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Archived questions from: 7 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I think she feels that she's under pressure to keep me interested...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

7 January 2009 (M) - Here it is. I met a girl on the internet last summer(bet you've never heard that one before), and almost instantly we clicked. After a little while we exchanged mobile numbers, and got texting and talking to each other. I tell her that I love ...

Is there some pill I could take to kill the egg?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he only did a quick in and out and he said for sure he didn't have pre cum and he normally feels it when he does. I'm still scared I'm pregnant, could I be? and if I could be is there some pill I ...

He told me he had a girlfriend but he doesn't!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - what is he thinking? I’ve posted a question like this before about the same guy but I didn’t know if he had a girlfriend for real. I’m going to try to make this long story short it might be long but I really need your help. So there’s this guy that...

Is he just too shy to tell me how he feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Today 3 of my guy friends and I were walking in the hallway, one which I like and I heard one that I don't like say go do it then the other one said nall you might get rejected, so later I asked one of the three guys I liked what they were talking ...

I'm kinda shy and he's not...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and never been had a boyfriend but there is this boy I Really like and I think he likes me. The problem is I'm kinda shy and he's not. He always has at least 5 girls after him! Loads of people say we made 4 eachova n we both keep denying it. ...

I text a guy on new years eve saying that I liked him and now I know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I text him saying: hi, after all the time we've been spending together ive really started to like you, happy new year x and he replied with hey just got my phone back, left it somewhere safe over new years so i didnt loose it, so happy new...

Is he avoiding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I gave this guy a holiday present before break, and he seemed delighted that i'd thought of him. The first time i saw him after was this morning, when he was perfectly friendly. however, in class later, i was sitting across from him and he usually ...

I just want one occasion were he will see me for the first time the night and think.. ok she looks sooo much better than usual.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I need a little help.. I've been with my boyfriend 16 months now.. and I know he loves me and he thinks I'm beautiful and is very happy with the way I look so that's not what this is about. We're going out for a meal this weekend, I've gone out...

In the last 3 months my boyfriend is being difficult and it's starting to upset me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I'm 13 and I'm in love with a boy.. we have been going out now for 15 months and we get on really well.. like best mates. We are the same age and we always have so much fun together, but in the last 3 months he is being difficult and it's starting ...

How do I make sure that I am on his mind and not his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for three months and its been great, were both in love. I know that he would never cheat on me and that im the only one he wants however, he has told me stories about someone he used to have feelings for but ...

My friend is immature and a problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - i have a friend who she thinks she is my best friend. she seems to be bipolar, but idk. i love her, but hate the way she acts, she is loud, immature, and stubborn. ive tried to tell her but she doesnt understand. she also doesnt have really any frie...

Quick fire confidence tricks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I am going for a meal this weekend with a guy i really like. But whenever its just me and him i go really quiet and shy. I just do not talk. Does anyone know any quick fire confidence tips? thank you. ...

He's 20, I'm 14 and he likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Hey. heres the basics (: my friend told me to add a friend of hers saying he'd asked about me as i was in her photo. so i did and we got talking. hes told me he likes me from the start. thing is he is 20 and i am 14 , so i never let anything hap...

How do I talk to my Mom about getting my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - hi, ok erm i have a really big issue. well last april sometime i started my periods, im not really that close with my mum for no reason really im just not. I dont even discuss normally girly stuff with her so you can imagine how hard it was when my ...

Why after 2 years does he need time to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - i would like your help... i'm 17. my boyfriend says that he loves me but then he asked me for time to think about us cuz he says that we're doing same things and he's confused so we agreed that we won't talk to each other for 2 days.. we're dating ...

Crazy crush.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - hello dear readers, Many already posted about their crushes or about their feelings for their teachers. and I am one of them. My question is if you have a crush on a teacher but you don't want to have to, what should you do?? please help me...

I REALLY hate my dad!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Dear Readers, Hi, I'm 14 years old. I totally hate my dad, he is the reason for all my heartaches. He never hurt me physically but he always hurts me with his words. I always got depressed because of him.. I told myself... when I die, 70% is the ...

What are the chances of pregnancy in my situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend the other night, but he withdrew before he ejaculated and had to wank himself for a couple of seconds until he actually came. After another hour we did it again unprotected for maybe 20 seconds and then he put on the ...

He's fallen in love with someone else but says he still wants to be with me! What gives???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I am 19 and my bf is 26. Me and my cousin are in a relationship over the last seven years, we were having a great time, suddenly he fell in love with some other girl, one of her best friends but she was already committed to someone ...

How can we have sex without it hurting her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend that has not done it yet and I was wondering if there is any way to do it so it will not hurt for her....

Acne Medication Problem!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I've recently been taking oral medication for acne, which my mum pays for. However, today my mum and I had an argument, and at the end of it she made it clear that she wouldn't be paying for my acne medication any more. She said that I had to pay f...

Why do I get so upset?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Hi there.... I need some advice, I have been in a 'relationship' with a divorced man, luckily he has no kids, his wife left him for another man. We have been very close, he means the world to me. Whenever he is working I bother him, he has his own ...

He never has time for me any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been in so much pain from this relationship, from fighting and him not having enough time for me it's been rough. I talked to him about it, he said it's not his fault he's always busy and doesn't have time. I understand that but I told him ...

Which one could it be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I'm having menstrual problems, I also have irregular periods. I looked at some of the symptoms and I have more symtoms from an ovarian cyst problem than pregnancy. I'm definitely too young a have little pride and joy in my arms. (baby) but if I ask ...

I was too honest with my wife, she got upset, will she get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

7 January 2009 (?) - So my wife (of 3 weeks) randomly just ask me what I thinking about. As a joke I said "you and several other women". I got her all upset after that (she made me sleep in couch that night) but in my defence she wanted more honesty in our marriage. She ...

Need some answers regarding getting pregnant, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Hello all! My B/f and I have been trying for a baby for about 5 months now. Everyone tells me to be patient which I am, I just want to make sure we are both able to make a baby. I went to the gyn about 7 months ago and she said that my uterus looks ...

I want to lose weight without going crazy or dying, please advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - How do i lose weight with out going crazy and with out dying ? xxx...

My boyfriend doesn't know how to be "boyfriend like"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

7 January 2009 (?) - I am being unfair and I know it. I am still completly carzy about my ex. we usd to fight alot, and we were togther for almost two years, but he lives in a differnt continet. And he is th one person who understands me compltly. we broke up 5 months ...

Advice on trimming pubic hair

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M) - I am an 19 year old male living in Canada. I see there is a trend for pubic hair removal in men. I tried trimming my pubic hair once because i figured girls would find it unappealing left alone as it seems unfashionable to have a "bush." I used a ...

I'm dying to travel to France but can't afford it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, happy new year!... My question is totally random but I need help. I went to france a when I was like 10 and I really fell in love with it. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and him along with my brother and his girl...

I really don't understand her actions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

7 January 2009 (M) - Does she really like me? it all started in september. i needed a ride home from school regularly because my brother had gone off to college and my mom was never home and i asked this girl who i work with to give me a ride home. The first time s...

It's not what I think it should be

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I've tried lots of stuff with masturbation (fingers, objects, talking dirty with my boyfriend etc.) but nothing seems to be screaming orgasm good. I've tried rubbing my clit, or where i think it is, but its never.... Hmm... What i think it should ...

Cant choose between the ex,the friend and the "stranger"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Just to forewarn you- this is a long story and I'm gonna break into three parts. O.K recently I have somehow manage to lead on three different guys and I'm really confused about my feelings. Guy 1: I met him around September 2007 and in No...

I have light fuzz above lip--what to do?

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7 January 2009 (F) - hi. ther a litel problem. sometimes i tend to spend too much time in the mirror and i look at myself up close too much. i have some hair above ma lip (like wher a boy has mustache) its not like major hair.. it like peach fuzz but if u lok up close u ...