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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Why does he want my trust when I can't have his?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I am 16, my boyfriend is 17, I have met his family and we are very close but here lately I haven't been able to see him. He called me last night and we broke up, 20 minutes later he called me crying and I'm not sure if he wants to be with me or he ...

I'm 13 and my parents won't let me date till I'm 17.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I'm 13 and my parents won't let me date till I'm 17. I'm in love with this guy and he's in love with me but I've tried everything for them to let me date. They won't even let me talk to him barely because they don't want me dating so how can I get ...

After all this time I still hold a torch for my ex...

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12 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am really confused, me and my ex boyfriend have carried on being friends since we broke up our realationship two years ago. It was my choice to end the realtionhip as I felt that he didnt have feelings for me. In the last year of ...

The only way for a woman to get pregnant is if she's having sex right?

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12 January 2009 (F) - The only way for a woman to get pregnant is if she's having sex right? If not, what other ways?...

Am I pleasing her?

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12 January 2009 (M) - She tells me that her legs get numb and that I please her but she has also told me that she has a girl she goes to and two sex toys... am I pleasing her?...

How do I approach this sort of conversation?

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12 January 2009 (F) - hello all Just need advice on how to approach a tricky situation with my newish bf, or if I should at all. when i was younger i was sexually abused by a family member, close friends know, and i'm not asking for help to get over what happened b...

Help with ex and strech marks

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12 January 2009 (F) - I have two problems 1. My boyfriend of 8 months dumped me shortly after Christmas saying he wasn't too sure he loved me anymore. I thought I was over it, but he's had another lasses name on his msn and it got me really upset. I've taken all the st...

Is stuck-up and conceited the same thing???

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12 January 2009 (F) - Is stuck-up and conceited the same thing??? People talk about me behind my back and think I'm stuck-up but I'm not. I just think very highly of myself but I dont think I'm too good to talk to anyone else. Can people tell that your conceited even ...

We've been together 11 months now but I want to be with someone else...

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12 January 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend who I have been with for 11 months, but I'm starting to feel like I'm losing the spark with her and I'm starting to get feelings for this other girl, Julie, who my girlfriend hates. I tell her I don't speak to Julie but I do and ...

Should I do oral?

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12 January 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend, which is 18 and im 15, where playing around in are secret spot at school this morning like always. and this weekend we got to know more details about each other, like small things about his future and past, and how he felt about ...

Is it the 11 year old that loves him? Or me at 16?

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12 January 2009 (F) - i have sent this problem before but i didnt get any responses, so i decided to try again, because i still need advice :) When I was younger, about 10 or 11, i was best friends with a boy. We grew up together and I think that in some weird way i...

We're both really shy! How to move our relationship along?

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12 January 2009 (F) - I really, really like a guy who i have known for years now, and im about 99% sure that he likes me back (i got someone to ask him). However we are both really shy, so i dont know how to move our relationship to being more than just friends, so i'm ...

My b/f does things and doesn't think how it will make me feel

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12 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of about 2 months is starting to irk my soul and I suppose I really don't know how to deal with it. Last Thursday evening we were going to hang out after he got cleaned up, that didn't happen though. I got one txt from him that sa...

My ex cheated with my best friend and now wants me back

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12 January 2009 (F) - i was in a relationship with Eric for almost half a year. After we broke up i found out that he went out with my best friend and they chose to keep this from me until i found out they went out for about a month or two. He keeps saying how he really ...

Did his mental problems affect our relationship?

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12 January 2009 (F) - okay, my boyfriend just broke up with me over the weekend. he didn't give me a reason though. he told me once before he didn't really love me. but he said he was going to try to make it work. anyways he has a lot of problem, mentally. he is bipolar, ...

If you took an abortion pill for how long are you protected from an unwanted pregnancy?

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12 January 2009 (F) - Was wondering if you have a pill abortion can 8 months later you get pregnant again? [Moderator's note: I rephrased your question to make it a little more clearer.]...

I don't feel anything during sex, why could this be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - okay, basically i have no feeling what so ever during sex. My boyfriend is experienced so i know he isn't just not doing it right, he's doing everything fine but i can't feel a thing! he gets really paranoid about it. is there something wrong? i...

Any advice about healthy weight gain?

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12 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some advice about semi-fast and healthy weight gain. Thanks in advance...

Is there a chance I can get pregnant if my boyfriend rubs his penis and ejaculates on my vagina when I have my panties on?

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12 January 2009 (F) - Is there a chance I can get pregnant if my boyfriend rubs his penis and ejaculates on my vagina when I have my panties on? There wasn't any direct contact but my panties got wet, I'm wondering if some of the sperm may have passed through....

I'm 15 and have really bad period pains. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - hey there, sorry to bother you but what it is I'm 15 and suffering from really really bad period pains and I really need them to calm down, they are affecting everythin I do. I can't do nothiing, all I wanna do is sit all day and do nothing. I ...

What do you make of this strange story?

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12 January 2009 (F) - Hello everybody! :) Something happened today that I have been mulling over in my mind for hours! Here's what happened: I was in a lesson (there were 6 of us altogether: 4 girls, 2 guys) and we were split up into two groups, each one with 2 g...

Who do you think is in the wrong... Shelby or Nick?

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12 January 2009 (F) - sorry this is going to be so long. these 2 people "shelby" and "nick" a while back hooked up, while "nick" had a girlfriend. Now this is there Msn, conversation, who is in the wrong, Shelby or Nick? (these are my friends by the way.) Nic say...

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating with my cousin!

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12 January 2009 (F) - My Bf thinks I'm cheating, with my COUSIN but he doesn't know he's my cousin. Ok yesterday I went with my guy cousin to the atm, he's never met the cousin coz he's just visiting, well as we leave the atm we see him coming in a car, but my cousin ...

What was this wet spot on his pants?

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12 January 2009 (F) - While my boyfriend and I were messing around the other night; like heavy petting and stuff; he got wet down there. It was after he'd been rubbing my boobs for a while, he stopped and just grabbed his dick. All our clothes were still on, he had just ...

I'm 18, he's 28 and he's married

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12 January 2009 (F) - Sorry this is so long, but this question requires an explanation. I like this guy who works at the same place I work. I am 18 he is 28. Most of my family works at this place too. I have had this crush for about 4 years, yes it used to be just a ...

The problems are numerous, I just want him to be my boyfriend!

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12 January 2009 (F) - so, i really really like this guy... steve. and there is about a five year age difference. but age has never mattered. he is my brothers friend and my mom loves him! and my brother doesn't care that he and i are an item kind of thing. so i really ...

My parents won't let me have a boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - ok I'm 13 and this guy in my nieghborhood is 15 and we are both in 8th grade. I like him (I might love him) he liked me last year and we talk all the time we are like best friends I think he likes me and I want him to ask me out, my mom lets me and ...

How can I convince her to start a relationship with me?

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12 January 2009 (M) - I have been talking to this girl for a while now and we have talked about dating a bit. She has reservations because she hurt one of her friends before this because she was hurt from another previous relationship. She had decided not to have any ...