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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My 15 y/o girlfriend is pregnant by someone else - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Ok so here's my problem.... I recently started going out with this girl and we've only been out once but really like each other and have kissed etc. Shes 15 and I'm 16 (Same year at school though). Shes been away over Christmas without a ph...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i are juniors in highschool and started going out september 19 of last year. we really are in deep love. we have gone to second base but parents are always home. 1) he can't drive me until february so how can we get some privacy?...

I think I might have an infection, please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity on new years....... ever since I have been itching a little bit and there has been like this muddy type substance and the color is like a brownish greyish.... I wash real good and it goes away... but the next morning when I wake ...

He bites my neck now instead of kissing it... what does this say to me???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I have a question. I recently got into a relationship with a guy and so far it's been 3 amazing months. In the begining whenever we would makeout he would eventually end up kissing my neck, which I loved. But now when we engage ourselves in ...

Does giving or receiving oral sex mean you're not a virgin any more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

4 January 2009 (?) - Hi, I'm a 14 year old virgin and I was just wondering... is oral sex counted as sex and If you do it.. does it mean you've lost your virginity? I have a couple of friends who want to know the answer to that question and so do I. Feel free to input ...

I'm in love with 2 boys, I can't choose and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with two boys. And they're best mates too. I can't choose. It's driving me crazy, and I don't know how to behave to them. I can't be flirty with both. I can't say no to both. I have to choose one of them, and that's time now! Pleas...

Does taking speed and drugs stop a guy from getting a hard on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Does taking speed and drugs stop a guy from getting a hard on?...

I'm really worried about my friend but I don't want to seem paranoid.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I have a problem with a friend. Generally me and my friend were very chatty with each other we could talk for hours about nothing and enjoy it, she even told me once that she really likes having me as a friend. However at one point I went on to ...

He seems to have completely dropped off the radar...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I knew this guy for two years. He randomly will call me. In November he called me up late at night he kept telling me about his fantasies and asked about mine how the next day he wanted to have sex with me. We saw each other the next day and just ...

Should I forgive my boyfriend for watching porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years. We do not live together and we are both virgins. He recently confessed that has watched porn at least once a week for the last 3 years. I was really hurt when he told me. He seemed to feel bad ...

His penis keeps slipping out... how can we improve on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I have wrote this anonymous but I was wondering if anyone had any ideas what I could do. I have slept with 2 people in my life and the first person I have only slept with a few times and that was who I lost my virginity to but my boyfriend now, I ...

Please help me make the right decision, I miss my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I really need help. I'm 15. I have a boyfriend. We've been through a lot together and have a lot of past together. we went out all summer and even went away together and then we broke up and now we're back together.. I really have felt like I've ...

Suddenly he's pushing me out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - hi im 17 and ive been seeing my bf for about a year. We did have a rough few months that we were apart and saw other people then we worked out our problems and got back together....anywho...he is very clingy i guess youd say, and he always texts me ...

Unprotected sex for only 1 second

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - hi, im 14 and im terrified, i think my girlfriend might be pregnant. shes 2 days over due for her period supposobly.. we had sex, but used a condom, then once only for a second literally without one. please if anyone can give me relief about this i ...

I want more attention

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I am in a sort of long distance relationship. Not really, he lives an hour away, and i see him about once a week. So I can't just see him anytime but I see him semi-often. We are both guys. I'm gay. If that makes any difference. My problem is t...

3 guys after me..don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - OK, here's my problem...i am in love with this guy and 3 other guys are after me, and i have absolutely no idea what to do! please help me?...

Can we still be friends now that we've had sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - is it possible to remain friends with a close friend i had sex with? we used to fancy each other but nothing happened. and we turned into close friends, but ive always liked him and he knew about it towards to the end because i told him but h...

What do GIRLS consider to be the size of a big penis and a small penis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Okay everyone asks what is the AVERAGE penis size. However I'd just like to know: 1)What do girls consider big or large 2)What do girls consider small I know the results will vary for everyone but I was just wondering. Post your thoughts a...

Why is he ignoring me like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I have fallen head over heals for my best friend. We go to movies together, and get food together, but I want more. Usually he will call me every night and we will talk till one of us falls asleep but lately he hasn't called ...

I don't know what's wrong with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I am shocked... I am hurt and I don't know why. I have been reading lately a new moon book, however I got depressed.... today I fought with one of my closest friends because I didn't want to talk... I don't know what's wrong??...

She always gets a nasty feeling after an orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend an I have been along the lines of 2nd base for a bit (touching below and above waist) I have made her orgasm by fingering several times, she has tried to jack me off but we're getting to that. That's not my question though, when I ...

A replay of my question on my longtime crush. I need answsers by tomorrow!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - P.S. I am only posting again as this is a very important question and I did not recieve enough answers to consolidate the issue. You may be tempted to delete my post despite this P.S. note - but why don't you take into consideration my feelings...

What do women mean when the say "It's not the length, it's how you use it"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I'm not trying to offend any women,but when you say "It's not the size of his tool,it's how he uses it that matters" what do you mean? I also have heard that being able to perform oral well is also good,what's the best way or a good technique. ...

I want to know really how to find people to date and how to become more confident around guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and I've only ever had one boyfriend, it's not that I don't want one its just I never seem to be interested in guys and they don't seem to be interested in me either. It hadn't bothered me until now but now moat of my closest friends all have ...

He said he's going to ask me out but he hasn't yet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - So there's this guy and I really like him. I have been waiting for him to ask me out for the past 4-5 weeks and I really like him as Ii said. He says he is going to ask me out but then the day before he says he forgot what he was going to say to me ...

What signals do girls give to let you know they like you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I'm a shy male teen who essentially goes unnoticed by the female sex! I don't think I'm ugly or unattractive,but I also don't think I'm amazingly handsome. I have some confidence issues as well as trust issues. One of my female frie...

He checks out other girls and I try to be cool but it bothers me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - This is really typical and stupid, but it's causing me pain and I was wondering if anyone could help me. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. Before that, we were really good friends for about a year. Well a few weeks before he asked me out, he ...

Does he like me or my cooking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Well here is my story, please bear with me as it is long.. I have been working for 2 years now and have been living on my own for about 8- 9 months now. I use to work at the accounting branch at reception, i was moved to the manufacturing branch ...

My b/f is really clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hey,I have a boyfriend, OB, but the thing is he is really clingy and he calls and texts all the time. It sounds really stupid but I tried avoiding him for one day and he was really upset about it and told me if I have a problem about us then I ...

Does this guy like me? Or just like to look?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hi Do u guys think this guy likes me? this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, smiling. Coming close. Always a smile on his face whenever he would see me. I could notice all these things from my side vision. He would pass by my cla...

I seem to be the only one struggling to hold my bladder and only release twice a day. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - As you are already aware - I suffer from OAB. Not only does this influence my sex, love and social life - it also provokes difficulties at school. I attend a boarding school, and teachers love to prevent me from using the toilets, using whatever ...

I don't know how to move things forward with this guy as he lives so far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hi! I don't now what I should do in this situation. For some years I and a boy I like, always went to the same hobby club. When we were there, we barely said "Hi" to each other and almost never talked. Now I've moved to another city. We have th...

Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl? P.S. For the publishers. You rejected by last post as you said it was a duplicate. But the first post I made (which you are here regarding as the duplicate) was also rejected as it w...

What can I do to feel something when he sucks on my nipples?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - the only time ican be alone with my bf is in the car...we are not public about our relationship because where ilive u r called names if uhave abf...so in order to be together we go to a different town, where i live weekdays because of uni. so my ...

Why do women laugh when they cause you to have blue balls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Why do women laugh at you when you've got blue balls? Do they like to see you in pain or something? I really don't like girls at the moment.....

I can't act normal around my ex now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I got my ex back it seems she wants me but I can't act normal when I see her I hardly can laugh any of yall can help me how to start we are going out for a bbq tomorrow how should I act? thnx...

How to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - i want some advice...my bf and i are moving on in our relationship...but there is no sex, until we are married he knows it very well and wants me to be a virgin on our wedding night, where i live its very important to be a virgin, so for sure we ...

Why do women sexually tease men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Why do women sexually tease men? They get you all riled up and expecting sex (intentionally) - but then deny any form of release - and provoke physical pain (referred to as blueballs). It hurts! So why do it?...

14 & lost my V-card

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I just moved to a new city same state. At my old school I was just getting involed with boys. I was in 7th grade then. And now I am in 8th and I moved here over the summer.So Im in 8th grade now suopose to be in 9th. But lately I have been making ...

Scared my parents will leave me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - please Help me... I've recently realized that Time passes by so quickly... and I'm scared that my parents will eventually leave me someday and i don't know what i'll do then... please help me......

Do guys like vegans? Animal lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I'm a vegetarian - considering becoming a vegan. Do guys dislike/like/have any preference over vegetarians and animal lovers?...

Stop being jealous! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Lately,,, i've been getting really jealous of a frend of mine, lets call her Mary, When Mary hangs around a frend i dont noe...i get really jealous. I think its because i want to become Mary's best frend. someone who she can tell anything to. So, ...

Tell him about my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I have a problem! I have just ended a relationship with an agressive boyfriend for another boy I like. My previous boyfriend sexually assaulted me and was rude, and physically abused me as well. The guy I am going out with now doesn't ...

Continue efforts to get closer to my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Characters (all fake names): Me Jack (my crush's crush) Sophie (my crush) So somehow I found out I'm actually in some kind of love triangle. So today I met my crush's crush, who I shall call Jack. I had a hunch that Jack was Sophie's c...

Worried about gaining her trust back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - hi, i've asked three questions on here already about phone sex. i told my girlfriend and she is goin to stay with me. but i'm worried about gaining her trust back and her families trust too. but i saw on her profile on facebook one of her friends ...

Should I keep wasting my time and wait for this to happen someday, or find a new life already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over four years. It will be five in March. So I have been with him since I was thirteen. That's a lot of my young life. Sometime I think I've wasted it, and almost everyone tells me so, but other times I ...

Can't get over her, its been over a year!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I really don’t know what to do… …….. i fell in love with this person …she never returned her feelings… i haven’t seen her in a 1 year and 7 months and i just heard she just got married to someone else…..it hurts.. everything she does...

Can I get an STD from myself? What harm can my own sperm do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I'm really really worried. Well, my friend said that jacking off is really addicting, so I tried it. When I did, sperm got out, and got onto my hands. I forgot to wash them. ( I just cleaned my hands with a piece of tissue ) Then I ate a bag of ...

Is it good to get butterflies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - ok i am going to be 15 in march and my mom has this boyfriend that she has been living with for almost 2 years but anyways he has this cousin that i met christmas eve and im not going to lie i feel in love with him and i know he likes me to but ...

How do I stop myself from 'freezing up'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Im 19 and been in an relationship with my boyfriend since my fresman yr in HS....and we havn t had sex yet. But recantly we ve been trying to and each time i do the same thing. IM still a virgin and i want to have sex with him i go over to his house ...

Should I have sex with this much older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - ok i dont no if i should be with my man. he is older and say he loves me. he told me that he wouldnt change a thing about me, and latly he has changed. before it was all dirty, but he is now calling beautiful and other things that r really sweet. a...

How can I really turn my BF on when we're making out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - is there any ways to really turn my boyfriend on while we're making out? i dont want anything that might lead to sex but other things (fingering, handjob, etc.) are fine. im normally on top and generally that gets him going but is there anything ...

I don't know what to do, shall I tell him? Does he like me? How could I put it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Theres this guy who I really like, and we act like we're a couple when we do see each other, but he lives 3 hours away. I recently stayed for a few days, and fell in love with him even more. He initiated everything, and why would he be the one ...

Are my fetishes normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I have a few fetishes and was wondering if any of them were not normal. 1)I am extremely attracted to redheaded females 2)I am turned on by pregnant women 3)I find older women more attractive than girls my own age. I'm also 18 and have tho...

Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age? I know when I settle down,I want someone who hasn't slept around with many partners. All sleeping around seems to do at a young age is get girls popularity and a nasty reputatio...

I want to change the way I am in life... but how???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hiya me and my bf have been together now for 1 month and 4 days but when I get angry I get in weird moods, I want to stop these moods now but I don't know how. I love him and I don't want to lose him. I want to change my life as I actually don't ...

Is my mom right to confront the ex wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - My Uncle is divorced and shares custody of his daughter with his ex-wife. His ex-wife was caught cheating on him multiple times as well as other things that I am not aware of. The ex-wife accused me of kissing my little cousin when I was thir...

I think in order to help her get over this argument I need to gain her trust again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have got on great until a few days ago, she hasn't long gone on holiday abroad to Madeira for new years with a friend and her friend's family. In the middle of the week we had a huge argument and she claimed I'd been off with ...

I know I'm worth twelve of that bitch and at least a hundred of the asshole I can't believe I let myself fall in love with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - My ex and I went through a seriously bad break-up about ten months ago after a year and three and a half month relationship. We then got back together about four months after that and then broke up again a month ago. It's now the new year and I just ...

How can I make my penis bigger?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I'm 18 and have just finished college and while looking for a job a friend suggested getting an audition for Brazzers (as a porn star) anyway I ended up going to the audition and was told my penis wasn't big enough, needed to be over 9 inches, I am ...

Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?...

Will he think I'm disgusting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Well, I always worry that when you shave your pubic hair and you go to a boyfriends or whatever and engage in sexual pleasure with him... Then the next after a few days you have it again but haven't brought a razor along to get rid during a shower. ...