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Archived questions from: July, 2005 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

We had one date that seemed to go OK, but now he won't even make eye contact with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl, and I work every day. Next door to the shop there is a groceries, and a boy who is 18. He asked me out for a coffee, and we hit it off. He goes to the college I am starting in September. He kept texting me things, one exam...

I can't believe that my ex would say awful things about me behind my back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6835 days ago

31 July 2005 (?) - I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a really big problem. A year ago I met this really amazing guy *James. We started going out with in a few days of meeting each other. We fell in love with each other and he worked so hard to make me see that he ...

I told the girl how I feel, but she said she wouldn't go out with me 'cause I'm too much of a mate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6841 days ago

31 July 2005 (M) - I'm friends with this girl. Recently I have told her that I fancy her and that I would like to go out with her. The thing is she is still trying to get over a break up with her boyfriend but he treated her so badly. When I told her how I felt she...

Rumour is that my boyfriend has cheated, and he likes to be alone when he goes clubbing. Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6843 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend Dave for about a year. I have known him for four years and i have felt that i have always loved him. It was love at first sight for me, and he eventually first asked me out when I was fourteen. He was seve...

Now that he feels better about himself, he seems to like me better, too. Can we take things further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6845 days ago

30 July 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, Confusion!That's all I'm feeling right now.I know it might sound stupid,but I am about two seconds away from a breakdown. See,not too long ago,this guy that I used to like started talking to me on the Internet.Everyon...

Should I keep dreaming of my guy in Canada, or go with the guy-next-door?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6815 days ago

29 July 2005 (F) - Hello, I met this boy over the internet. He is the same age as me and he is everything I ever dreamed of. He is honest, he makes me smile, we have a lot in common but not too much, otherwise that would get boring. The only bad thing is he lives in...

Does he fancy me? Am I in love with him?

This question has 58 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been going to school with this lad that I fancy for quite a while. He has been going out with this girl, On and off. She dumped him as she says he is boring then asks him out again, He always says Yes. I really fancy him and can't st...

My girlfriend's getting serious with me, but I'm starting to be attracted to someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6846 days ago

28 July 2005 (M) - I have been going out with a girl for 1 year and a half! She is starting to take things seriously but I feel that I am madly in love with another girl who happens to be my mate's girlfriend (not serious though)! What can I do?...

My crush lives in another part of the world, but I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6845 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - HI, I'm 16. I have a crush on this guy who is 17. We live in different parts of the world. I've never had a crush and I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about him....

Not confident with girls and I get so mad when I see other guys dating the girl I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6847 days ago

27 July 2005 (M) - This girl I like, I have liked her for years. But she is 2 years younger than me. (I'm 15) I was gonna ask her out but then my mate who lives near me did, so I let it happen and he went out with her 3 times. (broke up 3 - asked her out again 3 ...

A guy is interested in me, but I'm really shy and don't know if I should go out with him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6846 days ago

26 July 2005 (F) - I'm 15 and I've got a dating problem. I like this guy who says he loves me, and we've already dated back in 7th grade. He writes me awesome love letters and gives me gifts. I like him and really want to go back out with him, but now I'm really shy. ...

My bf is usually sweet, but lately he's really quite mean to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6842 days ago

26 July 2005 (F) - I am 16 years old and have been with my boyfriend of 14 years old for over a year. He constantly tells me he loves me and I really do love him. Most of the time he is really sweet and would probably do anything for me but recently he's been acting ...

We broke up because of the distance and because of her parents... Now I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6848 days ago

26 July 2005 (M) - Hi. I recently broke up with a girl who I've been going out with for about 2 months and a half. We're both about to turn 16 and I broke up with her about 2 months ago. (it seems like a very short time here). The reason I broke up with her is becau...

I got drunk and did something totally out of character for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6849 days ago

25 July 2005 (F) - I have always been the biggest "goody two shoes" in my school. I recently graduated from high school and after I did I tried my first bit of alcohol. Later in the summer I went to the beach with a bunch of my friends. All of them have ahd sexual ...

I like to think my cousin and I are smart, pretty and sweet, so how come we can't attract guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6849 days ago

24 July 2005 (F) - Is it just me or am I repulsive? I have the worst time with guys. Like my cuz, both of us only attract losers or no guys at all and we are both pretty, smart and we are nice and sweet but we - me especially - never get noticed by guys. What's wr...

Cheated on my boyfriend of 2 weeks with his friend... and I might be pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6849 days ago

23 July 2005 (F) - I don't know what to do. I'm going out with my best friend and weve been going out for 2 weeks. I cheated on him a week ago with his friend and I had a big crush on him and now it hurts me to even look at my boyfriend cause I made a mistake. And not ...

I don't know anything about this girl... except that I want to ask her out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6851 days ago

23 July 2005 (M) - How do I ask a girl out? There is a girl and all I know is her name - but I think she has given me flirty looks. (think). But I know nothing else but her age and where she lives. It's driving me mad - I want to go out with her!...

We want to try foreplay, but we have no idea what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6827 days ago

23 July 2005 (M) - Hey everyone I'm 16, and so is my girlfriend. We are both virgins, and haven't tried anything with anyone else, but we have both admitted we want to try foreplay, but I am really worried as I have no idea how to do anything right ..... help me ...

Why would my boyfriend rather spend time with his guy friends, when I'm right there on his street?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6850 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months, which I think isn't very long. We live in the same street but yet he never has time for me. Sometimes I think he's gay because he never leaves his guy friends. When I complain about it all he does is ...

He starts asking me awkward questions when we're kissing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6851 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - Ok. Here's the thing. Basically when my boyfriend and I are doing some heavy petting he starts to say/ask some things. I don't they are like normal things like "Do you like that?" and "Are you wet?" but to me they just seem kind of corny. I usua...

He's 23 and I'm 16, but I think my parents would approve. How do I get to know him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - I am 16 years old and I have a crush on a 23 year old guy. I know my parents would agree with the relationship. He plays for my local football team and I talk to him after every game but I don't know whether I should tell him that I like him or how ...

Ready to move on to oral sex, but what if we want to kiss afterwards?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6852 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - Hi...i am almost 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We have been together for almost a year now and both very happy. We got off to a very slow start because we go to different schools and didn't see each other much. We are both very happy together and now ...

We met, we kissed, I can't stop thinking of him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

18 July 2005 (F) - Last weekend I met my mother's best friend's son! He's really cute and we got on really well. He asked for my number so I gave it to him and he kissed me. Ever since I haven't stopped thinking about this boy! I'm crazy over him. I've tried ringing ...

Fell for my tutor! Now it hurts to be around him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6857 days ago

18 July 2005 (F) - I am a fifteen year old girl in high school, and to help prepare for college entrance exams (the SAT Subject Exams), my parents hired a tutor for me. However, this tutor (a 26 year old college graduate) seemed to be the perfect man I had envision...

He's a mate and we're very flirty... but I want to know if he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6857 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - Please help! I fancy this lad, and hes really really flirty with me on msn messenger. I've seen him and met him, we are mates. He's always really nice and very flirty, but I'm not sure if he really likes me. How do I find out? Im shy, so I couldn't ...

This "friend" has already moved in on my social crowd, now she's texting my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6856 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - I used to hang round with a guy through whom I met a girl. We got to be very close mates. Her boyfriend and mine were mates and I decided to introduce her to everybody I knew, invite her into the crowd, you know how it is. Anyway she has now star...

We joke and flirt and sometimes text, but would he really be interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6857 days ago

16 July 2005 (F) - Hey, Recently I realised that I like my friend's brother and also told my friend, but asked her not to tell him. I was wondering if he likes me because, there have been many incidents when we are play fighting and saying flirty things to eac...

I think I've fallen in love with my old friend at uni, and he knows that I already have a boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6857 days ago

16 July 2005 (F) - dear cupid I'm 18 years old. I'm freshy in university I know many friends. I've met my old friend. He and I study at the same university and faculty so we come back home together. We've become very close and I feel I have fall in love wit...

Kissing doesn't do anything for me, but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, who loves it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - Ok, basically my problem is that I don't like kissing (on mouth), it really does nothing for me. Recently I have started seeing this guy who seems to love kissing, he's 18 and has been in serious relationships before whereas I never have (I'm 16). ...

I've tried everything to get him talking....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6860 days ago

14 July 2005 (F) - Me and me boyfriend have been together for a week but I can't keep him talking. I've tried everything, his fave sports, future fantasies, getting his best friend on the phone with us, and just talking about my day. We are both 16 and go to the same ...

My abstaining from any kind of sex is affecting my girlfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

14 July 2005 (M) - Ok, I know it sounds weird but although I'm 16 I preach, a lot, and it means a lot to me. Because of what preaching means to me I cannot have sex or anything resembling sex, or I try at least, and I think it has an affect on my relationship because ...

We might have something that could develop... but will my age be a problem for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6860 days ago

14 July 2005 (F) - I'm 15, and I skipped a grade, so I'm a year younger than everyone I hang out with. There's a guy I went to Junior High with a guy that I really liked. We always chatted, flirted, etc. Even a couple times held hands, but it never really developed ...

Other boys are attracted to my girlfriend, because she's so pretty and friendly. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

13 July 2005 (M) - I and my girlfriend have known each other for a year. She is very friendly and pretty so she has many friends. I love her very much and she also love me so much too. Everything should well but I have some problems about her. Due t...

He knows I have a crush on him... Should I send him my essay too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6861 days ago

13 July 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, A few days ago,I wrote a completely fictional essay about my crush and I getting together.I decided to send it to my younger cousin via e-mail,and she replied saying that it was incredible and that I should send it to my crush.Sh...

Nothing can happen between me and the teacher, so why can't I get over it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm a 12 year old lass and I'm in year 7. I really like this teacher who is in his 20's - 30's and it hurts because he doesn't know who I am. Even though I know it is never going to happen I nearly cry myself to sleep knowing that. I really w...

Something went wrong, and now my girlfriend is pregnant. We don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6853 days ago

12 July 2005 (M) - Hie all of you. I do hope you can help. I have a girlfriend and we had sex and something went wrong and now she's pregnant. I can't marry her coz I'm afraid of my parents and what they'll say. They surely wont approve and neither will her parents ...

Our overseas relationship was only going to make one of us unhappy... so I broke it off...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6862 days ago

12 July 2005 (M) - I'm 16 years old and i live in England. Last summer while on holiday in the Carribean I met a beautiful American girl. We both liked each other but were too shy to say it to each other so we exchanged e-mail addresses and when we got home we started ...

Not sure if this guy is really serious. He just brushes me off about our future...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6862 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old and ever since me and my boyfriend broke up a year ago from a 4 year relationship it's been hard for me to meet someone that I can get serious with. I've been seeing someone now for about 5 months and I feel that he could be...

Split with my ex and I'm free to choose, but now I can't decide which boy I like better!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6863 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - Hi, Right. I am 14! I went out with a boy my age some time ago now. We ended but at the same time I liked this other boy that really really liked me and after me and my ex split he still liked me loads. I told him I didn't like him in that way....

My boyfriend is 19 and I'm 14. He says he loves me, but why won't he have a relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6837 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - I'm 14 years old, my friend is 19. We do everything together. We have even had sex. I'm the only pperson he has ever said "I love you" to, but he will not be in a real relationship with me. I know it's illegal, but age doesnt matter to him. Why ...

Want to ask out one of the sisters, but I feel "vertically challenged"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6855 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - Hi there, im a 15 year old boy. Round my "hood" there is two sisters who do paper rounds. The thing is I fancy one of them but cause I'm smaller than they are I'm scared to ask her out. I really would like to, I think she is lovely and think she has ...

My online girl is all right sometimes and not all right other times. It's confusing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6863 days ago

10 July 2005 (M) - Hi, I know this girl online, her name is Nat and she's the same age as me, 17, and when we first started talking we talked for hours and got on really well but we've never met but we plan to meet. It's just sometimes she can be alright then oth...

Big crush on a senior at my uni... But how do I get to know him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6864 days ago

10 July 2005 (F) - I am 18 Years old. I have just been a freshy in the university for 1 month but now I have something wrong in my heart. I think that I have a crush on a senior. He is a top model at my faculty. In my opinion,he is perfect;smart,tall and ...

Communication between us is hard because we're both so shy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6864 days ago

9 July 2005 (M) - It's very hard to decide my situation. I have been dating this girl for three weeks, although we have had only four dates. If my age is relevant I am 17 and she 15. Now although I am 17, I have never had an experience like this with anyone. Being ...

Afraid that my brother's going to tell what he saw, then I'll be grounded...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

9 July 2005 (?) - Dear cupid. I'm 13 and I was straddling one of my friends and he's 18 and we were making out and doing well you know and I didn't know it but my brother was outside my window watching us. And he's told my ex, also his best friend. His ex also my ...

How can I find out if my friend's brother actually likes me?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

8 July 2005 (F) - I've known my best friend since kindergarten and we are now in 9th grade. She is one of 5 kids and her oldest brother is a year older than me. I really like him and I think that he likes me too, but I dont know for sure. I don't know what to do. I ...

How can I send him a friendly greeting, but not go over the top?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My crush's fifteenth birthday is coming up,and I have been planning on e-mailing him for the occasion. This seemed like a pretty good idea until I realized that I have absolutely no clue what to say to him. I mean,I kind of want to ...

I thought we hated each other...we've fought in class for years. So why would he sing love songs to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6866 days ago

6 July 2005 (F) - Ever since the first year of high school, I always thought I hated this guy in my year, and he hated me. We always used to disrupt the class by having full-blown arguments with each other, and we used to insult each other too. I once told him that ...

The girl I like acts very silly around me, and I think it's because we're both afraid...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6868 days ago

6 July 2005 (M) - I think I like this girl. We act really silly around each other. She avoids having a one on one conversation with me. I think she is afraid because I do the same thing. I am afraid of being hurt. What must I do? Should I try to talk to her and avoi...

What can I do to get my friend to forgive me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

6 July 2005 (M) - I argued with my best friend. I tried to call to say sorry but he always rejects my call.What should I do?...