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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I really don't want to get hurt...

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27 January 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a while and I really really like him, I've fallen too deep and that goes against everything I've ever wanted and stand for. When we started for the first 2, 3 months we seen each other all the time like 4 - 5 times...

Am I over reacting? Is it okay to be so realistic about marriage? I really don't want to be naive.

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27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while. When we started dating, I never thought we would be together as long as we have. Well, I had a problem trusting him (needless to say). But I can honestly say I'm madly in love with him. He seems so ...

I get uncomfortable whenever we get close but I'm longing for intimacy.

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27 January 2009 (F) - We've been together for more than a year and a half, never really kissed, I avoid any form of physical contact with him yet I long for some form of intimacy. It's because I get uncomfortable whenever we get close but I completely trust him. I know ...

Is he making excuses or is he just not ready for a relationship?

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27 January 2009 (F) - I'm 13 years old and there's this guy, he is my best mate and I think I love him, the problem is I don't think he feels the same way. I've asked him out but he says he doesn't want me to hate him if things don't work out. I really wanna give it a ...

My boyfriend won't finger me or do anything sexual for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Okay, well my boyfriend and I have now been in a relationship for over 4 months now; I am 17 and he is 18, and we both love each other very much. Yet I'm worried something is wrong because he won't touch me in any way more than touch my breasts. I ...

Why do we like what we do on the opposite sex???

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27 January 2009 (M) - The question to end all questions..... why do we like what we do on the opposite sex??? Why do you guys like boobs or asses legs anything else??? And girls why do you like what you do??? Please and thank you in advance...

I don't understand why my ex still wants to be friends.

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27 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and 2 months, broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself (his family, studies etc). For many of the...

My friend is in trouble... any suggestions what I can do to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I became close friends really quickly with this one girl who has a nine-month old daughter (my friend and I are both turning 19) and she and her boyfriend recently broke up. Now this is the kind of guy that goes crazy under stress. I told her to ...

Stretch mark help?

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27 January 2009 (F) - I have like stretch marks in my boobs and sides and arms and you cant see them unless your really close but its embrassing and I hate my arm being out im not fat but I use to be Im kinda scared because I like doing it with the lights off because of ...

He won't date me because I had a small fling with his friend last summer

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27 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so theres this guy I like, and I've been watching him and I'm positive that he likes me a lot too. So, I asked him out. And he turned me down. See, I had no idea he and this guy I had a bit of a thing for last summer were best friends and ...

She has boyfriend and I love her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Well I met someone and when I first met her it was love at first sight. Unfortunatly she had a boyfriend already. When they broke up I was too shy to ask her to be my girlfriend. Then when I finaly got the guts to ask she already had another ...

I tried a threesome and hated it!

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27 January 2009 (M) - I have had a boyfriend for about 2 years and recently I found out he wants to watch me have sex with another man and he won't feel jealous or anything. We tried to do a threesome but I couldn't do it.. I couldn't stand another person touching my ...

How do I tell him that I don't feel the same way any more?

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27 January 2009 (F) - I have got a new bf and hes a really good guy, we have been together for a few months now. We have been getting on so well up till now. We have been arguing over stupid things, like music, films, even games, if I don't like somthing that he does ...

Is it a bad thing if I can only cum once?

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27 January 2009 (F) - Is it bad if I can only cum once during any sexual activity? I hear most girls can cum a lot more than once during sex, is something wrong with me? After I cum that one time, it gets sensitive down there and doesn't really like to be touched at ...

I Think I may like girls but how do I tell my boyfriend??

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27 January 2009 (F) - Ok so I heard the song by Katy Perry you know the taste of her cherry chapstick and I think I may like girls. Yeah I kissed a girl before or girls and stuff I dont want God to punish me because Im a strong believer in God. So what do I do? Hide the ...

He knows how I feel so why is he still pushing for sex?

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27 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for around 2 months now. When we where friends he didn't want to rush into any thing like sex, he just wanted to take things slow and at a time, he didn't seem like all the other boyfriends that I've been out with, ...

Tips on how to make your eyelashes grow longer?

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27 January 2009 (F) - Does anyone have any tips on how to make your eyelashes grow longer, and quicker? I'm fed up with lash lengthening mascaras cos they end up clumping my lashes together which are short anyway then some fall out when I try and pull the lumps out. I ...

What are the pros and cons of giving a baby up for adoption, and the pros and cons of keeping it?

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27 January 2009 (F) - Ok, I waited until I was 18 before I started having sex with my long term boyfriend of two years. I made that decision, because I did not want to leave any burden upon my parents if I was to become pregnant. My now fiance and I plan on marrying in ...

I want to feel my girlfriend's boobs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Hey I was just wandering I'm still a virgin and I've never felt boobs. What do they feel like and what would be the best way to feel my girlfriend's tits that would make her happy?...

Would I hurt a girl with the size of my penis?

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27 January 2009 (M) - Hi I am 16 years old and I am still a virgin and I want to know... I have a penis a little over 7 inches long and about 5.5 inches in circumference. Is that big and would I hurt a girl by having sex? Thanks...

Guidance needed please...

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27 January 2009 (F) - Okay, this may sound really really confusing but I'm just looking for a little guidance. I am female and a senior in high school. Up until this point, I have had no real relationships, which makes me feel almost like something is wrong with me be...

It's really over and now it's hurting so much.

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27 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up. I'm so hurt. I really fell in love with him. I know I'm young and I never thought I could fall in love this young and share my feelings so strongly with another person but this boy was amazing. We were so close and ...

My friend and this guy are being total assholes!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - So I really love this guy and my best friend or I mean who was my best friend is now going out with him and that really fricken hurts me like you would not believe!! But I don't know if he does but I don't think that he really likes her, I think he ...

Who needs men right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Oh boy so the big question of what do I do? I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me?? But what I would say is just ask him out. The worst he could do is say no but you never know maybe he actually likes you or he will be shocked that you ...

Every time my teacher smiles my heart skips a beat

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27 January 2009 (F) - i love my teacher, i know what your thinking, but this is seriously the real thing. He is double my age, im 14, and when i'm at school i go out of my way to see him. Everytime he smiles at me my heart skips a beat. He flirts and he told me i was his ...

I broke up with my g/f but its killing me!

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27 January 2009 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend and it is killing me but i dont let it show. I didnt want to but i felt like god told me to, and i did. I have suspicions on her cheating on me but ill never know, im hurt by all this, i am sure its for the best. She ...

What do you think is wrong with me? I feel so run down...

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27 January 2009 (F) - I am always extremly tired, I bruise very easily and bleed from my stools and am very moody over the littlest thing lately. This has been happening for a month. Can anyone give me suggestions as to what this might be. Of the top of your head or by ...

How can I hint at her to give me a blow job?

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27 January 2009 (M) - Hey, I recently started fingering my girlfriend and was just wondering what I could say to get her to start giving me bj's. Weve talked about it lightly and she said she would rather give bj's than handjobs. I kinda think it's fair that she sh...

I don't wanna be seen as coming between best friends.

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27 January 2009 (M) - I am very much in love with my boyfriend however there are a few things which really upset me and I don't know how to approach him on these issues as I don't want to lose him. He would rather go out with a load of people and get drunk on valenti...

Is there any way that I can prevent myself from falling for him again?

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27 January 2009 (F) - I've always been the type of girl to fall for a guy pretty easily. The thing is, recently I have been hooking up with one of my best guy friends, who also happens to be my ex who I was in love with. I know that he really liked me, but he never truly ...

Period problems... caused by the morning after pill?

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27 January 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend ended up getting her period yesterday which made us both super relieved but there is a problem, after a while she stopped bleeding and now she's not bleeding for a while. Could this be because of her illness or because of the ...

My gf played spin-the-bottle and kissed 7 people in a night. Now I am confused....

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27 January 2009 (M) - How would you feel if your girlfriend kissed 7 people in a night ? Well that what my girlfriend did and i feel very bad on that and it was a spinning bottle game and i felt like people who play that just don't pay respect to their selves and righ...

I'm scared he's going to cheat on me (maybe with a girl?)

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27 January 2009 (M) - I recently foundmy perfect boyfriend, and although it doesn't seem long we are celebrating 3 weeks together tomorrow. However pleased I am (as normally people get sick of me by now) I am sometimes worried as I think he is going to dump me at ...

Chocolate shop in UK that does engraving for a cake?

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27 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i need some help for my bf's birthday i want to get his face engraved in chocolate by a professinal.. Howver, i cant seem to find people who do it even though i've searched the net doesanyone know of someone or a chocolate shop that does in the ...

Ever since we got caught having sex we argue about stupid stuff

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27 January 2009 (F) - I feel like i'm losing my boyfriend. We met on holiday and i just fell in love with him and ever since then we spend hours on the phone every night and meet up with each other when we can. The last time i saw him we got caught having sex by his...

Do girls like being stared at?

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27 January 2009 (M) - I stare at cute girls practically all the time... do they find it perverse/repulsive or does it make them feel good?...

I texted my boyfriend, but he didnt answer

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27 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i texted my bf last night saying whats up but i got no answer. i started to worry like...does he not want to talk to me, is he ignoring me, and stuff like that. Do you think he probably forgot to check his phone or his phone is dead and ...

How do I impress her without looking like a dork??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and I like a girl at school who is the girl of my dreams and I can't stop thinking about her. She has almost got a boyfriend and they seem to be getting closer and closer. He's got that "killer smile" and I need braces. He's good at ...

I like this guy but we have absolutely nothing in common.

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27 January 2009 (F) - I like this guy but we have absolutely nothing in common. I hate the music he listens to, the books he reads.(all that stuff) and to top it off his friends dont like me. What do I do?...

I hate condoms, will mini pill protect me?

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27 January 2009 (?) - ok so i have been with this amazing boy an we have started to have sex .. it has been both of our first time. i hate using condoms and we never use them and i think it feels way better wit out them. i am on the mini pill for period pains and spots ...

Date wants to see a scary movie and I don't like them!

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27 January 2009 (F) - i asked out this guy to the movies and he said yes.but he whats to see a scary movie and i dont like scary movies (i still have nightmares after seeing the ring 5 years ago)but i dont what to tell him that.like ill go see it but i really dont what ...

Lovemaking is painful for my girlfriend

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27 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been sexually active for 4 or 5 months now, we've probably had intercourse 15 - 20 times. She told me today that every time we've done it, she feels pain - she still wants to do it, because sometimes it feels good or she ...

How to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me or if he's single. He says things like "we have so much in common" and jokingly "you're the most exciting person I have ever met" so I don't know if I should ask him out or even how to?...

After sex does he still want the same thing?

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27 January 2009 (F) - so here's the thing... i've known this guy for about a year now, but we just started "talking" about 6 months ago. and ever since then we have only hungout about 5 times. it was nothing big, no intimate contact was involved just hanging out and ...

Was what I did wrong?

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27 January 2009 (M) - well my best friend is dating this girl that i really liked and he knew it to. then one day she had enough with him and she wanted a break but she wanted me to tell him that didn't though. so after school me and my best friends ex where alone and ...

I look at bad pictures on the internet

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27 January 2009 (F) - I need some serious help. I'm not sure how to put this so i'll just come out and say it. I look at bad pictures on the internet. I've never meant to start looking at them, it's just there's certain images, and i can't believe what i'm seeing, that i ...

Missed period has me concerned

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27 January 2009 (F) - Im in 8th grade and have had my period since 7th. I've never had a normal week, so i go off last months week. This month we have 5 days left and i still haven't gotten my period. I do have stomach pain and cramps like normal. I have not been ...

Why did my GF stop while tossing me off to reply to her text message?!

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27 January 2009 (M) - I was gettin tossed off by my girlfriend other week and about 10 seconds during, she got a text and stopped... Why? We could have perfectly carried on and got down to more.... Maybe she wants to reply to texts more than you know Haha. Anyway... why ...