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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Does he truly love me, or is he with me because I do stuff to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 135 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - this is my 4th bf but his the only guy that actully kiss me...then well we started to play around. taking our clothes off but we just touch each other we don't do more than that is that natural in a relationship he tells me he loves me but ...

I've dumped my boyfriend once before and regreted it. I don't want to make the same mistake again for a guy that comes off as a player.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm 14 and I had this friend for a while. We dated for a few weeks and I gave into peer pressure and dumped him. We became best friends but I regretted it everyday of my life for about 7 months, when we started dating again. We've been dating for 2 ...

I'm 11 and think I'm pregnant! help

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - im 11 and i think im pregnant ive had sex once a week ago my friends wont get me a test and im really scared what do i do? help!!!...

How can I deal with this? My stepmom won't let me have extended visits with my mom anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Last night I was watching TV and when I had to go to bed I saw my favorite show was on, so I decided to watch it, when it was done I went upstairs to find my stepmom watching me. Because she knew I didn't go to bed, I got in trouble, and now she ...

She's a great friend, but I feel like she'll eventually drag me down along with her, please help me out here.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - This isn't a sex question or anything..but I seriously am confused. Please help me out :( I'm a bit lost as to what to do about a certain friend. You see, we're pretty close. She's one of the more genuine friends that I have, and probably the...

Any suggestions as to helping me sort out these problems I have with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's a few problems: 1: She has some body issues. She wears baggy clothing. (She thinks she's fat and she's not). 2: Trust issues. (Thinks I'm cheating - which I'm not) All because most of my fr...

When I like someone, my old shyness problem awakens again. Why can't I be myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Well i thought i had dealt with this problem, and i have for the most part, but when i like someone my old shyness problem awakens again. And because of this anyone i like - i cant act normal and like myself around because of how i lock up. But this...

He's like a chav, but he's also like a real gentleman, and I really like him. I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Well this is a big story sort of lol. Well i am 13. I like this boy who is in year 9. He has been out with girls my year but i really like him. He is like a chav but is also like a real gentleman. I really like him and i think about him everyday...

All 3 fancy me, so which one do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - well basically ive known these three guys since primary school till now, and we've all been good friends. All three of them fancied me at some stage in primary school but i have found out over the last couple of weeks that they all still do. proble...

I'm heartbroken. I want to confront him about what I discovered, but I don't want him to know how I found out. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for only like a month. i have fallen pretty hard for him. everything about him is perfect to me...and everything always seems to fall into place. the other day he lost his cell phone and i found it today at my house. I...

He talked me into sending him pictures of me in my underwear, I promised myself I wouldn't and I did. Now I feel stupid and used!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - Hey. I know that when you read this you'll think Im stupid, naive and easily led, but I know this already and Im so full of regret at what Ive done. Basicly, I know a lad (we're friends), he is two years older than me. I knew I should stay away from ...

Are tampons or pads better for periods?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hey I was wondering r tampons or pads better for periods? I was going to try using a tampon for the first time, but the instructions said only use it if it's a moderate period. I happen to be having a heavy period. I'm afraid to use tampons though, ...

My friend asked the boy I fancy if he loves me; I will took to him soon, what shall I say to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'd like to begin by saying thankyou to those who are going to help me with my current predicament and if you need any help i will be there for you also! i love this guy. i have for three years. and i know some would think i'm to young to know lo...

I may have developed feelings for my boss who is flirty and has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I am 18 and have recently started working in a bar. My boss is very flirty and keeps making suggestive remarks. However he is in his 40's and has a girlfriend. I'm not sure if he is just being friendly or is like this with everyone else, he doesn...

She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...

He had an orgasm on top, but not inside of me, what are the odds of pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - about 6 days agot me and my boyfriend had sort of unprotected sex. hehad an orgasm on top of my vigina but not inside what are the chnces that im pregnant?...

I'm self-conscious about my body, I'm afraid that when we have sex he'll tell his friends about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm self concious of my body and am scared to have sex for the first time because i fear that he won't like my body and will tell all his friends about it. Are guys usually like this. please help!...

I get self concious around girly girls, and I sometimes feel like my boyfriend wants me to be more feminine. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - hello! so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now. we're close and all so it's all good. but i am so self conscious. like i'm a tom boy i guess. i'm not a girly girl at all and i don't wear girly stuff. it's just not me and i do...

How can I talk to my girlfriend and be closer to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - hi i am 14 and my gf is 13. we have been dating 4 a year and a half now. i realy love her. but this summer we have talked about 3 times. wat do i do to be more closer to her. and wat do i say to her. she likes alot of thigs so just give me a topic ...

Will losing my virginity help my self confidence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I'm 16 in a few days. I always feel lonely and lost even if I have a girlfriend. I guess I just feel different from everyone else. Maybe it's a self-confidence thing. Does anyone think that losing my virginity will help this a little? I mean, I want ...

How can I do something nice for my grandma to stop her stressing out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, My problem doesn't have anything to do with sex or anything, its about my grandma. I love my grandma so much and she's sooooo stressed out I'm 17 and she's like my best friend. Im scared that she's gonna pass away from all the stre...

The guy I like is five years older than me and flirts a lot, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - here it is. I am falling in love with the guy who is 20, and I am 15, well the age difference isnt my biggest conserne. what realy makes me sad, that he is a very cocky person, he isnt mean to me, and doesnt put me down, but i see him do that with...

I know she cheated, but I don't know what to do, is this a waste of my time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I am completely in love with my gilfriend. We were just friends for 5 months or so and we've been dating for about 6 months now. I cant tell if my girlfriend really loves me, or if she just playing me. She always talks about how hot other guys are, ...

My g/f has trust issues because most of my friends are girls. It's so annoying!.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's one problem, she has some body issues (she wears baggy clothing) and trust issues (thinks 'im cheating - which i'm not) all because most of my friend are girls, It's annoying. ...

How can I get to know the guy from the pub?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hi I really like a guy in my local town and he goes down to the pub alot with some of his guy friends... but i dont really know him and he doesnt know me..? how can i get to know him, my friend knows him and she is trying to play matchmaker and s...

Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers when you're only 13?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers? I am 13 and I have quite a few friends who are teachers, I sometimes have lunch with them, I have some of their e-mail addresses and even get hugs off them. They joke around with me and they...

He hasn't said he loves me the last couple times we said goodbye. Is he out of love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Okay I know you may think I'm a stupid school girl, but I'm a stupid school girl that'd rip her heart out if it would mean not letting him get hurt. My problem is I think I'm over re-acting, my boyfriend usually tells me he loves me when he says ...

I'm 14 and find it hard to converse with my family. Can anyone help me out please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - im 14 and when i have to talk to my family i really dont no what to say. it ends up to be an awkard scilence whenever im in a room alone. well im going to my auntys for the day tomorrow and im scared that im gonna not know what to say. what shall i ...

I'm 8 months pregnant and he is calling other girls on line the pet names he calls me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i think my boyfriend is cheating on me im 8months pregnent and i dont know what to do. he left his myspace screen up and i went in took a look in his messages he's calling these other girls baby and sexy and tells them that their fine and it hurts ...

I am 14, he is 35, we met online, and in person, I was forced to do something I did not want to, I have tried to end contact with him, I am very afraid, what should I do?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Hey im 14 and a few weeks ago i met a guy online who was 35. He was really nice to talk to and i've never had a father around so it was conforting to find a father like figure to talk to. Well a few days ago i went to meet him in person, he took me ...

How can I deal with knowing I can't see my mother till Christmas (my parents are divorced)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - I'm 13 going to be 14 soon, but when I was 3 my parents got a divorce, and now my mom lives 6 hrs away and I only see during holidays and this summer I stayed with her for 3 weeks and i returned a few days ago. but as soon as I said good bye I just ...

She sees me more than she sees her boyfriend, the gift and the way she talks about him makes me wonder if she likes me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Posted the first part before, at here, under the title - "I don't want to interfere if he makes her happy, but I don't know how much longer he will keep it up.": http://www.dea...

I am not sure I ever had an orgasm though we have a very active sex life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - my fiance and i have been together fo 2 1/2 years now and we have a very active sex life, but i'm not sure if i've ever had an orgasem. i dont know what one is he is the first person i ever had sex with so i dont know when i get one iv'e also heard ...

He left me to get back with his ex, he says he still loves me yet he isn't returning to me, I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - sorry it's so long im 16 years old an i need some advise. u see, i have just recently come out of a relationship with L, he is 20 we were datin for 3 months an i fell in love with him it all started about a month ago when he said we need a b...

How can I not be shy around my cousin who is a boy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - How can i not be shy around my cousin who is a boy?...

I can't get a boyfriend and I don't know why....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I'm 15. Living in London, UK. And at this day and age people have all been in a relationship. Everyone at my school started going out with people in year 7. It didn't last, but they had relationships starting from year 7 onwards. Im going into y...

My girlfriend dumped my. Should I give up or try to get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - So i went out with this girl for 5 months. She was great and we thought we were in love. Then she broke up with me. I still have feelings for her and she doesnt even want to know about me anymore. I cant get her out of my mind. Shold i let her go or ...

I want to go out with my good friend my age but two grades behind me in school. How can I ask without risking losing his friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - there's this guy I've known since I was really little. We're best friends. He even lives just across the street from me! See, my problem is that he's a little less than a year younger than me. But he's 2 grades below me! I think he likes me... AL...

How do I ask a friend for a date? I'd like to get involved, but I'm afraid of losing him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i really, reallly like this guy, but he's a pretty good friend of mine. i'm worried that if i tell him or ask him out and he doesn't return my feelings, he'll pull away from me. also, his friend told me he liked me, but i have no idea if he was ...

I'm 13 and want a baby... but why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i'm 13 and i want to have a baby but i don't feel unloved my mom and my friends would do anything they could to help me why do i still want a baby so badly?...

It has been a crazy friendship for years, but I do have feelings for her. I don't know if I should try to be with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - hey there's this girl i've known all of my life. but its been a bit of a crazy friendship, but we were really close. u see we grew up and went to school together until i was in 6th grade, cuz i had left that school. we soon lost cantact with each ...

Will he think my love poem is creepy, or cute? Should I show it to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I wrote this tonight. It's about a guy that I really like. I am fourteen and he's seventeen. When we met we clicked right away, I am falling for him, and I know that he is too, but he thinks the age difference is a big concern. Should I show ...

How can I get over this mindset and realise relationships can be enjoyed more than being a source of anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Why are relationships so hard? I find myself thinking about relationships and getting all these weird feelings. Now I'm in a relationship and have been dealing with so much insecurity and anxiety from my part. I also see other troubled couples...

He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...

It hurts when I masturbate for more than two minutes. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - how long do u masterbate for i do it for like 2 mins then it strts hurtn so cnt do it anymore is thisc normal ??...

I'm 14, should I suggest to my girlfriend that we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - i'm 14 and i really feel the need of having sex with my girlfriend (she's 15), though i'm not sure she would want to (they say boys want it more than girls do)...but i really do. i really really love her and its been about a year since we started ...

What else I can do to please him besides blowjobs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend but i dont really know how to please him. all i ever do is give him blowjobs. he doesn't complain but i know he feels something about the situation. i want to know what else i can do to please him besides blowjobs. ...

I'm 14, catholic, & want to have a baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - well i'm 14 and reallllly want to have a baby. i want to be married and, 5 months pregnant right now. i have babysat a lil a baby before but so i know its not a walk in the park. and i know they refuse to sleep and cry and stuff and im catholic so ...

Do men in relationships want to have sex with other women? How much and how often?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - How much do guys in a relationship want to have sex with other females? I'm curious. I don't ever get the urge to have sex with some other guy. I wonder if it's the same for men? Today I was telling my boyfriend how weird it'd be for me if he was...

Is it wrong to be attracted to my third cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Ok, so i have a problem that might sound weird.. I like my third cousin, and she likes me. I've never known her until we met a few months ago, our families don't even really know each other its only that my mother is a family genealogy expert...