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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I want to trust him but I don't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - hay :) i went out with this boy for 2years and i loved him soo much we broke up beacuse i kept asusig him of cheeting we then didnt talk for about a year and then he conted me said how he still loves me and has not stoped loving me and he said he ...

Why do teachers get attached to students?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Woah. So I was reading some past questions... why do teachers sometimes get attached to their students? Sometimes, so much so that they would touch students inappropriately? I don't get that. At my school, we see a teacher in class, or occasionally ...

Cheating only a drink away..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and in a relationship with the most gorgeous and sweetest boy. I met him at a friends party, he's 21. We've been going out for a few months now and everything is going great. If i'm being honest he' probably my first 'serious' boyfriend. I'm ...

Ex really hurt in accident-should I go see him? Or not go?

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17 January 2009 (?) - My situations is this: theirs this guy which I'm intrested in and vise versa, but my ex boyfriend of 3 years has recently had a very bad car accident.. My ex boyfriends sister came to my house telling me that her brother wants to talk to me, he ...

Can a student date and EX teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Is teacher dating his ex-student prohibited? Is it frowned upon? He's just... i always said i would never get married after watching my parents' marriage fail, but i think i'd be happy with him. we have so much alike. he's 10 years older than...

No girlfriends allowed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - i am 15 years old. my parents dont approve of me having a girlfriend. i love this girl incredibly. they told me to breakup with her but i wont. please help me. i dont want to disrespect my parents. but they are not letting me see her and they are ...

He won't date me because he says he's an arse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Hi, hopefully you'll will be able to help me with my conundrum. :) I've known this boy for a year and I fancy him (he knows). He's admitted to liking me a lot too. We flirt like crazy all the time. Recently though, he said something that's...

I don't wanna lose her....

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17 January 2009 (M) - A few days ago, my gf and i were at school for this activity, and one of her friends was leaving, so then i said "go kiss and hug and say goodbye" So my girlfriend thought i told her to make out wif her friend, and told her no, just give her a ...

Full blown fishy fanny!!!!!!

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17 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is 15... and I recently engaged with her... but after my fingers STUNK OF FISH. I'm not talking a little, I mean full blown fishy fanny! What do I do??? I can't go round with smelly hands :( Thanks :)...

I hate my body...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - My problem is about my body... I'm 19 and I'm not overweight or fat, I'm a size 10 on top and 12 on bottom and no one has ever said anything bad or offensive about my weight that would make me feel self conscious, however, I really am. im in my fo...

How should I bring it up to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) - Ok so I have been seeing this guy for a little over two months. We have been texting every day, once in a while we'll talk on the phone and we rarely see each other. He lives about 30 minutes away from me. I would like to see him more often, but to ...

They're both really sweet... who to choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - ok hi :] I'm 15 and I'm going out with this guy and everything is or was going great until I met this guy now I'm sure that I love my bf but every time I'm with this other guy I feel so good and I think that there might even be friction between this ...

Problems with birth control...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I threw up 2 hours after I took a birth control pill, a few days before the end of my pack. I took another one that day just in case, but I decided not to add a pill to the end of my pack, but rather finish the pack a day early and then start a new ...

Not seeing one another enough and it is affecting our relationship...

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17 January 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend who's 22 for nearly 6 months now. We have a great relationship, we're both very affectionate, loving and caring towards one another and we make each other laugh, infact ive never been so happy in a ...

Periods problems.... normal or not?

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17 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 years old and have had periods since I was about 11/12. It's only in the last couple of months they have been irregular, in the last 2 months I have had a period every 2 weeks and recently have come on again after just a week. I don't kn...

Fighting a lot... Honestly I rather sleep on the lumpy couch than be in the same bed as her.

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17 January 2009 (?) - Me and my wife have been fighting a lot lately. We normally fight about my work hours. She says I'm not spreading enough with her. I usually get up at 5:00am and won't get home until 8:00pm (I actually get off at 5:00 but I like to work over time) ...

3 boyfriends and don't know who to choose...

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17 January 2009 (F) - I have a problem, I have 3 boyfriends two are english and one is italian and I don't knoe whst to do because I really like the italian one but all my friends say that I should just keep going out with them all but I really like him what should I do ...

Taking a break...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - We have been together for 7 months. we were doing so great!!! but things happened and he want to juvi for a day becasue he got caught tagging. but he says he needs space,time to think. he thinks he's bad for me and he says he sould let me go so i ...

Anyone know anything about Hawaii?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - This isnt a relationship problem but i always get great advice from the people on this website so i decided to come here... This summer my mother is taking me on vacation to hawaii due to my good grades. she said i can pick which island to go to ...

She talked to her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been togther for a year and a half one day i ask bout one of her exs have called she told me yes i ask her what did yall talk bout she told me don't worry bout it i kept asking witch now i see it was the biggest mistake i ...

Does she think I'm not her friend anymore?

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17 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I recently asked a question on here about how to tell my friend i don't want to go somewhere cuz i have my period and she doesn't like to talk about that stuff. If you want to see that question, search dear cupid with the question "how to tell ...

What to wear to orientation?

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17 January 2009 (M) - This is not a relationship problem. Well, tomorow is my first orientation day at my university. Wot ll be best to wear? Thanks...

First time sex curiosity

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17 January 2009 (F) - So ... it hurts when you first have sex yeah? So would it hurt if my boyfriend fingered me? If so is there anyways I should stand, sit or lay down to make it less painfull. Am a virgin so it will also be my first time with something up there if...

I'm secretly dating waiter at restaurant we frequent

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - hi i am going out with this waiter from a restaurant near me but no one knows and last weekend i went in there with my mum my best mate and her mum and he was there and my mate fancied him and she kept starring and that when he went by and we are ...

Boyfriend wants me to consider a threesome

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: Poster is 18, not age stated Just so ya know am not between the ages of 13-15 I thought when you signed up you had to be around that age. Well am 18 and my boyfriend asked me if I would do anal sex and I said no and he was okay with it ...

He's not texting me back... is this him trying to let me know he doesn't fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) - There's this guy who I really like. He's one of my friends and I tried to get over my crush on him but didnt succeed. He normally texts me and talks to me for hours on end. We are really close and he pokes me, laughs at my stupid jokes, stares at ...

Unusual period cycle.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I am 13 years old and just started my period in September(2008). It has been really unusual for the past month because it hasn't really cleared up... it's been here for nearly a month and I don't know how to get rid of it. What can I do. Please ...

I'm only 13 and I'm 9 days late!!!!! HELP!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - OMG!!! Ok I'm only 13 and I let my boyfriend 'stick it in' just once and I don't know, I'm really worried because I'm 9 days late on my period and I don't know how to tell my mom cuz she is very strict and so is my dad. Can you please help me, I'm ...

Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - So my baby's daddy left me an broke my heart an he's dating an ugly chubby chick now. I'm 7 months pregnant and can't find a guy to date. Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected. How can I get a boyfriend? ...

If you loved someone and it didn't work out, would you always love them but in a differnt way even if it's not romantic any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - If you loved someone and it didn't work out, would you always love them but in a differnt way even if it's not romantic any more? or would you just care! I'm having a hard time understanding as I'm 7 years younger than my partner, we have a daught...

I fell out with her because she was better at shooting than me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) - My girlfriend and I went to this summer fair (I live in Australia) and we started playing this ball game when you knock down milk bottles. I was horrible at it, I couldn't make a shoot so my gf grabbed the last ball and knocked down some. She even ...

Why is she being so distant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - Hello guys.. I need some advice lately my GF is being distant from me.. I mean the other day her car was fucked up she has to pay a ton of money and all.. I mean i try and help her (i don't like giving up or giving in must be my pride) So anyway all ...

I cheated on her with men because I wasn't satisfied sexually with her and I still saw her as my best friend even though we were dating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year. Previous to this relationship we were both in heterosexual relationships and both have never been with a girl. I personally had many male sex partners she has had a few. We were best friends and ...

How do you I flirt with a straight guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - HEY! i'm in love with a straight guy, but he dosent really notice......so i was just wondering.......how to flirt or give hints that you like him.....since everything i'm doing is completely useless!!!!! unfortunately my talents arent helping me i...

Cant stop masturbating

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17 January 2009 (M) - iam 15 year old boy cant stop masturbating about my teacher and ome time lesbians when everyone asleep i look at lesbians it hink im gay....

He's clingy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Please help me! My boyfriend is so caring and I know he will be soo faithful, and recently we have been arguing over petty things, he has a problem with most of my friends, then when I pick faults with his friends it a different story, I feel he...

I blew my chance for a kiss-now I want one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - i have a realy cute boyfriend and the other day we were in the park and he went to kiss me and i moved away and now i realy want him to kiss me what should i do ...

Crush for 7 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on this guy for a really long time. I'm talking about 7 years here! A while ago(about grade 5,6) I would say i hated him because well, i was 10, immature and didn't want anyone to know i liked him. I was pretty sure that during this ...

Does 10 years make a difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - So there's this guy... we have the same political views, beliefs, etc. and he respects me. i think i'm in love. the problem? he's 10 years older than me. in the future, how can this work? i've heard of many successful marriages where the age ...

Caught between the two, don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I've really liked this guy for some time. But it was only recently that I found out he likes me back. Nothing has happened between us; we aren't even dating yet. Last night I went town with my "friend" who I previously hit it off with in the past...

Love the new, still think of the old

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17 January 2009 (F) - Please help me, i am so in love with my boyfriend, but i still feel like i have feelings for my old boyfriend, although he was horrible to me and we didn't last long, i haven't been with my old boyfriend for over 2 years and i have been with my ...