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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

I'm 15 and infatuated with a thirtysomething guy. What should I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - For years now there is this guy who i have loved and every time i see him i love him but (theres always a but) i personally don't know him and he is older (much older) than me. I am 15 years old and he is i would say 30+...He works in this sh...

Should I have sex ASAP? Or wait next till forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hello all, I asked a question on here a while ago about a girl that had only a tendency to date "douchebag" guys, and now she's mine 3 yay! But someone incepted (planted an idea in my head, nerd reference) me recently.. Last night me and my girlfr...

How can I stop this "urge"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - This is a really weird thing to ask and talk about to me but how do you stop an "urge" to want to have sex. I went to my BF's house the other day and he said that he wanted to do something to make me happy and kept saying a bunch of other thi...

Should I be angry that my boyfriend isn't introducing me to his family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - so my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months and he wants to go to his family but he doesnt ask me to go with him because he said he already knows i wouldnt be able to go. he has met people in my family that i have never even met. i think ...

How can I make friends with girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hi I am 17 and I am shy. I don't have confident because i cant speak English fluently. How can i make friends with girls? I really want to start a relationship but i just don't have any female friends. My class has no girls, I am in male canoeing...

I don't want to like this guy because I am still trying to move on from my last crush! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - For the last couple of months I had the biggest crushed on (bob) he was the best guy and my ideal guy. He has a gf and I don't wanna mest that up. So two days I went camping and I was talking to a guy I thought was cute since last year but didn't ...

The guy I like is flirting with my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Hi I usually don't do things like this but I truly just want someone's help. You see I REALLY like this guy in my school. He's one of my bestfriends and I am positive I don't want to let this go, I want to somehow be with him. The problem is for a ...

Do I keep ignoring my ex and try to move on, or should I text her back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - So me and my ex broke up about a month and a half ago after 2 yrs together, and she started dating someone else a month after we broke up,which REALLY hurt me,but instead of freaking out about it,i told her that i still wanted to be friends with ...

I'm bi-curious and my friend thinks I like her but I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Im bi-curious and im kind of confused. My friend at school found out im bi and now she thinks i have a crush on her. I tend to talk to her nervously because shes one of those people you shouldnt say or do anything weird near, as she is in on and ...

I have feelings for my female friend, but I don't know how to tell her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - hello... well, it appears that i have got myself into a really really annoyingly stupid situation. see. i like a girl. a lot. she's amazing and funny and too polite and kind. and we have a banter going about a lot of things, mainly about les...

He's my best friend, but I think I love him. Should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend. I know he likes me back because we always hug and everything. I don't wanna tell him cause I think it will ruin our friendship and I don't wanna lose that but I can't stop thinking about him. Should I tell him I love ...

My girlfriend still wants more after I finish. What do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - my girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive, and once i 'finish' she still wants more. what do i do?...

Only the creepy ones seem attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I had my first boyfriend when I was 16. I am 17 now. He turned out to be a creep 'cause he was wayyyy more interested in my body than me as an actual person. I am no longer looking for a relationship, and rarely give anybody any hints that I wan...

Confused about being friends with my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - hey everyone and sorry if this is a bit long: me and my ex went out for just over 8 months, things were good , only had one arguement in that time. however one day he decides to just tell me he's met someone else ( basically broke up) i obv was ...

Ex has just broken up with his girlfriend. How can I get him back without being pushy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I need some help on how to get my ex boyfriend back. Him and his girlfriend just broke up and he's heartbroken. I'm trying to give him some space but I still wanna be there for him and spend time with him. How can I do this without being pushy? I ...

What is going on with my boyfriend? He is confusing me so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - He hasn't called me in 48 hours almost and I don't know what is going on. Last time I actually spoke with him, he got off the phone after 10 minutes saying his mom wanted to speak to him, and he hasn't called back since even though he said he would. ...

I thought he liked me at first, but now I am not so sure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - A few weeks ago I went to university a few times to sign in and to look around, and every time I was there, I met this guy randomly he started talking to me asking me lots of questions. He seemed really interested. He told me he is from Paris. I ...

I like him, and I think he might like me too, but I'm not sure! help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (?) - I recently met this boy (past few weeks) and I am beginning to really like him. He's very shy and quiet or at least he seems to be, occasionally I see another side to him. Anyway we started talking fairly regularly (in person and facebook). ...

He said goodbye to me, but then told me I hadn't seen the last of him...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - So, I've had a crush on my best friend for about 5 years. When I first started liking him he went out with my best friend at the time and she told him that I liked him. But I never knew he knew. Anyway he forgot all about it and recently we've been...

I want to go to this dance, but my mum won't let me. Should I lie about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I want to go to a teenage disco which my other two best friends have gone to, they said it was class. Its June now and the one for school finishing is on this Friday the 3rd, though my parents wont allow me till the one on halloween and I'm not ...

I love (?) my best friends older brother. There, I said it. With a 5 year difference, I don't stand a chance with him, do I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - So I've lived next door to the "smiths" for 5 years (summer before 5th grade) and the two daughters Hannah (15) and Lydia (17) are my best friends ever and their younger brother Eli (13 but pretty mature) is also a good friend of mine too, anyways, ...

How do we mend our suddenly strained longterm relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey there, I need your advice. (Sorry in advance if I add a bunch of random details.) My boyfriend and I have been having a pretty rough few weeks. We just haven't been getting along. We've been together for almost two years, and we've only ever ...

On-line friend suddenly cut contact, but I'm still talking to her brother and want to visit their family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - So i'm in a little bit of a pickle. I am nearly 17 years old in July and i need support on an idea/decision i have made. I have been friends with my "online friends" for about 2 years. I live in Scotland, "tamara" lives in London and "Suzi" lives...

The future holds... holds what for us? I'm so conflicted and uncertain!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I feel so conflicted I'm not sure where to start, I'm in a relationship with a girl I'm certain could be the love of my life, we love eachother so much, we talk about anything, we're happy, but there's one thing we can't figure out: the future....

Any good health tips, anyone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi. I am 14 and this summer my goal is to be fit. It's not so much as losing weight as it is about becoming healthy. I want to have nice skin and a nice, healthy body. I've been doing research about vitamins I can take such as fish oil, vitamin E, ...

Falling for my best friend but my heart loves another too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - hey there im stuck in a mess with my best friend and my heart ive been in love with someone for 3years but dosent know, my best friends dose me and him have got very close and the more im with him the more i like him, the problem is should i...

My boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level and have oral sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Ok, I really need some help. So me and my boyfriend have been dating over almost a year now. We are closer to each other than anyone else, and everyone knows it too. We were bestfriends before we started daying and had known each other for two ...

Why would he lie about ending the relationship with this other girl if we were already dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend used to be in an open relationship when we stared giong but he told me he wanted to settle down and have a serious relationship with me, after he told me he had dumped her we spended around a month just dateing and he slept with two ...

Is it normal to have such an amazing day with an amazing guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - so, me and my boyfriend had an amzing day yesterday. it's not often that i get to hangout with him unless it's at my house. so, when i got to hang out with him yesterday, we could do anything. it felt like we could travel to the moon. so, we went on ...

I'm afraid he'll become more than friends with his childhood pal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 3 years, before our 2 years anniversary, a messed up situation occured between us and I know most relationships encounter this problem. It's not cheating, but we broke up and a friend of mine asked him to hang out ...

I am only attracted to older men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi. I am only attracted to older men and that's not an exaggeration. For an attraction to be there there has to be a mature age (40-50). I have tried going out with guys my own age and I just was never turned on or excited by them. If I am with an ...

I want to do something for him to show him how much I love and appreciate him...Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys - I need some ideas for something special I can do for my boyfriend. We're both sixteen and have been together a long while; we're happy I guess but recently it hasn't been quite so ... I dunno, nothing's wrong but I think we've been a bit ...

I don't like how she handles arguments!

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29 May 2011 (?) - Im dating this 1 girl for 5 months now and the first couple of months, she was amazing and loving towards me but i guess after some time she has changed so much, i really dont know what to do. She has been the girl of my dreams. When ever t...

My boyfriend has flunked the last year at school. should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year, i love him so much and i think he still has some feelings for me BUT the problem is for the past week he has been ignoring me....i was curious to know why then i found out he got grounded ...

Last night I danced with a guy, I really like him... but I've got a boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I really need some advice for this problem. Ok so i have a boyfriend of almost 3 months now. Hes a great guy, whose sweet and funny and cute.(IRONIC i had ended with my ex to go with him, because my ex was being a jerk) However ...

I saw my ex smile and kiss his new girl, and even though I have a new boyfriend now, my heart dropped. If they break up, I know he will come to cry on my shoulder....Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend split up a while ago now, and i am now with another boy that is treating me like I'm the only girl in his world! if he think I'm upset he'll ring me straight away, the biggest smile ever comes on his face when he sees me walking ...

He patronizes me, and doesn't take it seriously when I try to talk to him about it! Is the respect gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - So I'll give you the background, I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half and for the most part everything has been great, it's been since we've started our GCSE's that problems have been arising, mostly because of my absolute ...

Confused about her signals. Does she like me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Me [18] and my college friends have recently started clubbing, and a friend of a friend called Rosie has joined us. I quite like her, and suspect she likes me. She laughs at unfunny jokes and 'brushes' against me whenever she can, holds my hands to ...

Could my environment make me gay??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - i am 16 years old, when i was 13, i liked girls very much, i imagined sexual fantasy with girls. but now, after i entrance to high school, high school for men, just men, in this school there are no girls.. i start imagine sexual fantasy with boy. i ...

I don't know if she felt my erection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Ok so me and my gf we kinda cuddling one day on the couch. I kissed her and after, her hand brushed up against my erection. She didn't seem to notice or nothing. And after she said she was completely comfortable and didnt mention it. Do you think ...

She accused me of touching her inappropriately! What do I do about this friend of mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I have a good friend who i hadn't seen in a few months but we talk everyday and have hung out a lot during the summer. Well we were hanging out today and the other day and she embarrassed me twice in public and It killed my mood so badly and i felt ...

I'm so angry and regret giving him my virginity..any advice?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - i have been really close to this one boy for almost a year and i have never felt this way about anyone before! but he gets through girls really quickely and i was just another one of them but then we both lost our v with each other a few weeks ago ...

After seeing hickeys on her, my girlfriend's parents are not going to let us see each other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - okay so i need some help with this problem i got.i have been dating this girl for over 3 months going on 4 and her parents are some what cool with it so i was walking her home like 3 weeks ago and she was giving me a hickey and her dad drives by and ...

How can I overcome being so very shy with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend loves me going on top,infact he more than loves it, but i get shy sometimes and at times i feel like i'm not doing anything good enough, has anyone got tips on how i can overcome being shy and how i can do anything special whilst on ...

How do I behave towards and demonstrate to him how much I want to make him feel special to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - i wanna treat my boyfriend of six months who im due to be engaged to this year with something special if you know what i mean (; we have tried some positions but mainly girl or boy on top, he loves it when i do something new and afterwards he is al...

Why do other people feel the need to comment on me liking this boy? How do I stop them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - ok, so , i'm ''dating'' lol this guy in my school who i talk on fb everyday and he's really cute, really really sweet, who i've got like EVERYTHING in common with. And which i can now admit i really really like , but he's 15...and i'm almost 17 , ...

Why did he say he didn't want to hurt me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - This guy i really like, we have been talking for a while and he has told me he likes me and all that. The other day out of the blue he told me he did not wont to hurt me...what does that mean?...

He wants to try oral but I don't want to

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I just turned 15 in February my boyfriend just turned 14 in may well im a virgin and we have been going for three weeks now. He says he wants to eat me out but the thing is I dont really want him to should I let him do it? ...

I love him but I'm sure she's after him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Hi, im 13 and i really like this boy, well in fact i love him, we went out and he dumped me a week later, we talked ans he asked me back out, i said yes and we were together for two weeks then he dumped me again! I really love him, but theres thia ...

Opinions on young teens fooling around.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Hi, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, the other day suggested that we take things further. When he says further, he means blowjob, fingering, dry sex and sexting. I spoke to my mum and she said she wasnt bothered as long as ...