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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

It's like he's given up on the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - Where do I even begin.. My boyfriend and I used to be so happy together. We'd go out a lot, we'd have fun, we would do all sorts of things. And then one day, it just stopped all together. I feel like he's bored with me. Like I'm a bother to him mo...

I don't know how to get intimate with a guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3556 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - Hey agony aunts! I know this will sound really pathetic but I don't know how to get intimate with a guy. There is this guy I like a lot and am super attracted to and I can hardly think of anything else when we're together- I want to get close to him ...

My family ignored my repeated requests to have a homemade card for my birthday. I"m hurt and disappointed!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1441 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - Ok, so it is my 19th birthday today, so this may sound trivial, but it's important to me. When I was growing up, it was a tradition to make birthday/anniversary/Christmas/thank you cards for family. That continued for me and my older brother until ...

Do I do anything about my feelings for my brother in law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I like my sisters husbands brother alot. Should I do anything? ...

How do I put myself out there to ask this older girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3557 days ago

30 July 2014 (M) - Ok, so i have a few question on how i should do something, and i'm looking for some solid, simple advice. Story: So i'm a junior in high school, and there is a girl i like, who i don't know very well. We've met once, but i felt like she might be...

I'm in a relationship but it's not feeling like one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - When we first went out 3 years ago, everything was perfect. He tried his best to do what ever he can just to make me happy but because I don't mind anything and he kind of stopped doing because he said I don't really mind anything he does and I'm ...

I'm the lonliest guy in the world ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - Hello everybody, I am a 17 year old guy who is extremely lonely. I am 6'5" tall and I'm not bad looking. I just graduated high school, I have friends, I have family, but I've never had a girlfriend, and I am pretty much the lonliest guy in the w...

How many times a week should I cycle? And for how long each day?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - I have been struggling with my weight for a while now, and for around about a year or so I have been trying to find effective ways to help me shed a few stone. I have always eaten rather healthil...

Is there any point in pursing a relationship? Does he fancy me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I met this guy about three months ago. We got along so well, straight off the bat, and we've both admitted to each other, that we find the other hot. We used to flirt all the time, but whenever the conversation got deeper, he shut off. He even ...

I want a relationship but I cant even talk to girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

27 July 2014 (M) - I'm desperate for a relationship and need help. Every time I fall for a girl I'm friend zoned. I'm not necessarily good at talking to girls at first and I am always kind of pushed into talking to a girl. I can't even start a decent conversation ...

All of a sudden I have an urge to change my appearance ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

27 July 2014 (?) - Hi..so I am a relatively not girly person. I don't like wearing skirts or dresses and wear baggy t shirts. I usually have thick eyeliner and my hair is pixie cut short, almost boyish cut. But suddenly out of nowhere I am feeling the uncontrollable ...

Am I over-reacting to what I discovered about my Bf's Hooters visit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. Recently, he went to Hooters with his friends and at first, I was pretty annoyedd but then I got over it until I found videos in his history of Hooters girls. Am I overreacting because I feel lik...

Teenager looking for advice on talking to guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - Hello, I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm looking for advice on talking to guys. I've always stayed in a small group of girls through school life as that's the kind of group I feel comfortable socialising with. I'd really like to push myself to talk t...

It's been 2 days since he sent an email, what is he playing at and what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Ok so there is this guy that i really like and we just broke up for the summer hols. He took my email before we left and signed my shirt as we are leaving school. He sent an emmediate email to me with a load of random letters. I replied saying what ...

I'm confused about this attraction to this girl, how do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid.. I am so confused. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and love him to pieces. But for years, since I started secondary school I have always fancied girls and guys. It started by having crushes on girl teachers. I met my boyfrie...

Is it worth trying to make a LDR work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

23 July 2014 (M) - So I have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. She is now a senior in high school and I am going to be a freshman in college. Our relationahip is as amazing as it could be and I love her with all that I got. We have been having numerous talks ...

How do I keep from being a slut?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - I fell for this guy when I was 15, and we broke up when I was 17. I'm 19 now. When we were together I was so happy, he was my first kiss, first love and on my 17th birthday I gave him my virginity. A couple weeks later he broke up with me. For the ...

Is this boy ignoring me, or does he just want sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - This guy messaged me about a week or two ago. We'll call him "Isaac." "Isaac" and I went to middle school together, and he's two years younger than me. He is about to be a sophomore and I'm about to be a senior. When we were in middle school, I came ...

He love me not ... he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - ok, i'm trying to think less about boys and i'm getting out more because i know it's good for me, but the guy i really like is next door and we're kinda like best friends (we knew about each other since we were little but rarely got to see each ...

Is he telling friends those things because he knows I'm over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3566 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - Therrs this guy who ive known for a year and its like...we made out alot and I used to have like a huge crush on him. I even told him. But there was a few times he has kissed me cheek, but there was this time where he kissed me for no reason out of ...

Would it be wrong to hug him when he doesn't want a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - Hi so this boy I like likes me back I asked him back and he said no as he didn't want a gf at the moment! So my friend said to him that I wanted to hug him and thas is sorta true... Anyway he said he wants to hug to!! My question is would I hu...

My girlfriend never seems to have time for me and 'forgets' when we've made plans

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

19 July 2014 (M) - Should I break up with my girlfriend? I have been dating her for about 9 months and we are in high school I am home-schooled she is goes to a normal high school. The past few months have been very rough between us, but we are both very stubborn and ...

Should I ask if he slept with his female friend who is about to visit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

19 July 2014 (F) - Just starting a new relationship with a guy and it's going great. He has a female friend who he's been friends with for about four years, she lives abroad and they met online. She's coming over for a visit soon and I don't know what to feel. They ...

Socially and emotionally Ostracised at home. Need to feel better about me and find a job so I can move out. How can I cope better?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - In short details: I'm 18. No friends (I have no way to work on that until September; I only have a couple of online friends). No family except mum, dad and sister. Emotionally neglected at home for eleven years. Seen three counsellors but ...

In love with my English teacher but now find she likes another. How do I manage this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - i am 14 now,in love with my english teacher. Actually i really care for her. I feel for her. Her sadness makes me sad too. Whenever i see her there are butterflies in my stomach.i stammer while talking to her.i just want her to be my best friend...

What can I do? I have conflicting feelings about my relationship and it's scaring me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - Thanks very much for taking the time to read this. I've been struggling with my conflicting feelings about my relationship, and as time goes on and I grow more and more attached to my boyfriend, my feelings just conflict more and more. I used t...

Tongue-tied around my crush

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

17 July 2014 (M) - So I want to start a conversation with a girl but I don't know how to start it. The problem is that I have a little bit of a crush on her and when I try to talk to her I just stare at her and its very weird. Please help me!...

My parents don't like one of the girls I've invited to a sleepover. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - So I want to have a sleepover with four friends (5including me) but my parents do not approve of one of my friends and say they don't want me to invite her. The problem is, not knowing my parents would object to her staying round, I told her my ...

Should I have sex to keep my boyfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years now, (I am -9) and I love him to pieces. We sleep over at each other's all the time and it's all been perfectly fine. Then one night we were at his and he said "my parents wont be home until ...

I like her and everyone says she likes me but she says only as a friend. What do I do about my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

15 July 2014 (M) - So for almost a year, I have gotten close with a girl where she says she doesn't like me, but everyone else that knows us says she does. We live nearby and I'm a senior and she's a sophomore. We used to talk almost everyday. She gave signals that ...

Advice about friends and dating needed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - I have a few problems and I hope this isn't going to be too confusing, but I really need some help. I'm bisexual - out to only a small group of LGBTQ friends, one of which is my best friend, one of which is a friend I've fallen for. We've be...

Constantly getting picked on and can't seem to make friends with guys or girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - I'd like to know how to make friends because I don't have many. I had these two girls that I hung out with all the time in elementary school but we were the only friends we had. K moved away and L developed quickly and became gorgeous and found out ...

I like the same guy my bestfriend does!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

13 July 2014 (F) - Hey, So I like this guy, and we get on really well and I think he likes me back. The problem is my best friend likes him too. She liked him first but she doesn't know I like him, but she has her suspicions. My (other) friend has told me that she...

I thought our date went well--why has she blocked me on social media?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

12 July 2014 (M) - There's this girl that I have a bit of a history with (albeit a couple of make out sessions a long time ago) and we both wanted to go to a theme park, and so we went; as friends. At first we got on well with conversation flowing, and then when we ...

I'm lovelorn ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3575 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - Dear Agony aunt, There is a guy I like. I know this is a sort of cliche story, but he is popular and I'm known by people but not popular on a hotness scale. Him and I talk a lot but aren't Best friends. He often flirts with me but also does wi...

I told her I love her and now things have changed, I want to go back to the way it was!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

11 July 2014 (M) - I have told the girl that i love her but she didnot given me any answer for that ,also i had a small fight with her .now how to bring the old relation back on track since she is not happy with me.also she has never refused or said no to my ...

I still like girls but find myself drawn to him ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - Hello, all! Recently, I have found myself falling for a good friend of mine. We've been friends for a little over a year, but we just got super close about 6 months ago. He had a girlfriend for a while, but she was terrible to him- he is such a ...

I was afraid for my life but now I'm known as a snitch

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3576 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - So am I a snitch? I've now got the reputation of a snitch and people say I acted like a "white girl". This was a break and we were in the classroom, with no teacher. My friend and this girl were having a verbal fight about throwing paper at ...

I have an embarrassing medical problem and I don't know how to tell my parents!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - I have a problem at the moment and I don't know what to do. Lately my vulva has become very itchy and sore and I really want to tell my parents but I am too embarrassed and afraid to do it. Its making me cry at night because I'm so worried but I'm ...

Prom is next year and I have no date! Should I ask him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3579 days ago

8 July 2014 (F) - Here goes. I'm in year 10 and so next year it will be my prom and at the moment I have no date. I really want to ask this guy but I am way too worried about the things that could go wrong to ask him. We are friends and I'm scared that if I ask him ...

Should I take the initiative ... or wait for him to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

8 July 2014 (F) - There's a very cute guy in my college ..he has had crush on me since the beginning of the college and its been almost a year ... we just used to chat very rarely but now we've started chatting almost every day.. but he takes a very long time to ...

I've been mega friend-zoned, should I tell him how I really feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3579 days ago

8 July 2014 (?) - hey everyone :) I'm just going to jump right into this. So I just graduated high school and theres guy I like but I NEVER told him once. I have liked him for 7 years and I hate that I didn't tell him, is it too late? I actually can't even tell him...

Lost my best friend because of her "cousin"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

7 July 2014 (F) - Ok so my bestfriend of almost 3 years ... Just all of a sudden cut me off. Her pretend cousin is like the BOSS of her . She runs her and tells her what to do so I think she played a HUGE part in it ! School starts in august an I just don't want to ...

He wont say we are girlfriend and boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

7 July 2014 (F) - ok so my partner say we are dealing but not girlfriend and boyfriend. I tried talking to him about this, he says he cannot deal with the girlfriend/boyfriend thing but i get dealt with, sort out and treated better than anyoneelse but i still have ...

I've come to a point in my life where I feel like I have no long term goals or desires. Can someone help me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) - I'm at a really confusing and kinda boring stage in my life and I need some advice. I'm almost 18, and of course any young 18 year old to be should feel young and free and all of that jazz, but the thing is I feel lik...

He is 13 and never met his father, who now has a brain tumour

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) - I am a single mum of 1 son whos never had a dad in his life hes had male figures like my dad and brothers , ive just found out the father of my child has a brain tumour, we split before our child was born and he hasn't seen our son ive read up on ...

I'd like to let the new girl at work know that I am interested.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

4 July 2014 (M) - So I'm a 17 year old who's worked at McDonald's for almost a year now and recently we just hired a new girl. She is very pretty and she is the same age and grade as me and we go to different schools. I talked to her once a little bit but I was just ...

I wouldn't let him go farther and now I don't hear from him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

3 July 2014 (F) - I'm 18 years old nd m in a relation since last 4 months. We both kiss each other and he touches my breasts nd kisses them. I have allowed him to do so and I dont have any problem with this. But he tried to touch my lower private parts 3-4 times and ...

He told me he liked me but he has a girlfriend. Why did he do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

2 July 2014 (F) - I liked a guy and I told him how I felt and he told me that he felt the same way. about a week later he told me he had a girlfriend. I asked him why he did it and he told me because they liked each other. So then why didn't he ask me out? Should I ...

Am I reading this situation right? If so how do I ask this girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3585 days ago

2 July 2014 (M) - Ok, so i have a few question on how i should do something, and i'm looking for some solid, simple advice. Story: So i'm a junior in high school, and there is a girl i like, who i don't know very well. We've met once, but i felt like she might be...