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Archived questions from: April, 2005 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

He feels like he can break up and have me back any time he wants. Why does he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1349 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I'm hoping you can help me because I can't take this any more. I had a boyfriend for almost a year and a half and then he told me he wanted a break and needed time apart from me. I thought, okay whatever, I'll just give him this time, even though I...

He lied to me about his smoking because I wouldn't have gone out with him. Will he lie in future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1342 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - Im 16 and have been goin out with this guy for about three months and at the beginning of our relationship I asked him if he does or have ever smoked. He told me he had tried it but then stopped. Just today I found out that he smokes almost e...

I think I've ruined my chances with the guy I want... Is it gone for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1349 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have really "gone and done it" this time.And unfortunately, unlike Shania Twain,I don't mean "gone and done it" as in "fell in love".I mean "gone and done it" as in "totally messed up my friendship with my crush"...at least,th...

I've got no confidence and it's affecting my school and personal life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I'm 12 and have no confidence whatsoever. At all. I can't even ask a shop assistant how much something costs or a teacher if I have a problem. A lot of people like me... I guess, but I feel alone, even though my best friend is always there for me. ...

I'm 15 and the father of my baby is 28. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 849 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I'm 15 and currently in a relationship with a man of 28. We have had sex and I know I'm pregnant! What do I do? He already has a child (as a single father) and I think he would go mad if I told him! Should I lie and say it's not his?...

I worry that my penis might be tiny...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 725 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I'm worried about sex. I'm not thinking about having it now, but I'm worried about the future. First of all, and most important, I've been seeing questions about the foreskin. I'm 13 and my foreskin does not come back over my penis when I have an ...

He said not to tell anyone after we had sex, but I did and now he's saying I've ruined his life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I slept with a boy because I really liked him. Afterwards he told me not to tell anyone. I thought this was strange. I thought he was embarrassed of me. I told a few of my closest friends to see what they thought. He found out somehow - he told me ...

If my boyfriend loves me like he says, why is he also going out with another girl?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I am only 13 but I am in love with someone. He says he loves me too by telling me this, but he is going out with another girl. What I am confused about is if he loves me then why is he going out with this girl? I don't know what to do and I need maj...

Want to ask her out, but I don't know what to do or say!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1352 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - Think I'm falling in love with a girl who I have known for 13 years. She's always been there for me and I really want to ask her out but I don't know what to do or say. Please help me...

Boys don't want to kiss me... Is it because I'm a tomboy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1121 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - No boys fancy me and when I do go out with a boy they never want to do anything......I don't want to have sex but a kiss every once in a while would be nice. I am 12 and a tomboy, do you think this is why boys never want to do anything with me ...

He texts me every day, but he tells me that there's too big an age gap. What do I believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - I like him and he likes me... so why won't it work? He says that the age difference (4years) is too much and so we couldn't be together but I want to be more than friends. He texts me almost every day and I get so excited that he does. How do I tel...

He was too drunk to get it up, and now he seems to be avoiding all opportunities...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - hi, I'm 17 and I've been with my b/f for over 2 months. We've not had sex. One night he couldn't get it up because he was too drunk and since then it seems like he is avoiding having sex with me. We've had the opportunities and I try to initi...

He has work, college and me to deal with... He said I was too much "drama" and dumped me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1353 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of almost nine months broke up with me 2 days ago because I gave him too much "drama." The supposed drama I gave him was pressure to be sweet to me and to not snap at me constantly. We have been so good for each other and so happy un...

My boyfriend is telling everyone my personal business...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I am 12 years old and I need some advice badly. My boyfriend found out that I've started my periods and is telling everyone. What shall I do?...

Is it OK if I say yes to the boy I fancy, or would that hurt his ex's feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1135 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - A boy asked me out and I really fancy him but he only just dumped another girl. Should I say yes or will it be offensive towards the girl he just dumped?...

If I take a chance and date the new guy, I might get hurt again. Is it worth the risk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1354 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - I went out with this guy for a year and we were very close, but then we started to have problems and we broke up. I was devastated! I stayed in my room and cried A LOT! But one of my guy friends was there for me and I went out with him two weeks ...

I don't think I'm gay, but I did once have sex with another boy...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 982 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - I'm a young boy, under the age of 15 but I've had sex. The thing is it was with another boy. I haven't done for a good couple of years and I don't find boys attractive. I've had a few girlfriends as well but that doesn't stop me from being worried ...

I don't want to let my girlfriend go, in case she doesn't want to come back to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1250 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - My girl friend and I have been dating for a little over a year now. For the longest time in the relationship everything was perfect but recently it seems that something is missing. We both realize this but can't pinpoint what the problem is. We als...

I know I was an idiot, but can I fix things with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1356 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I messed up badly with this girl I really like. I got really drunk and acted like an idiot and now she hates me What shall i do????...

If I don't given in to his request for sex every time, he goes sulky. Is he just using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1356 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend gets the sulks every time I refuse sex & when I refuse to spend the night with him. It ain't that I don't want to spend the night with him, it's just that I can't because I'd have to lie to my mum about him staying, because she doesn't ...

It wasn't until someone else wanted him that I realised I want him, too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, I went out with a boy for a year and a half, then we broke up - on good terms, mind you. Then people started shit stirring and basically I got people on to him. But recently I've realised I still like him a lot. But the problem ...

Should we end it, since he doesn't say "I love you" any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I'm 17 and I'm dating a 15 yr old. We have been dating for 6 months. I really like him and we say 'I love you', but lately he's been acting weird. He doesn't say it any more and he said people only say I love you if they have sex. I know this is ...

Head over heels in love with this girl, but I don't know how she feels about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1356 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - Hi I have never used these agony aunt pages before but I have a really bad problem. Well to start off I am a 14 year old boy and I think im in love with this girl I know. I don't know what I should do or say. It's like every time I see her it's lik...

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - I went a bit far with my ex boyfriend. When he fingered me I bled. Does this mean I've lost my virginity?? Will I bleed again if I have sexual intercourse? My boyfriend keeps reminding me about how it would be like on our wedding night.. The thing ...

I don't want to hurt the girl I'm with, but I'm interested in someone my own age...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1359 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I'm 15 and have recently started talking to a 13 year old. Before that though I was seeing a girl my own age. I thought I really liked the 13 year old girl but now I have been talking to the girl my own age again and I'm starting to like her more. ...

I like him, but he's 2 years younger than me. Is he too young?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1271 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I am 18 and I really like someone who's 16 and male. I don't know what to do. Is he too young for me?...

Could the grass really be "greener"..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1358 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I am with a boy but I really like someone else. I don't know what to do....

My dream guy is 17, but I'm only 13 and I don't know if my mom will let me go out with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I'm in love with this 17 year old but I'm 13 and he likes me, but I don't know how much. If we did go out I could only go out with him for 4 months befor he goes illegal! What do i do? I don't even know if my mom will allow me to go out with him...

She's beautiful and I told her so, but is that going to be a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1360 days ago

18 April 2005 (?) - Hi, Today at college I was stood near an emergency exit door and my friend said to me to open the door and I said OK not realising that there was a girl who me and my friend like stood on the other side. I nearly bumped her into the door and sh...

If I won't sleep with him, he keeps looking until he finds someone who will!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1361 days ago

18 April 2005 (?) - I'm 14 and an American who just moved to Maidstone and I need some advice. This boy of 16 likes me; thing is, every time we go out he wants to sleep with me and if I don't he stays with me til he does find someone who will. Then once he sleeps w...

It's like I don't have a social lifevany more since I started going with my guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1295 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - I'm 14 and have been going out with someone for 4 months. I really like him but its like I can't go out with my friends anymore. What should I do?...

What do his actions mean? And why is he so nasty to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1361 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - Sometimes i think this boy luvs me cause he stares at me and then next minute he's all nasty. What does it mean? from foxy...

Will masturbation affect my health?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1346 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - I am a 15 yr old girl and I masturbate alot. Is this dangerous or will it affect my health?...

He wants to kiss me and I want him to... then I stop him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - I've been together with my boyfriend for almost a year. He was my first boyfriend so that leaves me pretty inexperienced. There are times when we're alone and he leans in but doesn't kiss me or anything but I know he wants to. Everytime he actually ...

Girls: Do you prefer sensitive guys or muscly show-offs ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 524 days ago

16 April 2005 (?) - Dear GIRLS!!! I have a theory about the type of guys you like and need some advice. I think that most girls when they are in their teenage years prefer muscly, jerky show-offs, and then adults prefer sensitive guys. I'm pretty sensitive, and I ...

There just doesn't seem to be any way to get back to the way we used to be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1362 days ago

15 April 2005 (?) - How do I get over this guy??? I am 13 and he was my first boyfriend. I really liked him, I thought I loved him at one time, but I was never sure, so I don't think that I really did, but I really really liked him. We went out for a year. We have ...

Nothing works! I want to win his affections, but I don't know how...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 565 days ago

14 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have been trying and trying and trying with all of my might to impress my crush and win him over, but nothing I've done seems to be working!I've tried almost EVERYTHING-dressing trendily around him, laughing at all of his jokes, l...

I fancy a girl with a lot more experience than me. What if she wants to go too far?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1365 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - There is this girl who I know really likes me and I really like her as well but I know she is very experienced with boys, not in an over the top way but I know she has done a lot more than me. I would like to go out with her but am worried she will ...

Very affectionate in private, but when he's with his mates, it's like he doesn't even care!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1365 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - I am going out with this boy I've really liked for ages. When we're alone, he's really clingy and that, which I don't mind. I quite like it, but when we're at school and he's with his mates he doesn't hug me or want to kiss me or anything else. W...

I thought love meant someone would protect you, but he ran off and left me in strife!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1365 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - My 17 yr old boyfriend caused some trouble for himself with some 14 & 15 yr olds. I stopped them from beating him up by distracting them, but instead of standing his ground & protecting me, he ran off & left me on my own. He says he loves me. He s...

I want to be myself, but I still want boys to notice me... How do I do that?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - Hey! I am really annoyed because no boys seem to be remotely interested in me. I don't really flirt though and am still in school. It is weird because I don't really want a boyfriend yet, just to be liked by someone nice. I really like this boy in...

What's going on with my foreskin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - I am 17 years old, when I get an erection the head of my penis will not come out of my foreskin Is this normal?...

Please tell me exactly what to say to ask out the girl I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1369 days ago

10 April 2005 (?) - Dear Mr./Mrs./Master/Ms. I have recieved info on whether I should ask a girl out or not and now I need to know how. And when I say go out I don't mean it literally. I mean to become b/f and g/f. OK? Anyway, we don't go to the same secondary school...

My folks hate my girlfriend, but I love her. Do I choose their way or mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

9 April 2005 (?) - I have a g/f and she asked me out. We are dedicated to each other and see each other most of the time. My parents are split up so I see her every other week. My Dad and Stepmum hate her. I love her, shes my g/f. Do I listen to my parents or choose ...

My friends just won't leave him alone... and I think it's driving him away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

8 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I just cannot seem to figure out my crush!I mean,one minute,he's standing beside me with his arm around me and calling me sexy,but another minute it's like he doesn't even know me. I think part of the problem is my friends.They jus...

I want to say something to her, but she says one thing and her brother says another...!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1370 days ago

8 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'm quite young and theres a girl I really like. I think she likes me. Her brother is always saying that she does and she instantly says she doesn't and "that there is no way". The main problem is that her brother is my best frien...

Snogging advice sought...

This question has 80 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

8 April 2005 (?) - I have never snogged a boy and I am 14. I have recently got with this boy and for once I know we are going to stay together for a while. The only problem is I don't know how to snog someone. Plzzzzzz help me ...

My mum thinks I smoke and she harps on it all the time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1370 days ago

8 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm having some trouble with my mum. I'm 12 and my mam thinks I smoke. I don't know why, but she does. Every time a non-smoking advert comes on telly she looks at me and tuts. I'm really fed up of it. I don't smoke. I only have taken 1 dra...

If I tell her my true feelings about her, I risk losing her friendship... but I want her to know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

7 April 2005 (?) - I have fallen in love with one of my best friends, but she does not know how I feel for her. We are both 17 and go to the same sixth form college. My feelings for her have grown over time, and I want to tell her how I really feel. I wish that th...

My mom won't allow me to see my 20-year-old boyfriend and I don't understand it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

7 April 2005 (?) - I'm 15 and I had a secret boyfriend who has just turned 20. Recently my mom just found out and broke us apart. I'm allowed no contact at all and I feel like I love him but nobody gives me support. Is it reallly that wrong?...