. Well, it started with my disliking my image and it slowly turned into somethin...

My guy had incident 3 years ago now worried he's infertile but won't go to the doc!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I have a 24 year old Boyfriend who is forever worried that he is infertile because he was assaulted and hit in the testicles 3 years back. He somehow believes his balls got "crushed" during the whole thing, Apparently one guy took his balls in his ...

Relationship is like a roller coast ride and I'm not sure I want on anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, i know he thinks the world of me and he always is telling me that he loves me (i know he does), but we're either really happy or really bad. and when we're bad it's awful (he doesn't trust me at all and ...

Will he judge me for my drinking habits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - i'm almost seventeen, and ive probably been drinking about three years. im not a drinker, honest. i dont drink every day, barely once every two months. my parents are really sweet, and i dont want to hurt them, or to get into trouble, for that ...

We had sex - did the sperm stay in there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - After me and my girlfrfind had sex we ate dinner we laughed we pretended like nothing had happened because my mom was there. She told me she felt something squirting out of her vegina...so is it possible that the sperm that was in her might of came ...

Is my cousin in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Im 14years old,and I have a 16year old cousin,a boy.When we were little as a usual bunch of kids he'd tease me,laugh at me,and make me cry.When I grew older,I've noticed he started acting different towards me.He began giving me hugs,and saying how ...

Big Social Complex: is there any hope for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Ok so here it is. I am 19 and I hav a big problem. I have a very big social complex. I have been to everything from therapists to the Bible. I have even been recently saved about three weeks ago, because the pastor says that it may be a fight for my ...

What did she mean by her message?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Alright, so i like this girl alot. she's the same age as me and we have a damn near every thing there is in common. but idk if she likes me. ive got a hint i think, i said somthing to her on myspace about how a one of my girlfriends dumped me cus i ...

How can I make it up to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend, Sydney (of four years) is mad at me because I forgot her birthday (again I did it to her last year as well). This time she let me gave it and ended sleeping at a friend's house. To matters worse when I called her to apologize and ask ...

I'm so depressed in my marriage, I don't even want to wake up in the morning...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Im 18yrs old and i just got married about 3 months ago. I find myself becoming more and more depressed, i dont even wanna wake up in the morning. I started feeling this way about 2months ago, its makes me wonder if its bc i wasnt ready to get ...

Is my penis size big enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I'm not quite a virgin and my penis is about 8 or 9 inches long and about 2 or 3 in girth. I'm just wondering if my penis size is big enough. the girl that I've last slept with was a virgin and when we first had intercourse it was a littlel painful ...

A bit too close for comfort.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi. Im a sorry that this is so long but it is really urgent and I could do with the help. Please take the time to read! I thought Id ask to see what people on here think I should do. There is this lad at school (lets call him Fred Flinstone) and h...

What should I do about my love for a teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - So, last year i had this amazing teacher. Me and my friend both got special attention from him. He would always let us do stuff, and we got AWAY WITH EVERYTHING. Other students were starting to realize the special treatment he gave us, so me and my ...

Should I expect a kiss? It's our first real date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - hey everyone. I'm going on my first real date with my boyfriend of one week on thursday, we are going to a movie. should I expect a kiss? I've never been kissed before so I don't really know how. any tips? and I aslo need advice on what...

Bleeding after sex/masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi all! Okay so I know I ask this question almost every time it happens, maybe its because I still question exactly why it happens. Anyways it seems everytime I masturbate by stimulating my clit or have sex, after I orgasm, wait a few hours until I ...

Should I stay with him and work things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - ok well were do i start me and my ex was 2gther for seven months. we were also engaged for 5 of those months we have being having a few problems latley and all we seem to do is argue. then on christmas day he broke up with me. he said he didnt love ...

Can someone tell me how to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - i have a crush i hate him but i like everybody in my class thats a girl but ones a gossip and befor everybody ones how can i get over him he's nice but he "thinks" i'm evil but i just tease him and he terases me and he likes a girl i the class ...

Two 14 year olds + one ripped condom = one possible pregnancy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I am only 14yrs old me and my girlfriend had sex she is also 14 the condom ripped. So far she hasnt experienced any signs of pregnancy. my question is how long does it take her to start those signs if in fact she is pregnant? can anyone help me ...

How can I slow down my sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a WONDERFUL sex life. I almost can not get enough. I ALWAYS want to have sex. We'll have sex, and then 30minutes later, i want MORE! I'm so scared to tell him, b/c he looks so worn out...i don't want him to reject me...

I can't focus on anything but sex! Is it because I masturbate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - all i think about its sexual things and its driving me crazy! i cant even focus on anything else because of this. is it because i masterbate?...

Horniness during math - how can I avoid it or at least enjoy it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - ive been getting really horny during math and its been really annoying and math is the longest subject is there a way i can either control it or at least enjoy it?...

Is this stain in my underwear me starting my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - its the second day now and i have brownish stains in my underwear and at first i thought it was crap but then it happened again and then i thought that i might be having my period. i do have pubic hair and ive noticed arm pit hair sooo yea.=/...

What can I think about while masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - im 13 and i masterbate ever day but i dont really have anything to think of while masterbating is there a better way or something i can think of that will help?...

Should I tell anyone I'm masturbating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - should i tell anyone about me masterbating? parents,friends,siblings,ect ? or would that be a really really bad idea???...

Normal to masturbate everyday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - is it normal to masterbate every day without telling my parents or any one else for that matter?...

B/f no more sex he's afraid of pregnancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - So, basically, I have been with my boyfriend for five months now, and we've been having sex for about 3 months. We have always been safe and responsible, using condoms as protection. However, recently, I considered going on the conraceptive pill as ...

How can I spend one night with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi! im new to this so sorry if it sounds wired. Iv a small problem.I really love my boyfriend of 7 months now and more than anything in the world I would so love to sleep with him for one night and wake up with him their. Not even for us to do ...

I don't trust her now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I'm Hurrycanger. I'm kind alike you, boy. A bit different : I knew her online. For some months, now I call her "wife" and she calls me "husband". Sound kinda happy. But, I'm jealous everytime, + I can't trust her that much. She said she had a best ...