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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Am I wrong to be in love with my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I really need your help it's about me and my bestfriend of 4 years. We first met in middle school and it was love at first sight we immediatly clicked after months of talking we began dating. We dated on and off through middle s...

Is porn cheating?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I don't no weather porn is cheating but every time I find out he is doing it he lies to me and says am inscure but when he promess he wouldt haw does he excpect me to react ????...

I need help in this situation!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Since I've gone back to school, I've met this girl that my other friends used to hang out with in the past year, and i have maked up situations that i can talk to her, but i dont want to get her to know that I like her, cause if this doesn't work, I ...

I don't care about the age difference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. I've completely fallen for someone who is 7 years older than me. He means the world to me and im so lucky to have him in my life. The thing is is he is giving me all the right signs that he likes me, like letting me cuddl...

Do I dare tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi! So I just turned 18. I have a question for everyone. I would do this not as anonymous...but I kind of want no one to know who I am....ya I know that's weird. Here goes. Once again I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've had guys like me and ...

Advice on getting a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - ok right im 16 years old and ive never had a boyfriend im not hidius looking and im a bit on the chubby side but all through high school no boys have ever really been interested in me i dont know what to do and how to get a boyfriend please help me ...

I regret it all, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we have had many many highs and equal lows. I've always been a very friendly girl to other guys (but have never flirted or cheated) but he has never liked it. I love him incredibly. In the past ye...

Do boys like emotional girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I am very shy, sensitive and emotional girl. boys please answer. do you like emotional girls.if she share with you her problems and wants you to help her about anything like friends, family etc.and if she cries too much??...

Does he like me or did he just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - well i have known this guy for about a year now and he comes to visit my brother in law and sister, and he knows i like him, i told him myself. we stayed up one time talking til like 5 am and we started talking about me liking him and he told me if ...

I'm going out with my step-mums grandson, is this right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have just started going out with my step-mums grandson he is 14 and im 13 but i dont know if it is right or not we're not blood related so that doesnt matter but i dont know wheather its right or not help me please!...

Blow jobs?? how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - how do you give ''head'' or blow jobs?? i mean i have had sex and stuff i have never given head before though?! help mee out please!!...

My best friend's brother seem interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have been best friends with this girl since kindergarten, and we are now in 11th grade and I have been getting different vibes from her 9th grade brother, I think he might like me. He has not told me or anything but I just have this feeling ...

Sometimes he seems to be into me and then other times, he ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hey, so there is this guy that I met and we go to school together. I am not sure if hes into me, because I introduced him to my friends and he sometimes hangs out with us at lunch, but he doesn't flirt at all with me, but he has complimented me many ...

Do I vanish or tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi....I liked this guy G for a while. We dated unofficially....then he hurt me a lot and I ignored him....I still like him a lot. I just found out he has an official relationship.... Should I just "vanish" and do what I do to supress my feelings...

How can I get my mind off of my male teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I'm 13, and my band director is male, and is married to a woman. He looks to bein his 40's, and just had I child. I've had a crush on him for a few years, and I know I'll never get a shot, because it's illegal, and he isn't gay, but ... What can I ...

He wants to be single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i was with this guy for 9 months he was my first love and i lost my virginity to him.everything was great until he said to me he wants to be single. i dont understand why he wants to be single or if i done anything to him ? he said to me yesterday ...

2 Guys lead to 2 different futures. Which do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm in a little bit of trouble here. Y'see, I am dating a guy that I LOVE so much, and he loves me back. There are a few complications with him though, he's amazing and all, but I'm 2 years older than him, and he's got alot of issues that he NEEDS ...

13 and pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am pregnant im am 13 my boyfriend is 14 we have been together for almost a year now I love him so so much but i have no idea how to tell my mom and their is no way to tell my dad trust me...I just need to know im not alone and i need advise on how ...

Can you get an STD from oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - okay so i am 16 and i am quite grown up for my age like i go clubbin i drink i am freinds with older peaple and i have done drugs like twice! I lie an awfull lot to my mum i do it basically everyday and i know it is really bad but something ha...

Is my mind playing tricks on me? I think my teacher is flirting with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have had a little crush on one of my teachers for quite a while. He is quite young for a teacher, and i was his first ever class to teach when i was in second year of high school (im in scotland so i was 13/14 at the time) i didnt have him as a ...

Am I gay or am I going through a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hey am 15 .. I know most people would say am confused .. But i need help ! I find girls attractive at times but guys too. At the same time i would choose a girl over a guy. To be honest i don't even like the look of the " the third leg" i don't ev...

Boyfriend expects me to have sex with him he's 14 I'm 15!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Im 15 years old,and im having problems with my boyfriend last night he asked me what my bases are and i told him and now he wants to have sex with me! he is a year younger than me too! I love him and i dont want to break up with him cause that will ...

Does he like me or am I freaking him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Hey. I dont know what to do. Im bisexual and theres this guy at school in the year below me who is absolutely gorgeous!!! unbelievably stunning! Well there are loads of times where i see him looking at me. Now i would want nothing more than to ...

My dad had an affair and now I hate him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - my dad cheated on my mum and they separated. now hes still with the girl but i hate her. i only met her once and i didnt know they were going out then. now he keeps trying to get my 10 year old sister to go out with them all because he knows shes ...

Questions about sex and boys.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Does it hurt when a girl has sex for the first time? And are boys attracted to girls with big butts or unattracted?...

Confused if I like an old friend!

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29 September 2010 (M) - Ok, so I met an old friend a couple of days ago, that I haven`t seen in 2 to 3 years. And ever since Friday I haven`t stopped thinking about her, I`m just wondering if this could be just that I`m happy to see her after all this time or if just ...

Advice on love handles?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - This isnt a love question but im just curious. I'm 16 years old, weight isnt an issue for me, my figure is normal, but i have this fat belly that really bothers me, like when i wear clothes without a jumper to hide it basicaly! I would like some ...

Failing at school and love... help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I'm 16 and I am failing at school and love. I want to be a muscian, im not too bothered about financial success, and the fact is that I'd rather ride my moped down to the beach and jam with my friends than go to school. But everyone thinks that i ...

I really want to speak to my ex... it ended badly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - My ex broke up with me for her ex after she went to see him in hospital after he got beaten up. I had done nothing wrong to deserve this. The last time we spoke was when I told her that I had been threatened by him (he sent me emails telling m...

How did she manage to get over me so quickly???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend for the last year dumped me on Saturday, and we had a good relationship, and i really loved her. But she left me because she "didn't have any time for me" I was ok with this, until she got a new boyfriend today. How did she get over ...

Should I shave to have my first pap smear?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Ok, I know this is a really stupid question but I'm going for my first pap smear soon and I was wondering if I should be clean shaven or neatly trimmed down there. Any advice? I'm kind of nervous about this.....

This isn't just another pupil/teacher crush!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I'll start from the beginning. I'm 16 years old and completely in love with my 33 year old teacher. I know what you're all thinking. "Oh it's just a crush you silly girl!" and it's not, trust me, it's really not. I've experienced crushes and this ...

Embarrassed by my new boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I've been dating a guy for two weeks now, he's smart, cute, funny, sensitive and romantic, but there are two disadvantages: he's still in high school, but graduates this year and he's only three months younger than me, but he's still 18 (so he ...

Embarrassed by my older boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy who is 16 years older than me for over a year, but I feel really ashamed. I dont want him to meet any of my family because I'm embarrassed of him, and the few people we have told are wondering why I am with him. It's making me ...

He has to choose... the parents, or me!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, and we really love each other, but his parents have suddenly decided i'm not welcome at their house anymore and they really hate me. I thought all along that they didn't like me cos they think i'm ...

He left me for my cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for quite a while. But we recently broke up because he left me for my cousin! turns out he heard rumors of me and he believed them so as a "revenge" he dated my cousin. he swears he loves me and will never do that again. ...

Will he lose trust in me because I lied?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Basically, I lied about how old I was when I first met someone, because I was a year younger than what he said his 'limit' of age gap was, I hadn't expected it to go anywhere and now it is. I know I have to tell him, and have a pretty good idea of ...

Bored with the relationship and want to break up, but she'd be devestated

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I've been with a girl 5 months and I'm beginning to get bored. We slept together after a week, have been on holiday together, and have also been on family meals with each others families. Our sex life is really good, but everything else is boring. ...

We are thinking about marriage but I have a few problems, can anyone advise me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - hello to all, this story is quite long. but please read it and advice. i am 16 currently. i am in a relation with someone. the problem is that i feel he is opposing too much on me though he loves me very much. am actually the 3rd girl in his life...

I lied about my age when we first started talking, and now I need to tell him the truth but I don't know how....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I'm 16 years old, I've been meeting up with someone who I like very much for about a year now, and it's just been meeting and hanging out a bit in the past but now it's starting to be more like it could really go somewhere despite obstacles. which ...

Ugly duckling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - heyy well im 13 gunna be 14 years old and well i feel sooo ugly. ive always been the "ugly duckling" i was always teased about my hair and weight.. my friends say im ugly and wen my family say im pretty i think theyre on sumthing.. i fear i will ...

Would it be bad to date someone younger than you??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - im a freshman(bday:5/30/96) hes a seventh grader(bday:9/3/97) would it be bad to date him? i told him it might be smart to wait until hes a sophomore and im a senior or when hes an eighth grader and im a sophomore or when hes a freshman and im a ...

Trouble getting pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Why cant i get pregnant? I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 29. We are trying for a baby and have been for the past year. I am healthy and i know we are both fertile as i have got pregnant twice before however i was only 14 the first time so i had a aborti...

Help me because I don't know how to get over her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - hi its been over i month me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up, neither of us really wanted to break up but it just ended up happening and i love her to death but we both did some stupid things that we cant forgive eachother for in that month, ...

My parents caught us having sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - So last night me and my boyfriend John(I'm gay) were hanging out in the lounge room at my house. We were having a great time watching one our favorite shows:Glee. Throughout the whole show he would touch me, rub my belly and do all these cutesy ...

I'm tired of getting pushed aside. Why is my self-confidence so low?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I'm some what of a nice guy. Im a lover not a fighter. For me, all my life it seems as though I have no back bone. Im friendly, but at times im rude. My friends somewhat take advantage. They thing they are better than me. What should I change about ...

I'm just terrified that this girl is gonna steal another one of my crush's hearts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I'm an 11th grade girl. A boy in two classes of mine and me are pretty good friends. I've liked him for a couple of months and I think he likes me back (?). For example, he thinks everything I say is hilarious and always seems really happy to talk ...

What do I say to express what I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - okay, its long. i am 15 years old just to let you know. basically, i was at my bands gig the other day, and my best friend, whos a girl, was there, and we started to get really close. hugging loads, etc. she has a boyfriend, and she tells me tha...

I'm in love with my sister-in-law's brother and everyone in my family is against it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - hey, i am 17 and i am HEAD OVER HEELS in love with this guy thats 24 and he tells me that he is MADLY in love with me but....my ENTIRE family is against him he is my brothers wifes brother and omg he is amazing...he has a gf that is a couple months ...

We've broken up but he still looks at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I got dumped just about a month ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationship, we got on very well and he did not dump me because of a bad relationship, but because he felt we were very different. He still loves me and meant everything he said. ...