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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

So I like this guy, but I have a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - So, I like this guy. A lot. And I think he might like me back! But the thing is, that I have a boyfriend already, and we are kind of growing apart. I never see him anymore, and I think we both just want space... Should I tell him that it isn't ...

Questions about crushes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 September 2014 (M) - Hi again I'm back with another question that's been bugging me. How often do girls crush? So like they are with their friends and about ten different guys enter the conversation does that mean they like them all and just exactly how easy is it to ...

Is there any other way to handle the situation considering how strict my parents are?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Hello :) This guy really likes me and he even said "I love you" to me and I'm actually really into this guy. We started off really good friends and we found that we have a lot in common. We actually tried dating and it lasted for 7 months but a...

How can I encourage this girl to want to show more interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3495 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - I'm fond of a girl.. She is in my school and we've known each other for 5 years. I love her. Though she didn't know about this till a few months back. In grade 6, we used to sit together as our teacher had made it so.. I stood 1st then and she...

My traditional father doesn't think I should date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - Hello :) I'm 15 turning 16 in 4 months time. I am currently having an intimate thing going on with this guy.. And we were actually boyfriend and girlfriend but then we decided to go back to being "friends" but nothing's change except the status. ...

I'm afraid or ever get in a relationship with a woman again? I suck and don't deserve one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

28 September 2014 (M) - I'm a shitty person and an asshole. I can't treat a girl right and even though I would want a good, committed relationship, I would just fail and hurt her. When I was 17 and a senior in high school, I met a just newly turned 15 year old sophomo...

I told her I had a crush and now I don't know if she hates me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - so, I have had this crush on one of my female friends,who i will refer 2 as SN, for months now, and i had only told 1 person im a bi female, my best friend. SN is one of my best friends 2 other best friends.So anyway, i got sick of keeping it from ...

Please help me! Is my fiancé abusing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - So my fiancé thinks that its okay to look at girls who are way skinnier than me and then gets mad when a guy looks at me in a good way. He consistantly will do this right in front of me then tells me that im an attention whore and wants me to wear...

Recently saw my Mum, when she was younger, in a commercial film, where she was topless. It has grossed me out. How do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

27 September 2014 (M) - I'm grossed out after knowing my Mum did a cameo topless scene in a film? Recently, I saw my Mum topless in an old movie. It was a cameo appearance but it shocked the hell out of me and disgusted me. I don't know how to deal to with it. ...

Why are people trying to match make? I enjoy flirting and dating but no exclusively. But don't want to be available for sex. Is that so difficult?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - Please help me! I am so sick of people trying to play match maker but every group of friends I've had and even random co workers and relatives and people I go to church with are always trying HARD to set me up with someone. I have had a lot ...

I like my best friend, but it's complicated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - To get straight to the point, I have a pretty big crush on my best friend, but I'm not sure how he feels. My friendship group is a quite big one - there are around 30 of us - and both my ex-boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend are in this group. Me a...

Should I make a move on my friend's brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Hi all, I posted a question about my friend's brother not too long ago. In summary, I am a sophomore in college, he is a senior at my school, I am very good friends with his sister who is also a sophomore, and I have been interested in him for abou...

My FWB guy said I love you..was it just post sex emotion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - 4 years ago I had a brief fling with a guy. It didn't work out but it was good while it lasted. About 6 months ago we bumped into each other after a night out and exchanged numbers. Since then we've had a fwb situation going on. We spoke about it ...

My girlfriend is never horny anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - so ive been dating this girl for 2 years things are going okay besides the fact that we argue so much and she is very immature at times .. But anyways i really been stressing because we've always had sex every single day almost multiple times aday ...

I want her to reconsider just being friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - Me and this girl were in a relationship at the end of last year and she ended it because she didn't think we were right for each other and also because she needed to sort her head out. Last week she wanted to give it another go saying how she made...

Is this an addiction of some kind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - I am an average 15 year old freshman in high school, with a regular range of problems. But we've all been in that position. Although I've noticed something a bit different. I absolutely LOVE the music I listen to (techno/electron...

I want to be with my best friend but she doesn't know that I am bi

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

22 September 2014 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl. I like my best friend in the I want to be with her way. She is openly bi but doesn't know I am. What should I do?? I really need some advice!...

I feel like I'm playing the part of my friend's mom and its too much for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

22 September 2014 (?) - I'm having difficulty with one of my uni friends and have been for the past year and it's really winding me up. If you have any advice, I would really appreciate it. When we first met, it was over the internet because we knew we were on the same...

Has My Boyfriend Lost Interest In Me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Basically, me and my boyfriends have been together for about a month now. We met on a youth program that had a 3 weeks during the summer and now runs every Sunday. Before he asked me out, we became really close friends, we were inseparable for most ...

My friend might be sending nudes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - So recently a new boy came to our school, the reason he came was because he got expelled from his old school for screenshotting a girls nudes and showing them to all his mates. The only problem is... He's quite good looking. My friend is a bit of a ...

Have a Mega crush on him. How can I get over him, and talk to him in a mature way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - I'm just going to put this out there straight away - I'm 15 and the guy I am hopelessly head over heels in love with is 22. I think about him all the time, he's the hottest guy I've ever seen and I don't know what to do. He's totally out of my le...

One month LDR, and one of my best friends does not like him. Does that matter? Was it wrong for me to have words with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - Hello fellow cupid readers, sorry a bit of background is needed for this. i am in an ldr with my bf of 1 month but we have been incredibly close friends since we were two and we are both now fifteen even though i only see him like four times a year...

Why is this guy being rude to me? He can be nice to others, why not me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - Ok so im a quiet type of girl until i know the person. There is this guy in our school. During the first day of our class he was sitting with another girl as there was no other place left. I was sitting behind them with my friend. Later that d...

He called me names and now we are dating but I can't forget what he said!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - ok here is the deal fellow cupid readers i have been in a LDR with my bf for a month now and it wont be another month until i can see him again, i think about him non stop and it is around the time of my GCSE'S but my distraction isnt the issue ...

Need advice on my boyfriend going in the marines

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3504 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - hey im courtney. im 16 an my boyfriends 19. we have been together for 3 years and he told me that he is going into the marines. im going to support him all the way, but i am going to find it very hard. how do i cope? im finding it hard already and ...

I feel like I want to move on and get over the guilt and try things with the new guy! Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3502 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - Hi there! Well I'm not sure if I am just going through a phase or is this serious because I am talking with someone for well over a year now. I am not in college right now but I was planning on to but things changed.So for orientation day ...

She has caused trouble for us and my friend and I cannot stand her. How can we drop her from our lives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

18 September 2014 (F) - My friends and I have this issue that we really can't talk to an adult in our lives about without getting into trouble and we don't know how to solve the problem either. There's this girl who hangs around us who we really just don't like and w...

How do I make myself stop watching porn to get off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

18 September 2014 (?) - I'm straight but I watch lesbian porn to get off, I have don't it like 5 times now and feel that I might be addicted and when I have sex with my boyfriends, who doesn't know about it, one who knows me does. I feel like I have to think about it to ...

Are these signs he's no longer interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Now, I wouldn't normally consider myself the clingy type but now I'm not so sure. Basically me and my boyfriend just got together for about a month and before we got together, we were almost inseparable to the point were everyone else noticed too. ...

Will this change with time, or am I not cut out for long-term relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

15 September 2014 (F) - I can't stand the idea of being in a long term relationship. I like people, but not for long periods of time, I find that I need to surround myself with new faces at a constant basis. This has been going fine for me, but after dating a guy for...

I hear less and less from my LDR

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I really don't know whether to stay with my boyfriend. We're in a fairly long distance relationship, about four hours away, so it's not easy seeing each other. At first it was fine because we'd text and skype all the time, but recently things have ...

My married female teacher is about 28 and she finds many opportunities to touch me. I like it. Is this OK? Does it make me a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I am a student, 19 years old, good in studies. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend. I have a teacher in my college,she is married and has a year old son. she may be of 28 or 29 years of age. she is a good teacher. she is very friendly...

I know what I want to do, but how do I start this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

13 September 2014 (M) - This is the only site I trust, and honestly the only one I know of that can answer my questions. This is different. It's about my future career. I'm sorry if this is too out of context, but I need to know. I'm in high school, and know I need to s...

He rejected me but still flirts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

13 September 2014 (F) - My guy friend had rejected me and when he rejected me I was really devastated but know he flirts with me and when I wore pants with ripped knees he kept touching my leg and tried to put his fingers up under my pants where my pants were ripped and he ...

What can I do to help my friend who's down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

12 September 2014 (F) - You guys gave good advice on my last question so I was wondering if you could help me. My best friend recently broke up with her boyfriend. He cheated on her and she is crushed. I've tried my hardest to help her and comfort her but she refuses. ...

I miss my boyfriend and worry about other girls since we don't see each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month now but we haven't seen each other since early this summer in July. It is now September and school has started. We don't go to the same school and I miss him. I'm worried that he is with ...

Is it safe to trust my boyfriend after we have broken up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone :) I am really like caught right now so I'm gonna ask for some advice here :) A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I broke up but after a few days he texted me to see how I was doing.. And we just started talking as if the thing that b...

Why is my cousin being so mean to me? Is he getting back at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - Hi. I'm almost 15, a girl and a virgin. I never had a bf, only friends. The reason I never had a bf is that my parents didn't allow it because I was too young. Now a few months ago I've met this guy who's a friend of my cousin that lives near me and ...

Friend of 2 years gone but why???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

10 September 2014 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for nearly 2 years and we were like brother and sister ( best friends) then out of the blue he says he doesn't want to be friends anymore and for me to leave him alone!! He won't give me a reason and some of my ...

Mixed signals, so does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

9 September 2014 (F) - Hello, I'm 18 and I'm unsure if a guy likes me or not because he sends mixed signals. Sometimes he barely acknowledges me and doesn't bother and looks completely uninterested as he doesn't attempt to make conversation at all. However, other times, ...

Is me sending my boyfriend pictures of me in my sports bra okay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

9 September 2014 (F) - Hi :) I'm 15 going to be 16 soon. I am not exactly sure but like I've sent a number of pics of me in my sports bra to my boyfriend.... It sounds kinda stupid of me... But it also got me questioning if it's okay to actually do that? ...

I'm still haunted by dumb teenage stuff I did

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

8 September 2014 (F) - I'm having trouble moving on a dealing with the past. Most people move past stupid high school stuff but I'm still ashamed/embarrassed/feel horrible about things that happened when I was 13! I remember when I was around 13/14. I went through a h...

How can I start being nice to my mum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

8 September 2014 (F) - Ever since I've become a teenager, I've become a bit rude and bitchy towards my mum. I don't mean to do it, but she really, really irritates me. She tells me to do one thing then when I'm trying she gets pissed and shouts at me to do another thing...

Does she just want me for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

7 September 2014 (M) - Hey guys, I'll give you guys a brief background. I'm an emotionally needy person. I have been since my ex girlfriend of two years cheated on me. I became depressed, and still am really. I feel so emasculated. Anyways, I was on tinder and I...

The teenage (boy) mind

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

6 September 2014 (M) - Hello readers, this is something I think should have a female counterpart, so if you would be kind enough to write one, I'll be happy to give it a view! Well hello friends! This is my second article here, and I'm excited to write it, because it's...

Why do guys seem to act weird around me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Okay so there is a guy at my class that has been acting weird. I think he likes mme because I noticed some signs. Well he always glance at me and we once hold the gaze for five seconds. Then he looked away awkwardly. He sits in front of me in my ...

He seemed to be the "one". But now I feel guilty. Does this mean my feelings have changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - I had a boy friend from two years ago. We had so much fun he was my soul mate he taught me the meaning of love. We broke up because of some issues he had. He promised me that he will propose to me and we would get married, when the issues is resolv...

My crush likes my friend instead... should I still try to impress him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, Oh gosh, so I have an enormous crush on a boy in my grade. I have just started high school with him and we talk often enough. However, today he told me he liked another girl, one of my closest friends. What do I do? I want to impress ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - I've liked this boy in my year who i've really liked since year 7. I'm now in year 9. I'm not sure if he likes me. Everyone says he's cocky, but he's always nice to me. He holds the door open, helps me out a lot and he always stares at me. The thing ...

My crush is going out with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3519 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Well please I kinda have a crush on this boy don't think he knows but some times we look at each other I've been dreaming about this guy I really like him BUT he is goin out with someone else pls what should I do...