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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Is the girl in my class jealous of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - There is a girl in my class who is annoying me. Whenever I'm happy she tries to make me down. And she always tries to call me fat, stupid and ugly and imperfect. Whenever a guy compliments and flirts with me, she acts like she is not listening. And ...

Should I keep trying with this guy who says we are "friends with benefits", or let it fade away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Okay, There's this guy I've known for about 4 years but we only recently started talking properly. I like him but he's a flirt so I don't know if I'm special or if he's like this with everyone. About a month ago, he dared me to kiss him so I did...

He is never there for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have been in a relationship for three and a half years with a guy I met in high school. I am currently in my second year of college while he opted not to go to college. I have school and a part time job while he has been around u...

When we try to have sex, he goes soft. Could he be gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - Hi, so I have a question about the sexuality of the guy that I am seeing. The guy that i am currently seeing is 20 and I am 19. Him and I have not been seeing each other very long, just about a month, but for the past two weekends we have been try...

Am I a pan-romantic lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

27 April 2014 (?) - Ok so. I really do like guys a lot. And I kinda thought I was pansexual but honestly no matter how much I do like guys I never ever ever want to have srx with a guy and have never been sexually attracted to a guy. I think I might be a pan romantic ...

Is it awful for me to wish my mother was nicer to me? And bad to wish my father would leave her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I live with my mum and dad and two brothers. My mother has never been the loving type toward me. One of my brothers is older than me and my other brother is younger than me and when we were younger they both used to team up against me when we'd get...

Tries to make me jealous. Phones, flirts. Then treats me like I don't exist? What's he up to?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - So. Again with that guy that I went to homecoming with. Everything has been like really shaky and I don’t know because he is seriously so confusing. He got a girlfriend, they had dated for 3 months and during those 3 months we did not talk at ...

I want to keep this private. What should I say if classmates ask about my absence, without sounding rude and mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi I'm 14 and need advice on what to tell people when I go to the therapist. I will go on Monday for the first time. It is weekly and will fall on the same day, time and lesson. The teachers know but I'm unsure about what I'll say to my 'class...

I'm confused. He makes deep long eye contact with me but flirts with lots of girls. He has my number but doesn't call or text. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3652 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - So here is a guy in my class who used to teasing my in a playf way but he doesn't anymore, he uses to sits close to me in the class and also he used to make a short eye contact when I'm in the halls and he's with his friends. I heared he has a crush ...

Am I too young to be interested in my older colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - So I'm in my teens and me and this 27 year old guy have been texting recently and I knew really believed in love but I think I love him? He is the only person who can make me smile and I can't wait to work when I know he is on the same shift we have...

Should I consider dating my ex boyfriend's best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

23 April 2014 (?) - Hey aunts, so I guy who I used to be good friends with recently got in contact with me. He is my ex boyfriends best friend. We have been chatting on and off for the past few days and met up a few times. We got to chatting about relationships and ...

I know she's straight and I should just give up, but I can't. Should I just give up being her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - I'm a bisexual 15 year old and I'm unsure on what to do right now. I've liked this girl (who's 16) for over 3 years now. Last year in October I told her that I liked her. This girl happens to be straight and I told her that I was bisexual after ...

How can I be not so obsessive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hi this seems like a really weird question but I need to know what to do. I'm a 15 year old girl and I really like a boyband (not going to say who but it is NOT one direction). The thing is its sorta taking over my life. I listen to their music all ...

Sex isn't what I thought it would be!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - So I've recently lost my virginity to my lovely boyfriend, and we have sex when we can but we both have house mates which makes the situation slightly awkward! He made my first time great, and although it was still uncomfortable, he was very swe...

What sexuality am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Okay this isn't a major problem but I just wondered. I have always wondered about my sexuality, and when I was 15 I was pretty sure I was bisexual, but since then its kinda changed as I presumed that was just...

This intense attraction is causing distraction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3657 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - This guy I know just asked me to join his band. I was extremely excited by the offer and went for it. Because we have common friends, band kids (he) and choir kids (I) attend many of the same events, and I'v been going to school with him...

My girlfriend is a selfish bitch but I love her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - my gf is a selfish bitch but I still really love her. Ive argued with her a few times over whatwe have said to each other and lately she saidsomething to me and I always have to put up with it but as soon as I say the same thing backshe hates me...

Everybody knows he likes another girl so what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - Ok, hi there. I am a 16 year old girl who us super shy. No-one pays attention to me due to my 2 pretty best friends( they know their prettier than me and make me feel worse). Recently a boy at my school has started talking to me just saying hi etc, ...

Am I stupid for wanting my cheating boyfriend back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

19 April 2014 (F) - Okay so, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months and today I figured out he cheated on me...We have been arguing a lot lately and I heard through a friend that he was cheating and I addressed him about it and told him to be 100% ...

I fancied a guy then he asked out my friend. Now I fancy another guy and I'm afraid the same thing is going to happen again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - About a year ago I fancied this guy. We flirted for a while but nothing became of it, I didn't tell anyone because I like to keep myself to myself. A. While after he asked out my best friend (there's 3 of us). I was heart broken but after a while I ...

I want this first date to be special.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

17 April 2014 (M) - I have decided to ask the girl I'm in love with on a date. I realized that I never been on a date except for the movies. I want this first date to be special. My idea is going to a restaurant and just talking, but that sounds a bit boring. If anyone ...

I'm afraid of my relationships failing once the "spark" dies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, my question is about infatuation or the "spark", and about my fears of getting into relationships. My last boyfriend dumped me a few months ago. We were together for a year. I really did love him but always had this bad feeling in my gu...

Lunch? Date? What to wear? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

16 April 2014 (?) - So this guy I like (im 17 and he's 19) asked me to go to lunch with him tomorrow and I'm so nervous. Is this considered a date even though he's told me in the past that he doesn't like me? also since its just lunch should I dress nice? He hasnt told ...

How do I help him study?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3662 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - my bf is doing his last year in high school so in our country its a big deal to pass..now i want to help him pass and give time so that he can be able to study and pass well...how do i help him do that what do i do to encourage him and how can i ...

I've crushed on him for two years - should I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - so I am 16 years old and I have liked this guy for 2 years now. Well, I think I might be in love with him. He has no idea that I am, but there is such a confusing story behind it and it’s getting so emotionally draining that I just need the best ...

He initiated things, now he's pulling away. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - I've known him for about six months. I got really close to him very quickly, and he was the one initiating conversations and asking personal questions. I ended up telling him the problems I have (drug addiction, severe anxiety, along with depre...

Why am I accused of flirting and how do I make friends with guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3663 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - This question is two-fold. a) how do I stop getting accused of flirting when I'm not/stop my friends, co workers, and complete strangers from making assumptions that I like someone? The problem here is that sometimes I *do* get a crush on ...

I like my best friends sister but don't know how she feels

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

14 April 2014 (M) - I like my best friends sister. I had a couples girlfriends but my mind always goes back to her. We went to prom together, but I don't know if it was because she wanted to go with me or she didn't want to go alone. She dragged me on the dance floor a ...

Teen daughter asked me to get her a vibrator

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - caught my daughter (15) using my vibrater she finished then came to me she said that had sex once and did not like it she like pleasing her self better than she asked if I could get her a vibrated of her own an teach or help her to makes sure she is ...

I can't contact my Long Distance Boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - okay well i haven't heard from my Long Distance boyfriend in almost 3weeks and he has cancer. and well my phone broke and i don't know how he's doing. I'm worried and well he's in the hospital right now and well he says that his nurses take away ...

How am I supposed to feel less useless if my mother shouts at me and criticizes me all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

11 April 2014 (F) - I've decided I am going to try to get counselling because I feel very horribly about myself because my mother is very harsh on me and treats me like everything that goes wrong is my fault. She snaps at me all of the time when nothing has happ...

He used to be annoying but he's changed and now I have a crush on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3667 days ago

11 April 2014 (F) - So yeah our story is a bit complicated. Sad is it not? It started me really not liking him and I mean REALLY not liking him because he was so annoying, rude, haughty and just blech. Always sticking his hand in my face, poking my sides, blowing in my ...

How do I gain his friendship back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

11 April 2014 (F) - I asked one of my closest friends "W" if he liked anyone because I like him and he said that question crosses the boundary and that we talked about boundaries. I told him that we did talk about boundaries but never set them, which was true. He got ...

I love studying architecture and am in my second year. But due to set backs should I abandon this study or keep on trying harder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3668 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - hello, agony aunts. I'm currently an architecture student in my 2nd year. In my 1st year I failed a major class and I had to extend another year, I passed that class now but I failed in another major class this time. I love this course, but shou...

How do I not make a fool out of myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3668 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - I've only ever really liked 2 people and those people were good friends of mine before any feelings developed. But now there's someone else and I denied any feelings at all because I didn't know him so well as the other people. I've known him a long ...

I really like him -- what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) - I really like this boy. He looks at me a lot and we talk sometimes. He has a gf but they never talk. He knows I like him. But what should I do....

Confused on sexual orientation, little opportunity to learn

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

7 April 2014 (F) - Hello. I am 18 and confused about my sexual orientation. I have had boyfriends before, but they were all "accidental dating". The first one was when my friends took me to the mall, "accidentally" ran into a guy they knew, introduced us and ...

I don't have much faith in long term relationships. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

6 April 2014 (F) - I've come here because I have this mental hurdle that I can't seem to overcome even though I do want to... I'm 18 and I don't have much faith in long term relationships...I have been through a few long relationships that failed, one in which wa...

Blend in or be myself? I just want to be accepted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

6 April 2014 (F) - Dear Reader, I'm getting so caught up in stereotypical-ism :( I'm really loosing who I really am as I don't want to be a 'stereotypical' teenage girl. But, on the other hand , I just want to be excepted and not judged for being different. Doe...

We're really just friendly coworkers.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3672 days ago

5 April 2014 (F) - I'm just curious about what others think. My question is, are relationships with coworkers always a bad idea? Basically I work with this guy at my campus job. We're both sophomores at the college, and we get along pretty well. In fact for m...

I stupidly had sex with two different boys on the same day!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

5 April 2014 (F) - Ok so today I did something really stupid and I don't know why I did it but here goes: so in order to revise for my exams I invited a few friends around, it ended up just being two of my close guy friends (let's call them a +b) and a couple other ...

It was as if I was with a zombie.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

5 April 2014 (F) - Teenage problem. I recently went on a first trip with my friend's daughter who is almost 14. My daughter is grown up and live in a different city. I went to visit her and took my friend' s daughter who I know from her birth. We have, or had very...

I have a problem with my long distance relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

5 April 2014 (M) - I'll include the story of how this relationship came to be, just in case it helps. Last year in October a friend of mine added the most wonderful girl I've ever known into a Skype conference call. We immediately noticed things we had in common a...

We've talked for a while, should I ask her to hang out sometime?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

5 April 2014 (M) - Hi Cupids, I am here to ask for reassurance again because this site is an awesome resource for relationship advices. Very long read I have written here, I wish I can write better. I am 21 yrs. old, never had a girlfriend up to a kiss. I am a ...

Is he trying to scare me or does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

4 April 2014 (F) - Ok, so I'm in a odd situation. I'm a college freshman and I go to a small private college (around 1,000 students). Anyway, for about 3 months now I've been seeing this same guy everywhere, even if I change up my schedule. I see him about 3 times a ...

Confused and angry that I don't fit in with my family, and my parents favor my brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3674 days ago

3 April 2014 (M) - I don't fit in with my family. I understand to an extent that it just comes with my age. I mean I've heard the "It's just a phase" line countless times for pretty much everything. Even knowing that I can't help but feel left out. I don't enjoy ...

How do I make things alright between us again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3676 days ago

1 April 2014 (F) - I need help with this guy I like, he has bipolar and I really don't know what to do. We've met a couple of times and I just fully fell for him. We hooked up and I could tell me liked me, the next day though this other guy he liked me and so he ki...

I get sad when I think about her and what I may have missed with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

1 April 2014 (M) - This story is very long and complicated, but im going try keeping it short. When i was 14 years old, my BEST FRIEND'S(family friend) sister Z, who is 2 years younger to me, started falling for me. Me being so young and naive knew it but didnt give ...

She likes me but I don't know how NOT to mess this up, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

1 April 2014 (M) - ok, here's something fairly simple: I found out a girl at school likes me, she doesn't know that I know (to my knowledge) and I sort of like her back. yet, I feel too shy to tell her, and want to ask her out on a date. A little sidenote or two: this ...