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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

What is happening with him? does he like me or is he just shy? PLEASE HELP??

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13 January 2009 (F) - Help my friend please.. I told her what I think.. but she what to know what others thinks as well..OK.. she just told me that when she’s on the phone to her BF and she tells him she misses him.. he doesn’t say the same back he replies.. yeah? Th...

I slept with my best friend's boyfriend - and now the truth has come out!!!!!! HELP!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hi to all, I am 17 years old, I am in the eleventh grade, and I go to a co-ed boarding school. Last year (my tenth grade year) My bestfriend met a boy who wen to out school as a senior and she was a junior at the time. I thought he was the uglie...

How do I get over the nervousness I felt when a guy a liked tried to kiss me?

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13 January 2009 (F) - How do I get over the nervousness I felt when a guy a liked tried to kiss me? I panicked and said no because I was terrified I would do something wrong and make a fool of myself. ...

He's back with the ex although he still flirts with me... what do you think? Is there a chance?

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13 January 2009 (F) - This is a bit complicated and hard to explain but I will try. There is this guy I have liked for over a year. He has such a gorgeous smile, big beauitful eyes and he's just pefect in my eyes. He compliments me and makes me feel good about myself. He ...

Why does he do this? Should I worried?

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13 January 2009 (F) - He never makes the first move to kiss me or anything.. it's like he wants me to come to him. I always go up to him and then starts kissing him. I always initiate things. When I ask him to kiss me he just gives me a peck on the lips and I say is...

I'm quite an emotional person so don't know if I'm just overreacting.

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13 January 2009 (F) - Am I overreacting? Me and my boyfriend are very much in love, however I'm at university, while he works back at home. We don't see each other as often as we like, but we both make the effort to visit whenever possible. My boyfriend's got ...

I have faith in her that this will all work out... once she gets over the ex!

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13 January 2009 (M) - So basically, we've been almost going out for 2 months but she feels as if we rushed into this relationship she really wants this too work out between us but feels she cannot go any farther without first figuring out what she neeeds to do about her ...

2 guys really like me... but I can't help looking at their mates!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Two guys really like me and I like them a bit. But I can't help looking at their mates. Their not the best looking people but they've got really great personalities. The big problem is they've both been out with my little sister so they can get to ...

Can anyone think of a way I can work out what she's thinking?

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13 January 2009 (M) - There's this girl at my college that I've really liked since the day I first met her. I became friends with her and we've been hanging out a lot, mostly just the two of us but I can't work out whether or not she likes me in the same way I like her, ...

I want to know what I can do or where I can go to get my dick fixed.

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13 January 2009 (M) - I want to know what I can do or where I can go to get my dick fixed. It points upward and I can't try any positions because it hurts my girl. I have to beg her for it because every time we do it it hurts her, and although she says its her I know ...

I love him!!! And he needs to know before it's too late!!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hi, what it is... I really like this boy and I don't know how to tell him how serious I am about him, we have known each other for a while but I feel if I tell him he won't want to be with me or anything or he would just get put right off me :( We ...

Fighting with her made me have an axiety attack... How can we NOT fight so much?

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13 January 2009 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and three months. I feel like things are reallyy going downhill since.. We broke up for a week or so and after that she just wasn't the same. She said something about being my lap dog and that she wasn't ...

Social issues...

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. Ok so I got some social issues. My mom won't allow me to go anywhere with my friends. Not even with my best friend whom I've been friends with for 13 years now and my mother knows her. My mom just won't listen to me so talking won't ...

I need him back desperately.

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13 January 2009 (F) - About 4 years ago I dated a boy, for about 6-7 months. I fell for him pretty much straight away but after about 5 months my parents decided they didn't like him and I was forced to break up with him. For years down the line I still think about every ...

How do I get my boyfriend horny when I'm publicly with him? Where do I touch him without taking any clothes off?

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13 January 2009 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend horny when I'm publicly with him? Where do I touch him without taking any clothes off?...

Was it wrong of me to take my phone back from him?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I don't think my boyfriend trusts me. He took my phone and was about to read my texts but I took it from him. He got all mad at me and said what are you trying to hide etc. and tried to take it back. I said why do you have to do that you don't trust ...

When me and my boyfriend have sex it only feels good once then it starts getting like sensitive.

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hi, When me and my boyfriend have sex it only feels good once then it starts getting like sensitive, then once he ate me out and it felt good then he kept doing it and it wasn't feeling good. We had sex after that and it didn't feel good either. I ...

Is it possible that my hymen is still in tact?

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13 January 2009 (F) - hi, my boyfrind and I recently had sex. He was my first, and he didn't go in all the way, and I'm wondering if I still have a hymen because when he tries to go in all the way it's like the worst pain I've ever felt.. so my question is... is it ...

Why has he not text me back??

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months now, but he went away over christmas and got back a couple of weeks ago.. I haven't seen him since then as he or I am always busy. Two days ago he text me asking if I wanted to go to his some point ...

Oh my God!!! Am I really pregnant?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I might be pregnant, but its only been 3 weeks since the sex.. My appetite has grown and i was sick in my mouth abit today. My period cycle is really unpredictable, so I wouldnt even know for sure if im late..So Im asking, what are the "symptoms" of ...

He cries, writes poems, and is a pansy - and he want me to have his baby!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hello, I need help, ive been going out with a boy, im fourteen and he's fifteen, hes normal looking but... he writes poems, LOVE poems, he wears wastecoats and ties and says he's got the "italian look" he calls having sex "my expression of my love ...

I get no pleasure out of sex

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13 January 2009 (F) - Ive had alot of sex, but ive NEVER had an orgasm with a guy. I think Ive had an orgasm while touching myself, but even then I was only rubbing my clit...and there was no "cum". Did it count as an orgasm or was it just me thinking I had one!? A...

Can I be pregnant if the guy didn't cum?

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13 January 2009 (F) - Ive had lots of sexual experiences, but im really clueless about it to be honest! So Im wondering.. -Can i be pregnant if the guy didnt cum? -Would I notice if the condom breaks? -If a guy cums in my ass is there any possibility it might som...

Do I tell my b/f I slept with my ex at the beginning of our relationship?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I started seeing a guy a few months back and I thought he was lovely but it was nothing serious. At the time I was still really good mates with my ex and a few times he came round and it felt like we were still together, we ended up having sex and ...

Period 9 days late!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hi any advice would really help me I slept with boyfriend a few times without using any contraceptive. I know this was stupid so please do not point that out. But i am now 9 days late, but i have taken 3 seperate pregnancy test which all say ne...

I love my ex he only wants to be friends

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13 January 2009 (F) - i went out with my boyfriend that now is my ex boyfriend and we had 9 months of going out. In our 9 months we had fights. i would get jealous. i didn't like him talking to his friends that are girls. i would get mad easily. he made a joke about me...

I'm really unsure of his intentions

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have been friends with benefits with my ex for maybe two months now. He used to be one of my best friends, we dated for 7 months. After we broke up he went out with my best friend. Both of them kept this from me till it blew up in their faces when ...

How do I know that she loves me?

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13 January 2009 (M) - my ex broke up with her bf..she been calling me lately. I still love her..but I'm afraid that she is not taking it in that way. whenever I wanna hold her hand and kiss her..I get bad feelings thinking about what if she refuses. I don't wanna...

My aunt always seems to be in the way!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Okay major problem!! My bf and I are very close and at school it's very hard. Every time something is gonna happen my aunt passes by and we back up. It ruins everything!!! My aunt always seem to be there at the wrong time. What should I do? Do ...

Doesn't she like me any more?

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13 January 2009 (M) - well.. this is how it started, I posted a story about a girl who, laughs at my jokes and asks if im ok or if I'm walking normally she would ask am I ok??.. like some months ago.. She would sit next to me in classes generally ok.. means.. she like...

The longer I'm in this marriage, the more I want out

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13 January 2009 (F) - look i got married at 17 ive been with my husband for a year married now.. but it seems the longer im with him the more unhappy i get.. its like i dont wana be with hime i want to move on.. what should i do?...

I like him but I ignore him

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13 January 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I like and he acts like he likes me back too. But then I had to talk to him because of a bet I lost but since I got shy (my friend told him that somebody wanted to talk to him) and ran away. Later that day, I tried to apologi...

Not allowed a boyfriend till 16...

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13 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 And I've liked this guy for ages, he's been my best friend for two years. And recently he asked me out, we've been going out for about 2 weeks now and our relationship is going great, but there is a problem. My mum won't let me date till I'm...

I just want to know is this wrong?

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13 January 2009 (M) - I am 16 and me and my brother's cousin (my step cousin) really like each other we have not done anything yet. I just want to know is this wrong?...

Tomorow she's going to try to talk to him, and see where her heart lies...

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13 January 2009 (M) - The girl I love is still in love with her ex, and she's going to talk to him, what do I do? (10 Points)!? So tonight we talked on the phone, basically I told her how I felt, I'm in love with her, but right now she's out of a three year relation...

I think I want to break up

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13 January 2009 (?) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 9 months now. Our relationship has its ups and downs- we fight a lot for a while, and then other times we are really content and have no issues. Last month we were really happy, and he wanted to ...

My room mate now likes the same girl as me

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13 January 2009 (M) - six months ago, my life was great. my roommate, his girlfriend, and I were really good friends. and then i met this girl who i really liked. my roommate found out and decided that he would help me out. well, after a while it became less of me trying ...

Her family tells her that her butt is getting bigger

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13 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend doesnt need to diet, waht to do? So basically today she said shes starting a diet, -.- this is dumb on my thought but yah her family has been telling her her butt is getting bigger and she says sometimes her pants are tigher but i do...

She doesn't want to love me

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13 January 2009 (M) - she was in a 3 year realtionship the last year they basically had a revenge realtionship she wud say one thing, and he wud response wotrse and it kept going, over summer they basically both got tired of each other, especially her she was tired of ...

My mom made us break up

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13 January 2009 (F) - Ok well I feel like I'm totally in love with this boy but I'm 13 and he's 15. He told me he loves me and he wanted to meet my mom so she wouldn't b scared about me liking someone older. We r not dating but we were. When we broke up cuz my mom said ...

My mom will never talk to me again if she knew I need birth control! Help!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Please please help me? My boyfriend and I lost our virginity with eachother a few weeks ago. We have sex quite a lot and we haven't had sex without a condom. We ALWAYS use one. There's no way I can raise a baby. We really want to use birth control. ...

Could you try to give me tips or anything that will help me get a boyfriend?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old, and I know most of you adults would probably say wait you'll have plenty of time for boys. But it seems like MOST girls at my school have boyfriends. Its like everyone is paired up. Walk down the ONE hall in my school, and you'll ...

I don't want to lose what we had because of what I did...

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13 January 2009 (M) - My gf and I have just split up after 5 1/2 months. I'm 16 and she's 15 and we're the most serious partners we're ever had for each other. We broke up becuz I wanted to have sex and she didn't want to. Actually she told me no and I said ok then she ...

What does it mean when a guy gets so protective of his phone..??

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13 January 2009 (F) - When he gets a phone call he goes out of the room... even though I can hear that it's his friend's voice, a male's voice... he looks at me to see if I am listening and then goes out of the room.. What is up with that? I don't question him about ...

Trust him... or trust him not?

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hey. Well, Story goes my current boyfriend and I have been dating for a real long time and I still don't trust him. He cheated on me once. He was a real player. But that was years ago. A few years later we got back together. (now dating for a yea...

I heard that you can still have your period and be pregnant... True or false?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I heard that you can still have your period and be pregnant. Is that true? and if so, how long does it take for your period to stop while pregnant?...