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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Torn between ex girlfriend of almost 3 years and best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Basically I'm torn between 2 women. One is my ex girlfriend of 2 and a half years, we had alot of problems mainly to do with trust, but I was so in love with her I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. I was even planning on asking her to ma...

How do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - So yes I have asked this question but I want to know how do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you??? It's gotten to the point where it's like hmmm shouldn't we have already done it like a dozen times???????...

Lately I've been off my game and I can't stop thinking about my ex what should I do?

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21 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend moved away to texas and I live in new hampshire and I was pretty devastated when she moved so I tried to move on and get another girlfriend but lately I've been off my game and I can't stop thinking about my ex what should I do?...

Should I leave her because I feel she betrayed me.

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21 January 2009 (M) - Please help me. There is this girl who is my close friend. I love her and told her so and that I want her to be my girlfriend but she said she was not ready for a relationship. Later she told me she had gotten a boyfriend but that she loves me. ...

How do we strengthen our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for four wonderful drama free months - at least until now. before I got with him I had a lot of guy friends and was a big flirt. but since then I've stopped flirting with them and made it known that I wanna ...

Even more period problems

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21 January 2009 (F) - I've had my period for two years now (I don't know how far along that put me puberty-wise) and I've felt my hormones amping up for some time now. When do they usually start to calm down?...

I don't know what to think... Does she like me?

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21 January 2009 (M) - Ok, the thing is at college, there is a girl who I really like, she's nice, sweet, good looking etc and I don't know if she likes me back. We get on really well as freinds, she laughs at my jokes, she smiles at me like all the time and we always ...

I can't get my feelings straight.

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21 January 2009 (F) - I've had this thing with this guy for about three months. we aren't going out but we have this commitment thing to not hook up or get with other people. i love being with him but i see him maybe once a week. and we are never alone. he isn't the kind ...

Do his text kisses mean he wants to be more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - i am wondering what the kisses at the end mean when the text is coming from a guy, as i know that when girls text, they nearly always put kisses so dont mean as much, but when ur getting like 8, 9 or 10 kisses at the end of a text from a guy is he ...

Is it possible to have true love for the wrong person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Is it possible to have true love (I don't think that's grammatically correct :S) for the wrong person? You see, there's someone who makes me smile and blush just when they look at me. When they talk to me it feels like my heart will burst out of m...

I hate the idea of sex, is this normal?

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21 January 2009 (F) - I hate the idea of sex. I haven't had any bad experiences with it or whatever (I've never even been kissed) but I just hate the idea of sex. Is this normal?...

Should you shave your arms?

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21 January 2009 (F) - Should you shave your arms? It's just I have some quite dark hair on my arms, and I wondered if it's normal to shave your arms. It's not like super-dark, so I don't have to shave. I just wanted to know....

Advice Please... Should I tell him how I feel or just be there for him as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - well this is my problem... there's a guy and I have liked him for about a year now. At first we weren't that close but this year we have gotten a lot closer. A while ago I was talking to him on msn and when I asked him how he was he said he was d...

He just likes to look at porn ALL NIGHT, and jerk off..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - OKay so, I talked to him last night about the asian porn and everything he lusts after.. I told him. When I stress it's not good for the baby.. And he told me porn is fine.. And I said "every day" He was just well, there's the door if you don't like ...

I want my boyfriend to ask me to be his valentine.

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21 January 2009 (F) - Ok.. this is a stupid problem but it would help all the same if anyone wants to give me some advice on this. I want my boyfriend to ask me to be his valentine, we've been going out almost 4 months now so it's acceptable.. right? I know him and...

What can I do? We both want to have sex but I can't ejaculate yet.

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21 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I have got a girlfriend that I have known for 3 months now. We both want to have sex but I can't ejaculate yet. Is there anything I can do to change this? I have heard about eating different foods but I don't think that would help. Help Please?...

The walls of my vagina have collapsed, (what do I do? )

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21 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, I'm 15, but 16 on Monday, I have become sexually active for 1 year, my periods have always been regular, not much menstrual pain and recently the walls of my vagina have not collapsed but ...

High sex drive !!!!!

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21 January 2009 (F) - Hi, Well I am 14 and let's just say my sex drive is very high but is that wrong because I'm a girl? When a boy has a high sex drive it doesn't matter but when a girl does it's vile and disgusting, am I the only girl who has a high sex drive? Is ...

Friend seems to think I am gay and is following me around

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21 January 2009 (M) - Hi, well ill get straight to the point, i'm 15 and have a friend (i wouldnt call him a friend but he would probly call me his best friend) who i think may be gay (not that theres anything wrong with that) but he seems to be following me lit...

French kissing & oral sex

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21 January 2009 (M) - Would you french kiss a girl who engage in oral sex with her ex boyriend 3 years ago? Next question is it true that if you kiss a girl that engage in those things it will come in like you kissing the guy private part?...

G/f & I broke up and its a pretty big mess

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21 January 2009 (M) - Hey everybody. I'm actually new here so I hope u all can give me the best advice y'all can give. Ok I'm actually 17 yrs old n my gf, L, is also 17. We've known each other 4 actually a month now(I know it sucks) n we love each other very much. To ...

Now he's "damaged goods" I should have went out with him when I could have

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - The boy I like now, liked me back in High School for 3 courses in a row. He asked me out several times but I never went out with him. I didn't want a boyfriend back then but now I started to like him. Unfortunately, I came to like him too late ...

Ex still cares for me and wants fwb..I am unsure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I'm feeling a bit lost and confused. My ex Doug and my ex best friend Lily went out behind my back soon after we broke up. This was quite a while ago. It took me a long time to forgive them but i realised it was better to let go of the anger i had ...

Unhealthy to immediately kiss after oral sex?

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21 January 2009 (F) - I've heard that it can be really 'unhygenic' if you have oral sex and kiss immediately afterwards. Obviously I don't need an explanation as to why lol, but was wondering if there's any risk of catching something (not neccessarily STDs) and if there ...

To have sex? or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - im 16 and my boydrien is 20, we have been 2gtr for 7months should i have sex with him or wait longer?(im still a little scarde) In if so how much longer?...

I'm 16, he's in his 40's what to do if he asks me out?

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21 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem that I am VERY confused about. There's this guy at my gym, he's (I guess) in his late 30s or early 40s. Anyway I like him, a lot, and he seems to like me as well, but I am 16. He doesn't know that. (Most people seem to ...

My boyfriend says I whine

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21 January 2009 (F) - so my boy friend says i whine but i dont believe i am when he says i am we use to be like best friends now i feel like were barley friends i feel like all he care's about is playing video games and smoking w/ his friends i no im kinda clingy but ...

If I was to go get the morning after pill would Social Services be able to find out I'd taken it?

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21 January 2009 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend last night and the condom split. I'm on no other form of contraceptive like the pill or anything, so I need to go and get the morning after pill. Thing is I'm having some problems and home at the moment and social ...

Does she like me, or are we just good friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - I've liked a certain girl for 2 years now. When we met, we were always arguing through emails. Half a year later, we became friends because one of her friends (who now lives in queensland) had a crush on me. The girl i like began to be very frien...

Why don't I have a period now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - i think there is something wrong with my periods..i was going good until last year when it just stopped..and i am worried to death please help! i still haven't had my period again! why don't i have my period!?...

My step-mom's brother likes me but its causing alot of problems

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I'm confused and don't know what to do. My step-mom's brother likes me and i like him, but he is clingy My step-mom doesn't get along with her brother, and my dad hates her brother. My step-mom knows were talking to eachother and doesn't like it. ...

I've been crying myself to sleep at night overthis

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21 January 2009 (F) - Okay, iv been with this guy for WAY over a year, but we arent dating like boyfriend girlfriend thing. He's 17, im 14, and I know how adults think us "kids" are to young to be in love. But truth be told, I defenitly know I am. He's generous, he makes ...

Why do girls always fall for the bad guys?

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21 January 2009 (?) - im having girl trouble and i need your help..i have to questions... 1-ok there this girl i really like and we're really close friends and i think she likes me too..but tthe thing is she has a boyfriend and she's always flirting with me and seem...

How long will a guy wait?

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21 January 2009 (F) - I was wndrn how long can you make a guy wait b4 he gives up and looks for someone that will give him what he wants?...

Best friends boyfriend

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21 January 2009 (F) - He tells me that he loves me and sounds like he means it, he says that he has never felt like this before, that he would do anything for me and never wants to loose me, he says that this is the first time he has been in love untill now.. The ...

If I lose my virginity to a guy I don't love, won't it be easier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Im listening to the advice ppl give me bout waiting for sex, but i have another theory. i know a girls first time is special and something she will remember BUT, i dont know if i can lose it to someone i absolutely love, and then lose HIM. I have f...

I love him but his g/f hates him

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21 January 2009 (F) - my best friend and i have been best friends since ninth grade. He's one year older than me. i'm 16. i've recently stopped denying the obvious. i'm in love with my best friend. i've told him...and he's told me that he feels the same way only ...

How do you tell if a hymen is broken or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - so...i'm not sure if my hymen's broken or not. I know this is so embarrassing but like i've done...alot...but there's been no bleeding or pain when i'm...active....i'm just curious really. i'm not sure how to tell if it is or not....

16 and scared to have sex

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21 January 2009 (F) - Im 16(virgen) my boyfriend his 20(not a virgin), we have dun about evrything,but im to scared to have sex with him. His also scared he dosent wanna get into trouble, and his scared to get me pregnat. I dont know what to do, what should i do? ...

How do you know when you're tired of someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - How do you know when your getting tired of being with someone? I've been with this girl for seven months and I think starting to lose my feelings for her. Can someone help?...

Is there a chance? I like a guy with a g/f!

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21 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, There is this guy I see around school. He's really cute. However, he's two years older than me and has a girlfriend. I'm never been attracted to a boy more then I do now. He's always looking at me. Even when he's with his girlfriend. ...

Can you control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies?

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21 January 2009 (F) - Is there any way to somehow control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies? i feel like it would heko scratch the itch if you know what i mean... help me get over him. i've tried picturing senarios in bed while i'm trying to fall asleep ...

How to NOT be attracted to someone who is off limits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Is there any way to stop being attracted to someone who's off-limits? if it's not going anywhere, that would just be easier.... :(...

I really like him but he's such a manwhore! Lose it? Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Ok i REALLY need to hear some advice and decide something. because my friend is gettin his license in a week and a half and he plans on fucking. we met over a year ago and our relationship is purely sexual even tho im a virgin. from sending ...