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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

What do you think... Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I live in a small town where everybody knows each other and there’s not a lot of people your own age. There’s this boy (I’ll pretend his name is Aiden) and he lives on a farm outside a close town. We both go to the same church. There isn’t a good ...

My wife and me have been married for 3 weeks now. But a little problem I never saw her breasts.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) - My wife and me have been married for 3 weeks now. But a little problem I never saw her breasts. Even when we were dating she wouldn't let let me see them. She said they'll gross me out (she has a long scar one of them) and also she thinks she ...

Am I Considered A Whore?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - okay, so here is the thing. i am questioning myself "if i am a whore?" well okay, a little while back i went somewhere with these two guys. i took a pill (not sure what it was but my friend said it would make me feel relaxed) and i started to make ...

Mom too judgemental - don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) - Ok my problem has to do with my mom. I have been seeing this guy and I want him to meet my parents my dad is totally ok with it, but my mom is very judgmental, she has this ideal guy in her head and if a guy I'm interested in doesn't meet her ...

Big argument!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Hi, the other day me and my best mate were in the park chatting to her boyfriend and his mates and somehow my boyfriend saw us and later that day me and my mate where at my house and my boyfriend came round and started shouting at me and then he ...

Discussing difficult situation from past with new girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - I'm 17, and a junior in high school. Last summer, an ex girlfriend of mine falsely accused me of attempted rape. The case didn't get very far, the police dropped it almost immediately, and another organization that specializes in sex abuse cases for ...

I'm sure permanent lovesickness can cause damage - and I need some motivational tips.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can! Here's my question... Ever since I was 7, I've really REALLY liked this guy that was 4 y...

Circumcized vs not circumcized

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) - hi im curious..im 14 and uncercumsized i juss wanted to no from all you girls out there??? does it feel better circumsized to you?? do you like iot better that way and to all my fellas that are uncercumsized, have you ever had a problem wi...

It just seems like he doesn't care

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having problems at the minute. We keep arguing about stupid little things, and I always get upset and start crying. When I do this, it's like he doesn't care. He won't hug me, or anything like that, he just blanks it out. It ...

I don't trust my army guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - i went out with this boy for 2years and i loved him soo much we broke up beacuse i kept acussig him of cheating we then didnt talk for about a year and then he contacted me said how he still loves me and has not stoped loving me and he said he would ...

Afraid to ask a girl out for numerous reasons

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) - i dont no what to do... i need some advice.. o.k there's this grl i really like..we get along great we're really close..she's like an angel, i dont stop thinking about her, but im afriad to ask her out, for multiple reasons 1st- if she says no,...

I've been wearing my g/f's knickers and fantasizing about being a woman

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - I'm a pretty down to Earth lad. Sporty and popular without ever standing out from the crowd. However lately i have been wearing my girlfriends nickers and have fantisied about being her and being a women. Am i a "freak" for this?...

I'm a bedroom sissy that fantasizes about being dominated by a man. Am I gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - Hi. I'll get straight to it. I think I'm straight, I've only ever fancied girls and fallen in love with girls. Even now, I would never enter a proper relationship with a man. But...I want to have sex with a man. I'm a bedroom sissy that fantasi...

I feel like my friend has replaced me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I have had my friend since we were 3, its been 9 years and now she has a new friend! They hang out all the time, that used to be me! I feel like she replaced me. She doesnt know but I'm really mad...what should I do?...

I'm the one left out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I am 15 years old. I know I am not ugly,or fat, but I am self concious about my looks. I have never really been asked out in my life except once for a joke. It makes me feel lonely and rejected what should I do? At primary school I was always the...

What can make me climax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Ok i lost my virginity about a few months ago and everytime me and my boyfriend have sex i dont cum! And i really want to, keep in mind i never came before so i think it sucks thats i didnt get to experience the feeling yet. He didn't cum with me ...

He wasn't in contact, I slept with someone else and turns out they know each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - i was seeing a guy for about a month and a half..over christmas i didnt see him at all. now it has been a month since i have seen him. he never texts me first but he does always reply to my texts and we saw each other about once or twice a week. but ...

Has anyone else ever had their heart ripped apart like this, and how did you deal with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I live some miles aways from each other, and every time he comes to see me (he never lets me come to his) he had to take two buses, which took nearly two hours and cost a lot of money which he barely had. Last night he came into ...

I am having a really hard time getting over her. What's your opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - Hello I was dating a girl for 2 months and everything was going great, until x-mas when she stopped putting effort into our relationship right after a trip to where she resently moved from. Then she stopped telling me about what was going on and...

He's emotionally abusive, and physically as well. He's manipulative, controlling, and a very angry person.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship with each other for almost four years now. I am 17 and he is almost 18. I do love him, and he says that he loves me. Things have been going sour for awhile now. I'm confused, and would ...

I am hurt and confused. How should I feel about this?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for five months. This week I was grounded and she was texting him and told him that she likes him but loves me?! He has a girlfriend and she initiated this with him. What should I do about this? I am hurt and ...

Breaking up is so hard to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - I just broke up with my girlfriend of 5 months, she is my batch mate so i see her everyday at school and its really hard for me, i love her so much and this is rally killing me, what should i do? ...

Why do they always break my heart??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I've had 4 failed relationships and all of them didn’t turn out well at all.. in the beginning it would be soo nice.. but then after a while all the phone calls would stop and it seem like am the only one tryng to make it work. trying to force them ...

Confused about me sexuality and looking at porn.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - My question, i guess, is sort of about porn. Okay, so i'm seventeen, and i a little sexually confused. i thought theat by looking at porn i'd get a better answer about whether i was straight, or a lesbian, or bi, or pan, or WHAT! in fact, i enjoy ...

Why does my mum keep hitting me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I love my mum, but she has been really stressed at work and my dad has been ill. She has started hitting me almost every night really hard. I'm covered in bruises and don't know what to do. She never hits my twin brother or my sister and I don't ...

I came across this and I didn't know what to think and I want to know wether or not I should be concerned..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - After some snooping which I feel horrible about I came across this and I didn't know what to think and I want to know wether or not I should be concerned... I am trax, and the rest is kind of self explanatory... Look "ex bf", I love you a...

Do I say yes and have a niggle in the back of my every time we kiss. Or say no and forget him.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid. I have a bit of a dilemma. There is a boy who's 16. I went out with him a while ago. But we split because he wanted sex and I wasn't ready. Anyway a few months down the line he has asked me out saying he will go really slow this tim...

Do I wait for her feelings for the ex to cool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - my gf broke up with me because of someone else, she already dated him 2 years ago and she says she cant forget her past. she says that im just amazing and shes never had someone else care about her more then me, but i might be going somewhere where ...

How do you know when its love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) - How do you know when you love someone? Is their a certain way u feel? ...

Breaking up and moving on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - How do you get over a breakup? Today, me and my boyfriend split up, i'm devostated and can't stop crying, please give me some tips on how to move on!? Thanks so much!...

Can dating get us into trouble since we're minors?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - my b/f, 18, and me, 15 r going out in secret, and when were talking to a teacher, while i said things that made it obvious that im in his life alot, like a g/f, so the teacher asked if him if we were going out, and he said to ask me, and by then ...

Was I just a good time to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I just recently had sex with this guy that i really liked and i thought he liked me but one night i came over his house and we had sex and now we barely talk at all. Did he use me or what? I need help!!!!!!!!!!...

Uncomfortable about my body

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - hey, um how do i get over this feeling. I'm a bit uncomfortable with my body. I don't like talking about breasts and stuff. I mean i'm mature about it and stuff, but when other people talk about it around me, i get embarrassed. Now i've alway...

Question about bathroom and period

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I was just curious. I've come to realize that if you haven't gone to the bathroom for a while (#2) it stops your period from coming. Does anyone know why? It's just been bothering me. My stomach starts hurting and i can't go to the bathroom, but ...

I can't control my dick

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) - hi everyone.. i need a little advice so im 14 years old and im in the 8th grade and lately ive been having a really- really strong erge to have sex... and its like i cant control my dick.. i get hard so easily and it happens when it wants to...

He's too shy to make a move

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy for almost 2 years and can't seem to get over him. He's a little shy, so if anyone would make the first move it would have to be me. I can't do it :(. We're such great friends and I value the friendship. I don't know for sure ...

Can I become ill from no masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Is it atall possible for a man to get ill from no masturbation or sex for 40 days?...

Period started but could I be preggers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I've practicually worried myself to death, I had sex on the 11th of this month, it was unprotected. I started my period today. It's only been 6 days, I read up on some forums that girls can still be pregnant, and get their period. How likey is t...

Old feelings for ex are creeping back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend -well ex now- thought I was cheating on him with my guy friend because he and I talk a lot an stuff. I told my boyfriend that me and my friend aren't dating. That's when he became distant with me, I knew he was mates with this girl w...

Where do guys get advice for girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Just out of curiousity. Where do guys go for advice on girls?...

Am I just a plaything to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - okay so i am 17 years old and my girl is 16 it seams like i do everthing for here and she always gets wat she wants i love her alot but it seams like all she wants is a little plaything she gets all pissed about everything i do and she tells me im ...