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Archived questions from: September, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

School bullies spreading rumours

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - At school there's alot of drama going on between me and girls. They are spreading really nasty rumors about me. I talked to the dean and also my teacher but I feel like its not enough. What should I do??? they are saying I have std's, im a slut, ...

My girlfriend was drugged and raped and I blame myself.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - I am 20 and my girlfriend is 18, We have been dating since high school. I go to college in a town that is 4 hours away from our home town. Last April during our last week of school I invited (begged) her to come down and attend the last class bash ...

He flirted with me, but now doesn't want my number.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Ok, Iv been on about this lad I can't stop thinking about. And how he was flirting with me at my brothers 18th. Well when my bro saw him a few weeks after he asked for my number but my bro couldnt give it him cos he has a new phone and didn't have ...

He was a player, he said that he will change for me but I can't help feeling insecure.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - hi long story short, im with a boyf, been over 3 weeks, iv been wit him before. hes cheated b4 in the past, on me and past girlfs, and he was a player. he said that he will change for me, and i do believe him but i get these little moments when i f...

Can anyone tell me what my dream means?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Hello :D I appreciate it if it is hard to answer this question, but I am extremely curious. Last night I dreamt I was inlove with my crush, and he was my boyfriend (along with other random stuff happening, e.g us going on a giant bouncy castle.)...

I'm feeling insecure - should I bring it up to her and talk about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - Ok, i need some help here. I don't know what to do. I have been with my GF for some time now and I really like her. The thing is that I don't know if she's flirting with other guys though. I really trust her and don't think she would do that. But ...

When it comes to sex I'm never pleased! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Well, me and my boyfriend are emotionally intimate and everything seems perfect but when it comes to sex im never pleased. I can only have an orgasm when im on top but im so tired of pleasing myself. I love having sex with him and even tried telling ...

What is PMS?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 35 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - Does anyone know what PMS stands for ? I hear a lot of people saying it but i don't know what it means....

How to approach him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - im in love with a guy who is a senior in high school but im only a freshman.[tough huh?]i see him every day in school we both have the same lunch and i still cant seem to talk to him. i always catch him looking at me and i get nervous and look away. ...

Is it unusual to bleed when you first start having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Ok So hi again.. Im 19 and about a month ago me and my boyfriend started having sex. The first time it hurt like hell but didnt bleed alot. a few days later it hurt some and bled alot. since then we have had sex maybe 3 more times. Everytime we do ...

Does this mean he likes me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - hey people i have a problem i realy like this guy but he has a gf and every day that i see him he sais some thing diffrent like today he said that some one told him i want to have sex with him and make out with him does this mean he likes me back?...

Maybe if he thinks I'm sick, he'll drop the tough guy act and want to get back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - i want my bf back but idk how long or if that will happen and i dont want to wait around for him to realize what he let go and what we had. do u ever really get over ur first true love? our break up ended bad and we havent talked since, iv e...

How do I help boyfriend long distance? He's really struggling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 54 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Wow, I haven’t posted on here for such a long time… basically, am in a longish distance relationship with this really amazing guy who I love to pieces. Last night he got taken into hospital after having really awful headaches and he is really ...

Is unprotected sex the only way to catch chlamydia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hey, this is probaly a really stupid question, but is unprotected sex the only way to catch chlamydia? Im thinking of sleeping with my boyfriend for the first time, but I wont be his first. Hes had a test done and hes all clear, and they offer th...

What are you meant to do if the guy you like finally notices you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Omg. I really need someones help. What are you meant to do if the guy you like (whos drop dead gorgeous, 2 years above you.. in sixth form and perfect) actually finally notices you? He was flirting with me at my brothers 18th (not verbally, but ...

How should I apologize for accidentally touching her breast?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - So, theres this girl in my 9th grade english and P.E. classes, and we been hanging out alot. I like her, she likes me, and we get along really well. I hug her almost every time we have to leave eachother for classes/ bus, although were not actually ...

I'm tired of being burdened with issues. Can anyone help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I have graduated highschool but returned for a semester; not because of poor academics, but because I was not in the right mindset during my senior year to be thinking about University.. It was a year when I was just really getting to finally know ...

Is douching bad for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I've recently hear that douching Is bad for you. Or atleast nit good because it strips you of hormones and chemicals you need down there and washes you out. Well ever since I was little I've been fond of taking bathes opposed to showers but I was ...

Is it normal that I can't orgasm after a drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Is it normal that I can never seem to reach orgasm when I have alcohol in my system? I don't drink often, but every time I've been anywhere from slightly buzzed to completely drunk, it seems like orgasms are out of the question. My boyfriend and I ...

What pubic hair design should I have for first time sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Me and my Boy friend are planning to have sex for the very first time, at the moment i am a virgin and am ready to loose my virginity. And i do cut my pubic hair but i realli don't know how boys like it. boys do you like all pubic hair gone or a l...

No negative advice! Do I go with the flow and see what happens?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - i am not looking for judgement or negative advice. alls im looking for is some guidance. and i know some things i did were massivly stupid. i have known him for almost two years. we met online through friends, and he lives in a different state ...

I confessed to my teacher that I love him! He said it can never happen...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

29 September 2009 (F) - i am a 17 year old girl and am in love with my teacher.He is unmarried, good-looking amd an absolute charmer.He is an extremely talented person and is loved by all his students.i have been his student for alomost one and a half year and i have a ...

Pubic hair yes or no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - I'm a boy of 18 years the problem is that i hav lots of pubic hairs, actually i have hairs on my hips and lots of hairs on my legs although i have no or very little hairs on my chest. I want to know will my gf or any other girl like my hairs on hips ...

I finally plucked some courage to talk to him but how do I keep it going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hey!!!i talked a lot about the huge crush i had on this really cool boy(who really liked me too) and i said before i never talked to him cause whenever he tries 2 talk 2 me i do anything to stop it cause im too too too shy. in this summer break...

Can anyone give me advice on my singing voice and vocal range?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Hi i was wondering if someone could give me some advice on my singing voice and my vocal range. I have just really started to grow in the last few months so obviously this shows that i'm a bit of a late bloomer. I don't think my voice has broken ...

How can you tell if other girls are bi or gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I could do with a bit of advice at the moment and not quite sure who else to ask.. Ok so first of all, I'm Bi (if not gay!) and always go for the people who aren't gonna like me back. For example, I liked a girl for about a year and a half and I st...

I miss him so much

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hi i was really good friends with this boy in my class and we used to have fun hanging out tgether. We were reasonably close for about a month but then suddenly on monday, i went to school and i felt like he was cold shouldering me. I thought it...

What do you make of his behaviour? I really like him but he is acting really weird!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hey There, I've been having a problem and i really need your help! Basically there's this guy i've been liking on and off for a long while and only recently have we started chatting. But he can be very confusing in his signals..you see i really want ...

He knows I like him so why hasn't he developed feelings for me yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hello :D okay so I have been close friends with a guy for a few months now, at one point I liked him, I told him, he said he loved me, but only as a close friend. I then moved on with him, which I was really happy about. I moved onto other guys and...

How should I react to him hugging me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 55 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - This guy I know and I are not that close, but were friendly. We sit together in class, and have a few mutual friends, and its not awkward to talk to him outside of those two situations. Recently he's been hugging Me and random moments, like it makes ...

How can I truly make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hi...i'm an 18 year old female in a complicated relationship. it all started last year when i met a guy at my college. we clicked instantly and became very good and close friends. he had a girlfriend at the time, but told me they were on the rocks ...

We just broke up and he's dating my best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - So, i need some help. My and my boyfriend of 6 months just broke up and now he's dating my best friend. I have to see him with her everyday since i have no other social connections. We broke up saturday while she was over at his house they started ...

Will a sexual relationship enhance our love for each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 55 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - I'm 18 years old and i love a girl and she too loves me but i never had a french kiss with her altough i have kissed her a few times on her cheeks.Actually i want to know is it good to have sexual relationship with her,i have never asked her ...

Girls: Can you help give me a female perspective?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Hi i'm 18 years old and i'm a virgin the problem is that i have a slightly curved penis, its a bit curved downwards and very little to the left ,its very little curve not a big one.this makes me a bit distressed.Altough i have read many topics ...

How can I ask her out without seeming pushy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Alright heres the deal.. Theres this girl i like, and have liked for a while now, shes 15 and im 14. She is also a grade ahead of me. She said she likes me.. But heres where i get held up.. About 4 months ago i asked her out not knowing if she...

Does anyone know what the difference between body rubbing and dry humping?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Does anyone know what the difference between body rubbing and dry humping ( i have no idea if thats even something) ? Or are they both the same thing ? Anyone care to axplain. Thanks....

Should I worry about being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Alright. So I met this guy about a month or so ago that works with my mom..This sounds really bad but he is only 19, I will be 18 in October...he already has a baby that is 13 months old. Well..my mom decided to let me start staying the nigh...

I still love him, should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, i have a problem, ok.... Me and my ex broke up almost 3 months ago after a year and a half relationship because he ended...to be honest i dont even really know why, something about me being clingy and moody and jelous of his best gir...

How can I get out of this without ruining relationships or breaking anybody's heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - their is a boy [friend] and we a kinda way involved..and we know each other for 2 years now. and it have been a while now i have been flirting with his friend. [like really sexy flirting] and my friend told me he don`t want to share me with anyone. ...

Ejaculation accidentally touched my vagina

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Before you all say I am too young(or something) for this, I would like to say. I have made a huge mistake by doing this. I know what I did wrong, and is very regretful. Any nurses/doctors/concerned adults please help! I touched male sperm on my...

I want to give my boyfriend a handjob that he will enjoy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - im 16 and my boyf wants me to give him a handjob and i will but im scared of hurting him by holding on too tight because thats how he likes it what should i do? and he likes it fast. does that mean i cant do it slow cos he wont ejoy it?...

Confused about first time sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 55 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so i'm just going to get this out there, in my high school everyone has either lost thier virginity in 9th or won't until marrige. and i absolutely LOVE my boyfriend, we've been togethe so much its probably not healthy but i love it : ). now, ...

Am I too fat to attract a boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Am I Fat To Have a borfreind? 15 years...60 kg....152 cm .....

My girlfriend never tells me she loves me and calls me homie! Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Okay I have a Problem with my LDR relationship and need some advice. Alright well My girlfriend of 2 months (we were friends before hand for about 5 months) Never tells me that she loves me while talking over skype as we do. She will type it to me ...

There's going to be heartbreak tonight!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Hey, I am a 15 year old boy, and I have to chose between two girls in a few hours, both of whom I have feelings for, and neither of whom have an indication of what internal turmoil I am currently going through... The first girl, I had met...

I like the boy at the snackbar but what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Does he like me? ------------------ Ok, it all started in April when I walked past the snackbar while I was texting a friend. My mom suddenly said: "Look!" and I said "Huh?" and looked around, and then I saw that boy, looking at me and turnin...

Why was she mean and now she's friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Theres this blond girl in my language arts class who is thin and reallly short(but not one of those dwarf people, just really short)like 4 ft, and shes pretty cute, at the time i didnt know a whole lot of people yet and so when class got out as we ...

Maybe interested afer all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 55 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I told this boy named Taz that I really liked him over the Summer, about two months ago. I told him all through text of how I like him. It was my first time ever asking a boy out and telling my feelings. I am 17 years old and I am a girl. Taz ...

What are the four "bases"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Hahahah I know that this is going to sound dumb but i dont really get what the "4 bases" of dating are. Can anyone explain ??????????...

Do you get pregnant from a blowjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - okay, i'm not really going to do this, but can a blowjob get you prgnant? in other words, if you swallow the sperm, is it possible?...