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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I really don't know what to do there's 3 years of a difference between us and now I feel folk will talk about us for the year gap

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I really like this guy who has a child but I used to go with him a couple of years ago and when we split he got into a relationship a couple of weeks later which he was unhappy in but within a few weeks his girlfriend announced she was pregnant what ...

Lost re period problems...

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2 January 2009 (F) - I last had my period in November and it is now January. My period hasn't come in December and it still hasn't come in January and I'm a virgin. I haven't had sex but this has to do with finger popping... should I be worried? What should I do?...

Am I a weird sex freak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - I'm an 18 year old boy and started having gay feelings a few years ago but no one knows. I'm still a virgin and want 2 shag a girl but recently I've been watching loads of shemale porn. I don't know why but a hot girl with a dick really does do it ...

How can I make my boobs bigger???

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2 January 2009 (F) - How to make your boobs bigger ??? I'm 13 and my boobs aren't very small they are actually not bad and my bf everything was gud he is one year older and a lot of girls like him but he always loved me cause he knows me well and we were together 8 ...

I'm shy when it comes to sex even though I desperately don't want to be.

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2 January 2009 (F) - I've been having sex for about 5 months now with my boyfriend who I love more than anything and don't regret one minute with, but when we do have sex, he's always on top, he desperatley wants me to go on top and try other positions but I feel ...

End it or not?

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2 January 2009 (M) - I am in love but the thing is I have suspicions on my girl. I think she goes and sees her ex, you see she did that to one of my close friends but says it was payback for something. I find it hard to trust her at times but at other times my trust ...

Attitude change

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2 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm an 18 year old girl that has never spent a lot of time thinking about boys. I have had a few short relationships and I know what love feels like, but I'm the type of girl that puts school first. To give you an idea. Now, some month...

I want to ask if I should keep being friends of if I should try and say that I like him?

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2 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I really fancy this boy who I've been friends with for a while now. He's 17 and I'm 14 and we have really intimate open conversations and I don't know if this is his way of flirting with me or if he's just really open with his conversations. ...

I don't know who to choose now!

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2 January 2009 (M) - Hi I went to see a girl called Lucy, we said we loved each other and we talked about doing many sexual things however, we had a part at hers and I got with her best friend. It was the first time me and her friend met up. When she made the first m...

Do all the signs point to him liking me?

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2 January 2009 (F) - hey, i like this boy for about a month and a half, and i really like him and he likes me back too, i think. He always comes to speak to me at lunch, told me to take the 'shortcut' home when really it took longer, and he tells his friends he likes me ...

What can I do or take to lessen my chance of getting pregnant?

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2 January 2009 (F) - yesterday me and my bf ended up having unprotected sex. i know it was really stupid so in not looking for thoses comments saying "well u shouldnt have had sex in the first place u stupid girl" caz i know it was stupid. ok i was stying the night at ...

Should I worry that my period is so early?

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2 January 2009 (F) - erm ok, well... im 'on' and its come on really early normally it starts towards the end of each month and ive had my periods for like nearly a year now and im unsure about this. i know that at the start its all iffy and stuff but for the past few...

She tells me she wants sex, but freaks out when we get there!

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2 January 2009 (M) - OK my girlfriend and i have been dating for 7 months!!! its great, we have talked about sex and almost had sex but she freaks out, her ex and her did and it ended up disastrous, i dont press the issue cause i really do love her but she tells me she ...

I'm terrified of talking to guys - how do I start interesting conversations?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I really need a kick start here in terms of my non-existant social life. Basically... I have always been shy, its just in my nature, but have made a few good, close friends. But now we're at the stage where everyone wants to go out and party. I...

Since losing my virginity, I'm constantly craving sex... is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - i first had sex a few months back with my boyfriend, but sinse we did, i've been craving it constantly afterwards, its not an issue for him as he's obviously not going to say no as a teenager, but is this normal/natural to happen or is it just me? ...

I'm a younger girl who is constantly attracted to older men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - So, I've always found older guys more interesting than the ones my own age. I'm 16, and I always seem to find myself looking and thinking about 20-40 year olds. I find myself being, well, more myself around older guys than the ones my age. I was ...

Too much hair!

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2 January 2009 (F) - well here goes this is inbarassing but oh well im 14 and have alot of hair down below every time i shave it , it grows back evan more i hate it i cant evan go swimming i havnt been in ages and i just want to get rid of it all completely please h...

I love him but confused!

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2 January 2009 (F) - Okay this would be really complicated if I didn't start from the beginning so it's going to be long.... When I was in one of my classes the first day of school my sophmore year and everyone was coming in I first noticed him and immediately began ...

I like guy who doesn't talk to me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - im 14 and there is this guy who i have known for ages,we have been out before but i dumped him because i over reacted about something, but halloween 2007 i fell out with another friend and now neither of them are talking to me but i want to make ...

My boyfriends best friend wants to date me, now what?

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2 January 2009 (F) - okay so here is the thing. i date my current boyfriend. well his used to be best friend called me and left me a message saying he wanted to go out with me, the thing is i've known him for 5 years and i used to be in love with him in 3rd grade! i've ...

14 dating a 23 year old with kids

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and my boyfirend is 23. i have know him since i was 5 and we started dating 3 mounths ago. but he has a girlfriend and 2 kids. i am bi and so is his girlfriend and we have had a three some. he says he loves me but i don't know what im getting ...

I feel ignored by my friends, should I leave them and find new mates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - recently my so called mates don't ask me if im coming out, or want to stay and they are always together that doesn't bother me it just annoys me that they don't ask me anymore, and because im being excluded. also recently i asked one of them if ...

Says he loves me but won't break up with his girlfriend

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2 January 2009 (F) - Im 16 and he is 21. That isn't the problem though. He has a girlfriend. I have spoken to him about it and the only thing he says is you know how i feel about the situation. He claims to love me but then he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend ...

We agreed that the only way to stay together is to have a baby... should we do it??

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2 January 2009 (M) - ok ummm im 13 and my gf is 17 weve been together for nearly a year and i love her with all my heart ........do you think that its a big age diffrence for us? also her parents hate me so much! i cant talk to her anymore kuz they caught us having ...

Does this mean he still cares?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Well my ex broke up with me a few months ago 4 some 1 he claims he's in love with. And we agreed 2 stop talking he Instant messaged me saying happy new year should I talk 2 him? Does this mean hee still cares? ...

I am told I'm a failure and a stalker, what can I do to change their opinions?

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2 January 2009 (M) - Well, heres the story, my whole high school life so far, ive gotten no where in regards to relationships. I am constantly rejected, constantly told that im a failure, and constantly told that i am a creeper and a stalker. I have eased up on it a lo...

I like the younger brother, but the older one is into me. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and i don't have the best past with older boys. The situation that Im in right now is difficult for me to figure out what to do. First off the guy that likes me is a senior and I am a freshman. I like this boy who is a freshma...

I'm in love and he's a druggie - did he take advantage of me?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and no im not exactly sure what love feels like but if i had to guess im pretty sure it would feel the way im feeling about this guy. My best guy friend introduced me to his best friend (the guy i like) and ever since I cant get my ...

She wants to move to second base but I get nervous!

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2 January 2009 (M) - Hey, im a 16 year old guy and me and my girlfriend want to move to 2nd base but i dont really know how to start it off, and on top of that i sometimes get nervouse around her even though we have been dating for 4 months. What can i do to get less ...

What should I do about her not talking to me?

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2 January 2009 (?) - My girlfriend is to allergic nuts. One day randomly bumped into her. She lean in to kiss me but I couldn't let her because I had nuts that day and not being aure what her reaction would be. She got upset and before I could explain, she got out of my ...

How do I break it to her?

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2 January 2009 (M) - can men change their minds in one night about love beetween two diffrent girls? cause one night when i went to bed i loved emily but the next morning i loved rowan. so i tolled my mom and she said i talk more about rowan than emily when we w...

My best guy friend beat me up - am I overreacting to what he did to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - My Best friend is a guy and we have been best friends for almost 4 and a half years. A year ago we were at work,and I said out loud how much money he had,even though nobody had heard me, he got mad and lightly slapped me across my face.I got so ...

I'm 14 and really want a baby, I'm just nervous about the pregnancy part.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Hey, im 14 and my boyfriend is 15. We both are really ready for a baby and actually have been wanting one ever since summer of 2008. I know for fact i am ready for the taking care part of it, but not so sure about the pregnancy part. I love kids and ...

I'm in love with a friend that doesn't feel that way about me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - So theres this girl that I have been friends with for atleast 3 years and we r best friends. All my other friends know I like her and they are always messin' with me about it. So one day, word got around our little group of friends and she found ...

What can I do to be happy again?

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2 January 2009 (F) - There's a guy who used to live in the same town as me. Now he has moved half way across the country. I know i am a bit young, being still in highschool but there is something about him that after two years i still haven't gotten over him. Sometimes ...

Why am I falling for him and when will he ask me out?

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2 January 2009 (F) - whats wrong with me? why do i like this guy so much. all hes done is ruin my reputation, and stuff. he told his friends he slept with me, and one of them comes up to me and say" you did it for____, why dont u do it for me" i just laughed and walked ...

Ten Signs that Your Spouse may be Cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

2 January 2009 (?) - So you think your spouse might be cheating on you? The very fact that you are suspicious is a good indication that something sinister may be going on. That's because we all have intuition. Whether you call it a "sixth sense," "warning bells," or ...

Will health insurance cover the costs of an abortion?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I'll just cut to the chase here because I need answers. Fast. I've (I'm almost 19 and a college freshman) been pretty stupid with my ex (whom is 18 and still in high school) lately: we had unprotected sex three times in the last month and I'm mainly ...

Should I tell him my feelings or am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I really like this guy, we met up in the city recently and hung out, had a good time went to the movie and madeout. Its sort of been a little awkward ever since, but i could be looking into it. Then he tells me he hooked up with his Ex over new ...

Why am I still thinking about him after all this time?

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2 January 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend nearly 3 years. I was with my ex 2 years. As soon as i seen my ex i fancied him yet it took my a while to feel the same way for my current boyfriend at the begging as i had just stated seeing him. I feel mean but 3 years ...

Deeply in love...

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2 January 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for about six months,i didn't like when i first met him because felt that he was just too serious,the complete opposite of me according to certain things,so he chased me for more than half a month,before we got ...

Mean Girls: what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - ok i am 13 and in 8th grade i am kinda overweight but these girls in my spanish class are always trying to start fights with me cause they think it is easy to hurt me but every time they start agrivating me and arguing with me i start arguing back i ...

My parents are splitting up...help!!

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2 January 2009 (M) - My Parents have been married for 21 years...ever since they were teenagers themselves but my dad was offered a job which meant he would be away a lot coming back every 2 weeks but after about 4 months of this he started coming home less often and my ...

Does a spark when I kiss him mean we are meant to be together?

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2 January 2009 (F) - when i kss my boyfriend i always get a spark does that mean we were ment for each other ...

Silent Treatment: when will it end?

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2 January 2009 (M) - got a close friend who i been friends with for 4years. His a bit stubborn and never admitted his fault or i've never heard him say sorry. Anyway we used to talk so much, get along and we now live together at uni, we're flat mates. We both live our...

Painful after painful relationship....

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2 January 2009 (F) - hi everyone, I have had 3 painful relationships one after another. The first one lasted nearly 2 years, we were thinking to get married, at least i was, but he cheated on me and left me for another girl. after that i could not overcome this situat...

Is it my fault my girlfriend is throwing up?

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2 January 2009 (?) - I was at my girlfriend's house (alone). We watching a video and making out. She had to go the washroom. 15 minutes later or so I heard something crash in the bathroom. I got worried and went to the washroom. I found my gf was pass out on the floor ...

Why can't I get as hard as I used to?

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2 January 2009 (M) - Hey..am 16 and i had "sex" 2 months ago..ive put it on quotes coz it was embarassing..we were at the beach with no clothes..anyway..i got hard but when i got inside her i started to loose the hardness ..it was soo cold that night and i had no ...

Does it sound like he genuinely likes me?

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2 January 2009 (F) - Last week I stayed round my friends in San Fransisco (3 hours away from me) who I had met off the internet 3 years ago, and have always been really flirty and sweet with eachother (we have met up 4 times before) but he's had 2 girlfriends in this ...

How do I get through to her and show her this guy isn't good enough?

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2 January 2009 (M) - Hi, There is this girl who I am crazy about and have been for about 3 years now. We are really close friends and have had loads of chances to ask her out but have always chickened out. Now, she is dating someone. More to the point, the...

Will he get bored and leave? All we do is snog!

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2 January 2009 (F) - i want to be able to have fun with my boyfriend. all we ever seem to do is snog,head to the bedroom and thats the end of that. its oring and im afraid he will get as board as i am and leave. any suggestions??? thanks xxx...

I've fallen for the girl I call my best friend!

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2 January 2009 (M) - I've been bestfriend with this girl for a while now and I really have fallen for her! I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but if anything went wrong in a relationship she didnt want to lose me. I saw what she meant. Its been 3 ...

How would you go about asking your best friend and the girl of your dreams to senior prom?

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2 January 2009 (M) - How would you go about asking your best friend and the girl of your dreams to senior prom? We're still a few months away from it, but I've been thinking about this since last Halloween. I like her a lot and I'm thinking she likes me, too. I guess I ...

Why does my boyfriend treat me like this??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Well where do I start... I'm nearly 19 and i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When i first met him, i wasn't the one that was keen but the more time i spent with him the more i realised i was falling for him. He was so nice and caring the f...