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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

My heart is broken, how do I get him back?

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30 April 2009 (F) - I'm in complete love with my ex boyfriend. He is my everything. But he hates me and I have no idea why. I no what your thinking ask him why. I have he shrugs and says I dunno I dont. I have two really really close friends one is pissed becuz I talk ...

I really like her, but she gets on my nerves! Help!

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30 April 2009 (F) - I like this one girl named "Emily" but I just cant stand her. I mean that I am in love with her but sometimes she can get on my nerves. I dont think that she likes me though. I have had a crush on her for about a month. She is a straight as a line ...

My best friend likes me..I feel weird

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30 April 2009 (F) - I feel weird around my best friend because he likes me he was my BFF since kindergarden but now where not best friends cause he is jealous of every boy I like a boy whose girlfriend is her cousin so what should I do?...

Too much wetness ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I produce way too much discharge my mum thinks that my system is working too fast, it smelled for a bit but then the smell went away .. what could it be HELP PLEASE x...

He's angry because I have a boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i have a bit of a problem with a mate. I was with my new boyf and i was holding hands with him walking down a road. In one of the passing cars one of my friends who saw me. He hasnt talked to me since and storms past me whenever he sees me. I've ...

We have liked each other for 5 years but now after telling me he loves me he is being off with me!

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30 April 2009 (F) - i have been in love with a guy for about 5 years,(lets call him x) we didnt go out but confessed that we liked each other 5 years ago, i had work things going on and my friend liked him aswell so nothing came of it. As that was happening i met ...

I told my crush how I felt but I still don't know how he feels!

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30 April 2009 (F) - So I finally decided to tell my crush how I feel. Didn't work out well. I tried speaking in our native tongue, but I ended up stuttering so I decided to speak in English. I actually planned everything I was going to say, but they all slipp...

I'm starting to develop feelings for him...

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30 April 2009 (F) - I have this guy friend we have been talking to each other every day online and the conversations usually last for hours without either one of us breaking it. I usually have to tell him good night because it would be 3 in the morning and he would say ...

My bf says he doesn't get jealous--almost ever.

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30 April 2009 (?) - Heyo! My bf says he doesn't get jealous--almost ever. Is that possible? I know I get jealous pretty easily, so what he said is pretty much incomprehensible to me. Thanks! -GG...

He wont tell anyone we are dating!

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30 April 2009 (F) - I am going out with a guy that doesn't want anyone to know we are dating. He says its because of his ex-girlfriend- she gets mad a lot and I'm friends with her. I think it's true but does he really like me?? ps- i love him...

We want to try oral sex, but we're nervous about the consequences

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Ok, My boyfriend and I have been talking about having oral sex lately. We've been going out for almost six months. The desire to have oral sex isn't one sided, we both want to. We're both still reluctant because of the consequences. Should we wait ...

Is she just the rebound girl?

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30 April 2009 (M) - okay here's the story. my girlfriend and i went out for about 2 years. were both 15. and we broke up 2 or 3 weeks ago idk because she has to many bad habits smoking,drinkin, and always flirting with her ex. yeah she may seem like a bad girlfriend ...

need help on moving too fast!

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30 April 2009 (F) - Okay, So I have been with this guy for about 6 months, well we have been talking and we liked eachother. We went out once and it just didn't work and my parents made me break it off. Then we connected again and we were together but not going out ...

We broke up... why did she come to me for help? Is this karma at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - okay this is my dilemma. Me and my girlfriend of 3 months have recently broke up. The reason why we broke up is because she had feelings for another guy and he has feelings for her. I was devastated and heart broken. We didnt talk anymore for a ...

Is he acting like a mate or a potential?

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30 April 2009 (F) - I like this guy, both at uni. I am friends with a lot of guys and usually don't fancy them but this guy caught my attention. it started in one of our workshops he made a sarci comment and i outwitted him he replied 'are you always this physco' i s...

My first ever crush hates me

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30 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and in need of help. I've liked this girl for over a year, she was the first girl I ever crushed on this hard. And I found out by signs and her best friend that she hates me. She actually is rather mean to me. I'm trying to get over her...

I was raped by my sisters husband

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30 April 2009 (F) - Hi am 18 yrs old and just over a year ago I was raped by my sisters husband. One night I was at a party and got drunk (yes I know I am under age and stuff but it happens). Most of my friends were drinking so I called him ( my sisters husband) to ...

How to surprise my girlfriend whens he comes back? Suggestions please?

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29 April 2009 (M) - Hey. My girlfriend is away for a month, and I want to do something special for her when she gets back. Are there any suggestions? Ideally we would stay on campus (we go to a boarding school) to do it. Thanks!...

Opinions! Does he like me back or are we just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have a crush on this guy and I want to know if he likes me back. Whenever we see each other we talk a lot about random things and he never ignores me at school. He talks to me online too but sometimes he ignores me. We have bets and act lik...

Do you have any suggestions on men's colognes that don't smell too strong?

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29 April 2009 (M) - Hey. My problem is not too pressing, but nevertheless it is important to me. My clothes often smell bad when they come out of the dryer. And even if they didn't, I would still want to smell good, so do you have any suggestions on men's colognes that ...

I had sex on my period whilst taking the pill. Can I fall pregnant?

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29 April 2009 (F) - Hiya.... I've been on the pill for 3 months now, me and my boyfriend had sex whilst I was on my period but I was taking the pill at the same time, so I had sex on my period but took the pill on the same day. What I want to know is... can I fall ...

Why am I being ignored all of a sudden??

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29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now, and I thought everything was fine between us, but suddenly he has been completely ignoring me for the past few days. We live two and a half hours apart and only get to see each other on the ...

How can I possibly have anything to do with someone who might be different to what I had come to assume with getting to know her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I have liked this girl for a few months now and though we are only friends at the moment I feel there could be more. Anyway last time we met (Saturday) I discovered something about her that I found incredibly shocking (I won't say what it is, ...

Although I don't want my ex back, I do miss him...

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29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up quite recently. We had gone out for almost 2 years the first time, broke up, and the second time we went out for 3 months. About a week later, I found someone new. It was sudden. He is better than my ex, and he is perfect ...

What is this lump? Help!

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29 April 2009 (F) - hello I feel quite embarrassed asking this question and I understand that you aunts are not doctors but I would like some advice. Well... just above my clit there is this small lump and I know it isn't a spot, I do shave and haven't yet come across ...

Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends? Including telling his friends some sexual things that they do together, (Not actually about having sex but fingering, making out, touching, etc.)? Do all guys do that? Just ...

Guys with girlfriends, do you guys ever look/think about other girls besides the one your with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - This isn't a serious serious question but it's something I'm curious about. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he never looks at girls, or anything like that but we watch tv shows, movies, etc. with girls in it but he says ...

Help!!! My prom dress doesn't fit me any more as I've gained a ton of weight!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hey Guys :o) Here's the dealydallyo, I bought my prom dress just under a month ago and I can't fit into it any more! I have no idea what's happened, or well other than I've obviously gained a tonne of weight, and I've literally tried everything...

Why is he scared to come near me?

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29 April 2009 (F) - I have a class with this one guy. I've just recently noticed something. If I'm around he won't come near me. If I'm talking to his friends he will either go sit by himself or he will sit off to the side and wait for me to leave. There was a seat ...

I don't want to lose any of my friends, despite how they treat me.

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29 April 2009 (F) - Sorry, this is VERY long. I recently got back with an ex boyfriend, and things are going great. We are both so happy and it's perfect. The thing is today my friends starting making fun of him. Whilst I was with them. At first I knew they were just ...

My teacher loves me too!

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29 April 2009 (F) - hey im 16 and i like so many others have fallen in love my with teacher but this time its different! He says he loves me too. now im totally confused. he told me last week and iv seen him a few times since but he havnt mentiuoned it again. i fi...

My best friend asked me out at the beginning of the year, I turned him down... Now I'm regretting it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Okay so i think im in love with my best guy friend He's 17 and Im 15 and he's gonna be senior next year while im gonna be a sophmore. He asked me out at the beggining of the year but i turned him down cause i was too busy for a boy friend. He'...

Feeling very stressed and I'm only 17! How can I deal with it?

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29 April 2009 (F) - I'm working on my love of my body and life in general, having the stress level of a 30 yr old woman with kids isn't me- i'm 17!!! =( i need help keeping my stress level at a even well...level. I've tried some types of stress relievers like meditaion ...

I love my teacher and need some advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hey. So my name's Sina. I'm 17 (turning 18 in June) and I'm madly in love with my teacher... He's my English translating teacher (i'm on a school for foreign language assistants) and he's sooo cute! I think I fell in love with him when he walked ...

How do I tell my dad I'm pregnant?

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29 April 2009 (F) - I have to tell my dad i'm pregnant tonight, and I havn't got a clue how to start the conversation. How would you react if your 17 year old daughter told you she was pregnant? I took precautions, and still ended up in this situation, so i'm hoping ...

I thought he liked me but asked another girl to prom!

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29 April 2009 (F) - I need some opinions...... I'm at high school and this year I have my ball/prom... I've been friends with this guy for a long time and we're really good friends but this year we have no classes together and he has his own friends and i have m...

Does this guy like the girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - if a guy flirted with a girl non verbally. But she does not give in, after some weeks. they become friends. But he does not talk to her... only looks at her. So the girl ignores him. After a weeks he comes back all nonverbal. but she ign...

Is he just a two-timing lowlife??

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29 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy a while back. He lives in a different state, one that is right next to mine. Since we cant see each other all the time since he went back home, we talk on the phone and on the computer. My problem is I have trust issues! I dont think ...

I'd like to ask her out, but I'm afraid I've missed my chance.

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29 April 2009 (M) - Ok, there is this girl that I like, and she liked me. We went out to a movie as friends, and I was going to ask her out. I felt a connection. But the next day, I was texting her, and we were joking around, and she jokingly said we're not friends ...

Is it possible to fall in love as a freshman in high school?

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29 April 2009 (F) - Ive been dating this guy for almost seven months and i know that its not a long time but i feel like i can really last with him. Ive dated a lot of guys before and they all used me for drugs and sex and they nevere respect4ed me. but my current ...

I like my best friend. ahh!!!

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29 April 2009 (F) - Okay, hello. So, Me (a girl) and this guy have been best friends for maybe about 2 going on 3 years now and we just started high school together and got even closer. So, we have been hanging out a lot now. And my other friends would always say thin...

GET TO KNOW A GUY

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29 April 2009 (F) - To get to know a guy at school: sit next to him at lunch or when you get a chance. Ask him random questions like what's your favorite color or something. If you're shy just laugh at his jokes. don't get creepy with it. Later on...YOU'LL BE ...

I keep having recurring dreams about my friend!

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29 April 2009 (F) - I've known my best guy friend since we were 8 years old. We're now both 19. Neither of us have ever expressed any romantic feelings towards the other and that is what makes this disturbing to me. I've been having recurring sex dreams about him and I ...

Do guys just want us girls for sex?

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29 April 2009 (F) - is it true that when a guy is with a girl it is mostly for sex? most of my guy friends say they love a girl but then say i wanna do her tonight....

Gay unrequited love problem.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Quick details: 16 years old, 17 in August, England, Currently in college studying IT in hopes of going into industry. I have a case of homosexual unrequited love. He's straight, i'm gay, iv'e felt like this for about 8 months now, except then ...

Help! Is this normal?

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29 April 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have made love twice. he is totally amazing, but there is one problem. he can never get in more then 5-6 in. even with foreplay it still doesn't go in all the way. when 6in come around it starts to hurt really bad so he has to stop. is ...

I don't think marrying someone I can't have sex with is a smart choice... do you?

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29 April 2009 (F) - okay so i was confused and was with a guy for a year and 2 months..still had feelings for my ex..and i felt bad..everything was just wrong so like i was saying before here i was confused didnt know who to be with..now i broke up with my bf and my ex ...

How do I make my ex of 2 plus years choose me over my friend?

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29 April 2009 (?) - Instead of cutting straight to my question, I am about to explain the background of my situation because I feel that it is unique and should be fully understood if I am to consider advice. If you are going to give me an answer, please do not skim ...

If I am over him why does he keep coming back in my head?

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29 April 2009 (F) - i'm kinda of confused. I went out with this guy a while ago and for the 1st few month is was really unhappy and was like i hope we get back together and thought about him almost constently. now i still think about the time when we were together but ...

I can't wait forever...

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29 April 2009 (F) - I really want to know how to get over this guy I like, I'm still very young but I want to forget him so bad so if you know how please help me, or also any advice would be grateful. The story goes like this: He and I were very close friends, i...