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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Is this a date?

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20 January 2009 (F) - My friend and I have never been to the movies alone. This will be our first time going. I like him, but I'm not sure how he feels ... Is this a date?...

I want to try things but I'm scared to talk to him

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20 January 2009 (F) - so this is a basic sex Q so iv been seeing this guy for a while . . . . call em jo an we were gud enuf mates bfore we got together great thing abou us is we both dont want to get to serious so were just kinda like together ??? but bk in august an ...

I lied to him and now he doesn't trust me about anything

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20 January 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, i lied to him about my age and he found out within the next couple of months, but now weve gotton past that.but the past month or so he always thinks im lying to him when im not.he says he cant trust me ...

Am I starting to be jealous or what?

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I don't know what to do any more. Me and my boyfriend been together for 11 months and I love him and trust him and I know he loves me but I'm not so sure about him trusting me too. Well I'm not at all the jealous kind, today it was freezing ...

Circumcision problem???

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20 January 2009 (M) - So I am going out with this girl and I am looking for an advice here. I know she wants to go down on me sometimes but I don't know what to do... I am uncircumcised and I have a frenulum... should I let her do it? It hurts when I pull the foreskin ...

Is there such a thing as body language...

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20 January 2009 (?) - I really need to know. I don't know why but a lot of girls these days are really superficial and shallow so I want to know what girls really want in a guy, and what qualities they look for. Be honest!! And is there such thing as body language...

I'm frigid! Will a dildo ease the pain of my first time???

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20 January 2009 (F) - I'm a bit frigid, but know I'm ready to have sex soonish if that makes sense. I'm scared of the blood coz it'll be embarrassing and I'm scared of the pain. Will a dildo help? Like if I gradually use it more and more will it make sex less painful...

How do I tell if I've got inverted nipples?

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20 January 2009 (F) - How do I tell if I've got inverted nipples? I know this sounds ridiculous but I'm not sure because people say not to go by the pictures on the internet because they're like cold and turned on. Mine are like flat and soft usually, if I'm freezin...

Has anyone else ever sent naughty pictures to anyone???

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hello, I am talking to a guy on aim for a while (few months maybe a year). Well just yesturday I became really daring and kinda naughty. We sent each other nude pictures of each other. I just showed him my breast but with my face. He showed ...

Irregular periods.

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hey I was wondering if anyone knows about period stopping in the middle of the day. Like sometimes I'll be having my period, and I'll be bleeding in the morning, but then in the afternoon, it stops, and then in the evening, it comes back. Does ...

Why do I have all these insecurities about my relationship?

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20 January 2009 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly three months now and it seems that everything is going really well, but I feel like I'm going to push him away because I keep asking him about other girls and I know that it's stupid but I do it ...

Love feeling...

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20 January 2009 (M) - A girl saw a picture of me and my cousin, a girl and said is it her rival. What did she mean by that? Is it she is in love with me but timid to express it or a joke. Please help because she has made several approaches towards me, like I'll be ...

How can I stop being so paranoid about my weight?

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20 January 2009 (F) - Ok I know that this has nothing to do with sex but I'm really conscious about my weight, everyone says that I'm skinny (in a healthy way) but I just for some reason can't believe them. They don't get how it's like for me, especially seeing my best ...

Is this just a one off feeling because I haven't had a boyfriend for a bit??

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20 January 2009 (F) - I have this friend and we're been friends for a long time. I feel that I could tell him anything except the way I think about him all the time and if I see a really hot guy I then think back to him. The only problem is he is 3 years younger than ...

His paranoia is splitting us up slowly but surely.

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20 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and we have started living together. Everything is fine when we spend all day together, but even if we're apart for like 30 minutes he'll suspect me cheating on him. I have never cheated on him and ...

I would love to see my girlfriend nude.

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20 January 2009 (M) - I want some things with my girlfriend. How can I encourage her to let me see her in the nude in a non crude way? Should I tell her that I would consider it an honor to see her naked? I don’t know if I can just go up to her and just start taking off ...

Lesbian - with homophobic parents and friends

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - It has been over the last year or so that I have really began to think about my sexuality, as well as various other thnigs as well (including religion etc.) as I am at the age when that thinking is to be done. A year back from now, I believed I was ...

Why do guys seem to get over a girl so easily?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Why do guys forget or get over a girl they really loved so easily? Is it possible or are they just acting cool to hide feelings because people may call them wimps etc. Is it possible and why do guys do that? Guys answers especially would be good ...

When's the best time to begin buying baby items.

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm just going into my second trimester of pregnancy and I was wondering when the best time to begin buying baby items. I've bought most of the smaller things, but I don't know if starting to create the nursery now is a good idea or not. I'm ...

I'm afraid I might be getting bored and I have been getting tempted to cheat.

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20 January 2009 (F) - I'm in such a good relationship at the moment and want to be with my partner for the rest of our lives, but I'm afraid I might be getting bored and I have been getting tempted to cheat. What can I do to spice up our relationship?? x...

He says he likes me, but loves her

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20 January 2009 (F) - Alright there is this guy, he's my friend and we talk online sometimes. He's always been nice to me but lately when we're talking we'll be very honest w/each other and he'll tell me that he thinks im beautiful and i have nice eyes and a nice butt ...

Haven't had great success in the past, I want to trust this guy but I really don't entirely

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20 January 2009 (F) - hi everyone! Oh where to start... well ever since my very first boyfriend at 13 i've never had one guy stay faithful! Now dont get me wrong at the age of 13 you cant exactly be planning weddings and lives together but it still had an effect on my ...

B/f's fantasy is a threesome but I have reservations

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20 January 2009 (M) - I'm in a stable loving relationship with a great guy. we are living together and engaged. One of his fantasies has always been to have a threesome with an older guy. I'm not entirely adverse to having a threesome but I have major insecurity and j...

Become a doctor? Or a pharmacist?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Dear madam, i'm writing to ask for your help because i'm in a dilemma. i'm an algerian teenager of 16;i'm a pupil in second high scool year, i'll take my baccalauriat exam as i said ,i find my self in a dilemma and i have ...

No longer b/f & g/f just friends but I still love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - I've been with this girl for 15 months. When we first met it was perfect, I have so many good memories. Last summer she worked a ways away so we could only see each other a bit every couple of weeks. We got past it, but we didn't really see more ...

Divorced parents and dad sort of insinuated I'd have to choose?!

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20 January 2009 (F) - My parents split up about 4 years ago but only managed to settle their divorce last summer because there was so much argument and hatred over how money would be split (they ended up going to court over it and have ever since accused each other of ...

Should I apologize for my behavior?

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20 January 2009 (F) - This guy who i went to high school with had a little crush on me..but i never reciprocated the feelings becuase i just never saw him in that light...he's kept in touch with me, but nothing serious just hellos and goodbyes. Well yesterday mornig...

He's still in touch with his ex, and not happy with our sex life

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20 January 2009 (F) - I recently found out the my bf was talking to his ex gf on his cell phone and she replied back that she just was not ready to accept him back into her life. Does this mean there are chances she will in the future? This was right after he told me ...

How do I get the oourage to actually speak to him and not just text him?

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20 January 2009 (F) - dear cupid hi last week i wrote with a problem i have had a crush on a boy for about a year.i got his number off his mate and and i have been textinghim for about A MONTH he wants to talk to me but i find it hard to pluck up the courage. i saw y...

I need to stop being mean to him but no matter how hard I try I can't do it.

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20 January 2009 (F) - I'm in my fourth serious relationship now and I'm only 19. However this relationship isn't different to any other, I'm so so happy, he's 22 and I love him with all my heart, we have such a laugh and we connect so well and what's even better is that ...

How do I get answers and how do I make things right?

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20 January 2009 (M) - I need loads of help and comfort =[! I have a girlfriend and I've fought really hard to get her. We have not had sex or anything but we have came very close. I really do have a spot for her in my heart and i do love her but i dont feel she loves ...

Troubled periods

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20 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid's, I have a question for all the girls out there and any guys who are medically oriented. I suffer from excedingly heavy periods, that are very painful and completely dibilitating. Included in my flow are huge clots and things that are ...

I feel as though he doesn't love me any more.

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20 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now in a long distance relationship and i love him. Because we live far away from each other we use msn to see each other on webcam but before he got into a social site he never really went on msn. Now i se...

How do I pace myself during sex?

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20 January 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm 16 years old and I have had sex only 3 times before, all with different girls. Recently I met a girl that I really like and after 2-3 weeks of seeing her we had sex for the first time. When it happened I ended up coming too fast and I kn...

My mother in-law is driving me batty!

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20 January 2009 (F) - My mother in-law is driving me batty! I love her to pieces... truthfully more than my own mom (long story). However every time my husband (her son) does ANYthing she disagrees with she blames me! He had to come back from Collage 'cause he was ...

Sex drive worries!

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20 January 2009 (F) - I have been in an relationship for 2 years but we spilt up for 6 months and now are back together and everything is happy. One thing - I don't think I have a high sex drive like him and we spilt up because it. Advice please....

I don't know whether to ask my friend to ask him what the hell is going on, or leave it and see what happens with him... what do you think?

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20 January 2009 (F) - It's been 5 months and I'm still hung up on the same guy, we saw each other for a bit and kissed and stuff and it never went too far, then he told me he was off women and we stopped seeing each other and he saw other girls. Then at the christmas ...

He was cheated on and now I am paying for loving him.

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20 January 2009 (F) - I am 18 and my ex bf (now we're talking again) he is 28. He is so insecure he always believe I am with someone. i am in PA and he is in Puerto Rico. when i was over in puerto rico he was always cheking my phone he was always calling me and all (bee...

How can I lose 25 lbs before my wedding?

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20 January 2009 (F) - how can i loose at least 25 pounds before my wedding!!!!!please help...what is the easiest way to loose weight or else my boyfriend wont want me?...

Any way I can have this baby without going to a hospital?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out ...

I'm 17, he's 24 should I meet him?

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hey all. Im 17. I like this guy that is 24. We met via mxit. We get along realy well. He also likes me. Theres a festavis where he lifes in april, and i would like to go there and meet him. What do u think of that? Is he to old? Hes so mature ...

How can I tell him NO without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and know I'm not ready for sex just yet but my boyfriend and I are hanging out ALONE with my best friend and her boyfriend next weekend.... he is very very experenced.... but I'm not as much.... I was raped when I was younger but thankfuly ...

What can I do to protect my sister?

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20 January 2009 (?) - I wrote to you about my sister before. I saw my sister's (she's 14 and her bf is 17 my age) boyfriend hit her. It all started when he pressured her for sex. She told me about it and I just said break up with him she did it like a week later. Then ...

Young and confused...

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20 January 2009 (M) - I'm 14. Yes, I'm really young. I've known I liked boys (unsure about girls) since a while ago. Recently, I've been pretty... dormant. I haven't looked at boys (since this is what the topic's about) or thought about anything involving them. ...

Would love sex but have no drive to date a girl...

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20 January 2009 (M) - I don't know what is wrong with me so I really want physical/sexual contact with girls but I have no drive what so ever to date one. I don't know, I could ask out at least 30 off the top of my head that would go out with me. I just don't feel like ...

Funeral fears!

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20 January 2009 (?) - My girlfriend wants me to go to her dad's funeral (he was 42) with her. Don't wrong me I want to support but I can't handle the whole death thing. I can't even go a funeral home without feeling dizzy I'm worried if I tell her no she'll get even more ...

Why won't my girlfriend not let me see her naked any more?

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20 January 2009 (?) - My girlfriend and I webcam a lot and she use to let me see her naked. But couple days ago, we had this really big argument so recently, she don't let me see her naked. She said we must be at least married before I can see her nude. To me, it's ...

Confused and don't know who I want to be with.

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20 January 2009 (F) - I moved to tucson in february of 08. and immediately after i met this boy who is now my bestfriend. i have always had a crush on him and i recently found out that he feels the same about me. only reason we have never told eachother i guess is ...

I'm jealous and always seem to hurt my girlfriend

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20 January 2009 (M) - Why do I always hurt my girlfriends feelings? I don't understand it it's like everytime I do something it hurts her feelings. I've been with her for seven months now and we seem to fight like almost everyday and I'm getting so tired of it. I'm a ...

How to know when the time is right

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20 January 2009 (?) - Virginity.. How do you know when yuur ready to lose it? How old would be a suggested age and how long should you be with a person. Any tips on the whole topic or virginity and sex at all would be helpful....

Graduation dress ideas please?!

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20 January 2009 (?) - My Bf is Graduating this year but i'm not.. He wants me to get grad photos with him but i have no idea what to wear. Help please! Advice and links to example dresses and hair styles would be much appreciated! :)...

She won't let me see her breasts!

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20 January 2009 (?) - My girlfriend won't let me see her breasts because of a scar one on and they different sizes. I beg her to let me see at least one them in the dark but she says no and she doesn't want me get turn off when I see them. I think she won't me see them ...

I'm a mess! I have to break up with him!

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20 January 2009 (F) - how do you tell a guy you really love that your relationship must end? i have been going out with this guy i love him but for really important reasons i must leave him now it seems impossible to tell him that because i love this guy a lot. but i ...

Birthdays are a big deal!!!

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20 January 2009 (F) - BIRTHDAYS ARE A BIG DEAL… I wake up to the sun shining through my bed room window, the sky is clear, and it’s another beautiful morning. My soul is filled with such a sweetness today I’m at peace and my body is relaxed. But also I woke up to a flu...