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Archived questions from: October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Is sex before marriage okay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Is sex before marriage ok? I mean what happens if it's going to be a while before you find the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with??? ...

How can I retract my foreskin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - I am 15 and I can not retract my foreskin. Is there something wrong and what can I do to start retracting it?...

Why doesn't my husband ever want to go anywhere with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - i am 19years old and my husband is 20 and this feb 14th 2010 we will be married for 2 years. and weve been together 3. we have a son. but thats not our problem. our relationship is so confusing. i really dont mind cleaning, i used to clean the house ...

Is it bad for a Christian girl to masterbate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - im a 15 year old qirl. i am christian. in i have several questions. is it bad for a christian qirl to mastrubate?is it bad for a girl to mastrubate? can you loose your virginity? please help...

Dating problems: covered in freckles, bi, and overweight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - ok well I am 18 and I am having trouble dating I am bi and there are no girls or guys looking at me to date is there something wrong with me. I am a little over weight and covered in freckles but no one seems to like me...

Should I have sex with her when we aren't in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - There's this girl that I've know since the 6th grade and I've always thought she had a nice body. We're in the 9th grade now. We started talking over the internet and one thing led to another and we ende up having internet sex and now se wants me to ...

Do you think I should tell my parents about my BF before I leave or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I'll spare you all of the intracate details if you'll avoid wasting your time and asking me or telling me whether or not what I'm doing is smart, safe, thought out, etc.... In January '10 I'm flying out to my boyfriend's town to stay there for 3...

Is the odor thing normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hi, this is rather embarrassing. I get sexually aroused VERY easily, it happened the other night! i spoke to a guy whom i really like which made me 'wet' as i am very attracted to him. So a few minutes later i sit down with a few friends, then mo...

Should I disclose why intimacy scares me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - ok, so my question is about being in a successful relationship. i'll admit that ya i'm a virgn and ya i tended to avoid relationships, but the thing is i've had a pretty messed up past. i was abused physically and emotionally and there are some ...

Will first time sex hurt if you've been fingered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - If you've gotten fingered and it didnt hurt at all, will it hurt when you have sex for the firs time?...

I'm 17 and have signs of pregnancy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - hiya im 17 and are getting signs of pregnancy and im excited in myself but not really sure if my bf wants to keep it coz he finks im only young but wen i talk him in2 it he gets really in2 it x i have strong views bout adoption coz i havnt had a mum ...

Is it normal for a boy to say, "I love you" in a different way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Ok. One day in science my boyfriend said I love You, But he didn't say it like that he said "Like the barney song." I was like Awwwwwwwwwww. I think it's sweet and wierd. Is it normal for a boy to say I love you to you in a different way?...

Can exercising too much stop your period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - This isn't really a relationship question but i'm pretty sure you can help me. Basically i've been wondering whether doing too much excerise can stop your period. A couple of years ago I used to do a fitness plan and it was like fifty sit ups, t...

How do I reply to his text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. So I have been devasted and lost for the past week and a bit because my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me. It was a shock and I haven't been able to function properly all week. His is reasons for breaking up with me were the ...

How do I stop obsessing and missing my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Im 16 and my girlfriend is turming 18... Every time im not with her im depressed, even tho i talk to her, its just when ever im dont talking to her i get sad and depressed. Heres our story.... We met at work weve been goin out for 2 weeks, my frie...

Should I be looking for a dominant girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Recently whilst watching videos on the internet, i have found myself looking at dominatrix videos. Does this mean i should have dominant girlfriend or am i very strange?...

The right time to kiss her...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - I'm 16 and I'm taking this girl out to the cinema today and i would like to kiss her. What do I do to kiss her without looking or ending up doing something wrong or silly?...

Advice needed. I think I'm in love with my best guy friend but he does not love me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I know this is a repeated question and it is quite long, but please bear with me. I have the most wonderful guy friend you could ever ask for. He is my best guy friend, and I love him dearly. He is always there for me when I am down, he tells me ...

How do I sort my head out and get back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hello, i would be very grateful if you could read this and not judge. I just dont know whats wrong with me, my head is so messed up. I am 17 years old and i am currently studying my A2 levels (loads of work), i just recently passed my driving ...

Should I take revenge... or should I forgive and forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Back near the end of May I was in P.E and I didn't do it that day. I was sitting with a few of my closest friends and I suddenly got upset because I had a secret and knew it was going to blurt out. So I ran to the toilets in tears and my best ...

I want her but she doesn't even have feelings for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Hello, I am 16, and I am in love with one of my close friends. we live about an hour apart by public transportation, and we've only seen each other once. We met about 5 months ago, and she has been hurting me unintentionally for many months now. ...

Is it just a friend thing or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Okay I have recently been busy and tired and was too nervous to say hi to my crush but during those days that happend he had been talking to my best girl friend and when i didnt say hi to him he asked my best friend if i was mad at him or if i was ...

How can I make her like me again...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - I think I'm in love with this girl... problem is, she has a boyfriend. We dated about two months ago, but we broke up... until' she got together with him, we just remained good friends. I told her, tonight, that I was planning on asking her to get ...

Where do you think this reltionship will go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - well, during the summer, i started going out with a girl im, 14 and she is 13, a year below me, but we were off school and i didnt get to see her, after summer, i moved countries and we were both sad that i could only speak to her on msn, but she ...

Any thoughts re my life or how I can get more from it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hey. Erm, I just wanted to say a few things really and get some advice? I'm sixteen and I live with my mother, who had me at a very young age, her husband and my much younger half-sisters. I left school a while ago because of bullying and just ...

Is there anyway I can get her to like me more than him... or am I out of luck?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I'm 14, female, and bi. I like a girl who is around my age, female, and recently came out to me telling me she was bi also. Yesterday she found out a guy in one of our classes likes her, and she likes him back. (She didn't tell me that I guessed) I ...

He likes me a lot more than I like him... how can I let him down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - A guy i've never met added me on facebook about six months or so ago. For some reason i accepted him, we had no related friends or anything and his profile said he lived nowhere near me but i just left it and didn't say anything. I soon recieved...

I'm confused that I'm sending him mixed messages.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - i like this guy in one class that i have and i'm confused because he is sending me mixed messages. first it started off as him staring at me and glancing my way then since he sits in front of me he moved in the back seat..i thought he was going to ...

Am I addicted to sex? What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I feel like I need to have sex or i'm going to go crazy. with each passing day i get more urges (especially at school with the hot teachers, etc.) and it's very distracting. i'll be trying to do calculus work and suddenly envision a man's arm, whi...

I'm so scared for my friend, what can I do to help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I'm so scared for my friend. She's not the kind to open up or anything and when she does it's just cause she really needs to get something off her chest. She recently told me she started smoking and drinking more and now she's talking to me about ...

Do you think I've upset or offended her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Hey there, last week i asked my best friend out (we're both girls and bi). She's known how i feel about her for about 6 months now, and she said she loved me back, but when i asked her out, she said no. this sort of crushed me and the last week ive ...

Just come off the pill......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Just come off the pill, when I was on it I was not really interested in sex. Now that I'm off I want it more than usual! ;) Just wondered if anyone else has experienced this and if its a normal thing to have happened when coming off the pill....

Why do I always see my ex in my dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I always see my ex in my dreams and I do not know why. Apparently he was holding me tight close to him and then we started kissing. I really want to stop dreaming about him since it is always delaying me from moving on completely with my life.. do ...

Should I go the whole way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Me and my current bf have been going out now for about six months and are thinking about going the whole way, and having sex. He asked me to do it about two months in and I said no but now it's been playing on my mind and I feel like I really am not ...

Is it wrong to have a leather glove fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Recently whilst watching videos on the internet, i have found myself looking at leather glove fetish videos. Is it wrong to have a glove fetish? Is there something wrong with?...

What can I do to get my girlfriend to snog me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I'm 16 and me and my girlfriend have never snogged. We are both nervous and shy so... what do i do to get her to kiss/snog me?...

I'm fat with no boobs, will anyone ever love me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - hi. i am just curious about something.. im 17 years old, im quite short fo rmy age, about 5'3. im a size 14-16 in clothes, but i only come in at a B in bra size. is this weird? when i look in the mirror i get so depressed. i have the smallest boobs ...

I'm worried my lack of knowledge in the bedroom will end the relationship!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - help! ok iv been going out with this guy for a while and i really like him, we'v only ever kissed but i know things will soon be going further. he has slept with 2 other girls (both in long term relationships he isnt a get around) but i havent done ...

I get jealous when he meets new friends... am I in love with my gay friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a girl, 18 years old, I have a best friend and he is a gay.. we are so close to each other as if we treated each other as more than friends and as time goes by I felt something strange, maybe I'm already falling in love with him, he always ...

How can I get her to take the lead more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I'm 17 years old and have been going out with a girl for 2 months which is lovely and i love spending time with her and i think shes great. BUT all we have ever done is kiss on the lips. She's a bit shy and a never takes the lead on anythiing. For ...

Help! How can I make things better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - My fiance and I are extremely happy together and his family is really happy for us, and I get along great with them all except for his father. I am a full time college student and my fiance and I live an hour and a half apart. I see him only on ...

How can I show her I won't hurt her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - What does it mean when you went out with a girl for 2 years and broke up for 3 months and she has a new boyfriend and you try and talk to her but she acts like she doesnt wanna have anything to do with you and tells everyone that she doesnt care ...

How can I get her to come back to me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Me and my ex went out for 2 years, we broke up about 3 months ago and in that 2 years i hurt her bad but i told her it would never happen again and it didnt she hurt me also. about a month and a half ago she got another boyfriend i wanna get back ...

How do I convey to her I love her personality without being totally shot down in flames?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Recently, I came out of what I call a "loner phase" where I think I don't need affection, and don't look for it. Ironically enough, I fell in love immediatley after "waking up" so to speak, with a girl I had a crush on in middle school when I saw ...

He is always bringing up his former crush in front of me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - so... im 15. My boyfriend and I love each other a lot. but my problem is he had a huge crush on this girl before me - for about a year he was obsessed with her - she liked him too, but wasnt ready to date. so, my boyfriend claims hes over her, and ...

Apparently he went off me but it seems he is still leading me on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - i liked this guy and he liked me back but neither of us knew so we didnt make a move. he apparently went off me and i still like him, i'm not sure if he likes me still or not because he is being a bit weird at the moment. he puts his arm around me ...

Was I being led on or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I had met a girl at a club, she is rather crazy and wild and anyway, i started to talk to her heaps over the next weeks, and we were getting along real well. Eventually we decided to meet up in a club and it was good. She was rather smashed as she ...

I think I love her, but she just wants to be friends. Should I keep being her friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Please Help!!! Ok so i really like this girl like alot i think i love her. I have told her that i really like her. She had also told me that she really likes me,but the other day out of nowhere she changed her mind and told me that she only sees us ...

My 17 year old daughter hasn't had her period. Any advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I have a 17 year old daughter that has not started her period. I have taken her to several doctors. Does anyone have advice or information on this subject?...

I'm at a loss on how to approach her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I'm drawn to this girl, who I have dated in the past but it wasn't a real relationship it was more a junior high I have a girlfriend/boyfriend now relationship that was two years ago. And the other day I looked at her and my heart started racing I ...