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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

At 13, I was traumatized by two men who attempted to rape me! I'm having nightmares now...please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - I was almost rapped by two men when I was 13, and I dont know how to get over it? I cant sleep, so how can I get some sleep without having nightmares?...

I feel like I have a lot of problems, but no one to talk about them with...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Every normal girl can talk to someone. Their mum or their dad or even their sister. Not me. My dad is lovely though. I accidentally wind him up a bit. My sister is only kind to me when she's not on MSN or with her friends or basically never. My ...

I love my girlfriend...but very intrigued with her best friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I am 16 years old and i love my girlfriend very much. But recently I'm feeling strange about her best friend. I think I might be in love with her too. What do I do? I feel like my girlfriend could be my soul mate but then I'm intrigued by the best ...

His Mom blames me for problems she caused. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6711 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I am 15 years old and my boyfriend is 18. His mom likes me sometimes, but then will call and say she dosen't want me near him anymore. She blames me for things that she has actually caused. The only time I can talk to him is when he can sneak a ...

Can a believe my boyfriend, that the condoms were just meant as a joke?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6702 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my bf for about 2 years. A while ago I was trying to find some pens etc in his school bag to do some school work, but instead I found some cardboard all taped up and inside it I found 2 condoms and some lubricant. One of the ...

I told him I fancied another guy to make him jealous but it backfired!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

28 November 2005 (?) - I really like this guy. He is 18 I am 16. He is from Dubai but recently came over to Wales to go to college. I didnt know he liked me at first and i told him i fancied his friend to see if he got jealous. Which he did, then i told him i fancied him ...

My girlfriend hides our relationship at school

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6714 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I'm a 16 year old boy and I've been with my girlfriend for 9 months now. This is my first relationship, my first love that I've ever had. But the problem is, she won't spend time with me at school. She tells me that she doesn't want her cousin (who ...

My 14 year old son lets food pile up in his bedroom-the stench was foul!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I am worried about my 14-year-old son. In his bedroom I had found a load of uneaten sausages and McDonald's burgers, and the stench was so foul I felt sick almost! I asked him why he collected sausages and fast food, and he said that collecting ...

I'm in love with my brother's mate but he already has a girlfriend and she's my mate. I love him so much. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I'm in love with my brothers mate. His girlfriend is my mate and I am 13. My brothers mate is 16 going on 17 and I'm afraid I don't know what to do. I love him so much I would do anything for him. Help me please....

My boyfriend ignores me and treats me badly...but I would do anything for his love and affection. Help!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Im so confused :-( My boyfriend (on and off for 4 years, we are now 17 1/2) has being ignoring me constantly at school, and treating me badly. Im not sure if it is just me being paranoid but it never used to be like this. Things have happened...

Is he flirting? And if he is..does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - hi. i'm 16 and i really fancy this guy. my friends have told me we flirt. since my party we're always poking and smiling at each other. then my friend told me she has seen him staring. and also..when i was getting stressed he sat with me and grab...

He has a crush on me but I still have feelings for the other guy, I broke up with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6725 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Hi I recently broke up with this boy cus he was only going out with me cus he was desperate 4 a girlfriend ! At my school disco I danced with this boy that has a crush on me. he's really sweet but I still have feeling's 4 the over guy !!!!...

He has a girlfriend but wants me...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Please Help. I'm 14 and about 2 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. We hardly ever saw each other. When we broke up I was heart broken, but about a week ago I realized I had to move on, seeing as he had gone out and found himself a girlfrie...

We hug and cuddle a lot but just how physically affectionate should best friends be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Okay...so I'm a teen and i got a crush on my best friend and she knows it..and she was a tease but then she started to kinda stumble too. i mean she doesnt like me like that but it was almost because of the mystery that it made us seem to think of ...

I love this boy from Belgium but he has a girlfriend..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - im a 15 years old and every year for the past three years my family and i have been going to the same hotel every summer and when we first went my family and i made friends with a family from Belguim who go to the same hotel every year. There is a ...

I'm 13 and I'm horny!

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - I need help! Please help me. I feel like I am going to die if I dont have sex. I can't though. I need to know another way to deal with it. Oh yeah, the reason I cant have sex is because I am 13. But no one understands how I feel....

Does this guy want to meet up or not? He doesn't reply to my texts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - I had been seeing a guy for about 6 weeks then all off a sudden he stopped texting me. Then I stopped texting him because he never replied. I found out he was in a car crash. He's fine. Then on 5th November he texted me, asking to meet up. Then he ...

I don't know why I'm no good on the phone when I talk to my girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

24 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and I'm in a long distance relationship. I met my girlfriend on holiday and a week after we was going out. Since then we have been with each other 3 times and we are getting along great, but the problem I'm having is I can't speak to her ...

I have a crush on him and everyone thinks we'd be a great couple, but I'm afraid to ask him out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - I have a big crush on this guy and have done for five months! I have a reputation as being a swot and so does he. Everyone says we would be perfect together. The thing is I am afraid to ask him out! What should I do??? Luv Hannah...

I like this guy, but I resent the fact that he likes me and every other girl, too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I've really liked this guy for a long time, and I'm getting sick of it. I can't seem to get over him. What should I do? We met at church. His sister is my best friend and I happen to live with her, so I see him all the time. I knew he liked me last ...

How can we make things work, when I live 3 hours away from my guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6731 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I've been in the most happiest relationship ever with the lad of my dreams and everything was so well and perfect. Then the other day he started getting annoyed that he had to wait 3 hours to get home, that I live too far away, he has to pay a fiver ...

We used to have sex, but now my gf is scared of getting pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6710 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Hi, me and my gf have been together for 1 year. We are both 16 and we have always had sex often. Now all of a sudden she says she can't because she is scared of getting pregnant. We always use protection and I can't help think she is cheating on me ...

His friends all say he likes me, but does he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - I am 14, and I really like a boy who is in nearly all of my classes. I think he likes me too, but even though my friends all tell me categorically that he does, I just don't know. I don't want to jeapordise our friendship by telling him how I feel, ...

I can't talk to other boys and he just doesn't trust me. How can I make things good between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6714 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - I'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend since I was 14. I thought everything would be perfect. I was besotted and thought we would last forever. We are still together now but everything is going wtong. Our relationship is based on nothing. There is ...

I'm shy and she has a boyfriend, but I want to take her to the prom!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6736 days ago

15 November 2005 (M) - Hi. I'm a 15 year old. A while ago I began to fancy a girl who I have known for a long time but never spoken to. But a few weeks ago I started talking to her online. I have found out a lot about her and we like talking to each other. I also talked ...

I think about girls and boys! What's my sexual orientation?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm a 15 year old female. I'm really confused about my sexuality. One minute im having sexual thoughts about girls then the next it's boys. I've never had a girlfriend, only boys; does this mean im a bisexual?? Please help me!!...

My friend says he's in love with me, but I just don't find him attractive...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi! I was just looking for some advice on the following problem, it's something I've been trying to figure out for a while now. I'm 17, and I have a close male friend who says he's in love with me. Apparently he has felt this way for a few years ...

My boyfriend has to move away and I'm afraid that I'll never see him again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6738 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 years old and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months. Now he has to move too far away from here and I will never see him again. I dunno what to do because he means the world to me. I love him so much. Please help me. ...

How can I check out his interest level in me without risking rejection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - I am 16 and I really like this boy at school. I really get on with him I find him really easy to talk to. I really want to find out if there's a chance that anything might happen but I'm scared of rejection. How should I approach this?...

I want to ask the girl I fancy to be my girlfriend, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

12 November 2005 (M) - I'm 13 and like a girl who is 12. I'm sure she likes me because her friend said she did when we were chatting online altogether (me, the girl I like ("Sarah" from now on) and her friend) among other countless things. The point is, I know she fancies ...

Need kissing tips...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl who is dating the most wonderful guy on the face of the planet. He's 22, and we're both really, really shy... lol! Now, I haven't kissed a lot of people before, and he hasn't actually kissed ANYONE before me... but when w...

Should I go back to the ex I feel strongly about, or stay with my new boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I have a very huge problem. Well my ex-boyfriend is extremely mad at me. We broke up because of some complications, but we were planning on getting back together when I could date again. Well, over time I had feelings for someone else, and I told m...

I'm not ready for sex, but my boyfriend is!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he wants me to have sex with him. I'm not ready to. What should I do?...

What can I do to get Sam to pay attention to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6739 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - There's this really lush lad called Sam that was at my college, but now he's left and gone to this other college! I really really like him and I still see him around. I phone him and that, but he never knows who I am. How can I get him to notice m...

How do I tell if he's interested? And if he is, what do I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Ok, I'm sooo confused about the signals I'm getting from this guy that I have a crush on. So I could use any advice at this point. In one of my college classes I noticed a really cute guy about a month ago. We would glance at each other during ...

I can't stop thinking about the girl in school, even though she's dating someone else...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - Dear cupid, I have a problem in school, well, a love problem. I love this girl to bits in school but she is going out with someone. He is a really horrible and I hate him. But what the problem is, is that I can't stop looking and thinking...

Looking for tips on getting fit without going to the gym...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6737 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - I am a 15 year old. And I don't have access to a gym. I am fit and quite small. How can I build muscle in the house? I do 20 - 40 pressups a day. ijust want toned shoulders and body. Is there any other hints besides situps?...

She wants a break from the relationship, but I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6741 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - hey.. I'm having a very big problem right now. Me and my girlfriend we have been going out for 4 months plus. We just had a big argument, about me being childish and that I always hurt her feelings, when in fact she is the ne who is hurting ...

Should I risk going out with the guy with the reputation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6714 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - Im a 17 year old girl who hasn't really had a boyfriend before and there's this guy at my school who has a reputation for having been out with a LOT of girls. I'm definately attracted to him but many girls are. I get the impression that he wants to...

My boyfriend and I had sex 2 weeks ago. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I'm 15 and I had sex with my boyfriend almost 2 week ago and I've been geting signs of pregnancy, like tiredness, constantly going to the bathroom, eating a lot, getting headaches, and feeling sick. I'm not getting my hopes up or whatever, but I'm ...

Should I date a guy I'm not necessarily attracted to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 17 year old who has never had a boyfriend and only attracts guy I don't find neccessarily attractive or who are jerks. Theres this one guy who I'm not entirely sure I like. I know he likes me but I'm not physically attracted to him...

So many barriers between me and the girl I'm seeing... Should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - I'm 20 years old and recently got dumped by my girlfriend after 3 years. I was pretty cut up but got over it after about a week. I thought she was the only one for me and that I wouldn't find anyone else. However, 1 month later I met a another girl. ...

Talking with her in real life is nothing like the flirty talk we have online...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6743 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, Well, my problem is with a girl. I met her when my mate gave me her e-mail address, and so we IM eachother every night now. The problem (well, one of the problems) is that we hardly ever talk in real life, and when we do it's j...

I'm trying not to drive my 13-year-old daughter's relationship with her 18-yo boyfriend underground!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

4 November 2005 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt, My 13 year old daughter is dating an 18 year old, she's known him since her last year in middle school. He is in the sixform of her new high-school and will be going to university next year. I feel I cannot say anything becau...

I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 22. Soon I can move in with him...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend is a 22 year old man. A lot of people give us problems because we are 7 years apart but the way I look it at, it doesn't matter how old you are, what really matters is the maturity level. We have been together ...

Shy about asking a girl out because she's a mate's sister and she's taller than me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6747 days ago

3 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm a 15 year old teenage boy below average height. I haven't had a girlfriend ever. I have asked someone out and she was supposedly going to date me but my mate asked her and well... Well they broke up 3 times after only 3 weeks. Anyway...

Why is life seeming so pointless?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 12 and I think I am depressed. I just feel life is pointless at the moment. I did feel like this a couple of months ago but I started to get a bit better, but now I have started to think it again and I could almost cry every day. I do not ...

I'm going to visit my online bf in Spain. Should I finish it with him because of the distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6748 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - I've been in a relationship with this boy for just over two months. He's 4 years older than me and the biggest problem is that he lives in Spain. I know it seems stupid but I never felt like this about anyone before. It's really hurting my parents ...

I'm so hung up on the guy from school that I'm starting to feel stalkerish...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - HI, I'm 16 and theres a boy in my sociology class... I think about him all the time. I dream about us kissing and holding hands almost everyn ight. I also talk to him online, but he never replies... does that mean that he doesn't like me? I s...

I really fancy this girl, so should I just come out with it and tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6748 days ago

2 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid... OK this probably sounds stupid, but there's a girl at school I have a mad crush on and want to ask her out badly... I've spent loads of time with her already but I don't know whether to tell her I like her first (as in say 'I really f...