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Archived questions from: September, 2005 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

My boyfriend isn't sure which of us two girls he loves more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6780 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I am a teenage girl I have been seeing the guy of my dreams. I liked him since the end of last year, finally he asked me out. We already made love and our relationship is getting deeper. One night he went to a party, I couldn't make it. He went and...

I want to marry my boyfriend, but my mom is totally against it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

29 September 2005 (?) - I really need help. I'm 18 and have been with my boyfriend a long time. In 3 months time he wants to get married and has had a vasectomy. He is getting it reversed so we can start having children. Problem is I'm in great risk of losing my mom if I...

My new girlfriend is confusing! Does she like me, or doesn't she?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

29 September 2005 (M) - I have recently started dating this new girl and am confused about the signals see is giving me. I met her at a party and we hooked up (we were both sober). I liked her but see didn't like me. Then about a month later, she all of a sudden, liked me...

Are my problems with sex and intimacy a result of my abuse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

29 September 2005 (?) - My world changed when I was 12. I was sexually abused by my mum's boyfrend. Nobody knows and they're still together now. Only thing is I find it really hard to open up to people. I often sit in my room by myself. There's so many thngs in my head ...

He starts texting, then he stops. Now he's disappeared. What's the deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6780 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - Hey! Im a 16 year old girl. I really fancy this guy J* who is a couple of years older than me. When we first got to know each other, he was sweet and I started really liking him, so we started texting each other, just a bit of fun. Then he tur...

I want to say something to the girl at school, but something keeps stopping me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6784 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - Please help me, I really like this girl in my school and I see her every day. I am getting stressed out because it is like one part of me says say something to her and the other side is stopping me from doing this. Has anyone experienced this ...

The girl I like won't even talk to me when her ex is around, in case she hurts HIS feelings...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6783 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - Over the summer me and this girl became very close. We would talk every day and we hung out a lot and eventually I started to have feelings for her. All of her friends said she always talked about me and likes me but there is a problem. She and ...

I've realised that I don't fancy him, but I have to tell him somehow...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - Hey I have a bf and we have been going out for a few days, and I've decided I don't fancy him... We were friends before, and he was flirting with me ever since.. I really like the attention, but now we are going out, he won't leave me alone!! ...

My ex-girlfriend is a bit messed up, but she she says she still wants to be with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - I'm 16 I have been seeing this girl for a couple of months. She's great but she is really messed up. She does drugs and lots of other stuff. She has had lots of relationships over the last year, not all with blokes. We broke up befor the end of t...

How could I be so stupid? I had sex with an older guy, because I really thought he liked me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

27 September 2005 (?) - I feel so stupid. I met this guy as soon as our eyes met we flirted. He got my number and we started texting each other. He called me 'gorgeous' and said he wanted me. A week later, I followed him home. Once inside we started snogging and things got ...

I'm only 15, but it seems like I'm getting a reputation already!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6763 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - Hi I am only 15 years old, and I am worried about my reputation already! I lost my virginity in Feb of this year (I was 15) while in a relationship, but 2 weeks after we had sex, my boyfriend finished with me. Then in May I went on holiday,...

The kiss didn't change anything, she says, but I feel like being more than friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - I need some help. Here is my situation. Two weeks ago, I met a girl, and she's amazing. We have a lot in common, and we became fast friends. She keeps making all these gestures that she likes me more than a friend, but I don't know. I'm going...

I'm afraid I'm going to be a lousy kisser!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6766 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - I'm a 14 year old boy and I want to make out with my girlfriend but I don't know how, I've never done it before. She's not a virgin and I'm too nervous to make out with her. I'd never even kissed a girl until me and her started going out. We've been ...

I think I'd be ready for sex with my boyfriend, if only I didn't have to show him my naked body!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - I am so scared of showing my boobs or downstairs to my bf. I am 18 and I'm ready to get phyical with my bf who I have been seeing for about 6 months but I'm so scared of showing him my body. I feel fat and I think that my body isn't good enough. My ...

Should I have a go with a woman of 39?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - Hiya, I'm 16 years old and I'm dating a woman of 39. She looks good. We are always having a laugh. She's always there for me and we are great together. We're talking about making a proper go of things. She doesn't have any children, and is...

How do I pick just one of the 2 girls I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - I like this girl, and she knows I like her, but I also like another girl in the same way. I am torn between the two of them. Both are single and flirt with me in their own ways (so I am told by friends). I am really close with one of them, but not ...

The girl I like will kiss me any time I want her to... but she already has a boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - There is a girl that I like. I told her how I feel and I kissed her. She even kissed me back but she tells me that she has a boyfriend. I don't understand because she kisses me any time I want her to. Does she like me or is she confused as well? ...

I thought "I love you" on my phone was a joke from a friend. Did I blow my chance with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - Hi I am a student and in love with another girl in my group. We always looked to each other during the lessons. One day I got a message on my phone saying I love you. I first thought it was one of my friends with some stupid joke. By the time...

Wanted: some help writing a love letter to the girl I fancy...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - Please help me. I fancy this girl at my school and I have only just started talking to her. I was thinking of putting a love letter in her locker and perhaps leave my number at the bottom of it but not my name. Is this a good idea? And has anyone ...

She knocked me back once. Should I try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6788 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - I recently asked a girl to our homecoming dance, but she was already going with a group of girls. I was hoping we could continue seeing each other after homecoming. I really like this girl, and don't want to just give up now. Any suggestions of ...

Can I love my boyfriend and my friend at work simultaneously but in different ways?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6788 days ago

23 September 2005 (F) - I met my friend in the same company. He's a very outgoing person, very friendly to everyone. We are pretty good friends (at least that's what I feel). We can keep on chatting many things and have a lot in common. Maybe because he's a lot older ...

What can I do about my loneliness and lack of self-esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid. I have a really low self-esteem. In public situations I get so nervous that I feel I might pass out. Usually I feel like I'm worth nothing and that people don't care about me. At school I see girls hanging out with their big group...

He's with someone, but she treats him horribly, and I think he'd like to be with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

22 September 2005 (?) - I really fancy this guy but he is with someone else. I know they are not happy because I hang around with the same group of friends as them. They always argue and she is horrible to him. He can't do anything right. I know he likes me too because ...

Everything feels like it's going to crash down on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6790 days ago

21 September 2005 (M) - Hello. My name is Robert I'm 15 years old and I have a problem. I live in Spain and 4 months ago my father got chucked into prison. This is absoloutely terrible for me. I have a great relationship with my dad and now I can only see ...

She thought I was getting stalker-ish, but I just wanted to talk to her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

21 September 2005 (M) - I was trying to talk this girl at school, but in a week of me trying to talk to her, it turned into her thinking I was following her too much. I wrote her a note saying I was sorry and she said that it was okay, but to just not follow her. What ...

My mate has moved away and I fancy his girl... Should I go for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

21 September 2005 (M) - I like my best friend's crush, and I think she likes me. My friend has moved away and but he still talks to her on a regular basis. I know he likes a girl up where he lives, but he still likes the one here. My friends say I should go for her, but ...

My girlfriend asked for a break so she can become "the perfect woman for me"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6792 days ago

20 September 2005 (?) - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 yrs and we both are 17. We got engaged and everything seemed like picture perfect but things got worse now. She came to me saying we need to take time apart because she wants to better herself for me become the ...

I'm almost overwhelmed by all the compliments and attention, but I'm worried about getting "physical"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - Hey I'm a 16 yr old girl, and have a friend "Tim" who is also 16yrs old. When I started a new school, he was on my course. We met when we went on a trip with the school and he was helping me rockclimb. Ever since, he has picked on me senseless, ...

Too shy to ask her out directly. Can I hint around a bit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6792 days ago

19 September 2005 (M) - There's this girl whom I like and I know she likes me. I'm too shy to ask her out. Do you know any tips that might give her a hint without directly talking about it. Thanks a lot....

My 16-year-old son wants to marry his girlfriend... soon.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I am concerned about my 16 year old son who has expressed the desire to marry his girlfriend soon. What problems will he face if he marries now? Thanks, Janet...

She gives me a big smile and she's really friendly... Does it mean she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6794 days ago

18 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid... I'm in year 10 at secondary school and there's this girl in my tutor group who I think might like me. I don't know much about all these signals and stuff, but every time I see her she walks up to me, stops me, puts a big smile on her ...

I don't want his girlfriend to hate me... I just want to be his friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6793 days ago

17 September 2005 (F) - Hello, I've met a guy recently and we get on really well. In this past week he's called me up and talked to me for over 3 hours. It was a fantastic conversation and we talked again the next day too, but only for an hour this time! We've agreed t...

I'm short-statured... and I think makes girls overlook me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

17 September 2005 (M) - Hi I'm 17 and 18 within the next week and I'm having girl problems. The main problem really though is lack of girls. The reason for this is because I'm reasonably short for a guy at 5'4". This is the past has made girls not interested and not given ...

We met at camp and things were incredible. But we had to break up because we live so far apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6796 days ago

16 September 2005 (M) - I went out with an amazing girl this summer at camp and now that we are apart I can't get over her. We broke up because she lives pretty far away and I will only be able to see her a handful of times during the year, but going from seeing her every ...

Am I invisible? Nobody wants to talk to me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - I feel like I am invisible. No one pays any attention to me, my parents are at work constantly, my only brother is horrible to me and goes for days without talking to me. I have no friends cos everyone at school thinks I'm 'stuck up' ( as I hav...

I deleted one picture from my phone, and my ex broke up with me over it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6793 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - I Really need help. Me and my now ex-boyfriend were dating for 5 months. Me and him were not speaking for a week and on Friday of that week I left town for vaction. He called me basically every day saying he missed me and sweet talking me. fter a...

I fall in love with everyone! Do I just need a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

14 September 2005 (F) - Im only thirteen, and I keep falling in love with everyone! I get really attracted to people. My mum says because I really need a boyfriend and that I'm lonely. Is she right? ...

At 15, am I too old for my 13-year-old girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - Right. I am 15 and dating a 13 yr old and we have been going out for a while and that. I really like her and she realy likes me but there are a few wee daft guys at the same age of her doing my head in, saying I'm too old, although the people the ...

We argue and fight over stupid stuff, even though we love each other!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - Okay, me and this boy have been together for a long time. I know he loves me, and he knows that I love him, but we argue over the stupidest stuff ever and it gets us into a huge fight. We always say, well maybe we should break up, it's for the ...

What can I do about unwanted erections?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

12 September 2005 (M) - I get erections all the time and it gets bothersome when we are just hugging. What can I do to calm things down?...

I was accused of cheating with a boy I was just texting as a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6800 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - Hiya, I'm 13 years old. I have a problem I really badly need answering. Usually I have an answer to everything but this I don't have an answer to... This lad I was going out with for 2 months finished me a couple of weeks ago and I want to get back...

Mum doesn't recognise that I'm old enough to be alone with a boy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6800 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I'm 14. I feel im mature enough to be alone with a guy. My Mom never listens to me and just always tells me to leave her alone. I've tried to talk to her, but she just won't listen! She thinks I'm immature, irresponsible, and too young to be alone ...

We swapped phone numbers and email, but does that mean he's interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6800 days ago

11 September 2005 (F) - Hey I‘m 15, and I met someone a couple of nights back at my friends social event. We hit it off right away and were chatting all night. He even gave me a miniature of his recent school photo. At the end of the night we traded phone numbers and email ...

My boyfriend says he'll call, then he doesn't, says he'll write, but doesn't do that, either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6801 days ago

11 September 2005 (F) - I need help. The guy I am interested in is 21 and I am 16. He tells me he loves me and I can talk to him for hours but I don't know if he is lying to me because he told me he would me write me but he didnt write or when he tells me he would call me ...

The boy I like was hugging a girl I hate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

10 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's this boy I like. He was in my class last year. All my friends say he likes me. Last year he flirted with me a lot. Last year I was in 8th grade. I saw him hugging another girl who I hate.Did he forget about me? ...

I think I fancy these two girls, even though they drag me down the stairs at school!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6802 days ago

10 September 2005 (?) - At school I fancy these two girls in my class and they stare into my eyes, ask me for answers. If I don't give them answers they will nip me or drag me down the stairs. Is this a flirting technique? I would love to go out with them but how would ...

So, we're friends, but how do I know if she likes me in the same way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

9 September 2005 (M) - I'm a 16 year old male in year 11 at school. There's a really good looking girl who I think I'm good friends with and I really like her. She's really talkative to me and laughs at some of the jokes and stuff, but how do I know if she likes me in the ...

How do I know if I'm in love with someone?

This question has 58 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I have a huge dilemma. I am 16 years old. How do you know if you are in love with someone? And what do you do if you have a crush on someone a lot older than you? Please help me! ...

When I was interested, he had a girlfriend. Now I just want to be friends and he "hates" me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6804 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I'm a 15 year old girl and I was best friends with a boy for about a year. We were really close. He helped me with my relationship worries and I helped him with his. I began to get feelings for him around Christmas but he had a girlfriend. I then w...

As soon as I told him about my feelings, he stopped talking to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - Me and this boy have been talking and as we were talking I started falling in love with him... Now this has been going on for 2-3 months and I finally told him. Now he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. What do I do?...