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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

How do I assert myself without alienating those I care about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - How do you stand up to somebody you love? I've always had problems with sticking up for myself. I've only ever done it once and it ended my friendship of four years with my ex bestfriend. How do I stand up to somebody like my parents or boyfr...

I'm six months pregnant but not sure who the father is

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Okay so before I start, I'm fully aware that I'm a terrible person for the things that I've done. I didn't come here to be judged, I just need advice. I am 6 1/2 months pregnant. In the past, when my boyfriend and I would break up or get into a r...

Under grandma's thumb and with a sex mad boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I have a problem. I live with my grandma and my mom is out of the picture. Grandma is really strict and she makes it impossible to do practically everything. I mean things like seeing my friends outside of school, talking on the phone, and being on ...

Do you think I have even the smallest chance with my long distance crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I really suffer from a breakup...Okay, to be honest, it wasn't even a breakup. It was a rejection. My long distance crush is 21 and I’m turning 16 next month. The guy is simply awesome! I can tell you he's worth all my tears cause all my friends ...

I think I could come to terms with my boyfriend cheating on me if only he would be honest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I have been with my partner for a year now. Our relationship is perfect all but one thing. I think he cheated on me. Inside I know he did but he keeps denying it. Me and him went out one night to a rave and he had taken drugs, he disappeared an...

I'm scared to touch him. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - After 6 months together, my boyfriend and I have already had sex, but I'm still afraid to touch his penis. He gently pushes me to try doing it, but doesn't force me. He will tell me I can't hurt him and he doesn't expect me to know exactly how to do ...

I'm scared to trust him - please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend told me he's been having sex since 6th grade. We've had an off/on relationship because of friends and family but he says he wants to kiss me the next time he sees me. I've never kissed anyone and I'm also afraid he'll go too far. What ...

Should I get checked by doctor for any STI?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Please help me. The other day I was "hooking up" with this guy, but we didn't have sex (I'm a virgin). I was curious from never doing it before so I put his penis in my mouth and gave him a brief blowjob, only for a few seconds. I wasn't even ...

If I don't change I'm afraid she'll leave me. But I don't want to be pushed around. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I have been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 6 months now. When we met, the connection was real and we hit it off almost instantly. The only difference is that she's religious, but I'm not. As far as I've always been concerned it didn't p...

Why? And how should I handle the fact that my brother deliberately ignores me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - My brother and I used to be very close but now for some reason he doesn't even speak to me. At school he always pretends he doesn't know me, for example, My Dad sent me a message that I needed to pass onto my brother, so at the end of the day I tr...

What could I say in a love letter to girl, without frightening her off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I need to write a love letter for this girl im going to ask out. Only thing is I dont want it to be one of those over the top corny love letters. I just want to tell her how I feel about her, a little romance is ok but i dont want to scare her off....

I trust him but I don't trust his really attractive female friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm in a relationship and although we've not been together for very long i love him,but i feel myself getting jealous of other girls already. It all started when he told me about his "good friend", that's like a sister to him. At the time i d...

I ended things but now I'm totally in love with him and I think he's moving on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Hello, I really need your help. I’ll start by telling you the situation. You’re in for a long one so sit back. About a year and a half ago I met this guy; I’ll call him Josh, at my tennis club. I didn’t know him very well at all, but straight awa...

I regret taking my Bf back. I've fallen for one of my other friends. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for about a year... And we've broken up quite a bit, but we ended up getting back together again. Today was one of those days, and he begged me to take him back. I agreed, which I really regret now. I no longer f...

Is my boyfriend's brother attracted to me? What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I really don't want to sound arrogant or full of myself but I think that my boyfriend's brother may be attracted with me and need an outsider view of the situation to tell me if I am looking too much into things. I also fear that I may now be attra...

How do I get rid of bad odor caused by too much sweating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and a girl. I've got a really bad problem. :( It's about sweating! I sweat a lot! The climate here is about 25'C on average. I can still handle the sweating part, but the odor not at all! I get it from my dad's side of the family...

How can I talk to my Dad about masturbation? I am trying to give up masturbating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

28 December 2015 (M) - I am 15 and have been masturbating for maybe around a year and I ve really been trying to give it up. I feel really guilty and stressed and I wanna tell my dad but I feel like it would really change how he sees me, since we re pretty much bros I ...

I am 15 and I love writing lyrics for songs. How do I chart a path to get my lyrics noticed, find the right professional contacts and a path to succeed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi there, I am writing, to seek some help on my future career in writing. So, I absolutely, and truly, love to write. I write poems, and stories, and songs. I also love to sing, a lot. I have been singing, pretty much since I was a toddler,...

How do I deal with an interfering mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I am going to be 18 on the 1st of January. My parents still interfere in my life so much. I have been in a relationship for 8 months now. My boyfriend was over for dinner yesterday and we had a little argument after dinner (just the two ...

He's nice and he's flirty. But is he really just a player ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I've been speaking to this guy for a while on snapchat, he used to live nearby but has moved away (apparently only for a year but I am unsure). I never knew him when he lived here but we went to the same school. I just never seen him as he was a ...

My second cousin wants to become my boyfriend but I'm nervous. What do you guys think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - Okay so the past two weeks me and my 2nd cousin have been talking.. A lot and flirting and we have a thing. He's a few years older than me so growing up we didn't talk but I'm 17 now. I saw him over Christmas but we had to pretend we weren't ...

Why is it considered wrong to just want to date or just crush on people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I have this problem where I had crushes on boys before and I always look forward to dating and having boyfriend until I actually got one. he wasn't a bad guy he did nothing to hurt me but he was sort of laughing a lot and kind of mock me by sayin...

Why would a guy acts quiet all of the sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3047 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - So this guy has been talking to me alot lately, and he always flirtand always tries to get my attention. I always hang out with his friends and i talk to them alot but when he joins the group he suddenly acts quiet and seems upset. But when we are ...

Based on his actions does my crush feel the same as I about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - My crush spent the night at my house as a sleep over before we went to bed, I noticed that he went into my room and kissed my cheek softly and whispered goodnight. Does this mean he likes me or he only thinks of me as a friend?...

How can I demonstrate to my Bf that I still want to be there for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3049 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hi, just a quick post to gather a few opinions on what to do here, so thank you in advance of you decide to reply. So, I'll try keeping it short, so it might sound a bit blunt, but I don't want to babble on. I was diagnosed with depression n...

How will I handle Christmas this year, because I have a crush on my stepbrother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3049 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - My parents have been divorced for 6/7 years now and my dad now has a partner who has 3 kids. Consisting of 2 boys (let's call the youngest A and the eldest B) and 1 girl (let's call her C), my sister (let's call her D) moved in with them 3 years ago ...

I can't imagine trusting someone enough to have sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - I'm 17, a virgin, and I believe myself to be somewhere on the asexual spectrum. I have what I believe is a low sex drive compared to what I've heard from my friends. I think at some point I'd like to have sex but honestly it really doesn't matter to ...

He constantly comments on other girls .....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

19 December 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and we are more than happy. But... he comments on other girls and I've seen him looking at them too. I know he loves me and I love him, but a few days ago he made a comment about someone I know, ...

How do I stop feeling used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - Hi. So I got out of a relationship at the end of October and I really liked the guy. In the relationship he told me he stopped liking his best friend (who is a girl) after I asked if he still liked her because some metal friends were telling me he ...

I really felt we had a connection. But he blocked me. What can I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - Hello guys basically a few weeks days ago I was contact by another guy I really felt a connection. He was jaw droppingly hot to we exchanged some photos none were saved as it was on snapchat and the photo is deleted after 10 seconds and will inf...

Considering our long standing connection, chemistry and flirtationship why has he put me on the back burner now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - So there is this guy I've been having a "flirtationship" with since the tenth grade now gone into my senior year of high school the chemistry and attraction between himself and I is undeniable from kisses, hugs and conversations we share. We jus...

Is my Bf becoming too needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

16 December 2015 (F) - I've been in an off again on again relationship for over half a year now. Honestly, I am getting tired of this. If I refuse to spend time with him and instead spend time with my friends, he gets very angry. He'll give me dirty looks and tell m...

What are signs that someone likes you? I think he likes me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - I'm 17, and I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. This doesn't bother me in the slightest because I'm not an innately sexual person or someone who displays feelings well. I've never asked out anybody that I've really fancied for fear of reje...

What are the dangers or issues associated with not wearing underwear? Assuming there may be any dangers or issues.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

14 December 2015 (M) - Hello everyone, I have an odd question. I recently have decided I want to stop wearing boxers. I don't enjoy wearing clothing to begin with, and I don't even see a reason as to wear underwear if I'm covered. I'm in high school, and I want to kn...

How to talk to guys? How can I put my fears aside? I worry about being rejected

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

10 December 2015 (F) - How do I get more confident around new guys? I'm 16 and I'm kind of shy around people when I first meet them, especially guys. Obviously once I get to know the guys I don't care about trying to impress them or doing weird stuff, its just at first...

How do I get my girlfriend to move things along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

10 December 2015 (M) - How do I get my girlfriend to move things along a little faster already? I've known her since 3rd grade but I wasn't friends with her. We had nothing in common and I was only interested in really pretty girls who were out of my league. We met up ...

Do I talk to my boyfriend about his following these girls on Instagram?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

10 December 2015 (F) - Hi all I'm a 16 year old girl. I've been in a relationship for 2 weeks now and I really adore my boyfriend. He compliments me constantly and is so sweet he makes me feel so special. This morning I noticed that he had started following a page on ...

Will my Bf be disappointed when he discovers that I am only a B cup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - Hi all! I'm a 18 year old female Virgin. I have recently got a boyfriend (3months now) which is wonderful. I'm really self conscious about my b cup breasts as I feel they look too small so I wear a padded push up bra. I wear them whenever I'm in p...

He canceled our first date, hasn't rescheduled, what are his intentions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3062 days ago

8 December 2015 (F) - Me and this guy in one of my classes have been talking everyday after class for the past two and a half months. We talk a lot and he's really nice, I catch him staring at me a lot in class. I'm not sure if he's interested in me, but I am so I asked ...

Live in an isolated area and am home schooled. What can I do to make new friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

7 December 2015 (F) - I have been diagnosed with an extreme form of social anxiety, going back to when I was a young child and my parents encouraged achievement above socialization. Now as a teenager forced to leave school in order to come back to grips with life (do...

After ages of friendship, he suddenly acts like I'm a stranger! Title

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

6 December 2015 (F) - I've liked a guy for almost six years now, and back when I first started liking him he was a total stranger. But I've always been able to "sense" who people really were when I first saw them, not based on appearance but instead on aura, and I felt ...

I have hurt two boys who mean a lot to me. How do I get out of this mess and get my life together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

5 December 2015 (F) - hi, i really need your help. I am a compulsive liar and it has caused a lot of problems for me in the past but not as bad as the situation i am currently in. I started seeing a boy a few weeks before i left for university, we've been friends ...

Sex has been on my mind so much lately. Should I just have sex with one of the guys I know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - I know some of you are probably thinking I'm too young, others thinking I should wait til marriage or the right guy, others that it's no big deal. Problem is, that's all that has been on my mind this past year, especially since starting college in ...

I'm at a loss as to which LDR to choose! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - Hello...um..My name is Lauren, I am 18 And I am currently "Dating" two guys.. Oh but they are both long distance.. And I don't know what to do, because one is J (8 hours away,23) And the other one is R (13 hours away,18). I love them both..but is...

My former friend: Should I text him, wait for him to contact me, or just let it slide away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

3 December 2015 (F) - Dear AgonyAunt,i am 16 and in grade 11 now. Today i saw my past crush/friend/classmate but i'm not sure that's really him. should i text him and find out or should i wait for him or should i just let that slide away? I unfriended him once 3 ye...

I like him but he's not very nice to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

2 December 2015 (F) - The guy I play or knows I like him, but he always says he "hates" me. But although he's like that on the outside, with other people, when we text and stuff, he says he only says that because it's "funny". He acts like a complete a-hole but I still ...

Is his rejection of me real?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

2 December 2015 (F) - The guy knows I like him, but he always says he "hates" me. Although he's like that on the outside with other people when we text and stuff, he says he only says that because it's "funny". He acts like a complete a-hole, but I still like him and...

How do I get my boyfriend to hold my hand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

1 December 2015 (F) - I don't know what to do??help?? well I have this boyfriend his amazing and he don't care if people see us and know about us and that were going out... but there's just one problem his always around other girls like his ex's and the mean girls that ...