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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

He's awesome...but he's three years younger than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's this boy in my youth group, and we've become really good friends. He's cute, he's sweet, he's funny, and we have a lot of fun together. I think I'm really starting to like him in more than a just-friends kind of way, and my c...

I'm having a hard time living without my ex. Help please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - myex boyfriend broke up with me around sep 15 and im having a hard dealing with him not calling me and talking to me anymore. i just recently saw him at a event and things happened that shouldnt have happned, I was doing really good before i saw him ...

I get really jealous when other girls flirt with my best guy friend. Surely I can't like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I'm really sorry this is so long but it requires a fair bit of explanation :D So a few years ago I was stranded in this class, in which I was the only girl. That sucked. Then this guy (then kinda funny/nerdy looking XD) sat next to me and was ju...

I was right on the edge of orgasm, but she just couldn't bring all the way. Any advice for her out there, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend wants to give me a hand job. She was trying the other day and it felt really good but she just couldn't quite get me there before her she got tired. Now she feels bad because she couldn't do it and i've been able to get her to orgasm ...

I still can't get over my crush on a teacher who moved away. Advice please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey! Ok well you might have read some of my other questions which were all about my teacher who i love and my last one was when he was leaving. But he's left to go to another school now and everyone said it will get better over time but it...

Which guy is playing me and which guy likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Okay I just want to know which guy is in playing or likes me. I would like to have a male point of view but females can too. The thing is with these guys I don't even flirt with any of them, I just act like myself, and I am shy,but generally ...

How can I cover up the bruises and scratches I got from my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - How can i cover these bruises i got from my boyfriend and the scratches on my wrists that i did to myself because of him hurting me? They are fresh and just done today. Before u judge me about hurting myself. Its because my whole life from six years ...

How can I make sure we don't drift apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Iv been with my boyfriend for a month and hes going back to uni this weekend and its 3 hours away! He says that we will still see each other every weekend still cuz thats all we see each other now as he lives a few hours away! But he wont have a car ...

Do these signs mean he may like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - theres this boy who i like and i got one of his mates to tell him (in the past he has said that i was "bum" and "beautiful" ) i thought becasue of what he said i actully had a shot of him liking me.but when the boy said he told him. he was in a rus...

My online boyfriend quit speaking to me, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - ive known this guy over the internet for ages now! we met a while back like twice and then when he added me on msn we got chattin alot, i really liked him and he liked me, he asked me out on a date on friday and i thought it was amazing! i was like ...

Could I be pregnant even though I had my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - long story short me an my boyfriend had sex 2 weeks ago the day after we had sex my period came my period came late but it still came but ever since then ive been having stomach pains an cramping could i be pregnant even though i had my period?...

Is he confused or could he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey ok you know when people think a lad likes you because of how he acts and stuff and from past things that have happened and they say they think he likes you but hasn;t admitted it to himself yet what do tehy mean by hasn't admitted it to himself ...

I feel paranoid about my LDR. How can I ease my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i've been in a long distance relationship for a year now. We live really far away and only get to see each other once every 6 weeks. I suppose i'm an paranoid person at heart and i'm always worrying about how many times i should phone him etc. But ...

I'm a lesbian and I need advice!

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30 September 2008 (F) - dearcupids! i really dont know what to do at the minute, well, im 17 and i am a lesbian, i was pretty ashamed at first, didnt want to admit to myself or my family but it was easier than i thought, when i introduced my girlfriend to my family, she ...

Am I his rebound girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi My boyfriend and I have officially been together for a month or 2 but unofficially about 3. My boyfriend and I started going out, when he asked me out, 1.5 months after he left a 6month relationship with his ex. I feel as though my boyfri...

I'm having weird fantasies about threesomes, and I can get her to agree to pretty much anything. Anyone else tried this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey. im 19 male with a 19 f girlfriend. we are in a serious relationship. the thing is ive been constantly fantasizing about having a threesome with her with another guy. the problem is that the only way i could have it happen is for it to be one of ...

Am I just being pathetic? I think I should have moved on by now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey, I was my girlfreind for about 5 months, shes my best freinds sister and we were in secret for literally the whole of the relationship. A lot of people had worked it out, and obviously we both told our close friends. The problem is my be...

What makes a woman marriage material?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I just wanted to know what makes a woman marriage material...what do guys really look for when the want to marry a woman....would a guy marry a woman who was promiscuos in her past if she had changed???...

People are rude to me and I feel horrible about myself!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - so ever since 9th grade peolpe were rude to me in school.im shy,i had cricked teeth, ut than i got braces, ther off now! thank god!one day at a party i made out with this one guy cuz he was hot an he would always flirt with me and the next day at ...

Is it a bad thing for a girl to take a while to orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Okay, Well i take forever to orgasm.... Is it a bad thing? Any advice? ...

Caught between my family and my forbidden lover! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy ( lets call him Mr.A) nearly a year ago, he's a tough guy with piercings and tattoos but as i got to know him i realised he is quite sensitive and sweet. When i told my family about him they had their doubts but were happy that i was ...

Are my friends jealous of me or is it my imagination?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I'm the thinnest one in my group of friends. I'll admit, I can be annoying but I know when to stop, my friends always say I'm annoying but we can still get along great when I'm controlling myself. I'm the only one that wear a bikini and my friends ...

The words at the end of her message meant something! What exactly did she mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - hey ok im kinda confused as to how this was ment basically theres a lad i like who also showed he liked me and stuff and he had a mate in another class who was a girl and this particular day someone out our class sorta did something as if to tell ...

When we make sounds he cums quicker than if we're quiet...Why???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i dont know this is kinda an awkward question but my boyfriend - everytime we have sex he finishes[cums] quickly, but the weird thing is that he finishes faster when there are sounds, like moans you know. but when there arnt any moans it lasts ...

He's hot but I think he may be gay! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - hi i met a guy how is hot and i think he is half gay. i really like him and we make each other laugh. i tried calling him but he wont answer or even txt. he is on to drugs and were the same age 13. the other day 9/27/08 i was asleep at a sleep over ...

Is 'queefing' a turn off for guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - What are guys opinions on queefing? I think its pretty normal for a girl to do it but do guy like it or are they turned off by it? Or do they not even notice?...

Can someone please help me figure out a way to get this problem out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Let me tell you the background of this story first. I went out with a guy in the beggining of this year. We went out for about 4 months and something happened between us so i broke up with him. Our relationship became difficult but we still ...

I think I’m a stalker..and my teacher has become my latest obsession. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have fallen in love with this teacher since June 2007, she is beautiful(age 25 this year) . And she left at the end of june 2007 to a different school to teach. And i still really really miss her :( and i haven’t seen her since. I think about her ...

How can I get my ex off my back without letting on that I have a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello, well, my ex bf tell's me he still loves me, but i have a new bf now, but no one knows cos were keeping it quiet for a bit to see how it goes. so my ex bf dosn't know, and i can't tell him. but he keeps telling me he still loves me and tht he ...

Are we 'tying the knot' too young?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - ive been dating my b/f for almost 3 years now, and i know in my heart i want to be with him for the rest of my life, and he feels the same since he wants to get married and have a child. i want that as well but im 19 and he's 21 but my mother is r...

How do I build my confidence back up so I don't always feel like I'm competing with the "hot babes"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend knows i have an issue with porn, but i am working on becoming more open to it. he knows it has greatly affected my self-esteem and i feel very insecure and even jealous when a "hot blonde with huge boobs and a tiny waist" comes on TV ...

Is there any chance of her coming back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I'm 14 years old. About 2 years i met this girl. I immidiatly fell in love with her. after a year she went out with me. I was thrilled it was really the happiest day of my life. it was my first time i ever relle felt love for someone in such ...

How do I get to know my art mentor better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and in love with somebody who seems inappropriate for me, because he's 47 years old. He's also my mentor of art performance in the school. I can't get him off of my mind. I think about him all the time. When I first met him (the year bef...

How do I get over being so nervous around my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - to all agony aunts with advice. i really really like this guy but we have been very good friends before i decided or felt love for him, now that i hav told him it is really awkard and i basically avoid the awkrdness by not talking, my ques...

How do I try and stop my friends from having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - One of my 14 year old friends and his girlfriend (also 14) are thinking of having sex... they dont know that i know they want to and i want to try and stop them. They are both very close to me and they are not thinking of using contraception. Any ...

She hasn't told her mom about us yet so she keeps getting set up on dates!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Okay here is my problem me and my girlfriend have been together for like 5 months now and she hasn't told her mom yet. Then her mom set her up with some guy and she had to date him and she was still dating me!!! This really hurt my feelings but I ...

My best friend likes girls and now she's attracted to me! How do I respond to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have a best friend and she likes girls. She told me she had a crush on a girl and I advised her to tell her and see where it went from there. A couple of days later she told me that she was sexually attracted to me. I'm not sure how to react to ...

How do you 'make out'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i am a 15 year old girl and have never made out although i have had the chance but got scared of his experience to my inexperience. i want to do it for all the right reasons and i am sure about it though i dont know how. anyone who will guide me th...

What is considered 'normal' in starting a relationship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hey everyone i’m an 18 year old Canadian living overseas...my question is regarding how to go about being in a relationship with a guy i am interested in...but i’m going to give a bit of background information to help out with my question....i moved ...

Losing your V card: does is hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Okay, before the question, i would like to give you some background onto the situation. I am thinking of losing my virginity, im 18 and i have a boyfriend. We are not in a hurry to lose our virginity to each other, just thinking about it. We kn...

I really like this guy, but there are rumours he got a 14 yr old pregnant, I don't know who to believe...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Ok Guys, theres this guy a really like he is just a year older than me and he is actually amazing. He isn't the nicest looking guy but he means the world to me, he has the nicest personality ever. Recently his pals have told me that he got a 14 year...

I'm worried my friends will start gossiping if I ask this girl out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - every week, i attend masses and participate in our church's youth group which consists of many teens from various towns and we meet about good 4 hours every sunday. recently, a new girl joined and we became friends ever since. as time went on, we've ...

How can I make each day we are not together special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hey all. Im in a longdistance relationship for 2 years now. The last year was tough. But after this vication with him. Im sure about my feeling ext. I want him to know how i feel each day im not with him. I want it to be special. Any ideas how to ...

We didn't really get together before but how do I get him back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - If I have turn a guy off in other words dosen't like me anymore..knowing it was both of our fault we stop talking but you want him back beacuse you care and you have no way of getting his attention then how do I get him to like me again???...

Whats going on? why is he acting this way? and what does my mate mean when he says he probably hasn't admitted it to himself? is this all because he likes me but is confused??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hey ok could you explain this for me please. Basically theres a lad i like and in the past i thought he liked me because he was always staring at me, showing signs and people seemed to act like they knew that he liked me or knew something about us, ...

I'm afraid of having sex for the first time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hi there im in 17 and i always hear about sex nad espashily for the first time and how its painfull and some screemed on that day. in fact after that i became very afraid about it coz i didnt went through this yet and i have a boyfriend everytim...

What would you do if you caught your partner cheating on you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (?) - What would you do if you caught girlfriend/boyfriend cheating on you ...

Is it normal to have sex after one week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I have been going out with a girl for a week and we all ready had sex. Is that normal? She talks openly about it on the phone and I feel comfortable talking about it. She trusts me with some of her secrets and I told her mine because I can trust ...

Should I tell him the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (?) - My boyfriend wants to be a writer when he finishes high school. He gave me a few pages to read and it was horrible. I let some of my friends read it too (without him knowing) and agree with me. He wants to know what I think, I just don't have the ...

Should I let him have sex with me even though it hurts after several contacts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Ok I'm 15 and ill admit I party so I was completly wasted and me and this guy had sex but were not dating or any thing and I was just wondering HOW MANY TIMES can I have sex and it still hurt because I had to push him back a couple times because it ...