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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Is sex painful?

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23 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 2 years with all my heart,the problem is when we kiss, whenever he feels horny and asks for sex, I get really scared, is sex really that bad and is it painful?...

Does he fancy my best friend and only talk to me online because he is bored?

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23 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and was hoping you could help me out. He’s good friends with my best friend. I met him about a year ago and he added me on msn. Since then I’ve been talking to him a lot online. By now we t...

Why am I still dripping 3 days after we had sex?

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23 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. Well quick summary. My BF and I had sex four times in a day. It was amazing! We both came the four times we did it. He did many things that got me really wet. Plus the condom was lubricated. So, today it’s been 3 days after that ...

I'm beginning to doubt my boyfriend loves me any more...

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23 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been in a committed relationship for 4.5 months now. He stays 9 hours away from my house but we really love each other. Nowadays he doesn't seem the same. Recently I was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and his best ...

I feel kinda stuck with what to do next...

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23 November 2009 (F) - Hello, So many problems haha, same guy. Still not sure if he likes me, we talk a lot more than we used to and he's given me a lift home in his car. i'm still shy around him and i really want to know if he likes me. certain things make me think th...

Do you think I'll grow to be over 6 foot tall?

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23 November 2009 (M) - Hi... everyone I'm 18 years old and I have adolescence problems about my height, I'm 5 ft 10 inches but i dunno if i'm tall or short from other people's points of view, but I do want to grow more so i wanna know... will my height grow a bit more ...

Is this a normal kind of "fetish" if you could call it that...?

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23 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, So, the other day my friend asked me what it was that women found attractive in men. He had asked me for specifics and so I gladly proceeded to list those men I found attractive, and for what reasons. Upon completion, my frien...

How do I change myself so he stops taking me for granted?

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23 November 2009 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for over 8 months, everything's great and I love him very much. The problem is, when we started out, he'd call and text me all the time, take me out, buy me little gifts just because, but recently that's all stopped ...

Story of how I got dumped

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23 November 2009 (F) - Story of how I got dumped... Me and my ex boyfriend (my only proper boyfriend). We were both 16 at the time. We were pretty different and had countless fights but I loved him and I thought he loved me. About 2 years into our relationship, w...

My girlfriend dumped me and I'm still devastated

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23 November 2009 (M) - Im so hurt! My ex gf broke up with me on Nov 4 after dating for almost 2 yrs. I always treated her like a princess and loved her like crazy. I found out on a txt msg she sent me by "accident". It devastated me bcuz even though we had been fighting, ...

How can I get a boyfriend without looking desperate?

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23 November 2009 (F) - How can I get a boyfriend without being desperate, easy etc. ? What should I wear to look pretty, and very approachable but not easy, desperate, slutty etc. Details about me: I've got a good tan, shapely legs, a skinny build (size 6-8 NZ sizes...

I think my best friend (a guy) is my soul mate. What do I do?

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23 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend, don't get me wrong, but I think my male bestfriend is my soulmate. He knows me like no other, and makes me feel happy and safe and beautiful. I don't really know what to do, I'm relatively at peace with it, but thats b...

I'm falling for my best friend's cousin

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23 November 2009 (M) - i think i am falling for this girl. the only problem is that i cant spend too much time with her because we are both going crazy for that final grade 12 push. also she is my 2 best friends cousin and she lives with them. do you think i would ha...

My girlfriend seems different. What can I do to keep this relationship working?

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23 November 2009 (M) - I am 18 years old, and will have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months in December. We got together in June, and though we originally planned to split up before we left for college, found that by the end of the summer we cared too much about each ...

He hasn't made a move and I don't want to miss my chance!

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23 November 2009 (F) - I really need some unbiased advice for my situation. I really like this guy, and personally think he's right for me. We're both very religious, and saving ourselves for marriage. Neither of us have dated or kissed anyone, so we're both very ...

How can I be happy whether single or in a relationship?

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23 November 2009 (F) - Firstly, I am a 17 year old female. My question:Why am I not happy? And how do I become happier? Right from when I was 13, I always wanted a boyfriend. Of course I was influenced by movies, mags and peers and I wanted to feel loved, sexy etc. ...

Boyfriend gave his phone number to suspected interest.

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23 November 2009 (F) - Heya everyone. Ok so this may seem like a silly problem and i prob shouldnt be bothered by it, but id like peoples opinions and to just rest my mind a bit. Ok well i live about 100 miles away from my boyfriend. He is moving down here tomorrow...

Is it worth continuing on or am I just prolonging it by staying together??

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23 November 2009 (M) - Hey... ive been going out with a girl for the last 3 months and things were going pretty well up until last week. she just got knid of distant. anyway we had a chat tonite and she was saying that its nothing to do with me its all her, she cant help ...

I dare not risk telling him I love him just to loose everything!

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23 November 2009 (F) - Just think about the good times..and they'll come back again! Idlove to keep saying that to myself but even the good times depress me. Im in a mess, a big fat mess!! This guys my best friend....but sadly the love of my life! Who i cannot get over....

Who do you turn to when your family isn't there?

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23 November 2009 (F) - What do i do when i cant even trust my family? well i have this issue that i have things to tell my mo but i wanna wait till the right time because if i just throw it all at her she not gone take it so i got to give it to her slow and at the right ...

What can I do to make it up to him and never talk about my exes again?

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23 November 2009 (F) - i really love my boyfriend and he loves me to bits, been together for 6 months but i have known him for years, but it wasnt until one night i realised i had feelings for him and we hit it off ever since. a year ago i was hurt really bad by a boy i ...

I miss him, but we can't be together :(

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23 November 2009 (F) - okay, i'll try to keep it short and sweet, i think im in love with my ex. he really cared for me to and it we were sort of forced to end it because no one wanted us to be together. the reason why? because he was my best friends EX first and i h...

How do I start over quickly, before he leaves?

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23 November 2009 (F) - I'm kinda still in love with this guy even though we've had kinda had a rough relationship. Right now, we're not talking( even though I really want to). Lets just say things got complicated. Again. He's leaving high school next year and I...

I smell bad and I don't want sex because of it!

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22 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and have currently been in a 1 year relationship with my boyfriend. Only recently i have noticed and increase in the amount of discharge i am producing, its a white colour and is very think with an off putting smell which puts me off having ...

How do you know when your hymen is no longer there?

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22 November 2009 (F) - Okay so my question is pretty simple, how do you know when your hymen is no longer there? I mean I've been fingered before and I've managed to get like a 5 inch dildo up there so that mean it's gone right? I know it's an odd question but I was just ...

I can't keep it hard during sex!

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22 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I've got a problem but I don't have a clue what causes it: Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend; whom i care deeply for; I sort of gradually lose my erection- like really slowly over 20 minutes or so- and no matter what (if she's performing ...

I am a freshman and he is a senior. and I think I'm falling for him!

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22 November 2009 (F) - okay, so i am a freshman and he is a senior. and i think im falling for him... he is great and is always by me; hugging me, touching me. but he has a gf... what shuld i do?? i think im falling hard...

I'm 17 and I'm interested in buying a vibrator.

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22 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and I'm interested in buying a vibrator. But I don't know what online stores are trustful. I brought an American express gift card. So does anyone know of any good online stores? Also will I have to show them an ID to say that I'm old eno...

Is there a chance that good friends can become more?

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22 November 2009 (M) - I've been really good friends with a girl for about 6 months now but i've always had a little more for her that she doesn't know about, she's just broken up from a long term relationship and i've seen her alot more but i'm afraid we're too good ...

I want her to wait for me to take her virginity!

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22 November 2009 (M) - this girl lives far from me and drinks and parties alot.. she says shes a flirt to and she is pretty sure she is a virgin.. how do i make sure she waits for me and has sex with me first because i want her to be my first.. idk if i can trust her she ...

Should I wait for him or should I drop his sorry ass and try and move on?

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22 November 2009 (F) - Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up Aug 2009 just before i went away to college (he is not going to college). He is currently in rehab getting help to help him regulate his medication for bipolar and his drug addiction. He's been 4 times in the past 12 ...

Trouble with the contraceptive implant! help!

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22 November 2009 (F) - i have the contraceptive implant. i must of had it in for atleast 2 1/2 months now and ive been bleeding constantly, however its not normal menstrual blood its different. me and my boyfriend do not use condoms btw. i dont know whether im pregnant. i ...

I'm very worried that I can't tell if I like girls or guys, or both

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22 November 2009 (M) - [Moderator note: You are not bothering us with 'stupid teen' questions. We're here to help as much as we can.] hi i have a big problem and i need help figuring this out in my life. im only 17 but i am having trubble telling if i like girls or guys ...

How can I keep my long distance girlfriend interested?

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22 November 2009 (M) - i met this girl but she lives far away i like her a lot and i think she is starting to like me too, but im not sure how to keep a long distance relationship together. i suck at txting, and talking on the computer. Im not sure what to do she seems to ...

How can I be more interesting?

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22 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 1 year now and I love him to bits. But today, he hit me with a bombshell: "Youre so f***ing boring." I understand where hes coming from: I dont know what to talk about and basically, I crumble in social ...

Where can I get a sex toy without my parents' knowledge?

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22 November 2009 (M) - Hey, I am 15, male, and i am straight, but i recently have been using my moms vibrator for anal pleasure. i like girls, but i also enjoy anal pleasure. is there any way i can get a butt plug, anal beads, or vibrator without telling my parents?...

I don't like or respect my mother. What is wrong with me?

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22 November 2009 (M) - OK I'll get straight to the point. For some reason i don't like or respect my mother. She never seems to stick up for herself and i hate the way she does things. Our home is full of junk that has come from her sister (my auntie) and she just doe...

Is this my period or implantation bleeding?

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22 November 2009 (F) - Hello I had sex with his guy I know ..I made him use a condom ... He continued to keep it on even tho he had came in it??? But, after a whle I made him put on a new one. Also, when he was puttin it on, he put it on he wrong way so he then would...

How can I have better luck with girls?

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22 November 2009 (M) - Something which has been troubling me lately: I've been going to a few parties, raves, social gatherings, etc recently, and usually i'll get a bit wasted and just have a good time, chill with friends, rave a bit, etc. The thing is, in the last...

I told him I liked him and he's still acting "normall" towards me. What next???

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22 November 2009 (F) - I told him that I like him and he has been acting normally, is that a good thing? How would I tell if he feels the same or if I should move on?...

I'm falling for a senior... but he has a girlfriend albeit they're going through a rough patch...

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22 November 2009 (F) - hello everyone. I am a freshman in high school and there is this senior that i'm falling for. we are both involved in theatre, and whenever im around him, he will hug me and touch me and just be around me. He is such a sweetheart, and i love being ...

Why is my ex boyfriend's mate being wierd?

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22 November 2009 (F) - A few months ago I went for a night out with my mate liam. When we were standing outside of the nightclub one of liams matescalled mark who I never met before came over and started to talk to liam.When we walked in to the nightclub I went to sit d...

I had a one night stand with my cousin!

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22 November 2009 (F) - hello, there is no one else i can talk to about what im going to tell. what ive done is illegal and could get me into alot of trouble, here is my story. okay so my cousin moved in with me my brother and my mom at the be...

What to do now he knows?

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22 November 2009 (F) - The other day I texted my crush/ friend that I had a little crush on him. After that he wasn’t much different acting that I noticed and there was one point last week that I thought he told people but he didn’t tell anyone. I don’t know why he would ...

Happend so quick, it's hard to comprehend! . . . Please help!

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22 November 2009 (F) - hello. Ok so i need some guy advice people!! I started being friends with a guy a year ago... We tried going on dated for a few months and flirted... And you know those looong profound conversations on the phone. Yep, We had those. And we always...

Did I put my foot in by telling him I liked him?

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22 November 2009 (F) - The other day I text my crush/friend that I had a little crush on him. When I text him he actually answered one of my questions for once but after that he didn’t text back. I went to the movies with my friends and his brother and all throughout that ...

I think she's losing interest and just used me

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22 November 2009 (F) - I think my girlfriend is losing interest in me. We've been together for 7 months, at first we were really close. She knows everything about me, she used to send me sweet texts before I went to sleep every night. She's amazing, I love her more than ...

Am I trying for something that is unachievable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - There is this girl that I like. We have hung out a few times and it has been pretty great. The only thing is that we are pretty different. We are both in college and it just occurred to me that we are rather different. She takes liberal arts cla...

I kissed two guys in one night. Does that ruin my chances with one of them?

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22 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy who's a few years older than me, and we hung out once and he seems pretty cool. we both went to the club with different people but we ended up talking that night and when we were dancing he kissed me. i kissed him back to a bit i ...

Should I tell her again that I'm crazy about her? She just wants to be friends.

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22 November 2009 (M) - I'm a sophomore in college, and I find myself in a bit of a bind. I have not been in a relationship in over three years now. While I normally would not complain about this, I have my eyes on a girl who graduated the same year as me from the same...