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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

What should a girl do in this situation of flirting with her friend's boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Situation: Girl A has a boyfriend. Her friend Girl B "heavily flirts" with Girl A's boyfriend a couple of times, whilst talking online. The boyfriend breaks up with Girl A shortly after this [not due to the flirting, just for some other reason]. ...

How do I answer the doctor's question?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - before i ask my question i really need to ask you not to consider my age, i just need help on the question thank you. I want to go on the pill soon because i have very heavy periods and every month they kill! I know some of the questions that the...

The thought of infertility scares me as I'm desperate to have children when I'm older.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Around four months ago I found out my now ex boyfriend was sleeping with my best friend, and soon after she announced she was pregnant. However, although I believe it is his baby, she has told me herself that she 'thinks' the baby is his, but she's ...

Ex says he can't trust me but I want him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were very close friends for 3 years before we started going out, i thought he was amazing, then suddenly there was just no trust in the relationship. He constantly went through my phone and I admit, I don't really have ...

High sex drive, don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - I have a very high sex drive. I don't want to break my promise to God of having premarital sex. I don't want to do any of these things, but I am so tempted. I love this girl. I don't get hard or anything when I look at her or talk to her, but when I ...

I don't know if I should dump my needy boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - well im dating this guy he is a very nice guy but he calls 24 seven. he never leaves me alone. i need time for my self and he wants me to be around him and i have things to do he would yell at me some times for saying i couldnt come over or talk he ...

My first sexual relationship and I cannot orgasm with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship (my first sexually active one) for 1 year and a few months now and my girlfriend has still not been able to give me an orgasm. I have narrowed this down to these possibilities 1. Watching porn too often (every day...

I feel disgusted after masturbating to porn, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Okay I'm 16 and I'm gay... or bi (confused). And I've got something that I don't understand. So I'm hoping you guys might have the answer. So the thing is I only like porn when I'm turned on. And when I masturbate and cum; afterward I find it ...

I really like this guy but he did "things" with another friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Okay, here goes: I like this guy. Really really like him. His name is Tal. The other night there was a party, and well, him and me fooled around. Alot. As in, underneath bra and panties. After the party we went over to a friends house, but i had...

My teacher shouts at me around others but is nice in private. What does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - my teacher is grumpy in front of others and shouts at me and points out my flaws but when i go to ask for doubts privately he acts so sweet and he brushes on me and acts as if nothing wrong has happened, what does he have in mind?...

Sometimes it's clear for me to see how much he loves me but other times I feel like he doesn't care at all.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I don't really know what to say about this situation so I'm just gonna vent and ask for advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I've had my share of boyfriend and he's only the second one I've ever loved. He loves me too and I can ...

I always turn down girls due to my lack of confidence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - hi i dont know what it is but when im around a proper nice girl i fall to pieces, by that i mean; i was with my mates and these two girls, i never spoke to them before, but my mates went and asked one if i could have her number. at this point i ...

I'm 16 and think I'm in love with my 23 year old boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and I've been talking to a much older guy for about 3 years now. I really like him and feel like I'm in love with him. I know he knows I have a thing for him and he did say he does too but it's hard because of the age and a few other ...

Is it normal to not be affectionate with my family but I am with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - I don't cuddle my family and rarly kiss them or tell them I love them, but I cuddle and kiss my girlfriend ands tell her I love her alot, is this normal?... Or am I crazy?...

Opinions on the minimum and maximum ages to date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 16, and curious as to your opinion as to what the minimum and maximum age to date would be and why....

Is there any way I could combine my militant attitude to a part time job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - hey i would post this problem on dearcupid's sister site careerglove.com, but it looks like the last activity it had was in 2007. anyway heres my dilemma. even though i'm only 16, i've made up my mind in joining the military, i've started fil...

How do we talk about sex openly without the shyness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hey friends.. I know this is weird..but can anyone help me to fix this problem? I saw my bf looking at my breasts. We were sitting close to each other and i was telling him about something looking somewhere else. As i turned my head towards ...

Do you ever get over someone you've been with for years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - So my question is about love. After you have been with someone for a long time (years) and things don't work out between you two and you both move on what can you do to get yourself to stop loving, thinking about, and caring for the person that you ...

Does he think our relationship won't work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend doesn't call me at all even if i ask him and i am afraid that he doesn't want to get close to me because he doesn't think it will work or does he want it to work IDK i really want to be with him ...

Lie after lie from him. Shouldn't he be trying to make it up to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend lied. Now what? PLEASE help? Thursday I was with my boyfriend and I called him for our late night convo. But I remember him saying that he was going to have visitors and want get to talk to me tonight . I could hear that he was at a par...

Help!!! Think I'm in love with my best friend but can't imagine being in a romantic relationship with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Me and him have been best friends for a long long time. We're so close that it fascinates people. We were that close that we ended up in bed together and it never made anything awkward. We're still extremely close, but the thing is, I think I'm in ...

I know she loves me very much as a friend but I'm not sure she can love her at the same level as I love her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hey guys, just in need of some quick advice. It might some pathetic or complex but I'd appreciate any feedback I get. I'm in love with my best friend. I withstrain with saying infatuated because I'm not obsessed with her, and I genuinely care a...

I just lost the love of my life... how do I get over him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I just lost the love of my life I'm so sad. I can't believe he said we should go our own way. I feel dead, my heart is broken. I really love him. How do I get over him? ...

Should I text again or just leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I met a girl yesterday through a mutual friend and I like her, am quite sure she was flirting with me but not 100%. I thought things were going well but now she hasnt text back, is she just playing 'hard to get'? I've texted her twice and she hasn't ...

What do I say to him when we meet tomorrow to talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hey guys im sorry if this is a little long but you need to know the full storry to understand. my best friend is a guy and he likes me, hes liked me for over a year and about 2 month ago he asked me out and i ended up saying yes because i thought ...

Am I a gal pal???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I hope this will clear things up to show I am a good guy. A girl texed me last weekend and asked if I could be there for her at this party. I said sure anything you need. I didn't have anything to drink and protected her from other drunk guys. ...

Crush gone wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello, well, I need some advice on this guy. You see I liked him for a long time, sometimes he used to give me small signals that he liked me. He would try hard to get as close as he could to me. (That means outside my personal space bubble, or not ...

How do I lose 30 pounds by March?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Okay this is a REALLY stupid question but i felt like asking it anyways. I met this boy and I like him a lot. of course he has a girl friend. we have a lot in common and im just wondering if he likes me... see stupid huh? well his little brother ...

Does this mean I'm fat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Okay, well me and this guy got together over a year ago, He wasn't a virgin, he lost his virginity to a slightly over weight girl. which I didn't mind at first. I was a virgin but later in our relationship I lost my virginity to him. I'm not ...

He calls me horrible names

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hey guys im kind of new at this thing but i really need an outside perspective. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and half now. when he gets mad at me he calls me some horrible names ex:lard ass,bitch,exc.. and it makes me ...

How to make friends when you can't trust anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - After a big fight in high school, I've never been able to trust anyone aside from my mom. I thought I was great friends with a group of people from high school, but one of them got angry with me for trying to stop a fight between her and another ...

My best friend has broken up with him and I would love to be with him... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hi there I like this boy, i mean i really like him and we are good friends but my best friend was actually going out with him and i felt guilty about liking him . . but my best friend knew that i liked him and she said she was ok about it but i kn...

I've never been friends with a girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - i am 17 years old, i have never been freinds with girls. nor have i ever had a girl freind. there is this girl in my class whos number i have. i talk to her via sms and msn. other than this, i do not talk to her in school. i feel shy approaching ...

He's too good for me but I'm really beginning to fall!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - He's too good for me but I'm really beginning to fall! Here's the deal I've just finished my first year in uni and met this guy. I'd rate myself as average looking and of average intelligence. But his guy he just came from Korea last year, looks ...

I really like this guy but he totally ignores me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I really like this guy but he totally ignores me. we used to talk and be good friends but then he just left this friendship and started doing the same to other girls. i dont think anything like what happened to me happened to them but i want him to ...

I'm not sure what to do because I really like her and I think she really likes me. Any ideas???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - Yesterday me and four others went to fright night two girls and four boys in total. Basically it's twelve hours in Thorpe park. Okay so let's call the people; Emma Shannon Daniel Will and Aaron. So basically Emma and Daniel have known each other . ...

I'm tired of faking that I'm ok when I'm not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - So, lately i've been having low-self esteem issues, anxiety, and paranoia. I'm 15 and had a crush on a guy friend, I was so sure he liked me but we went to a downtown area with a group of friends and my other friend set him up with this girl. Af...

Guy is always confused about who he likes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Over the summer this boy (Lucas), who used to like my friend, added me on facebook. He asked me to hang out with him and he was really nice so I agreed. He started to like me, and I liked him, but then I went to Europe for a few weeks and stopped ...

How do I interpret that? Help me please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (?) - Well two years ago, when I was in middle school, I had this teacher named mrs. Blonde.(cover up name)For some reason during the year I caught this urge to learn more about her and her morals and values. After seeing them,i develloped sort of an ...

I may have jealousy problems and I need help/advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I may have jealousy problems and I need help/advice. I have a boyfriend who has never had a girlfriend before. So that means I am his first girlfriend. He has many girl friends and there is just one specific girl that I am worried about. From the ...

Ex boyfriend advice needed!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hey, Well, a couple months ago, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months and a couple days after i lost my virginity to my ex, I found out that he had pregnant his ex girlfriend of 1 year. How did i found this out you might ask.. ? Through ...

I'm infatuated with my Forgein language substitute.

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30 October 2010 (F) - I'm infatuated with my Forgein language substitute. I'm a high school freshman, he's in his early thirties. He has shown no "special interest" in any of the girls in the class, including me. I just fell for him, because he seems like the guy I want ...

I wonder what it's like to be happy and content with your life, because I haven't had that feeling in ages.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I wonder what it's like to be happy and content with your life, because I haven't had that feeling in ages. I wonder what it's like to have someone who cares about you and loves you. Someone to hold you, wrap their hands around you when you're down. ...

Help I fell for my college teacher!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Okay so I am so confised and need some advice. I fell for my college teacher and its not just a crush. I am 18 and he is 20 and we always have a ton to talk about and joke around and play pranks on eachother and are fairly good friends. My college ...

Why do I always remember every single thing about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - whats it mean when I remember everything she has ever said done or worn when I talk to her. 215 days ago today is the day I met this girl and for 215 days she has been driving me crazy in im not so sure a good way. I like her so what she knows it ...

I am in love with a guy that has been giving me mixed signals.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - okay. I am in love with a guy that has been giving me mixed signals. Last week, my friend texted him and he ended up asking for my number. My friend told me and then he texted me. We just had a friendly conversation. Then the next day, there was a ...

How can I ask her to come to this party with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I got this big party Im going to tomorrow and it will be college kids and high school kids. I was invited by this girl and she said I could bring people. Im bringing my bro and I really want to at least include this other girl I know and her ...

Ditched... days before Halloween

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Okay so Halloween is soon. My two friends and I were going to dress up together. They were making their costumes and I was buying mine. They all went together. I didn't really wan't to be the costume they told me, but i was like "okay well i'll do ...

Why does she have this control over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - well I guess I would like to start off and say I love this girl who probably won't ever love me back. she knows I like her and thats fine I guess and she knows my mistakes just like I know some of hers. Right now I know a secret that she really ...

What's wrong with me? I'm scared of everything

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello. I am 13 yrs. old. I am in the 8th grade. I dont have many friends. I dont really like people, and people dont really like me, but I want friends. I hope it will get better in high school, but I dont think so, and I dont know why I think ...