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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

She doesn't want to have sex cause she thinks I'm too young

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - hey, i'm 15 and my gf's 16. The problem I'm having is that she doesn't want to have sex cause she thinks I'm too young, but I've already had sex and she knows but she still thinks I'm too young, what do i do?...

Can I be fined for my first offence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - This has nothing to do with relationships or anything like that... I just had a serious question. I got a ticket today for the first time. This was my first offence. The officer who gave me the ticket didn't tell me it was a warning or anything. He ...

My jealousy is killing our relationship I can see it but I can't do nothing about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have a problem with jealousy. I have a boyfriend and we're dating for 2 years and I still can't believe him. My jealousy is killing our relationship I can see it but I can't do nothing about it. I'm jealous when he goes out with friends ...

Does he seriously want me back? Or like my friends said, Is he just lonely for now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend brkoe up with me about 2 weeks ago. We only went out for 2 months, but this breakup hurt me espeically since it was my first serious relationship after a bad experience. (My ex-boyfriend hit on one of my friends and lied to me when I ...

Any info about the morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'd like some info on the morning after pill... I took Levonelle at the beginning of this month after the condom broke and my bf came inside me. I took the pill within 4 hours of this happening. I read up on it and it said there was a 95% ...

I was wondering if when a boy teases a girl, does it ALWAYS necessarily mean that they like the girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I was wondering if when a boy teases a girl, does it ALWAYS necessarily mean that they like the girl? Or can a boy just be naturally annoying. Because there's a boy in my class who always gets up in my face and just says little things to me ...

I'm in love with a female teacher, I'm female too, what to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - When i was in year 8 I had a teacher for english. although i hated her then she grew on me. although she isnt my teachwer anymore i still see ehr everyday in school. she is always nice to me and she makes my stomach flip and my heart beat faster ...

How do I let her know that this isn't just grabbing dinner again as friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl a lot and it's pretty casual, we hang out and talk about a lot of stuff but we also casually hook up a lot.friends with benefits kind of... The other day I asked her if I could take her out on a date on the weekend and ...

I want to keep our relationship a secret but he wants to tell everyone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Please help as soon as possible please. Well the thing is, i have a boyfriend and i do love him so much, but the thing is its a secret relationship and he has told a lot of people and he's making it dead obvious by putting it on his msn name tha...

What do you honestly think about a girl who fools around with her friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - hi ok im looking for answers to two questions to see how they differ, please answer both honestly ... 1)what do you think about a girl who fools around with her best guy friend? by fools around i mean that he fondles her breasts, and she gives hi...

I need some (non-abusive) abortion advice, please.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I guess i am remaining anon because i am ashamed... Im 16 soon 17 in my first year of college studing for my A levels live a life with good people in it such as my friends and a very lovely boyfriend. Ive been with my boyfriend for a few months now...

In love with a female teacher and sinking into depression.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with a female teacher at my school. I kno I can never be with her, I've accepted that, but it doesn't change anything. I'm finding it impossible to move on. I spend every moment of my day thinking about her, and ways to bump into her...

He's amazing but he's a total manwhore, what do I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - k to start off, i'm 17 (grade 11) and my boyfriend's name is kris, he's in grade 10 (16) but verrrrry cute:) i think he's amazing, basically perfect. since he's extremely popular, amazingly hot, a gentlemen, good listener, caring and the whole pa...

On the pill and I'm getting lower back pains and lower stomach pains every day.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I've been on the pill for about 2 months now and I've since noticed lower back pains and lower stomach pains every day. I've only ever missed my pill once and that was in the first pack and I still came on so I highly doubt I'm pregnant. Is this ...

Its different tonight and I want her to know I feel that way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl a lot and its pretty casual, we hang out and talk about a lot of stuff but we also casually hook up a lot.friends with benefits kind of... The other day i asked her if i could take her out on a date on the weekend and ...

Why won't he talk to me online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - why isnt my boyfriend talkin to me yes i know hes just someone online but i really love him . the past 3 days he hasnt been talkin to me b4 dat his comp wasnt workin for about a month or somethin wen i contacted him again he was fine but then i sent ...

How can I make her appreciate and love me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - Hello, i've been with a girl for over 15 months and recently we split up. I used to pratically live over there and seen her almost every day for 15 months. During this time I grew a mass of feelings for her, we even nearly had a child. Due to me...

Should I send him a message apologising for my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I was upset with my online man cause he wasn't acting the same then my best friend got really upset and sent him a message saying I was crying for him and that if he cared about me he should talk to me. I told her not to send any messages to him and ...

Friend... or boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I am 19 and he was my classmate. We became very close recently. We will send messages and phone each other almost every day. It is starting to become a habit. I know something is not right about us. I don't think normal friends do that. But our ...

She broke my heart and all I want is to help her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - So, my most recent girlfriend just broke up with me, she says it's because of the distance, she lives 5 hours away, but the distance has never really bothered me, and now she's very very depressed, she's started cutting herself, I still love her, ...

What can we do to stop fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - Well thanks to all that gave me wonderful advice. :) but I have another question... Okay well I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15 and we have been together for seven months now and we have a lot of problems. We always seem to fight. So my question is how ...

Do you think this relationship could ever work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - ok so there is this girl in my class who is probably the most perfect thing in this world..popular, athetic, beautiful, super religious, super nice, great everything and we are in the same class together. we have said hello and stuff and talked ...

My horrible story please read

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - im 13. ive suffered from 2 server addictions. one-cutting two-over doseage of pills. anti-depresents. i want to share my story and tell some luckier people what its like to b 13 and have a bad life. It all started in 7th gade when some 18 yearold ...

Is he for real or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I really like this guy, we both DJ and we're are both Aquarius's. When we lay in bed it feels like were one and the world could end around us but we would never notice. He brings me over to his friends house and when we are together he makes me feel ...

Should I give her another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - for what happened the second time this is the link i ended up giving her another chance but im not sure if i should give her another. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-really-dont-understand-her-actions.html well anyway when i first met her sh...

Torn between the two--which one to chose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I like two guys. One was my best friend i was in love with him he didnt like me we hung out alot and i thought he liked me but i saw him kissing another girl the other is another friend he is like perfect. i just transfered out of school...

What does birth control actually do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (?) - ok,, idont understand..please explain to me what does birth control actually do for a girl.. and whats the difference between an abortion ??...

My g/f is sad but we don't talk about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - Hello i need help, me and my gf have been dating for 2 months now, and now she is sad and she says its something that she doesnt remember but every time she forgets it she feels it in her heart. When i called her she talk abt it and then she got ...

I don't know if he has a crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - ok, there is this one guy at my school, he is 15 and im 13 (dont question this just answer i know what yall think about 13 and 15 year olds in 8th grade) and we live in the same neighbor hood ok? so me him and my cousin hang out all the time i used ...

How should I talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - hello to everyone! k my problem okay its not really a problem, There is this boy in my global studies class and he has this mysteries arua to him that draws me in. Every time we speaks he amazes me. He has so much to say about everything and he ...

Struggling between my b/f and an older man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my boyfriend whom I've been with about a year and a half or so, and it's perfect together. but recently i've acquired this gradual adoration for an older man that i work with. im 17, and this man is 37- but we click! all day we talk ...

I miss her so much I break into tears

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - hi, i was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions to my current situation. About 6 months ago i met this gorgeous young lady from italy who i immediately fell for, but the problem is she lives in italy and i cant stand being without her now ...

How could I flirt and win his heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hello, ohkay so my crush used to flirt with me like crazy. But now he is kind of with another girl. butthey arent goinq out or anything. but he said he loved her to death. however, sumtimes he acts like he likes me nd ill explain later. but ...

Possible sexaholic

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22 January 2009 (M) - Alright, so I've been wondering lately if it's possible I'm a sexaholic. My girlfriend is a psychologist and she seems to think we both may be. The only thing that makes me wonder if it's not the case is that we both remain faithful to one ...

Red rash all over hands

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Just a quicky, i regularly get this red rash all over by hands in some areas its solid red and in other areas blotchy. i have ecxema do you recon its just my excema playing up (i'm awfully sorry i can't spell excema/ecxema?!?) it isn't itchy, it ...