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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Do all guys find it sore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Does every lad find it sore when the skin at the top of their thing is pulled back....iv never done it to my boyfriend but he told me before i started giving him handjobs that it would be sore!! But wouldnt that kinda go back if we were to have sex? ...

She's off limits to me but I really like her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I have a huge problem....i like girls...and i have fallen for one who is..well lets say forbidden, she has a boyfriend and shes not gay, i dont want to love her but i cant help myself shes just so beautiful, shes nice and sweet, we never really ...

Pregnant using a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - Me and this girl are wantin to have sex, but she dont want me to use a condom. She takes pills, can she still get pregant, if i dont use a condom...

I like this girl that's my friend, but she doesn't seem to like me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - i like this girl in my last period(class) and thats the only time i get to see her in school. we sat pretty close to each other. we have just met this year for 4 month now but the first 2 month we talked alot with each other,we always made each ...

How do I make a move on my boyfriend when I don't have the guts to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I need some help. My bf and me have been together now for 2 weeks now.We love eachother very much. I would want to do a move but im so scared.I would love to have the guts! Do you guys have any tips to help me through this?...

How long does it usually take a guy to say I love you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - so my bf and i have been together for over a month and he is a little less than 3 years older than me. he is a juinor in highschool and i am a freshman. he has never said i love you, and we talk on the phone alot, and i get to see him about once ...

Am I just wasting my time with my boyfriend?

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6 January 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend don't have the greatest relationship.. but i wish we did. i really feel very strong feelings for him and i just want to be with him all the time. but stuff bugs me.. i know he likes me a lot and always has but i always think ...

She says she loves me, but will never see me.

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6 January 2009 (M) - Ok, Im 16 years old and my girlfriend is 15 and i have been going out with her for nearly 6 months now, but for the past two months it has not been going so good. I want to see her badly but she will only ever see me with friends, and for the past...

How do I deal with the kids picking on me at school?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and feeling really depressed. I am currently talking to a teacher but I can't tell her everything. I am one of those kids who get picked on daily and has no one to stick up for me. I can't talk to anyone else and I am very ...

Hormonal? Yes or no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I have just recently made a doctor's apointment regarding depression. Nearly every day I feel like crap. There are some influences like friends, school and stuff but my life is rubbish, it gets me really down and I feel like I have nothing to live ...

Why has he changed so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend is totally confusing me. When we were dating we had sex and I told him he got a little in me so don't be surprised if I'm pregnant and I told him I found out I was and he thought I was lying so my best friend called him and told him ...

If you start taking viagra when you're young will your body become dependant on using it?

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6 January 2009 (F) - If you start taking viagra when you're young will your body become dependant on using it and will the dosage need to increase? ie. will your body become immune to it?...

Why has my girlfriend's friend always hated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend has this friend and for some reason she hates me. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and she has hated me pretty much all of that time. Would you say that the friend fancies me or is just jealous that my gf ...

Arguments about anal!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - My fiance is always getting sexually frustrated with me and it is always about the same thing -- him wanting to perform anal sex on me!!! I'm not down with that. We've kind of tried before. Last night, we had a slight argument about it. Of course I ...

My girlfriend always seems too busy to talk with me these days...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are together for over 6 months now. I am 17 years old and she is 15 years old. She acts very diffrent towards me these days, and I'm very insecure about it. I can't stop thinking that she is cheating on me or something like ...

We don't get along the way we used to, I need your advice here!

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6 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has just hit a milestone birthday in his life, I am nearly two years younger and I think this is affecting us and the way we get along. He has started going out with his friends drinking and I'm left behind. I don't know what to do any ...

What do I wear???

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6 January 2009 (F) - Help, it's my 18th birthday very soon, and I don't have a clue what to wear, I'm going for a meal with my family and then going to pubs and clubs afterwards, I want to dress up but really don't know what to wear, I don't want to over do it but then ...

I don't know what to write on facebook

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6 January 2009 (F) - Hi. On facebook. I want to write a message to this guy. He is a musician. I don't know what to say. Please help...

How do I make her see that she is beautiful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - my girl wont believe me that she is beautiful she just says that shes not beautiful and shes fat and that i have other girls and idk what to do at this point she wont stop its just nothing but bad talk that she says how can i help her see that i ...

Family movement crisis

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6 January 2009 (F) - im 13 and i moved form a neworleans to bradleyville a microscopis town and i was very much loved in new orleans and since i moved to bradleyville everyone hates me including my mum and sister who are with me but my mom and dad are divorced and i was ...

He's bipolar and very confusing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - ok i love the man that i am with he is amazing and i am completely in love with him. But lately its like he is bipolar. one minute he wants to spend time with me and love on me and hold me and the next he doesnt want anything to do with me and ...

Do I let him give me oral?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Hey im 15 and im thinking of letting my boyfreind eat me out. Can you catch anything from doing this? If he does this will he keep wanting more? By the way my boyfriend is 17 thanks so much...

Is it okay for someone else to tell your man they love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - So ive been having problems with this girl my Boyfriend went to highschol with, shes in a relationship and lives like 200 miles away, so im not worried about him cheating on me with her, plus i look better, anyways this girl has been telling my bf ...

Virgin Girl that is waiting until marriage...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - When I was starting to get to know a boy and the guy getting to know me But, later confused that I was a virgin and his response was that he liked me so much to have sex that he couldn't stop for me that he said that I had to lose my virginity... ...

How can I talk my parents into lowering the time away from each other and letting me go to her house again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend gave me a handjob a few times; we also made out. Well, my parents found out and said that we couldn't date for six months. They eventually said that I could date her in 2 months and go to a dance with her (it's one month away). ...

I tried to walk away but he gets so upset and it just kills me, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I really need your help. I'm 18 and in college. I'm an attractive girl and party a lot. I live in the moment and keep my grades up and everything else is just about being happy and having fun to me. I don't like relationships but I am in ...

Is there any possibility I could be pregnant?

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6 January 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I where messing around and things started happening... he fingered me and I gave him a hand job, this was happening at the same time. I then had a nightmare that night that I might have got pregnant from this if he had cum on ...

How to make it last longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I'm starting to get very sexually frustrated here. I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I started to have sex a little over a week ago. We've done it tons of times so far, but I've never gotten any satisfaction from it. At all. It's just that he lasts about ...

Tatoos

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Not a love question but I bet there will be someone reading this who can answer! My dad and I are really close and have decided we want to get tattoos together; he's going to get a design right down his back. I'm not that daring yet and want ...

Should I take the plunge or wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been hanging out with this guy for a while and my feelings are starting to grow more and more for him. We aren't going out yet but I can't wait till the day we do. Now I know that if i wanted to have sex with him that he woul...

Can you love someone you've never met in person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - Sorry, this questions a bit wordy but I feel like the full story is neccessary. I met this girl on a band's fansite forum last summer, and we started to get to know each other. After a while she asked for my number so I gave it to her, and we star...

How can I tell my boyfriend to stop talking/seeing his ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 28. I have the feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex. (she is my age). I know his ex, she was once friends with my older sister and she can be very intimadating and very sneeky. When I look through his ...