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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm tired of feeling like he doesn't want to be with me...

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5 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year. We are both in high school as of now and we have always planned to finish off together and then continue to be in this relationship for the rest of our lives. We constantly talk about ...

I told him I liked him... where do I go from here?

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5 January 2009 (F) - Hi there. I have a typical teenage trauma for you. Ok im 16 and for the last year or so I have been taking to this guy, mainly through text and msn, but I have met him, although this is difficult as hes a weekly boarder. I always thought he showed ...

I dated him for 3 weeks in May 2008, I didn't know what I was getting myself into...

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5 January 2009 (F) - I've asked a ton of questions on here for some advice, but I've never really got the help that I needed. In May 2008, I *unofficially* dated this guy, we were friends first, I was 16 he was 16, but we just didnt want to rush into anything incase ...

I really need help with this urgently before tomorrow (2nd posting) thanks!

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5 January 2009 (F) - P.S. I am only posting again as this is a very important question and I did not recieve enough answers to consolidate the issue. You may be tempted to delete my post despite this P.S. note - but why don't you take into consideration my feelings and ...

Do I keep talking to her even though she doesn't deserve it whatsoever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - My ex and I were together for about 2 years, we were very much in love, we were both each others first true love, and everything was great up until a couple months before it ended. i pretty much made her the center of my life. we did everything ...

How do you tell another guy you like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - How do you actually tell a guy that you like him without actually telling him straight up.. by the way I'm a guy....

How long does it take for the contraceptive pill to take effect?

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5 January 2009 (F) - So I'm on a birth control pill. I'm on it for medical reasons. I am not having sex and I don't plan to for a while. But I was wondering though how long does birth conrtol take to "kick in" as a contraceptive? (preventing pregancy)...

I have frenulum problems, please help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...

How can I forget about my ex-girlfriend?

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5 January 2009 (M) - How can I forget about my ex-girlfriend? I really loved her. And she said she loved me with all her heart. But we broke up in the end, she never gave me a good reason. She just said that feelings faded away. I have been sad for a few months now. ...

I'm scared I'm not big enough for her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - I have never had sex but me and my girlfriend want to. I worry about my penis. I measured it and it's 5.5 inches but I'm only sixteen. Her ex was about 2 or 3 inches longer from what I've been told. I'm scared....

How do I get my boyfriend to finger me?

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5 January 2009 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend to finger me? I have tried to bring his hand down there to touch me, but he just stops. What should I do or say to get him to finger me?...

I just found out he has feelings for another GUY!!! I'm in shock!

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5 January 2009 (F) - I feel weird posting something on here, but I really don't know what else to do. I had been in an amazing and strong relationship. He is my best friend and knows me better than anyone. It's hard to explain how close we are, or were. I'm a senior ...

I'm 5 months pregnant and want to know if it is still safe to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I'm 5 months pregnant and want to know if it is still safe to have sex? ...

Lost My Virginty at 14, Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I just moved to a new city same state. At my old school I was just getting involed with boys. I was in 7th grade then. And now I am in 8th and I moved here over the summer.So Im in 8th grade now suopose to be in 9th. But lately I have been making ...

Should I play around like this after the fact that I don't want to have oral?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I told him at the beginning of our relationship that there would be no oral, but then I said I would do it with him this week. I don't know what to do. I don't feel comfortable doing that, and I'm a minor, and he is an adult. Should I play around l...

My man says he loves me, but we are not really "we."

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5 January 2009 (F) - My man says he loves me, but we are not really we. I am postponing my yes to him, cuz I can't get caught with him, and he wants to make us offical. We were together, after 2 weeks apart today and he was being a butt hole cuz he won't let me touch hi...

My best friend and I were in love until the new guy came along - now she loves him and I love her

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5 January 2009 (M) - Hey all. Three years ago, in the midst of highschool, I had recently just settled down into a new group of friends after moving, and all was well. I became amazingly close with this girl, who I'll call "E," and within months, the two of us were ins...

All my friends have done it but me and now I've met a guy who wants to take my virginity, should I do it or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hey i knw am under age n all... buh am just having second thoughts... all my friends have done it. there's this guy at skwel a little bit older than me and we only started talking on msn..( as friends) then he mentions tht he wants so bad.. 4...

So did she have an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - im 15 and my girlfriend is 14, we recentley went to the mall, and went into a nursery room where she gave me a hand job and i figered her. i think she got an orgasm but im still not sure, the first time i gave her one she legs started to tremble ...

Do I take the morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

5 January 2009 (?) - i did the stupidest most irresponsible thing ever and messed around with my ex/almost boyfriend again. we are taking some time apart before getting back together so that we dont mess things up the second time around. we hung out today and things got ...

I want oral sex! How do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - i'm 15 and my girfriend is 14, my girlfriend and i have been goin out for three wonderful months and counting..... she used to say that we would wait for the perfect moment to have sex, then soon after she started saying that we would never have sex....

I want to be clever in asking him out..any ideas?

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5 January 2009 (F) - I really have so many worries don't I? Here goes: Just got back to school today and I am certain I want to ask out Tom. I like him, he doesn't have a girlfriend, I don't have a boyfriend and I think he likes me. But I'm not sure how to ask hi...

I want to respark the relationship..any cheap romantic ideas?

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5 January 2009 (M) - I want to respark the flame, any cheap romantic but sweet ideas to help me????...

I'm in love with my cousin, he's getting engaged

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - ok heres my problem i am 16 and in love with a guy but not just any guy my 18 year old cousin now we havent seen each other in 4 years but the last time we saw each other we mad love weve made love before and its all ways been special to me but i ...

I don't think I love him anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I dont know what to do! I dont think i love boyfriend anymore. We are engaged and have a 3 month old baby! It's such bad timing! I want my son to have his father around and ive stayed in this relationship for him! But i'm not sure i can do it anymo...

How do I find out if he has feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - ok theres this guy i like we havent known each other long but i really like him the thing is week coach together but thats the only time i see him which is like once a week and i want to hang out more but im not sure if he likes me in the same way. ...

I don't have a clue what would feel good for him!

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5 January 2009 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we're really happy together. We've started taking the relationship to a higher level over the past few weeks and he has started putting his hand down my pants etc. I'd like to be able to do the s...

First time sex worries, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - hi i am 16 years old an i have a boyfriend who is 17 we been going out for five months an i love him alot an he says he does to we are both virgins we see each other everyday and we are so close we makeout alot also an we get turn on real quick but ...

Good idea? I put condom on a banana and used it

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5 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, Am i a freak? I was sitting in my room bored with nothing to do. It was a guy friend texting me telling me all these freaky toughts he was having about me. While later on that night I was kind of horny. So i went and got a banana a...

I'm too clingy and I'm really missing him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Help! am i going insane? It all started exactly about a year and a half. I went to argentina and met a wonderful boy. We became best friends and are now dating. However, as a young teenager i suffered from some bad relationships and it made me very ...

My dad won't let me be an auto mechanic

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5 January 2009 (?) - Im really into cars (and sports) and I think might be a auto mechanic when I finish high school but my dad and most of my family (mainly guys) thinks its not "lady like" (thats a nice way to put it). My dad won't let me a auto mechanic course at my ...

Another girl kissed my b/f now my mind is filled with doubt

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5 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend went back to his hometown for christmas break and while he was there some girl kissed him. he swears that he didn't kiss her back and that he left right afterwards but i don't know what to do or think about this. I want to completely ...

Want to drive him wild

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5 January 2009 (F) - i want to do something that will really drive him wild. we makeout and im willing to take things further but im not sure if he is just yet. we've been together 6 months and we're both juniors. is there anything i can do to really get him going ...

He said I was cute but he likes someone else

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5 January 2009 (F) - so there is a guy that i really really like. He is a year older than me. I meet him in the beginning of december. And we have been hanging out for a while. Just last friday he asked me if i was cute. I said yea, but i don't think u think i am cute. ...

How do I earn trust back so we can get our relationship back to how it was?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - i recently cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months and he broke up with me 3 times in 1 day because he was so mad,but thats not my problem because we got back together.my problem happens to be that now that we are back together i still feel that he is ...

How do you masturbate to make it feel good?

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5 January 2009 (F) - How do u finger yourself to make it feel "good" i guess? xoxo *thanks* ...

We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?

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5 January 2009 (F) - hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge ...

What do I do and who do I chose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma. I am in love with two guys. Guy number 1 I went out with once for a year but we broke up because he cheated on me. After a couple of months he came back to me and kept apologizing. We got back together but we broke up ...

G/f pushing me away

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5 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is beginning to kind of push me away, it started out fine, I called her every day. Then she started answering lesser, and lesser. So now I cant even get her to even go out with me anywhere. Whats wrong here?...

I can't see my boyfriend!

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5 January 2009 (F) - hey us ee im 13 my bf is 14 nd i love him alot... weve been together 4 a long time...nd well my mom dosnt aprove nd she found us just talking outside...bcuz i would see him witout my parents notice nd well i love him alot nd my mom dosnt let us b...

14 pregnant don't want to tell my mum!

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5 January 2009 (F) - Ok so i'm 14, and i just found out im pregnant. No body knows yet i definatly don't want to get rid of it but i know my mum she will try and make me if i tell her! And i can't tell my boy friend because i don't know how he will react i'm not sayin ...

We made out, she has a boyfriend and now she's distancing herself from me

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5 January 2009 (M) - Hey, there is a girl who i have liked for a long time, the issue was she has a long term boyfriend. I was there for her when she was going through any rough patches etc. We get along really well we went places together etc. We would send flirty ...

Anonymous answers please about lots of ?? about penis!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - Okay I know this is another Penis size question and that people are probably sick of it,but for men it's a huge insecurity. Answer anonymously if you please. 1)Would you ever breakup over a lovers size? 2)What do you consider small? 3)What do y...