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Archived questions from: July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

He's not texting so is he not interested? Do I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - hi. i started talking to a guy i meant on a online site, and we exchange emails, and soon numbers. we texted everyday, with him texting me every day, and we would text alot throughout the day. we fell out a few times, but it was all forgotten, and ...

How can I make this not hurt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - heyy. my name is C******, and i am 15. okay here's my question. -i like to masterbate the same as everone else does. i only like rubbing my clit though. well everone else can go inside the hole, i cant. well i can but it hurts, why? help me ... ...

Cheating, Love, and Hate.. I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - Me and this girl have been friends for a while and her boyfriend and I have been friends for even longer. I am talking many years and I would consider him my best friend. Anyway one day she starts to touch my arm so I start to do it back. This es...

Hes my ex, got my friend pregnant and we are teens!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - ok, so me and my ex are friends, and he started dating my friend well they had sex and she preganant. and may i add this is on purpose they want a baby (he tryed to have a baby with me i said no) so yeah. well what i am saying is hes 16, she like...

Please help me not to concentrate on sex so much!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - i am 22yr old guy and my problem is i just feel very horny all the time there is sex in my mind all the time coz of witch i just cant concentrate on any other work. i have a girlfriend and i have sex with her every time we meet but still i feel the ...

Could this be causing my premature ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - I suffer from frenulum breve and phimosis. My foreskin can just about be pulled down past my penis head and then my frenulum starts to pull my penis head downwards. Could this be why i suffer from premature ejaculation?...

He deleted his Facebook because of me!?!?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - hey thanks so much for this im really struggling with something... alright, I met this guy on facebook a few months back commenting on my friends status and we added eachother and we hit it off as good friends you know? He is a famous pro wre...

I know that I can never have her but how the heck do I get over her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - There's this girl and we've been frends for like 6 years but lately I've realized how totally in love with her I am! Theres only one problem, she's straight. We've kissed on dares and every time we kiss everythinng feels perfect and I never want it ...

Are my nan's tarot predictions correct???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Im 16 and had my period about a week ago, but now im worried im PREGNANT! I keep getting brown discharge in my underwear and feel quite bloated and keep farting a lot. My boobs are sore sometimes, on and off. Im on the contriceptive pi...

How do I speed things up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - I have been goin out with this girl for about 4 months. But we have not kissed yet. They say let time take its pace but i wish time would go a little faster. what do i do in a situation like this?...

He has a girlfriend but is there any way to get him to like me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Okay ... i like this guy , but theres quite a few problems , hes 3 years older than me , my friends have already reacted and called me a slut , but i like him too much to care , he has a girlfriend , but hes had a sort of 'crush' on me. He was alwa...

What should I do to just relax and be able to have sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Well. Its been sometime since i had sex. Counting now i thinks its 4 years. And i want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm afraid it would hurt and besides the fact im much bigger than i was before meaning weight size what should i do to relax and ...

How do I start over with a new life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Im 19 yrs old. I want to start a new life,with no controversies basically a peaceful life. Uptil now my life has been like a big circus. Sexual abuse by cousin, Boyfriends, bad friends, good friends, crushes,family issues,c...

I try to break up with him when he's mean, but then he goes back to normal again. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Why can't I make up my mind? I've been with my boyfriend for two years. Lately he's been acting weird- he's acting rude and careless towards me. So when he's like this I get so mad and I prepare myself to break it off. When I go to do this though, ...

I have no confidence and I really like this girl! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - I am 14 years old and am friends with a girl in my year who is also 14. We are really good friends, and can laugh about absolutely anything and everything. We never seem to stop texting each other, to chat as we live in different towns. The problem ...

I am fed up with being hung up on him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - hi im 15 and new to this so please help. i was going out with this guy for about a year. but then he dumped me a year ago today. he didnt give a reason. im still in love with him. how do i get over him? please help:)...

How do I tell guys I'm not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I'm finding out there is a couple other guys who like me, but I know I am not attracted mentally or physically. I'm thinking this is because, I like Bob (code name) and I know he likes me so, I'm kind of putting other guys on hold for him. But I k...

He did not reply to my last text and am now very worried, but I don't want to loose him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - my three months boyfriend has started to make me wonder, i text him asking if there was a problem coz the last time we chatted he acted strange in the sense that usually he used to call me baby, honey , sweetheart and stuff like that but that last ...

Does he still like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Hi,im 14 and iv really liked this guy since 6th grade.He's a year senior to me.Were in the same school and he happened to add me on msn and thats how we became good friends.After getting to know each other..he asked me out...but his friends who are ...

Everytime I hook up with my girlfriend I feel sick and I hurt "down there"!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - Ok I have a girlfriend right? And we hook up or cuddle or whatever you want to call it, and when we do it gets really intense but, I havent had sex with her yet. Shes had it before but Im still a virgin. Now the thing is a couple of hours after ...

How do I get past this block and break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - okay. i have been with this guy for a little more then a year now, and i have wanted to break up with him for a while now. i havent liked him for months, but i can't break up with him for some strange reason. now i have asked some of my friends ab...

I'm afraid to confess my feelings in case I lose him as a friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Well i posted my situation before. Well for the one's who dont know my situation, its the following: I have a situation. I have been liking this boy for over 3 years but I have never gotten the guts to tell him how i felt. When he ...

Did my girlfiend cheat, or was she raped?

This question has 71 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - I feel so silly for even asking this on the Internet, but I just need to get some opinions. First of all, I'm 18, and this is my first girlfriend. She is 15. We've been dating for 10 months now. In the 2nd month of dating, we broke up for 2 days, ...

We were so close and helping each other with our problems, but then our feelings for each other got in the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 112 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - ok so long story. and yes i have problems.. feels like i cant do anything right lately.. i had a close friend who just got out of a 2 year relationship and then i just got out of my 2 month relationship.. and before that my 1 eyar relationship.. and ...

Now I have changed my lifestyle I seem to have got more stretchmarks!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - hi everyone, i'm 15 and my BMI is normal but i feel like i need to tone up. i don't have any stretchmarks, only on the upper part of my thighs, but ever since i started eating healthier, exercising more, and drinking more water, i've been getting ...

Dry humping....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - hey there, whenever me and my boyfriend are dry humping, semen never comes out, and i was wondering why that is ??? thanks a lot, i really appreciate it =]...

Should I shave my arms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Hey there so i suffer from PCOS which increases my wrong levels of hormone anyways, my prob is that I have hairy arms and the whole rest of my bod. I shave my stomach and yadi yada but I don't know if to shave my arms. My problem is that where i ...

Suddenly I hate everyone and everything! I feel very empty and sad..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Hi, Well I used to always be loving and caring but now all of a sudden I seriously dont love anyone or anything and I used to care for my mom the most and stuff now I dont feel any love for her, my dad, or sister, Is something wrong with me? My mom ...

Friends with a teacher, it seems he likes me in a different way. How can I get him to back off without ruining him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm rather nervous so sorry if this doesnt make much sense! Well I have a problem. I am home tutored as I was severely bullied for my weight at school. My teachers seemed ok and my english teacher (Lets just call him Mr.X) was really...

Do I say yes and be his girlfriend? Or listen to my dad and keep away from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - There was this boy that i like, and he likes me too. He's already told me he likes me and i told him i like him too, but when i told my dad if i can have a Bf, he went all crazy and said that i can't have one Until i'm 18, and i'm barely 15. Then ...

If two fingers hurt a penis is going to horrible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - the other week i was at a party and ended up making out with a guy i like, he fingered me but he only used one finger and when he tried to use two it hurt alot, how can i make it looser? cz i'm 17 and wanna have sex but if two fingers hurt a penis ...

One friend thinks we'd make a cute couple, the other one thinks I was stupid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Okay, i met this boy, and i really really like him but he's sixteen and i'm thirteen. We're really close though and he tells me everything because we can trust eachother with our lives. So earlier this week we met up town to just talk and stuff, and ...

I'm in love with an 18 year old I met on the internet. He told me he wants sex, and I do too.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I am 14, and have fallen in love with an 18 year old over the internet, we have been on webcam, shared pictures, text and call eachover. he is already in a relashionship with a 16 year old but i love him andd he feels the same, he wants to come and ...

Is honesty really the best policy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Okay my situation..is I've been talking to this guy lets call him john well we met and everything it went well at first I was nervous but then i got comfortable.It felt like there was chemistry between us..okay so a couple days later we wanted to ...

How do I show her I really like her, we only chat on msn now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - i just need some simple steps to letting a girl that i've known since i was five that i like her, please, always becuase we've finished school i only talk to her on msn *-)atm...

Should I tell him how I feel? Sooner or later, I'm going to explode!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Ok here is my problem, I met this guy, he was no ordinary guy. He was sweet and handsome. I really loved him. We were only friends, yes, I know but I never told him about this because I was soo sure that some day he would realize that I love him and ...

Does he still have something for me or is it because he saw I'm a model?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 29 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I used to like this guy a year ago. I could tell he liked me too cuz his body language said a lot. Then I went to a party and hooked up with some guy he never talked to me I guess he was heartbroken.. Then online for months I would write him ...

Here we are saying we'll wait for each other... What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Im going to just let everything out because I want an answer. First off... I can't believe im writing on a site like this.. but from the answers ive seen.. i want to. About 2 years ago.. i randomly added this girl, who lives in germany, she ...

What we did felt like more than "just friends," but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I went on a school trip for 12 days recently. I ended getting to be really close friends with a guy I have fancied for a couple of months. On the night I was slightly tipsy and we ended up cuddled on the sofa but were interupted. Then, on the plan...

A warning from one teenager to others . . .

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - This is for the teenage girls who purposefully try to get pregnant, because they think they are 'ready' or they think it will be 'cool' to carry a baby around in there arm or have a belly to show off, or it will keep you and your boyfriend together ...

Is it possible to put your baby in temp. foster care and then claim it back at a more convenient time?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - hi im 15 and i just found out i was pregnant. i know my options, abortion, adoption, or keeping it. i don't want to give my baby up for adoption because i dont think i could handle carrying it for 9 months and then giving it away but if i abort it ...

5 years later and I'm still crushing on her - Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Sorry for those that hate reading long questions but I feel that I need to do so in order for you to be able to accurately and seriously give me a proper answer that I NEED, you will need to know the full or relatively full properties of my ...

Do you think she'll cheat and be with another guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months. She is on holiday at the moment in Italy with her aunt, but she has gone camping, and has her own tent. For some reason, I keep thinking she is going to cheat on me, depsite the fact that she ...

Which guy should I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I have been with this guy for more than 4 years now. He is my first love and my best friend. We had our share of problems but amidst all that we managed to survive. My mom loves him like he's her own son and his family and my family are really great ...

Is being a 'Nice Guy' a bad thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Girls keep calling me a nice guy. Is this a bad thing? Something definitely isn't working because I've never had a real relationship. I never really get close with girls, or talk to them like close friends. I'm "friends" with a lot of girls, but ...

I want to do more than just kissing but I'm afraid to get 'close' to guys....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Well to cut a long story short, I have always had problems with getting 'close' to guys I like. This may not even be relevant but I didn't even feel comfortable hugging or holding hands with a boy friend I had in my first year of high school! Th...

If she says I'm perfect for her, why is she still with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Hello everyone, I've met a girl at work, I really like her and she seems to like me too. We sometimes chat to each on MSN to 5/6am some nights and what is shes is nice :) But, there's one problem. She's still currently in a relationship with...

He chats to other girls when we're online - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is always flirting with other girls. i know it's his nature, because before we were just really good friends and he would also flirt with me and my other friends. we've been together for almost a year now. i've always had a slight ...

Do you agree with what I think could be going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Hmmm im abit confused...right im friends with a lad hes a lovely guy and everything me and quite afw of my/our friends thought he liked me because of how he acted, and boy he showed it! I was stupid at the time(this was a year n a half ago) kinda ...

What can I get him that's really special for his birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and we both are seventeen years old. However, his birthday is coming up and I'm not sure on what I should get him. Last year I got him an ipod, and he's getting a new cell phone in November so ...