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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My brother is messed up and our family is falling apart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I need some advice. I want to know if anybody has been in a situation like this before. I have a brother who is 16 at the moment. It's probably not a very good thing to say, but I am ashamed to have him as my brother, because of all the stupid c...

Would your penis be smaller if you are exercising?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - ok.. i have a simple question guys does you're penis seem to be a little bit smaller than usauall if you're exercizing alot, like push-ups working out and stuff.. i was juss wondering if that happens. thxz...

Thoughts on belly button piercing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hey :) Well I was thinking about getting my belly button piereced, but im not sure if its a good idea or not! It looks cool, but although im ok with pain, its needles im not a fan off, although I can cope. I mean I got through my TB jab! So the main...

At a fork in the road

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I am running in circles trying to figure out what to do. Over a year ago, I met a guy who I knew would instantly be apart of my life. Though he lives almost an hour away and visits were bare minimum.. We spoke almost non-stop, venting to each other ...

Too thin & bony but when I eat I always vomit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - i am 16 years of age and have lost weight really quick and with this i have to bones on the upper back both left and right showing along with my spinal bone. i would like to know do girls hate boys with bones that show and that are kinda skinny and ...

What to do about the mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I like a guy from my bus stop, he didnt used to notice me, but i realised he was on my facebook since he went to my old school in the year above .. and weve been speaking quite alot. He does seem intrested and i cant be bothered to write out cut...

Advice on getting rid of loose skin without having surgery

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid i have lost weight 2 years ago went from 90kg to 50kg, with this i have loose skin which i tried everything to get rid of but can not, cardio, sit-ups etc. along with this my lower left part of my stomach seems to be bloated than my ...

When do you become too old for this kind of stuff?

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28 January 2009 (F) - Is it normal for teenagers to randomly pull guys at parties and stuff? when do you become too old for this kind of thing to stop happening?...

I want a b/f but go to all girl's school. How am I supposed to get one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - For ages i always thought i was perfectly happy without a boyfriend and didnt really want one as i didnt want to be tied down and thought it was just generally more fun, but now i see more people with their boyfriends and actually i would quite like ...

Should every free moment be spent being constructive?

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28 January 2009 (F) - When i get back from school, or on the weekends if i'm not doing something to fill like every minute then my parents complain about me not being 'constructive', just so that i can hopefully confirm, does everybody have free time to do as they please ...

We're fighting almost daily, I'm trying to change myself and I am not happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm 19 and I've been in my current relationship now for 23 months. We're living together (renting an apartment) while attending college. I feel so lackluster lately. I'm never happy with my boyfriend and we get into fights cons...

Is he only going out with me because I'm a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I have my first boyfriend! I graduated early, but when I went to school there was this guy on the varsity football team and he was a senior. I never knew who he was, but He came to one of my friends' parties last week and said he knew me from school ...

Is it possible to become infatuated with someone on TV?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - This is weird, but is it possible to become infatuated with like someone on TV? I wouldn't really say it about myself, but I was just curious as to whether it can really happen. Thanks....

How can I become less bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Well my problem is that I'm bored, sounds kind of petty, but no matter what I'm doing, I'm still bored. At school and at work I'm constantly watching the clock, even when I'm hanging with friends I'm always thinking about how bored I am. I've only ...

Do I ask her to the prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - Dear All This is following up from last December. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/was-i-rejected-what-do-i-do-now.html Basically I told the girl of my dreams for five years, that I loved her dearly. It was all a bit too much for her; I...

How do you learn science when you're done with school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys. Ok this aint a relationship question but i dont know who to ask. Im from SA as you can see but I was wondering if there was any way possible to do science. Im done with school but i did not choose science as a subject and i so badly want ...

He thinks I cheated and now he won't talk to me, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Heyy; i split up with my boyfriend a few weeks back; because he thinks i cheated on him. the story is i live quite far away from my school; so i have a different group of friends during the holidays to who i would hang around with at school. Well; ...

I love boys but when they talk to me I freeze! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I love boys... But sometimes I get to nervous to even talk to them or walk and I just listen alot of boys have walked out of my life because I dont talk or get scared and dont do anything example: A boy I lived asked me on a date I just stared a...

Faster orgasm when legs are closer, why is that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - How come when you masturbate when you spread your legs it takes longer to organism but when you close them tight it takes a shorter time?...

I can't help thinking I'm fat and nothing I do makes me thinner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - im 15 and i suppose ive become pretty obsessed with my weight n how i look. im small for my age..about 5 foot. I really wanna lose some weight to make myself feel better cuz i always wear jackets out and hate takin them off. Ive started drinkin ...

She refused me. Should we stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - Should i remain friend to a girl who refused to be my girlfriend and how?...

Girls in school give me too much attention, I can't concentrate!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - Hi guyz! First of all im an asian guy currently living here in ireland.. Lives in Japan before.. My moms a half japanese nd half korean and my dads half filipino and half spanish thats why i em blessed with these gorgeous cute face and body..as...

Irrational fear about the male body?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and we are very close and open with each other and get on really well. I'm a virgin and he's not, though he has been very understanding about my not being ready to have sex yet and has never ...

Advice needed--is this too soppy to send?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Well basically this guy that i currently like is in the army and leavin on friday for germany. i do like him but want to send him a email because im not sure if i'll be able to talk to him before he goes on friday :(. please be honest, is this to ...

B/f joining the army. Shall I stay with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - My bf said he is joining the army and that I will leave him. Shall I leave him??? I love him but I will never see him I don't know what to do because I know that if he goes then I will never see him n I havent seen him in over a week and I miss him ...

I think my best friend wrote this blog & she said hurtful things about me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Ok. So my best friend(were practically inseperable) showed me this blog the other day. We were remarking on how it sounds just like our school. It consits of a group the writer calls "them", the girls she describes sound just like a few of the girls ...

My g/f doesn't know that I was on her profile and know she is sending naked photos of herself to another guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - i went on my gf's tagged profile and she sent a message to another guy saying she will send him pics of her naked and so on. i wasnt meant to be on there so what am i suppose to do?...

Extra skin "there" is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I've recently noticed that theres quite a bit of extra skin around my vagina. If i try to put my finger up my vagina i can feel flesh around the opening that sometimes slightly blocks it. Is this normal??? Will it make things difficult having s...

Can we get into trouble if we were to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hi folks, I suppose I really just wanted some advice. I'm 19 and in my first year at university. Since I started in september, I've begun to get quite close to one of my lecturers - he's in his first lecturing job, only mid twenties and absolutely ...

Sex for the first time didn't work! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - hi, i desperately need some advice. I tried having sex for the first time last night, it was with my boyfriend of 7 months and we were perfectly save and everything. There was just one problem, he couldn't get his penis into me. Has anyone else had...

I whinged too much and now its over. How do I show him I've changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - this is complicated, but, i was with my bf for a year and eight months and we had a fantastic time together, he told me his ex gf, his first love who he was with for a year cheated on him and that he absolutely hates her. but he broke up with me a ...

What name should I call him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. This is a bit of a silly question, so don't laugh at me :P Me and my boyfriend have pet names for each other (I'm Bunny, he's Bear - yes, it's sickening. Told you not to laugh!), and we use them so often that we barely ever call eac...

I think my guy is messing around and I'm thinking of my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a child with another woman while i was with him but it actually happened when we had a problem. He was so special during that time and after he had a kid. Recently he started acting up. I think he is having an affair with a girl but ...

How do I become close to my ex again - after I made a move on her friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - After me and my girlfriend broke up, i asked 2 of her friends to be friends with benefits with me( all 3 of them are in my batch) well they told her and she got really pissed and mad at me, i spent around a week and a half try to get their ...

Does he really love me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Ohk here goes, now i have been seeing this guy for over a month or so i knew him since we was in primary school, but didnt really talk too him. We seen each other at a party!! and got talkin n exchange numbers!! the next day he text me straight ...

Help needed in the sex department!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - This is rather embarrassing but I need some help in the sex department. My boyfriend and I have been having great sex for about 3 months now, but I'm always feeling like he does more for me than I do for him. I also have this serious phobia of ...

Bi-sexual, very open about sex, I am different, but told I am too much, what gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - So I'm 17, bisexual, and a very open person sexually. When I say that I mean when I have partner or potential partner, I don't play those mind games most girls my age (that I know) seem to play about having sex. I lay all the cards out on the table. ...

How do I, a man, lose my virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - i am a virgin and i need to look a girl to have sex but i don't know how to ask. ...

I need a primer in sexual techniques, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - I would just like to know. I have never gone more than making out with my girlfriend. If we are ready to move on what would be the best way to like lick her pussy? like would should i do to make it feel good for her to make her want to give me a ...

I want to date, but worry about my weight, should I be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I love being single but I think Im tired of being single I want someone but im scared because two or three years ago people talked about my weight what should I do?...

He's in a relationship with a girl who hates me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hi Ok idk how to explain this but I'm going to try ok.I am currently a sophmore in high school and I'm pretty sure I'm in love with one of my best friends.I met him at the beginning of my freshmen year when I joined the swim team.we started off as r...

How do you know if you're fat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I'm 5ft. tall 136 pounds and every one calls me fat my mom and dad most of my friends not all but most. So is that fat?...

I don't know what to talk about

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28 January 2009 (M) - Im in high school and i have a girl in my class that i really like and I don't know if she likes me. I use to talk to her a lot because we sat right across from another, but now she's far away and i have trouble finding something to talk about. What ...

Best friend in love with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - my best girl friend said she was in love with me but i don't swing that way and i still want to be friends so what do i say to that?...

I love them both but not in the same way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Ok... I have a problem... A big one at that too. I am in love with a guy (Lets call him Demon) and am ready to marry him whenever he wants. I love Demon with all my heart. The thing is... I also love another guy (I'll call him Angel). It's not how I ...

Could he maybe like me even though he said its not appropriate?

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28 January 2009 (F) - This camp canocler I've know since I was 5 is like realy mean to me but he yells at my guy friends when they touch me even when they throw me in the pool. QAnd my brother asked him if he liked me and he said that was not camp appropriate and it w...

What do girls enjoy watching?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - do girls enjoy watching heterosexual sex as much as guys? do they enjoy watching other girls please themselves?...

How do guys act around crying girls?

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28 January 2009 (F) - I make it a rule not to cry in school, long story short, today i did. luckily, i was alone with the teacher, who's also female so she understands the hormones, etc. and was really nice ad calmed me down. anyway, it got me thinking: what would a ...

I've asked him out twice, he's said no, but I think he likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - so, thier;s this gye that i like. when i first saw him i thought he was weird. but i found as i talked more, and more abouthim that he was starting to grow on me. at first i dont want to say i was kinda stalkerish but i would talk to him we would ...

How do I get rid of my insecurities and keep this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I have my first boyfriend! I graduated early,but when I went to school there was this guy on the varsity football team and he was a senior.I never knew who he was,but He came to one of my friends' parties last week and said he knew me from school ...

I'm in love with my boyfriend but its getting boring

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I'm an 17 year old girl.I've been daiting my boyfriend who's also my best friend for a year now (he's 20). We have what you'll call “the perfect relationship”.everybody wants to hve wht we have and we're happy with each other and we really do lov...

If I didnt cum what was it?

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28 January 2009 (F) - My bf was fingering me. and while he was this white liquidy stuff came out. but it couldnt have been cum because ive read up about it and it says it should be clear. and it didnt feel 'all that' so what was it?...

Why am I still crying over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I am in love with this guy. Simple, right? Wrong. I see him 6 days out of the whole year. I gave him my e-mail address last time I saw him, but he hasn't e-mailed me yet. I never got his e-mail address. I told him that I love im. He didn't talk to ...

Pubic hair question!

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28 January 2009 (M) - I'm 14 years old and just barely got pubic hair and it is mostly around the base of the penis and on my testicles is there something wrong with me because I started too late. Also how long does it take the pubic hair to grow to the top of my crotch? ...