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Archived questions from: 1 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Money is keeping us apart.... any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - I'll try and condense what could be a remarkably long essay type question into a simple straightforward well question. Roughly about 2 years ago I started speaking to a man online. Time flew by, my feelinigs grew for him, his feelings grew for me... ...

My dad has started to walk around the house naked!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - hi I'm a girl of 16, my parents have split up recently and I now live with my dad. Me and my dad have always been close and me and my friends have always thought him to be a cool dad, all my friends fancy him but recently hes been acting a little ...

Homecoming is coming!! How can I clear up my back from acne?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - okay so my 1st homecoming is in a little more than a week, but i'm selfconscious about some acne on my back and the dress i'm wearing will show it. Is there anything i can do to help clear it up quickly, or any specific creams, medications, scrubs, ...

Am I developing normally for my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - hi my name is pete im 14 and i have some pubes but no arm pit hair my penis is around 3.5 inches and when erect 6 inches am i normal for my age...

How can I stop him from bugging me, etc., etc., etc., ETC.?

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1 January 2009 (F) - just over a year ago me and my boyfriend split up and it was a bit of wierd...i sat near him in maths and i asked him whether he fancied this other girl and he said 'no' and then he said that if i dont trust him then maybe we shouldnt be together! ...

I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend and don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - I am in love with my best friends girlfriend and don't know what to do. They have been dating for 4 months. I want to confront her but it may get round and affect my friendship with my best friend what should I do?...

My guy friend is so overprotective of me! What is up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) - I have a guy friend whos really protective of me, and he always tells me not to hang out with certain guys or if I mention a guy he doesn't like he always calls the guy an idiot. I'm kind of getting tired of it, he doesn't even want me to like his ...

How can I live with the guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - My best mates has been going out with a long term mate of mine for over 4 years. We are all good, long term friends, including my bf (and yer I am gay), well all get on really well as a group. But one night me and my best mate's gf went out with ...

How can men be so cruel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - How can men be so cruel sometimes? How can they act like the love someone and then dump them a week later like they dont even matter and as if they are just something they played with and threw away? I mean aren't we all people and should be treated ...

Do I respect his wishes and just see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - After sending him a really nice email, how i feel about him having a photo of his exwife and her contact details under the name sweetheart on his cellphone. They were married for 2 years and have been devoiced for 2 and half years now, she ran off ...

What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to? He says he is so tired lately but for some reason I feel like he isn't as interested or attracted to me. We don't live together, and we are both 19, if that is any help. ...

How can I make my boobs less saggy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) - My boobs are really droopy and I don't want to show them to my boyfriend. I can't even look at them myself. How can I make my boobs less saggy? I know why they are like that, I yoyo diet, and I want to lose weight again but whenever I do my boobs ...

Exercising the hard way!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) - What would happen if I only eat one mango every day and nothing else and exercised 3 hours on my treadmill at 6.5 km per hour? I want to lose weight and I've tried doing it the healthy way but it never works!x...

Why does he silence me?

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1 January 2009 (F) - Well, whenever we go out or are at family members, why is that when I speak or wait to raise an opinion he silences me, why does he do it? Could he like it when his women are seen and not heard? Or do I make no sense when I speak? ...

Why can't I just get a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 15 years old and I am bit worried! A lot of my friends talk about their boyfriends and how many they have had and stuff like that and I have never had one boyfriend in my whole life! Everyone says I have such a funny and likeable ...

I think he likes me but I'm not sure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - please help me? i like his boy for about two months now, and he likes me as well, i think. we have went out before but about four times. he says to all his mates that he really likes me but to my friends he says he doesn't. but i think he does ...

Confused between feelings for b/f and cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - hey i have a bf who is 17 and he has a cuzin that is the same age as me 14 i have met him loads of times i see him every time im with my boyfriend and well the point is i kinda like baida more hes funny nice caring and understands me more we meet up ...

I'm in need of love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid.. please help im in need for love...im so empty..and i also have an anorexic friend that i wanna help..what should i do?...

Why hasn't he contacted me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Hi all, Theres this boy I speak to online. I have never met him before but I know hes not anyone werid as he only just stays 10 minutes from me and I know some of his family. He is 19 and I am only 15 I really really like him and I think ...

Relationship messed up and he has lost his patience!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Hi, at the minute i am in a a bad place, i met a guy wile shopping and we met had a chat and drink, and striaght away we realised we clicked, so he gave me his number, and he lives 60 miles away from me, then when i got home everything seem to ...

How can I make it better re sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I enjoy giving my guy hand jobs and pleasuring him, and he likes to put his penis betweeen my boobs, what is the best position to do this (especially if we don't have anything to sit on), and how do I make it better for him, e.g do I squeeze ...

Can I get some detailed thoughts on what I should do and why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - I am 16 and I am a virgin, I just recently got a really nice girl who happens to be 14. Whenever I look at this I think I am a wierdo, but in all actuality I really just want a good relationship and I think she can provide it. So we were talking ...

How can lesbians KNOW they're lesbians? Do they know from an early age?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - OK I have a question that I'm really unclear about. NOTE: I dont have anything against gays/lesbians OK so... I know a few people who are lesbians and I really want to know if people who are gay/lesbian, do you know it when you're small? ...

I treat girls so well and yet they treat me so badly!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Im 16, and all i have is problems when it comes to dating. girls always make guys out to be the evil ones. but my world is completely up side down. i have been in a few relationships. every girl has dumped me. all but 1 have cheated on me...at least ...

Does she like me or did she just make it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Okay so there is this girl who I know and have known since school started (5-6 months) and I like her a lot. I think she likes me but I'm not quite sure. (probably not) But anyway the problem is that I'm a girl and so is she. I'm bi and I have ...

I'm 15 and want to have sex with my 14 year old cousin

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Hi i am 15, and I have these really deep feelings for my 14 year cousin who i badly wanna have sex with, i did it with her once when i went to her place out of town for a week, and it was great, and it brought us closer, she didn't resist, but we ...

My life sucks and I'm very depressed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Well here goes i believe my life sucks. Im 15 never ever dated or even had my first kiss,Ive asked out more then 50 girls and they all denied me,Im also very short im 5-1 so that makes life tougher,My parents disowned me,And i have no friends ...

I hate my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - i hate my boyfriend since i left for a vacation he's been acting weird. he hardly texts me i've told him to call me and he never does. lately i always have to start the convo and i hate it, so much. i just want to cry but i dont know why i like him ...

Fetish? OR mentally unstable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Is there something wrong with me? Alright im 17 years old, have been sexually active since 14, but at 15, during sex with my boyfriend at the time, he asked me to slap him as hard as I could repeatedly around the face cos he liked the pain of it, it ...

How do you turn on a girl and get her in the mood?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) - what is the best way to turn on a girl and get her in the mood? im 16 and wana know how to turn girls on my age help?...

Should I leave this relationship or wait till he screws it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - okay, me and my x have started back dating and have been dating for about 2 weeks. the thing is i never get to talk to him, he is not a phone person so i never get to see or talk to him unless i go stay the night with him. my mom only lets me stay ...