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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm worried we'll look weird if I grow taller than my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I have a new boyfriend, we are currently the same height but im 16 and still growing and he is 18, im worried we will look strange if i get any taller, help?! ...

Questions about pubic hair....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - How do women prefer their man's pubic hair?Completely shaved/Trimmed/Etc? Also why do men like a woman's pubic hair completely shaved? I haven't seen a Vagina or a girl naked in person,but I know I'd prefer for her to have some form of hair oth...

I'm 13, he's 19--does he just want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - well theres a boy i knoww that i chat to often he really likes me but theres one problem im 13 and hes 19 my mates say that he just wants one thing but hes not like that hes very sweet and looks out for me im not sure if i wanna be with him thou...

Is a girl not a virgin if the tip of the penis is in her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - if a boy sticks the tip of his penis inside a girls vagina does that mean she lost her virginity?...

Why are they so obsessed with size?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Why are guys so obsessed with the size of their penis, despite what women say in response (i.e. size doesn't matter - it's what you do with it that counts)?...

How do I get him to realize I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - i recently found out one of my best friends was dating a boy that i liked however he ended it and is now with his ex again i really like him and he said he liked me back but im to shy to ask him out what would be the best way to get him to realize ...

Why do I suck?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Why do I suck? I can't seem to find anything positive about me. A microdick, no gf, no sex or love in my life, and OAB. Please help me rebuilt my confidence....

My g/f said "you're tiny!"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had recently progressed our relationship to taking off our clothes.But when I was gaping at her,she laughed at me. She said "Your tiny".I'm a virgin but she isn't. I measured myself and I am a little over 4.5 Inches. I have...

Small and no hair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi I am 13 and have a small penis and no hair down there what should I do to help me out...

Could lovesickness and obsession eventually lead to mental health disorders...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Could lovesickness and obsession eventually lead to mental health disorders such as multiple personality disorder, axiety, or depression? I'm very concerned about this - so please provide me with an answer ASAP. I'm finding it very difficult to move ...

My boyfriend keeps spelling my name wrong and it's so embarrassing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone...! I have a problem, it might seem slightly small and silly, but in the long-term it could turn out to be a bigger problem lol I'm 16 and have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 months. The problem is that he used ...

How can I get him to lighten up and feel more comfortable during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Been going out with my boyfriend for the last couple of months and we started sleeping together just before Christmas. Everything has been going fine but I'm finding my boyfriend is a bit reserved sexually. He doesn't want to try new things. It's ...

How can I show her I can be faithful and loving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 17 and I recently had questions about phone sex. As you know, my girlfriend had given me a chance after having phone sex with another girl. I've stopped doing it and looked up stuff to just make sure if I don't know any other reasons I did ...

I fancy my dermatologist... is she too old for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Okay this is an add on to a earlier question I have asked! Once again I am an almost 18 year old virgin who hasn't kissed a girl. My Dermatologist who is also my regular doctor is quite beautiful. I know she is divorced and she has children. Sh...

My world is over because of him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I've been in love with a girl for a long time and yesturday I saw her kissing another boy who I really hate and there has been rumours that they have been dating but I haven't believed them as the kiss was only for a recent play but now I just want ...

Does he like me? He's passing by my class to see me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hi I really want to know whether this guy likes me. Well this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, smiling. Coming close. Always a smile on his face whenever he would see me. I could notice all these things from my side vision. He would pass b...

How can I confront my step brother about me and him needing to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - im am nerly 16 and ma step brother is 17 but when i was 10 he did sexual things to me and i thought i was ok...it stoped when i went to live with my mum which was wen i was 12 but now i know it was wrong but im with my dad alot and everytime im ...

His parents don't like me because of my race

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - so basically im seeing this guy and weve been together for a long time now so i really like him alot and the only problem is that his parents dont want him dating outside of his race ( which is white) how do i deal with the fact that they will n...

Worried I won't be able to perform!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - i've never masturbated because i can't climax. i just get bored (and sore). When i was about 8-9, i had an operation where they cut the foreskin away from the head (because i was unable to pull it back). i think this may have something to do with it ...

I can't find that special person and won't waste a kiss on someone else, am I normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I have been told I'm romantic and an amazing catch,but no girls ever take interest in me. I'm 5'8 and weight around 160 pounds.I'm not interested in random hookups to which I've been called gay because of it. I want my first kiss as well as ev...

Does watching lesbian porn means I'm lesbian? I've never been attracted to girls!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Dear ppl, Lately I've been thinking about my sexual orientation. I used to watch porn and I stopped because I hated it and I felt disgusted every time I do it. I watched lesbian porn and I felt sth during watching it but I HATED it afterwards and I...

I'd do anything to find a girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi here is my question I'll do anything to get a girlfriend, iv run 18 miles with flowers to see them, for them to turn me down and not even talk to me. I take 3 hours on a train just to see them, i take them for nice walks, i hold there hand...

She said "I didn't know what to say" when I expressed my feelings! Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Okay, so here is my problem. I really like this girl, and I have liked her for awhile. I felt like she had been flirting back, and my buddy told me she had as well. So I had been really struggling with whether or not to tell her I like her/ask ...

First kiss advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I am approaching my 18th birthday and I have yet to kiss a girl. When I was in 7th grade my Uncle who was essentially my father passed away suddenly due to a stroke.I went to see a doctor for depression and am fine now. A year after his dea...

I always fake it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend fingers me I never let him finish, I always fake it. So after awhile it gets really boring on my part. He likes it so I let him do it, but it doesn't really feel good anymore. I don't want to tell him because I'm afraid it will ...

Why does he keep texting and calling and emailing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i need your help. robert and i have been best friends for about three years i mean this boy would kill over me and he doesn't do that for everyone.about a year ago i told him i wanted to be more. hes had it bad for me since he met me but ...

Six months and I'm still not over him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - First note; Usually when I ask about my problem online, I tend to lie about my age (I am 16), making myself older. Why? When I am truthful about it, it seems that my experience or feelings are invalid, that I'm too young, or something of that ...

Am I doing something wrong dating him I'm 17, he's 27

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Well I am a 17 year old girl soon turning into 18 and the guy whom I am in a relation is 27 year old. And only thing that strikes in my mind is that am I doing anything wrong? As the matter of fact love is blind. But still I think there is too long ...

How do I help this funny guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I don't know how best to explain this, but I'll do my best... I have this acquaintance/friend that I've known for quite some time now (about three years) and he's known to all of his friends and the entire high school we graduated from as the "Fun...

WE'VE ONLY BEEN DATING A FEW MONTHS..SHOULD I BE CRYING WHEN HE LEAVES?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend live about 30-45 minutes away from each other. I've been dating him since October(2008) and I love him to death, I know its only been a short time that we've been dating but he means the world to me and I don't know what ...

How do I get over my former teacher, I really like him, but don't know what to do, please help??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I had this teacher, Senior year, (08') and as the year went on my feelings changed for him and I am pretty sure his changed toward me. He would say he loved me and that I will always have a special place in his heart. Or he would say..I love you, I ...

We liked each other, we dated, we talked, then he wanted to end it, what happened??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - OK, so, I liked this boy for ages, and he liked me too, but neither of us could pluck up the courage to ask the other out. We had always been friends, so it's weird how we both started fancying each other after we'd known one another for so long ...

Does she want to be friends with benefits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Me and this very close female friend go to different uni's. I went to meet her and was staying the night. There's only one room and was only one bed. I wondered where I would sleep. Later on she said that we can both sleep on the bed, she doesn't ...

Can you get pregnant while on your period or like within three days after???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Can you get pregnant while on your period or like within three days after???...

Are we moving way too fast here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity with my boyfriend and I feel terrible. We hadn't even been going out for a two months. And I'd given him head like less than 5 days after our first kiss. I told one of my closest friends and all of my friends are like virgins and ...

Period cramp.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My friend has her period and when she usually has it she doesn't usually have cramps but she has been complaining that her stomach has been killing her for the past 3 days. She took pills but it's still killing her.. What should she do?......

Question for guys

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. I would be lying if I said I wasn't in love with him. I get scared cause I think he will leave me all the time. I want to talk to him about my fears, but guys hate girl stuff and emotion and ...

I like 2 guys, I'm so confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - So i'm 15 and i've liked this guy since the beginning of last year. He knew i liked him and we flirted and hung out a little bit but he started to kinda use me. So anyway i barely talked to him all summer and school started back up and now i'm going ...

Will sex hurt the first time for me because I'm uncircumcised?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Okay so.. I am concerned about something and my question will be about sexuality... I will just say a couple things about myself: 17 years old, I have a 5.5 inch penis when hard and is uncircumcised. I am also a virgin, but many girls like me and ...

My fiance is almost always staying over at his sister's house.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My fiance is almost always staying over at his sister's house. Yes, she's married and has kids. Should I have anything to worry about?...

Have you been in a relationship where you were dating someone over 10 years older than you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Your personal experiences. Please share them, so I can make a conclusion on what I need to do with my own problem....

I'm very confused about my sexuality

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I'm 18, female and have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years. when we started sleeping together i didn't know that much about sex and it just kind of happened. as i have talked about sex with my friends more and have seen porn i have ...

I know he wants to join the Navy after getting his degree later on this year and this depresses me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Theres a guy who I've liked for ages, but he lives 3 hours away. When we do see each other (which isnt very often) we act like we're a couple, hugging, kissing, holding hands, being sweet with eachother etc. Since seeing him again in November I've ...

Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me. As it was New Year's Day, none of the chemist's were open but we went to the hospital and managed to get the morning after pill and I took it ...

I was just wondering if I could've caught it off him by doing what we were doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hey, just a quick one. In the summer me and this boy had a bit of a fling. We weren't in a relationship or anything and one night after a couple of drinks we did stuff. Stuff as in I sucked and tossed him off and he fingered me. Now, in January ...

Are there any places where abortions are free?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Are there any places where abortions are free?...

Did he take advantage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Background Info: A lad I'm good mates with, questioned me a lot about about the lad I was going with and seemed to flirt with me at school. He's cute and a good friend to me. Whenever I would be out with my bf and he was there he used to look at ...